Ohhhhhhh Dodes, don't worry about oversharing. This is probably just me because I am mentally stable but I adore seeing your posts. I feel more connected to you as a person. I love that you are so open about your mental illnesses and I feel like I can enjoy your music even more then I already do because I know about this aspect of you. However, considering that I am mentally stable seeing your posts doesn't trigger me as it might someone who is not completely stable. So, what ever you need to do for you I will support you in. I hope that your new therapist can help you and I hope that you feel much better because of this whole experience. I'm wishing you the best and sending lots of love.


I agreed with all you are saying. Don't be afraid to share how you feel, but it is a really good idea to take some time to think about what you should upload and what you shouldn't. We all know you have problems so it would be lying if you stopped making depression videos, just keep them a bit more private. I have some minor mental problems and I have been influenced negatively by watching your videos, so I think having the talk with Hazel and thinking about it and then uploading this vodeo was the right choice.<br>Finally, something you already know: we all love and support you and don't stop being amazing and lovely and beautiful even on your snapchat, without makeup, after seven days in bed with no showers.

I agreed with all you are saying. Don't be afraid to share how you feel, but it is a really good idea to take some time to think about what you should upload and what you shouldn't. We all know you have problems so it would be lying if you stopped making depression videos, just keep them a bit more private. I have some minor mental problems and I have been influenced negatively by watching your videos, so I think having the talk with Hazel and thinking about it and then uploading this vodeo was the right choice.
Finally, something you already know: we all love and support you and don't stop being amazing and lovely and beautiful even on your snapchat, without makeup, after seven days in bed with no showers.


This might help, might not, I don't know... But I know a person in a mental health support group on Facebook, for their specific condition.  It's a place they can go to discuss their experiences, within a well-regulated rule set to keep everyone safe.  Finding one for you might be a potential healthy outlet... But then again with so many people knowing who you are maybe not, I dunno.  Just thought I should put that information out there.


I think that you are a bit hard on yourself. People make mistakes. Its worse to keep all those emotions inside. Its good to vent. Just put it all out there. I completly understand why you would do this. Its okay. We all love you and wish you the best. Do what you gotta do


Honey, you don't have to feel bad AT ALL. After all, you are only human, and humans make mistakes, humans cry, humans develop mental health issues and that is OKAY. Just remember that bottling up your emotions is never a good thing, if you have to skip a day of vedif you DO THAT. Mental health is real, and you have six hundred and forty THOUSAND people who love and support you and will help you through this. WE LOVE YOU xxxxx


Lowkey I maintain your not oversharing and it's super cool that you do it, but if that is what you think you need to do cool cool cool :)))))) :')


not everyone is the same. don't be too ashamed of what you did...I read all of the comments on your "over sharing video talk" with your friend. I mean I'm not saying that they're wrong maybe it's triggering to them..but the other part of me is saying that they overreact so much on your videos and everything that you shared. .sorry..I'm sorry, no offense tho...just..you know the videos and things you share online seem fine to me...your videos and songs make me feel less lonely and very relatable...that's all I had to say..love you Dodie.


Awwwww I just want to hug you! You crying made me want to hug you and drown you in teddy bears and rainbows and yummy foods❤❤❤❤


DODIE ITS OK WE ARE HERE FOR YOU YOUR NOT DOING NOTHING WRONG BUT IF YOU FEEL AS IF YOU SHOULD STOP WE ARE STILL GOING TO BE HERE FOR YOU


Dodie, do NOT beat yourself up about this. You have to forgive yourself. Holding on to it is 100% unhealthy. Everyone here forgives you and loves you, and now you need to do the same for yourself, focus on the future and how your going to improve things, feeling bad does nothing useful. We all love you <3


:( YouTube's comment section needs a "Give a Hug" button.  It's all good Dodie. :)

Dodie fans are so nice we would break that button on every video (:


Oh, darling. This was beautiful. Trust me, you are not hurting people at all, and even when you did, your intentions were still the best. You are human, and humans make mistakes. And this is why we all admire you so much, or at least why I do. Only a human being that is growing up everyday would admit this and find something to learn from it. I really hope the therapist works out, love. And actually, the fact that you found the courage to film this shows how things can get better; things will get better because you want them to and you are working very hard on it. We all have our breakdowns, and maybe they'll never go away, but to learn how to endure them, that's growing up, that's healing and certainly that's is life. All I can say is thank you for your words. You apologised, and now the matter is over. Keep looking forward and healing everyday. And again, as humans we are conditioned to make mistakes, but as long as we learn from them, there's nothing wrong with stumbling on errors some here and there. I deeply admire you and adore you, Dodie. <br>(Maybe Dodie won't read this, but we all need words sometimes. So why not lol)

Oh, darling. This was beautiful. Trust me, you are not hurting people at all, and even when you did, your intentions were still the best. You are human, and humans make mistakes. And this is why we all admire you so much, or at least why I do. Only a human being that is growing up everyday would admit this and find something to learn from it. I really hope the therapist works out, love. And actually, the fact that you found the courage to film this shows how things can get better; things will get better because you want them to and you are working very hard on it. We all have our breakdowns, and maybe they'll never go away, but to learn how to endure them, that's growing up, that's healing and certainly that's is life. All I can say is thank you for your words. You apologised, and now the matter is over. Keep looking forward and healing everyday. And again, as humans we are conditioned to make mistakes, but as long as we learn from them, there's nothing wrong with stumbling on errors some here and there. I deeply admire you and adore you, Dodie.
(Maybe Dodie won't read this, but we all need words sometimes. So why not lol)


I really really loved all your posts, but I'm afraid that might be because I might've been using them as a substitute for talking to actual friends and people in my life (because I don't have friends, lol (not lol, I push people away and it's actually a bad problem)).

~this comment accidentally started to be all about me so I wrote the rest here~  Hearing you talk probably reminded me of the slightly abusive one way friendships I used to have. I would try to open up to people but they had their own mental problems so to conversation would always turn to them. I enjoyed listening and helping them all I could but this resulted in a really bad "no one cares about me" sort of complex. So I stopped talking to people all together, because they don't care and must not want to talk to me, and the fact that no one has ever reached out to me or tried to talk just reaffirms that mindset. Every time I try to start a conversation I feel annoying, so I just stop. That's why I've got to get my feelings out in a YouTube comment, that no one will ever see. Because no one cares about me.


You learned from your mistakes and it👏is👏okay👏boo


I have a leather diary in which i pour my soul and dark thoughts out if needed. it's my personal un-magical pensieve if you will. My only rule is to never re-read because i figured out that as soon as i read it again it comes back into my mind and the cycle starts again. That's why i write my positive stuff into another diary, which i am allowed to re-read.


babe, please don't feel bad for sharing and telling us how you feel. At least to me it feels like I'm not alone in feeling crappy and stuff like that. But i understand when you say that you don't want it to be so out there. Your most inner thoughts can be a but dark but it's just a coping mechanism. I'm sure you will be able to find a "healthy" one but just know that all of your audience is here for you always


I don't really see a problem with your oversharing, to your fans at least, sometimes you just need to vent!! But some people are mean so just fck them. I didn't have to stop watching cause I felt like I was just getting to know you on a more personal level, but you do whatever you want and we'll be here!


this is a mistake a lot of people make. i have friends that overshare about their traumas and mental illness online as (a bad) way to cope. you have bigger vulnerabilities and responsabilities than my friends when you do this bc of your large audience, but its still a comprehensible mistake. we're all still learning how to navigate the relationship between the internet and ourselves. dont beat yourself up too much!


why is it that you think that sharing shitty thoughts when you're in a bad state of mind = glorifying mental illness?? it's not? surely it can be triggering to some people but how in the world is it equal to saying "this is mental illness it's fun and trendy and you should all have it"  ?


Dodie we understand completely and in a way I feel like some of your fans would like to know how your mental state is? So we can help out? Does that make sense? You're our friend and friends help friends :)


The only reason I disliked this video is because you have nothing NOTHING to be sorry about. If nothing your posts on instagram have helped comprehend a little bit more what's going on not only with you but also with me, I am forever thankful for that. Don't ever think again that you're being over dramatic because trust me you aren't.


Was gunna write a big comment but i just wanna give you a hug tbh


i deactivated my instagram, what types of posts is she referring to?


maybe you should put trigger warnings on your posts and stuff


Also, I think you're being too hard for yourself. You didn't mean to hurt us! And you didn't hurt us


i want to hug you so much right now consider urself hugged a million times


i have nothing to add except the you are the loveliest person on this entire website


Maybe try doing what all youtubers do: write a book


God Dodiee, stop being so hard on yourself, just because you overshared a bit doesn't mean that you need to take it so seriously. I get that people don't like it that much, but they are acting like 5 year olds, Like we get it, yes, you don't like content that talks about mental health, okay, But like to get triggered about it?, it's a bit too far. So you don't need to apologise if oversharing helps you, then nobody has the right to tell you not to do that. <br>Ily <3

God Dodiee, stop being so hard on yourself, just because you overshared a bit doesn't mean that you need to take it so seriously. I get that people don't like it that much, but they are acting like 5 year olds, Like we get it, yes, you don't like content that talks about mental health, okay, But like to get triggered about it?, it's a bit too far. So you don't need to apologise if oversharing helps you, then nobody has the right to tell you not to do that.
Ily <3


On a completely different note... are those edits you chopping out all the 'ummmms'?? Just curious as I have never seen that done and that would definite help my videos. :D

And don't worry so much. What you do is you. And like the girl with the rainbow backpack, you are loved as you are.

Let me also add. People having trouble dealing with mental health issues is not anything new. We talk about it more today than in generations past. Old people, when I was growing up in the 20th century, were often described as 'crazy old' people. They didn't have the medications we have today. Heck people didn't even understand some of the things they were suffering from. I can't tell you how many people I know are now (in later life) are dealing with mental health issues. You are one of the unlucky that are having to cope with it in your youth, but trust me all the people who might be in the "I just don't get it" crowd now, will be singing a different tune as they get older.


I hate seeing dodie sad, or anyone sad or hurt for that matter. but heres the thing. life happens to different people in different ways. we can't shy away from things that make us uncomfortable or sad because life is uncomfortable and sad. but it doesn't always have to be. we can help. we just have to stop thinking about ourselves and lend a hand. when u fall, u r going to want to get back up. if there is no one to help u, it gets harder. I'm here to help u get back up, so r millions of other people. were all still learning but sometimes, we need to learn the scary things. they will come eventually. its better to be prepared.


Like I would close my laptop and read a book but I'm currently reading american psycho and that probs isn't the best thing to read for self care..


babs my heart aches just wanna give u big hugs


If trisha paytas would make this kind of video


You should NEVER have to apologise for this, I love you <3


Hello. I'm gonna do pretty much somewhat of wut u just said not to do... if that makes sense..
I get u, and keep about everything that hurts, or any emotions to myself.  Yah sure I've got my family and close frend to talk to, but I don't like opening up to my parents and always feel like I'm being annoying when I text my fren.  I hold it all in and don't know how to let it out without feeling embarrassed or cruddy.  Meh. idek.  im sry for these words of trash, I only want to relate to someone.  goes to balcony and sings softly to herself

Hello. I'm gonna do pretty much somewhat of wut u just said not to do... if that makes sense..
I get u, and keep about *everything* that hurts, or any emotions to myself.  Yah sure I've got my family and close frend to talk to, but I don't like opening up to my parents and always feel like I'm being annoying when I text my fren.  I hold it all in and don't know how to let it out without feeling embarrassed or cruddy.  Meh. idek.  im sry for these words of trash, I only want to relate to someone.  *goes to balcony and sings softly to herself*


Did...did she just checked her pulse in the beginning of her video


when I watch your videos they seem to jump cut, which is distracting...😊  may I ask you to stop cutting them like that.  But I like the content. If you could just record them in one long shot . I think they would be easier  to watch.  anyway good luck with the future ones...😊 love Brian.