petition for dodie to put this on spotify

angelika s I need this on there like right now. I’m trying to transfer my sad YouTube playlist to my Spotify and I need this it’s essential

@Nick Harper you can download the song from youtube and then upload it to spotify as a local file


It’s weird how listening to this now, 3 years later, it doesn’t sting anymore. <br>I feel like this song, among many others, mark a very different but bittersweet time in my life.

It’s weird how listening to this now, 3 years later, it doesn’t sting anymore.
I feel like this song, among many others, mark a very different but bittersweet time in my life.

I guess that's something for me to look forward to

I saw this comment when I felt the lyrics and I now see this comment when I feel the music. Change and growth are such beautiful things <3

hello I've just listened to this for the first time and WOW it resonates

That's because scientifically crushes/obsessions only last 3 years xx

Melanie Anne Ahern It really is the weirdest feeling, the feeling of not feeling any longer.

this is a beautiful comment. makes me realize i won’t always feel like i’m on the back burner. someday someone will love me as much as i love them.

I love this comment. This is how I feel about a lot of songs that when I hear them remind me of tough times.


For anyone that feels unloved, you’re the pretty one with the butterscotch hair to someone. You may not know it, but you are. Someone adores you, it may not be who you want it to be, but you’re adored by him.

hmn, i doubt that. i have black hair, so that means im the girl with the licorice black hair... and most people don't like licorice 😅🥲

"It may not be who you want it to be"... I don't think this is making it any better x'D

I'm not pretty first of all, secondly, my hair is red😭

I'm Asian and so my hair is dark but thanks

nah theyre all too strait to love me TwT lol

i was the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair....9 months ago...

But I don't want to be adored by him because I don't feel the same and I don't want to hurt him.

Disneygirl 2104 Thank you for this large boost in self esteem, I really needed it!


The way she says stupid is my aesthetic.

@Elsiebot 2.0 Some people say stoo-pid instead stew-pid

Kate Brough wait thats not how everyone says it??? Mind Blown

grace I. The "oh" at 2:19 is my aesthetic


every time she says the letter "t" it feels like a super soft kiss from a butterfly mixed with drinking warm, milky, sweet tea


just imagine... what if the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair doesn't even want to be adored by him cause she isn't in love with him at all? what if the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair's best friend is the singing girl? what if the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair is secretly in love with her best friend? she causes both the guy and her best friend a lot of pain without any way of not causing pain while suffering from heartache herself. Suddenly it isn't the singing girl trying not to ruin the luck of those two people. Suddenly there are three people, all in love with one of the others and all not being liked back, all three of them hurt. Suddenly your sorry for the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair.

I'm not in that situation. I was just thinking.
hat

What if that's what Dodie's song ''Burned Out'' Is about and it is from the girl that's in love with the other girl?

I love that I'm not the only on that read the description

Haha I was in this situation once. I was the singing girl until recently. I mean I'm definetly not the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair.

that one clingy human we had the same idea XD


Literally me if dodie gets a girlfriend or boyfriend.


I always used to be the one singing this but last night i found out im the girl with the butterscotch hair


This song is clearly about me. I am the pretty girl.

omg... <b>ur the guy who made the asdfmovies i watched years ago...</b>

omg... *ur the guy who made the asdfmovies i watched years ago...*

Plot twist: the pretty girl was in the hole

DODIE: STRIKE. POSE
TOM: damsel in distress pose

DODIE: STRIKE. POSE
TOM: *damsel in distress pose*

TomSka this is all about you. I hope you like how you are adored by him

TomSka yes tom..u r absolutely bootifull

mcr more like mcaren't <b>I read your name and just, I'm tearing up in a living room full of children STAHP</b>

mcr more like mcaren't *I read your name and just, I'm tearing up in a living room full of children STAHP*

TomSka oooooh tooooooom!! OH YOOOU HAHAJANSJAKAKAJJA

when ever i see toms comment i burst out laughing. lol

Im jealous of your beauty Tom. Im so JEALOUS! but i wont hate you..

Adored by Tord :D I'm so sorry don't be offended by this comment ;-;

well it hurts like hell whenu relate to the song haha

TomSka obviously. loving the butterscotch hair

TomSka REALLY TOM but you are quite pretty I do have to admit

Every time I find one of his comments I'm like "Oh, there's Waldo!".

xD It only takes a couple words for you to make me laugh, man.

So how does it feel to be adored by him?


So, here's my story.

I had a best friend that i had a huge crush on, and I asked him to be my boyfriend. He agreed and I was exstatic!! This was the same time my friend who is a girl got herself a boyfriend as well! We would message each other all the time and I actually felt like he loved me.. but one day he completely stopped talking to me and every one else. We were worried about him and I was heartbroken. I couldn't forget about him..

I soon found out that he had a crush on the friend  that had a boyfriend when she told me, and he was only using me. I've never felt so hurt, and useless. This was about a year ago..

I haven't had any crushes after that because I could never fully get over him. People would ask me who my crush was and I would say "Nobody." And they would laugh and tell me I was lying.

I've never really told anyone this before, so thanks for letting me rant in the comment section here where probably like three people will see..

i hope youre doing well and found love either in someone else or yourself!<br>(also love your pfp)

i hope youre doing well and found love either in someone else or yourself!
(also love your pfp)

73 people, or even more saw this story. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. But don't worry.


Oh my goodness. Every time I come back to this song, it means something different to me. Dear Geneva from two years ago; it’ll be okay, she’s not the only person in the world.

@Geneva that's so good! that makes me really happy to hear <3

@autumn peeks absolutely. I am so much happier now.

did it get better for you? after 2 years?


it does really suck knowing you aren’t as good as the person they’re so deeply in love with..  it makes me feel as if i should pretend to be someone else. that person will always be their number one and i’ll always be the girl who cared way too much for someone who couldn’t return the favor. but their happiness is all that is important, correct? i should be happy for them and i feel awful on how i don’t..
// beautiful song :,) SOO relatable you’re like my secret sister or something. love you dodie!
// to all the people who feel this way,
know that someone else will appreciate you for you. you shouldn’t pretend to be something you’re not for someone completely blinded by someone else. you will soon be the girl with the butterscotch hair to someone, don’t give up! 💗💗💗

how? i have licorice black hair tho? and most hate licorice...


My sexuality: the way Dodie says 'adored'


okay im seeiously so convinced youre a disney princess. cant fool me no longer

Yeah I was thinking the same same thing!

lol im so bad at typing 😂 and trueeee!!!

+Kristhea Abanes Haha ;)
I'm quite aware what a typo is,
I was just commenting and agreeing with her no problem with making comments.
After all that is what the comments are for no?
I do suppose the 2015  term "Grammar Nazi " could possibly fit my personality,
but i don't single out comments because of their specific beliefs  and worship someone by the name of
" Grammar Hitler " It was quite entertaining to reply to your comment and read what you have to say thanks for chatting with me :)

im "seeiously" convinced you dont know how to spell ( And someone does need to make a  movie about her ;D)


I made a gender swapped version

Adored by her

Charming boy with bleach blonde hair
Your eyes and the sunshine smile that you wear
I can see how you make her soul glow
Charming boy with the adventurous mind
You envision so much you make me look blind
You spark her life in ways i’ll never know

I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her
I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her

Charming boy there’s no need to fret
Cause it’s midnight. she’s drunk and you’re the one in her head
You don’t even have to try at all
Charming boy oh she looks at you
As if life is perfect and the world is new
In those moments i just feel so small

I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her
I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her

How stupid to think
 That i could compare
 To the charming boy with the bleach blonde hair
How stupid to think
 That i could compare
 To the charming boy with the bleach blonde hair

I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her
I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her
I won’t hate you
But oh it hurts
How does it feel to be adored by her

@L literally my life, I'm the closested girl lol

Absolutely incredible! Hit close to home, ha

@Ich Bin You're so very welcome <3<br>you seem like a nice peep, so I'm confident that there's someone just as kind and awesome as you seem

@Ich Bin You're so very welcome <3
you seem like a nice peep, so I'm confident that there's someone just as kind and awesome as you seem

@Marcie Asuncion Thank you so much! You are very kind <3

@Ich Bin I'm glad that you're still remaining to be a good friend to her and not hating him despite all of it. Your situation really sucks so I hope it either gets better or you find someone else that'll make you even happier.

It may take some time, but you'll get that love life sorted out in time

@Marcie Asuncion Thank you. There's not much I can do about it, though, (hence my connection to the song) and I mean, at least he is a pretty cool guy, sunshine smile and great visions and all, and I very much hope he will make her happy.

And I might not be his biggest fan, but I am determined not to hate him and being the best possible friend to her.

Plus, thanks to Dodie I have this great song to comfort me :-)

How stupid to think
that I could compare
to the handsome boy with the jet black hair

And I won't hate you
That would not be fair.
But how does it feel to be adored by her?

...Would pretty much summorize my situation :-(

Wow! My heart hurts with this little parody, especially since my friend, the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair, was dating my crush, the charming boy with the beach blonde hair. It just sucks so much, and I feel like this version is very well adapted. I really really like it ^^

I see these lyrics and my mind goes to a song about a closeted girl whose crush is in love with a boy


I remember listening to this when I was 13 and I kinda had stretch the lyrics a bit to make then relatable. But now I'm 15 and every. single. lyric matches my life perfectly and it kinda hurts a lot.


alternate pronouns:
"and i won't hate you, but oh, it hurts. how does it feel to be adored by her?"
"and i won't hate you, but oh, it pains. how does it feel to be adored by them?"

PandasDontBreed OOF (also why u reading this?) because people want to sing this song to express their feelings. However just changing the pronouns changes the flow of the song. So these small changes make it easier for someone to relate and sound good :)

@Marcie Asuncion doesn't answer my question but ok

@PandasDontBreed OOF (also why u reading this?) because people like to relate songs to their personal life.


I wish this was Spotify;; also this is my favorite song by dodie


Amazing song Dodie! Have an amazing time in LA!

We aren't jealous... NOPE

THANKS GUYZ <br>And playlist this autumn lol !1!/?!/1?!1one!!!?!?uno!?!/!

THANKS GUYZ
And playlist this autumn lol !1!/?!/1?!1one!!!?!?uno!?!/!


This song already applies to me and my crush, but the ‘hat’ comment in the description is just the universe being cruel. What are the chances that the random word dodie decided to use as a ‘comment this word if you’re reading this’ would end up being the code word me and my friends use to talk about my crush.

Parchment And Peach so... what happened if you don’t mind me asking?

Four months on and I’ve told ‘hat’ that I like him and we are now talking!

Hey_It's_Melody yikes. It does get better thou :)


i will forever be jealous of the girl with the butterscotch hair :(


i used to be the girl with the butterscotch hair but now, now im the girl singing


I’ve been in love with this guy for the last three years, and he’s liked his girl with the butterscotch hair (actually it’s red), for the same amount of time. Only thing is, they’ve now been dating for a year. I thought I got over him for two whole months but then he just sneaks back into my heart as always. And I won’t hate her but oh it stings, how does it feel to be adored by him?


Plot twist: The girl with the butterscotch hair is in love with her.

@melody wait the "him" sings would you be so kind

everyone was thinking, everyone wants it.

THIS IS MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW AND IM C R Y I N G

holy crap........... you should be the person they hire who makes all the plot twists in movies

Girl with the butter scotch hair sings "she"

WirelessFire161 literally three of my friends right now.


I’m no longer the girl with the butterscotch hair. Someone else is. And it stings..


dodie sang this on a livestream today wearing the same dress and it was fantastic


i thought that finally i could be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair. but life doesn't really turn out that way, does it? it stings a lot cause for once i thought i had a chance but i don't believe that anymore.

Well crap this is me right now heh I’m really sorry you had to go through this I hope you’re doing better now though

oh sweetheart that's my current situatioin


God, i love the first few seconds, it sounds like the Life is Strange main theme. I love this game and this song.<br>Always get those feels when i hear it!

God, i love the first few seconds, it sounds like the Life is Strange main theme. I love this game and this song.
Always get those feels when i hear it!

I was looking for someone else who spotted this! It's so...strange! :o


After ages of trying to find the strumming pattern, I figured I'd share it with anyone looking:

DU UDU

D= Pluck the C string
U= Pluck the E and A strings


this exactly describes how I'm feeling right now. I'm pretty sure this person I've liked for more than a year really likes my friend and they'd be so cute together and they're both so lovely and kind and talented and I want them to be happy so so much but it aches when I think about it.


I actually love this I want to cry please put this on spotify my god

hat (;


She really needs to re do this it's amazing 😍


Three years and I'm just now realizing how relatable this is so storytime for everyone.

I'm unable to form emotional attachments to people so I haven't had a crush until last year. he was the only guy I ever really liked and talked to. he walked me to class and everything. and he always acted like he liked me. we got really into it and I thought he would ask me out but he didn't and instead asked out a girl I was getting really close to.

to this day it hurts the slightest bit seeing them so happy. She was supposed to be me but I guess I just never got the chance :(

but I'm actually fine. I can't form emotional attachments remember


I used to listen to this song when I was 13 and literally bawl my eyes out LMAO - as an 18 year old now, I definitely have a very special place for this song and dodie in my heart <3 thank you for helping me grow up with your incredible music :)


This song is pretty much my life. At one point my crush liked me and I still like him. But then I noticed that he started talking to the girl with the butterscotch hair, so I started saying that he liked her (to not blow my cover) and it turned out that he actually does like her. She always tells me that he calls her beautiful, and all that stuff. She is actually my friend which is why I cant hate her. I ship them but it hurts every time I see them laughing together. Anyway, I loved the song dodie! hat


Wish you had busted out the uke at VidCon. Sad we didn't see more of each other. Great work on this one. Can't wait to listen to it in the car. :]

i was going to say that but i didn't know if it was rude

oh how this comment hurts now, three years later.

Emollie Bollier now I get it! Thank you so much :)

Marry Jeanne Dodie has done some videos about it, not naming the man. Some one made a fan video about what they thought happened about Jon and Dodie and she commented saying some of this is true

Chill Hugs (please don't read this in a rude/strange way) but how could you know? I mean, they talked about it or something? It is just so sad to think that they aren't so best friends now (of course I shipped them with all my heart, but I love their friendship so much) 😕

Emollie Bollier no,no,no she loved him but he friendzoned her and he then wanted her back even though he broke her heart and she didnt want to be anything with him anymore.

Marry Jeanne he dated her, we supposed and broke up with her. We are not 100% sure be he broke her heart definitely

Emollie Bollier but why?? What happened? ):

Oh  dear dodie, he will break your heart be careful x

I, uh.... well... not so much "BFFs" anymore... cough.

Paint I really like that emoji ":]" its just pleasant to look at :>

OMG! Don't do this, people. I'm not ready to ship Jodie. @.@

I've never seen this comment! So adorable :')

jon cozart and doddleoddle, know each other. ya'll please collab because shes my new favorite songwriter and you've been one of my faves.

You cutie :D sad indeed, but happy we busted out the moves at the vidprom lolol<br>Thank you lovely!!!!  <3

You cutie :D sad indeed, but happy we busted out the moves at the vidprom lolol
Thank you lovely!!!!  <3


adored by him walked so heather could run


this is basically the song heather in a different font


♡ I relate to this, but in a gay way... im gay and gender-conforming male. I liked my best friends boyfriend and still do (they are not together anymore). And she wasnt into him as much and I texted him every night and do ay least once every 2 weeks. And it hurts because I relate so much and know he will never like me... i love you dodie ❤ ♡

hey! i hope everything is going well now<3


May never see this... but this song brought tears to my eyes today. I use to listen to this song on replay years ago and my 20 something year old self STILL knows all the words... mind blown. Please release on Apple Music soon xx


I always used to listen to this song absolutely heartbroken. The boy I was in love with loved the pretty girl with butterscotch hair. But now I am that girl to this amazing boy whom I adore and I couldn’t be happier


oh lord, i remember when i used to listen to this song on loop as it stung me repeatedly with reality. glad to say it doesn't hurt anymore.


Coming back 6 years later and i still love you, truly a beautiful soul


i loved this song so much, it reminded me when my grandma made me a hat

I know youre probably serious but I wheezed and im not even sorry


how talented are you. gorgeous lyrics and your voice is like lilacs


OOOOO I've had this song stuck in my head for like 2 years.


I heard this ages ago and I have just come back to it, when I last listened I didn't understand it at all but now this is all I'm feeling


I LOVED THE SONG AND I LOVE THE WAY YOU SAY BUTTERSCOTCH!!! hat


I think I was 19 when this came out and really felt the lyrics. It's a very specific type of "sting" that kind of pain. I'm 26 now and, what do you know? HAPPENED AGAIN. Sorry kids but, apparently, this stuff doesn't stop when you are older like I naïvely thought it would when I was a teenager -.-


"Pretty girl, oh he looks at you..." @ 1:15 gives me chillsies. Every time.


This makes me so sad, but happy. I'm thankful for this song, just like i was thankful for my Grandmother when she knitted me a go-rob-a-bank type of hat. Hat. Hat hat hat. HAT. there you go. HaT


when i first found this song about two years ago it hurt to listen to but i’m finally able to say it doesn’t anymore


"How stupid to think that I could compare to the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair" to "I am the girl with the golden hair" Oh, dodie!! <3


When you love someone and you think they love you back, but the girl with the butterscotch hair takes all his attention...<br>"hat"

When you love someone and you think they love you back, but the girl with the butterscotch hair takes all his attention...
"hat"


Last summer I identified with the person talking, this year I identify with the girl with the butterscotch hair.

madison wiggle woooh! 😊 hope you are happy still

OH MY GOD I was looking everywhere for a comment like this. It took me a year too

i used to be the girl with the butterscotch hair, but sadly not anymore

me too, many months ago I was the girl singing, but now I'm the girl with the butterscotch hair, and it feels good :)

This year I'm the girl with the butterscotch hair too. Except I'm looking at a boy with butterscotch hair and he's looking at no one at all, especially not me.

Hooray! <br>But I'm the person across the street with her best guy friend with his arms around her, whilst she is hoping he likes her. Lol. But still, HURRAY FOR YOU!!

Hooray!
But I'm the person across the street with her best guy friend with his arms around her, whilst she is hoping he likes her. Lol. But still, HURRAY FOR YOU!!

This gave me hope for somebody to actually like me, thanks

May Ad not trying to hate or anything but im just curious why are you using the same icon as omgteens (instagram)

@May Ad i didnt realize i put a happy face lol but i was dating this guy for nearly 2 years  that left me, and not even a month later he started dating this other girl

Nicole Montes You seem happy about it. What happened?

and im reverse :) i was the girl with the butterscotch hair. but im not anymore

May Ad that's so cute omg i'm so happy for you!!

this gives me hope that i can one day identify as the girl with the butterscotch hair :'))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

May Ad I am genuinely happy and proud for you. You go girl! I am actually smiling, thank you for sharing your happiness it's making me happy for you❤

you legend this comment makes me so happy omg

wow that honestly makes me so happy, I'm so happy for you ❤

AqualuvsMC I AM! so incredibly happy, I hope your happy too

WirelessFire161 honestly your comment made my day

I'm that chick in the blue shirt waving at you from across the street


Imagine falling love with the girl with the butterscotch hair ♡<br>This song makes me cry sometimes, especially falling in love with a straight girl who adores someone else. How would it feel to be adored by her for once?

Imagine falling love with the girl with the butterscotch hair ♡
This song makes me cry sometimes, especially falling in love with a straight girl who adores someone else. How would it feel to be adored by her for once?


I keep coming back to this song and idk why it's just so beautiful and I can relate to it so much, I wish this was on iTunes❤


It should be illegal for you to make me feel this inspired. <3 <3 <3


These older videos by Dodie bring me back to a very short, very specific time in my life. I love these so much 💗


Honestly this describes me when my best guy friend was dating my other best girl friend. I didn’t want to break them up, but the girl sometimes annoyed the crap out of me(no offence to her she’s awesome and I still want to be friends with her). I could barely get him alone to talk(and like yes I love him and I only realized this later so my intentions were pure I swear), and when I did she would legit complain about how she was jealous of our relationship... but in my brain i was thinking “wtf you guys look like you’re having a great time not talking to me AT ALL” (again no shade just ughhhh I felt so ignored).

Anyways. Whenever this occurred I would always tell her that when he and I would talk, he would say that he had found someone he really liked and was ready to date for a long time and get serious(and he did say this I wasn’t lying). And then she would calm down.

TBH I always felt like they didn’t go well with each other... I mean I love them both, but they just didn’t fit together, you know?

Anyway, this song hit me with them “be grateful you have him” feels


i know this is 2 years later but i want you to know this is my favorite song that you have made. Keep it up! I am a big fan :)


You're voice is amazing and this song is so beautiful I think I just found my new favorite artist. :)


This song always gets to me and i always love how much emotion you put into your voice. Its something i wish more artists would do. Hat.


When your friend's cat doesn't like you.

When your own cat likes your friends more than you

BUTTER GLUTTON FOREVER! My friends cat called hitler always gets drunk at midnight

Almost spat out my porridge when I read this comment

@WhenWillIGetMyLetter ToHogwarts? When you have to apologize to an old joke XD

@Ginger Anderson YES OMG THIS IS AMAZING CAN WE BE FRIENDS

same naME

literally no one has my name this is exciting

I hope your friend's cat doesn't get drunk at midnight... Or ever


i love this song so much! you’re so talented! also this song makes my heart hurt but i love it hat.


This song is a bittersweet lullaby, thank you dodie 💕

All of my relationships just end up in flames.. ouch


Your songs are so beautiful and sad and relaxing, I love how real your voice and messages are in your songs. Thank you for writing these.


"How does it feel to be adored by him? And I won't hate you, but oh it Stings. How does it feel to be adored by him?"


I feel that it is a crime of humanity that I cannot 'like' that last comment 1000 times.


I would love if this song was on your Spotify! It's one of my favorites from you <333


Aww I remember listening to this on repeat when I first heard it. Although it still hurts I feel like I’ve grown and this song just reminds me of a very different period of my life.


I haven't heard this for so damn long and it comes to my mind.. I still really love this a lot


this song is beautiful still 4 years later thank you dodie for uploading all these songs/videos, you make people so happy including me you will never know how much your fans really love and appreciate you  <33333


what if you have a crush on the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair?

since i posted this nearly 2 YEARS AGO holy crUd,,, there’s been like 12 other pretty girls with butterscotch hair in my life yikes life’s crazy man

Oh think if you're the one with the butterscotch hair!

Looshi genderswap everyone in this song but Dodie.

This is my life story

and she admitted to liking the pretty girl in her book oh. my. god.

+Joseph LOUS oh my god now I can't think of it as anything else

I met dodie at SITC and asked her about my theory about that, she told me that she had a crush on both of them!

I can't help but think that this is about Doctor who, with Martha being jealous of rose and the doctor

In stories it ends in 'and they lived happily ever after'  but what if youre the one singing and you spend the rest of your life depressed

BIzz the space deer shit is that me <b>tastes one self</b> yep its me

BIzz the space deer shit is that me *tastes one self* yep its me

HeyAnna i thought it said "smells like lemongrass and sheep" 😂😂😂

Ahhhhhh but what if you constantly go between Adored By Him and She???? Got a serious Nico Angelo dilemma here lel

yES that was EXACTLY what i was thinking oml

Looshi well then you'd sing "I won't hate you but oh it hurts, how does it feel to be adored by her?" Just a thought lol

I always thought of this song like that!!

Looshi actually, this happened a few days after, my crush used to like me then he started to like my friend. I was like what the crap? Now my friend likes him as well, they live happy ever after as I'm lost, I try to hide that I'm not jealous, I act like I'm laughing and fine, but I'm not. If I tell her shes gonna laugh, your not alone though...

Looshi awh, okay, dating is crap, because like you have feelings and then BOOM it crashes and the person ends up liking someone else and then you try not to be jealous. Its just complete crap but somewhat nice as well, love is confusing, anyways, hope everything ends up well!

IʻM HAPPY THAT THE PRETTY GIRL WITH THE BUTTERSCOTCH HAIR LIKED YOU BACK AND I WISH YOU HAPPINESS WITH WHOEVER IT IS THAT YOU ARE WITH RIGHT NOW OR WILL BE WITH  :))

Looshi I MEAN I LOVE SOMEOME I HAVE NO CHANCE WITH... I love them so much o cry when I text them and they are bi but pretty sure she has no.interest in me.. like we tell eatchother we love eatchother but... yeah

Looshi also KEEP ME UPDATED I NEED THIS SHIP TO SAIL!!

Emily  Riccards awe dont worry, you will meet the perfect guy or girl, just know it might happen soon. But for know I'm here we all here, so you can forget about him slowly, I'm sorry if I made this worse. God bless you!

im the girl singing and funny enough,  he now has his own girl with butterscotch hair.

its been months,  and i thought i could finally stop singing this song ..

apparrently not.  :(

Looshi AWHHH IK THIS IS LATE BUT ARE YOU GUYS DATING YET?

Looshi OOOOHHH then you sing she and then it's a cycle :,))))))))

Junior Wolf she smells like lemongrass and sleep

Are you allowed to look at her like that?

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWE <3 IM HAPPY FOR YOU THIS IS ADORABLE

DanIsNotNamedMyer learn the ukulele and play this song

then that means theres a girl that has a crush on you and is jelly of her...

lol I watch it every night before bed....


Anniversary of this song, 6 years ago this absolute beauty was made. Thank you Dodie for making this song <3


i keep coming back to this song; & every time i do it means something else. this is beautiful dodie <3


I connect with this song on so many levels, but the line I feel the most is
"I won't hate you, but oh it stings."
I could never have hated her, because she is honestly amazing, obviously, because he wouldn't have loved her if she wasn't.


this song is so amazing and relatable! dodie you are amazing! hat


THE SONG IS BRILL... it's 2017 and I'm still listening to this, IT NEVER GETS old I love it so much... also HATTTT


6 years later and I’m still here. Thank you for raising me, you are the reason I am who I am


Listen to Absolutely Smitten. Then listen to this. To say my heart is shattered is an understatement.

@vicky moran Hey its another Moran! Also my heart has broken into pieces because I listened to Absolutely Smitten, the She, then this... to say I'm dead would be an understatment

When we were at the Dublin show she said this ended up well though, that she wrote it about sammy :)

All of Dodie's song have such a story, some of them connect. It's crazy. @vicky moran


Oh god. I'm getting so overly emotional about how far she has come ❤


I find myself continuing to come back to this song, it's stuck in my head!!!! I just wanted to say I really like your covers/songs and you have a lovely voice. You also happen to remind me of my best friend, only English... she's from Ireland and about seven years younger than you but you two are VERY alike. Her channel is Oyeade 11, I think. (She acts very randomly on there for reasons I do not understand)


I absolutely love this song, I've just learnt to play it on my ukulele and it is amazing hat


Your music is so peaceful and kind. Thank you, Dodie!


I can finally comment! This is so beautiful and it makes me so sad but in a warm sort of way.


Is there an official studio version of this? Its legit my fave dodie song <3


Switch around the pronouns and there you go, there's my life story. (the girl I have a crush on likes a guy who's so much better than me in every way)


I wish this was on Spotify, I love this song


Finding this again in 2020 made my day. I’ve always loved your songs 🤗❤ ....hat


This song was amazing and I feel that I can really relate to it HAT

Why do people keep ending sentences in hat what did I miss


Checking back into this song is a fever dream....There was a time where I was dating somebody and was listening to the song and realizing he was in love with other women other than me. I really thought this man was the one and I tried so hard to fix myself for him without realizing that was the problem. And I look at now and I am engaged to the worlds most amazing man who adores me for who I am instead of me always changing for somebody else who can’t even appreciate me. I’m putting this out there as a sign that if you’re in a type of relationship that is one-sided and you don’t find a way out and you’re always trying to change yourself for it, leave. I know it’s not easy but in the end it’s going to be what’s best for you. Past Sunni, I’m so sorry for what I’ve done to you and what happened to you. But you made future Sunni the happiest she’s ever felt in a very long time.

And to you reading this, you are amazing and wonderful, hang in there, I promise things will get better but they have to get worse first 💕

I wish I could read this to my younger self :,)


A primeira Heather a gnt nunca esquece ♥


I love this song so much, your my aesthetic. HAT <3


I love the song sooo much! You have helped my friend so much and she sends me your songs all the time. You've helped me through endless gay crushes as well. Thank you Dodie! Hat


I love my bestfriend so, very much. It hurts sometimes knowing how much he loves his girlfriend. I loved him for 3 years now. This might sound obsessive to some, but he's the only one who understands me, and he's the only one who makes happy. I feel like I will never find anyone to love the way I love him.

You've gone your whole life without being with him and if you can carry on you'll find someone

CraftyMegan it’s the same with me but he just ignores me now..

I was in the same situation, I befriended this guy who quickly became my best friend a few months later we started dating. It lasted 3 months, he left me for my other friend. I was however still in love with him for 3 more months, I dated two other guys in that time but broke up with both quickly because I couldn't get him out of my head. He loved his girlfriend so much it hurt me so badly to see them together. But it gets better I promise, I met an amazing guy whom I love very very much, he is my everything. I hope things work out for you.

+avocado dancer that hurts... but damn, I relate.

CrissiFishi i feel the same about mine, he doesn't have a girlfriend but he didn't want a relationship and he just loves my other friend so much and I know it's selfish but I feel broken when I see him look at her...

CrissiFishi well if you think he is the one fate will understand and make a twist by turning back and take another road maybe he secretly likes you? I know you will find your happyness and your true love and anyone will be the lukkiest girl/guy in the world JUST HAVE FAITH 🙃

CrissiFishi I feel the same way as you do, my friend is the girl with the butterscotch hair and I guess the boy is my friend too, he likes me but I know he likes her more, it's painful especially when I know he only goes with us when she is there...I'm nothing compared to her

I can relate, although he doesn't have a girlfriend, my friend has a crush on him and everyone says they will get married one day and blah blah blah. Life sucks :/

CrissiFishi I hate that I understand this pain

Wow ur story is exactly like mine but I told him I loved him for three years and he was cool with it. I don't like him anymore i have a girlfriend wwoowowowow

CrissiFishi I FEEL YOU OH MY GOD IT HURTS

CrissiFishi my best friend a girl is dating my crush and she knows I've liked him for 4 years but I'm shy and he asked her out they only knew each other for... well they met last year and he knows I like him I see them both all the time and it hurts to see it happen in my face😒😔

CrissiFishi I love my best friend more than anything and while I wouldn't want to date her I get the feeling of being held back from the person you love so much as she is in an abusive relationship and he tries to isolate her from her friends and he belittles her and calls her fat (made worse by the fact that she may have an eating disorder) but she won't listen to me and she defends him by bruit off because she loves him. Hopefully stuff works out well for you though sorry for the irrelevant moan

Don't worry, I love my best friend too! Even though he doesn't have a girlfriend, we're still not looking for a relationship at the time! But that doesn't matter! Tell them how you feel! If they understand you that much....they wouldn't do anything rash...right?

I know how you feel … I have feelings for my friend Michael who I've known for almost a year now and not only is he my friend he's my coworker we met through work and in December I learned that he has a girlfriend I'm not sure if he still does or what but I thought my feelings for him would just be a phase and I would get over them I didn't get over them but I'm still not going to tell him one because I'm extremely shy and awkward two because I have a fear of rejection and don't want to to lose the friendship that had just started a few months before I found out he had a girlfriend

CrissiFishi I like my very close friend, (and I probably shouldn't be typing this cause he might see this, but eh?) but I can tell he likes my best friend and I love them both so much so I keep my feelings hidden as I watch them enjoy each other's company, and I can't help buy think that I'll never measure up to her as she'll always be #1 in his heart. But I'm- no I'm not, like the lyrics say "But Oh It Stings" it really does. I don't hate them, I love them both, they mean the world to me! I really do wonder though, how does it feel to be adored by him?

CrissiFishi I can relate, there is this guy named Rylan I have known him for about 1 year and I really like him but I don't want to tell him because he has a girlfriend I need advice.

I feel that you and me have the same situation, except the guy I like tries on his studies, but doesn't focus on them altogether.

I can kinda relate. The only difference is that he actually liked me, but I was too stupid to take action and tell him I felt the same way as he did to me. When I wanted to, I was already too late and he already found someone else... It's so bad, I mean like I see him everyday and that constantly reminds me of the time we spent together. Now he's just kinda distant and that aches.

CrissiFishi my bed friend is feeling like that it makes me sad to see her sad 😭

Yayee P. I FEEL YOU I like this guy and he likes me too but idk why I just can't stop think of this guy I liked last year! like I loved this guy and I JUST CANT STOP THINKING OF HIM and idk why I don't think I loved him, it was the idea of him. just infatuation, but either way I just can't stop thinking about it when I'm texting this other guy I like and who likes me and I AM CONFUSED AS TO WHY. I liked him so much and I just can't get over him.

IVE BEEN DATING MY BOYFRIEND FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND I STILL MISS MY OLD CRUSH LIKE HE WAS MRE THAN A CRUSH. I LOVED HIM AND HE WAS MY BESTFRIEND AND HE JUST LEFT MY LIFE AND I D- okay. im sorry. ill calm down. i dont think i love him, i think i love the idea of him. i just want him to be my best friend again really

Lord a mighty we all just need a sad lil groupchat to talk about being in love with our best friend who has a girlfriend

CrissiFishi I'm the exact situation, just a bit more complicated, but either way we'll get through this together

CrissiFishi Girl we are in the same situation

i feel the same about a girl so i get you pain.

@Lesters_Dick I recently told my crush/guy best friend liked him. He said yaaay and it's been about a month. I don't know what yaay means, we still talk but it's not the same as before. It sucks.

I can relate to you a bit i have or had a boy bestfriend and i loved him and like you he was the only one that could make me laugh so one day i built up some courge and asked him out. Sadly i got rejected and we are no longer friends but it still sucks

CrissiFishi you will sweetheart I promise you. :)


I love this song so much! I'm in that exact situation right now, literally, I'm in love with a guy and he's with a girl with butterscotch hair. I wonder what it's like to be adored by him...


I can't stop listening to this, it's so good! Love it! Keep it up :)


i absolutely love how, in my research of new songs to learn on ukulele, i always find up picking a song by dodie that matched my current feelings, hat ❤


i imagine the verses are sung by two different girls about each other.
1) the girl who is in love with him but he has a girlfriend
2) the girlfriend who is feeling neglected because her boyfriend has a wandering eye


Always great to hear original music from you, Dodie. This was beautiful and extremely relaxing to listen to. Hopefully I'll see you at VidCon NEXT WEEK!

WHEEEEEEEEEEEE how exciting will that be!?!?!?!? And thank you! <3


i told my crush that i liked him and he responded by saying he thinks that's awesome and that he would love to hang out with me and get to know me better. we hung out a few times in and out of school, started talking more, and all while this was happening i knew he used to or still did have a crush on this other girl because of a playlist that he made for her on his spotify. suddenly i noticed him becoming stand off-ish from me so i ask him how he really feels and he tells me he has a crush on someone else. this. song. broke. me :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Still waiting for this to be released 😢 I found a sketch I’d done of these lyrics and it brought back all the feels...


Listening to this while I follow along to the lyrics in Secrets for the Mad. I've had the absolute worst day but reading Dodie's book has lifted me up a lil bit. I love Dodie so so so much


this is so good. i used to be sad listening to this but now it's just good old nostalgia.

you're great, dodie. thank you for inspiring me with your songs during all these years.


Wow it's been 3 years since this was released and I can still relate to this


I love this song so much- relatable, I'm a new subscriber and I'm obsessed with all of your songs now (that I've listened to) +doddleoddle "hat"


This song is just everything that I'm feeling right now


this song is so pretty. i always find myself back at this video:*)


I can relate to the song so much.... I absolutely love it hat :3<br>also, I read and watched The Fault in Our Stars, and I love both :3

I can relate to the song so much.... I absolutely love it hat :3
also, I read and watched The Fault in Our Stars, and I love both :3


this song is so lovely, it's like wearing a cute new <b>hat</b> ;)

this song is so lovely, it's like wearing a cute new *hat* ;)


This is probably one of the most relatable songs I have ever heard. Hat.


i cry every time. such an amazing song...i've probably listened to this song a thousand times :))


This almost made me cry you have a beautiful voice your gifted


If I had a crush this would be so accurate oh my god love it Dodie! hat


This is such a beautiful song, I relate so much, I would wear this song if it was a hat.


I hate that I can relate to this so much


5 years later this no longer hits me, I actually am adored, wow. 2014 me didn’t think it would happen


OMG SOMEONE PERFORMED THIS AT MY SCHOOLS TALENT SHOW AND SHE WAS GREAT SHE GOT THROUGH TO THE FINALS I LOVE YOU DODIE 😭😭❤❤❤❤


I love this song soooo much!! the lyrics and the strumming patterns are absolutely gorgeous <3


6 months ago this song was my life and now it doesn't sting anymore <3


i just wanted to say, i listened to this song a lot when i went on vacation to seaside heights a year or two ago. so now when i listen to this song, i'm reminded of that ocean smell and the sound of seagulls crying out. it's nice.


everytime the paino comes on i start to cry. i love this song and its so beautiful and peaceful and i love it so much.


Ooooh that piano <3<br>How does it feel to be adored by me

Ooooh that piano <3
How does it feel to be adored by me

And here, we see the wild cutie patooties in their natural habitat.


My crush knows that I like him and then comes and asks me for relationship advice for his crush..this song represents my life :(


this is so beautiful ♡ my eyes are tearing up


This song is amazing and gives a lot of well... "bookish" vibe. Hat!


This is my favourite song of yours, years later still.      H A T


I recently found this song to be so true. I have a crush, he loves a skinny, popular, gorgeous girl called Saffron. He'll never like me that way. It kills me inside every single time I look at him.

I feel the same I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year.. I'm not as skinny as the other girls and so I have very little confidence my friends told me they think he likes me and then today I found out one of my friends and him kinda became a thing and one of my friends that told me he likes me knew this whole time...

Multi.__.Fandoms oh same but imagine my best friend had secretly a boy friend (don't ask me why:P)  and he also had to watch all this

QuirkyCat this song is the story of my life. My crush always likes one of my friends, and I can't hate them for it because i love my friends and can't cast them away, but I want to be the girl he likes and I can never tell when I should stop trying because I like the boy, and I just want one to like me back! And especially if I think he could like me, but then he goes trailing after my friend. Do you guys have this problem? This has happened so many times to me

I know the feeling except my crush is in love with my best friend. She is beautiful and so kind but the way he looks at her when he talks to her makes my heart shatter because she doesn't love him and i'm envious that he loves her. He does this thing where he'll cuddle with her and draw small hearts on her paper as a cute gesture "but oh it stings".


Can you put this on spotify, pretty please? 😭🙏❤❤❤


I love the fact that everyone just feels open when listening to Dodie songs as so many people write their experiences down below it is just so beautiful


oi! I rewatched youe song PAINT(the first song I geard from you) a few minutes ago I wanted to comment on it but it was disabled. anyway. you're still doing GREAT! so good after all these years and keep doing all you great songs and you're doing so so so so so so so so great! hope you keep being who you are. byeee


Ahh this song reminds me of when I really pulled through with a bit of self confidence and thinking that maybe I am good enough. I've always loved this song ahh.


<b>whispers</b> from Nico's persective about Annabeth and Percy

*whispers* from Nico's persective about Annabeth and Percy

chicgreekgeek11 omg I read that series sooo long ago and I didn’t know I was bi, and of course I was ok with it, but I didn’t really relate because I thought I was straight. GUESS WHAT BRAIN, IM NOT. YOURE WELCOME.
P.S. I don’t even know it’s 11:25 and my sleep pattern is fricked up

chicgreekgeek11 omfg you are a fricking genius

OMG I DIDNT NOTICED UNTIL NOW! Just... CHANGE THE PRONOUNS! But I'm so happy that Nico found Will and that they are happy together 😪😊

Every time i see this comment when i listen to this song and i am like 'yeassss sooo true whyyyy'

I came back to this and I cried again

Also, he has a pretty boy with butterscotch hair who IS the sunshine.
you're welcome

I always think I'm stable with the Percy jackson fandom, and then something like this happens, and it's all just... it's just gone.

I like how this was five months ago and people are still outraged

+chicgreekgeek11 HOW DARE YOU! //all the broken hearts<br>its ok. he got Will now

+chicgreekgeek11 HOW DARE YOU! //all the broken hearts
its ok. he got Will now

+chicgreekgeek11 OH MY GOD HAHAHAH I DIDNT REALIZE THAT

"How could I compare to the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair" LMAO THIS IS HEART BREAKING YET PERFECT RIP ME

i pretty much squealed. i ship him with the Apollo kid (Will Solace, i think..? idk) now but i still ship Pernico tho 😂

@howellsfringe who doesn't ship percico?

@howellsfringe who doesn't ship percico?

+chicgreekgeek11 OMFG YESSSS PJO LOVER COME LOVE ME

+Radioactive Helena ty  Helen  now none of us will be ago  to listen to this this song without thinking of the cosplays/Ships of heaven and hel

Spoilers!!! I read them in Swedish so not all are out yet! But oooohhhh I want to read the next book so bad!!!!😭😭😭

+chicgreekgeek11 YOU ARE EVIL DONT BRING UP MY POOR NICO

+chicgreekgeek11 That was one astute observation there, friend. One might even call you a...wise girl. ;)

OMG!!!! YOU'RE SO RIGHT!!! GOD, I LOVE THE PJO/HOO FANDOM!!!

OH MY HERA THAT IS WONDERFUL BUT HEARTBREAKING

+chicgreekgeek11 OH MY GOD <br>NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

+chicgreekgeek11 OH MY GOD
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

+chicgreekgeek11 I'm not the only one that thought of that!

+chicgreekgeek11 I will never hear this song the same.

STOP THIS RIGHT NOW!!! great now you've got me crying. I'm done with this fandom, but this does fit perfectly in that senerio

HE HAS WILL NOW AND THEY'RE IN LOVE!!!!! ❤❤❤

HE HAS WILL NOW AND THEY'RE IN LOVE!!!!! ❤❤❤

Nuuh Chris is too precious for Octavian. He's one of the stolls.

+Radioactive Helena I SEE CHRIS AS LEO BECAUSE OF THE JOKES

+Radioactive Helena CAN CRABSTICKZ BE OCTAVION OMFG

DODIE IS PIPER EVAN IS JASON PHIL IS WILL BC HES LITERALLY THE SUN  DAN IS NICO

+Radioactive Helena Dan howell is LITERALLY NICO

+Radioactive Helena CAN THAT HAPPEN HOLY HECK

Ok but Dan cosplaying nico and Phil cosplaying Percy

now i cant listen to this without thinking about nico

OH MY GOSH WHY MUST YOU PLAY WITH MY FEELINGS

OH MY GOSH WHY MUST YOU PLAY WITH MY FEELINGS

+chicgreekgeek11 OH MY GODS. NICO MY PRECIOUS LITTLE RAY OF DARKNESS. <b>slows breathing down</b> thank the gods for solangelo..

+chicgreekgeek11 OH MY GODS. NICO MY PRECIOUS LITTLE RAY OF DARKNESS. *slows breathing down* thank the gods for solangelo..


I really wish I could add this song on amazon music


I just listened to this for the first time since prom night. I remember coming home and playing it on repeat, I cried myself to sleep. I'm doing better now though, it was just weird for me to listen to it. It's a beautiful song.


Almost a year ago I found this and related.... Same guy..  Still relate


I randomly had the "how does it feel to be adored by him" in my head on repeat.. it's been ages


I was the girl singing once, and I still am


I'm crying, this is so beautiful, so relatable, and it hurts so much yet so softly


THIS SONG IS AMAZING!!! I LOVE IT! (hat)


I imagine Eponine singing this about Cosette in Les Miserables!!!

Kelly Parsley Yes! Yes! Someone understands me! 😭😭😭

Kelly Parsley THAT'S WHAT I WAS THINKING!!!!

omg yesss there should be a production where eponine just busts out a uke and sings this

Kelly Parsley wow, this is actually perfect

i  want to like this comment more but i can only like it once... time to go make extra accounts

Wow, okay, thanks for breaking my heart even more lol </3

You should watch Carrie and Celinde sing it, that's half your wish granted haha


feeling this right now, thank you dodie, love you so


I hecking love her old videos especially when it's cold outside :3


those lyrics hit my heart, thanks Dodie for writing something so beautiful and strong


pretty girl with the hair the color of dark coffee, with the voice as smooth as honey and a talent at SO many instruments - Dodie, I have know idea why you weren't adored by him but you are adored by many.


your songs make me cry even when i can't relate. i love this. dodie is a true inspiration. hat


I remember listening to this song for the first time 5 years ago and loving it despite not relating with it that much or applying it to myself

5 years later and it PERFECTLY describes how I feel and my situation ;;-;; this song hits a lot deeper now that I’m going through the same thing.

funny how that happens


Have you ever just laid on your carpet in the sun from the window laughing with your best friend? <br>Well this is what it feels . This song is exactly what it’s like .

Have you ever just laid on your carpet in the sun from the window laughing with your best friend?
Well this is what it feels . This song is exactly what it’s like .


Man oh man Dodie. I remember my first time hearing this song oh so long ago crying and it still plays with my heart. The rush of warmth and nostalgia in this song reminds me how much I love your music. Im so proud of how far you’ve come❣❣ I feel like, to a degree I’ve grown up with you as a big sister and you’ve helped grow my love for music


I keep coming back to this song. It's so simple and beautiful


YOU ARE SO FREAKING GOOD AT UKULELE I CAN'T STOP WATCHING!!!!!


this is a beautiful song. i love it sm and relate too it a lot!!!! hat


This song came to YouTube at the peak of my depression 3 years ago. I'd just split from my first boyfriend and my depression had taken over completely and this song explained my situation completely. I had a playlist on yesterday and this came on and i realised I wasn't alone in one of my saddest times. Thanks Dodie, I'm now nearly 3 years into a happy relationship and this song only makes me feel stronger when I listen. Xxx


You honestly make me want to get a ukulele so badly

Ukulele Sales are GROWINGG because of Dodie

LaraisLame Update on my last reply: I got one for my birthday in August 😄😄 I’m back here checking I have the right chords and plucking pattern thing 😂

It's a potential christmas present for me and I am too excited

LaraisjustSOgreat this is actually the video that made me go out and get a ukulele!!!

i bought one too and have learnt majority of dodie's songs


I love it oh my gosh! Thank you Dodie! By the way I love HATS


I love this song so much I want this permanently sewing into my mind I want to tattoo this video on my face

hat


Hiya Dodie, I really like this song, I listen too it everyday and never get sick of it


The "pretty girl" has absolutely NOTHING on you, dodie!! <3


This song is criminally underrated and great, hat


dear the pretty girl I'm in love with, how <b>does</b> it feel to be adored by him?

dear the pretty girl I'm in love with, how *does* it feel to be adored by him?


This song is basically my life. You can never hate your pretty friend who goes out with your crush and you let her. It stings this pattern. My crush, then her boyfriend. Every time she asks me if it's alright, I say yes. And now it stings me forever.

this happened to me, though she didn't ask, lied to me about it and promised me she wouldn't. we're not friends anymore. :(

USE YOUR WORDS!!! (Direct quote from Carrie hope fletcher)

I know, that this sounds really hard but maybe you should let her go as your best friend. Because a best friend would never take the boy you like, a best friend would do everything for your best, it's kind of a "give and take" situation. If she really likes you, she wouldn't do anything that could hurt you. Try to talk with her again, say what you think about the situation, because your feelings do matter! Communication is everything!

@fleur1492 i agree with you. but i did bring it up one time and she just said that "you are overreacting, can you let it go it was last year", so............ thats that as far as i'm concerned

@Michael: sorry, but your best friend doesn't seem like a best friend. Talk with her about how you feel but if they really love each other you can't do anything (you could try to steal her boyfriend but that isn't a nice thing to do and would make you the worst best friend)


listening to this song 5 years later doesn't hurt my heart anymore. i related to this feeling, and how you were able to create that.. well done!


AWESOME SONG DODIE 💖💖💖<br>THUMBS UP 💖💖💖💖


I relate 😂😂😂

The guy I like for a year now is currently with another girl and they’re so close... they just look so happy and I just know what to feel...


Everything about you is so perfect and adorable and I love you


pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
you're so perfect for him that it isn't fair
how he stares while you're so unaware

and i can't blame you
but oh it hurts
how it feels
to sing these words

(just a bit of an addition/continuation, if i may, to this beautiful song)

pretty girl, with loose curls in her hair
how he talks about you oh god I swear
to him you're the only one in the room

pretty girl, with the winning smile
what I would give, to switch bodies for a while
and see his gaze drift onto me for once

:(

pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
you're so perfect for him that it isn't fair
how he stares while you're so unaware

pretty girl
oh hes drawn to you
like you're the sun and I"m the moon
i will never be able to make him swoon.

and i wont hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by him (x2)

pretty girl with the eyes of blue
how could i be with him
when hes so perfect for you
i wish i couldn't see that it was true

pretty girl
oh he smiles bright
when you're around, you are his light
i shouldn't be holding on so tight

and i cant blame you
but oh it hurts
how it feels
to sing these words (x2)

how stupid to think
that i could compare
to the pretty girl
with the butterscotch hair

and i wont hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by him

and i cant blame you
but oh it hurts
how it feels
to sing these words...

pretty girl
oh he's drawn to you
like you are the sun and i'm the moon
i will never be able to make him swoon

I had to screen shot this comment. I had too. I love it too much. Thank you.

+Ruby Dunn lol oh okay I was just making sure they new

+Ondrea Taffera  these are extra lyrics rather than the ones she sings, which are indeed in the description :) x

dodie usually has them in the description so make sure to check their first

That could make for a really beautiful ending, there. I like it. <3


I feel like no matter what mood or situation I'm in, there's a Dodie song that expresses it in the most perfect, accurate, real way


Pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
Your eyes and the sunshine smile you wear
I can see how you make his soul glow
Pretty girl with the adventurous mind
You envision so much you make me look blind
You spark his life in ways I'll never know

And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?
And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?

Pretty girl, there's no need to fret
'Cause it's midnight, he's drunk and you're the one in his head
You don't even have to try at all
Pretty girl, oh, he looks at you
As if life is perfect and the world is new
In those moments I just feel so small

And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?
And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?

How stupid to think that I could compare
To the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
Yes, how stupid to think that I could compare
To the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair

And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?
And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?
And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?
And I won't hate you, but, oh, it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him?


It's been four years but I keep coming back to this song crying.


I loved this song. I want a magic clothing item that plays it for me. Can I just use headphones? NO. I need a hat.

omg, the first comment through many which end in hat ❤❤


you are so good at singing dodie!!! i love your voiceeee!!! hat


I love your songs they really get to my heart.


i love this song, especially looking at it from my perspective; missing the girl with butterscotch hair, but being glad she's happy with her new boyfriend


I love the key change towards the end with

I won't hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by him
hat


I've known this song for so long but now when i listen to it, it stings a little.. its so bittersweet. But regardless i still love dodies voice~


I need a pretty boy version, "how does it feel to be adored by her" is my vibe currently


“you already have the universe, what could you desire more?
it must be heaven to feel so loved by her.”

also, weird comparison, but Dodie’s voice in this sounds like a stream of running water on a late afternoon in the springtime.


listening to this brings me back to a long time ago when i first found dodie. i love thinking back on that time even though i wasn't the happiest. it makes me think of purple


I WANT TO CRY THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I FEEL

I'm right there with you😭 the only difference is that I would be saying 'adored by her' but it still resonates with me in such an amazingly sad way ughh

I think your profile picture is a good representation of how I feel tbh


This is too similar to whats going on in my life right now and I can't stop crying.


i used to just listen to this cos it sounds pretty. but its actually so accurate now i could cry


COULD YOU STOP HITTING ME IN THE FEELS WITH YOUR NICE ASS VOICE LIKE AHH DODIE I FREAKING LOVE YOU


GAH! This is how I feel right now...beautiful song and voice.


This song kills me a little inside. Becuase it's all true and I was looking for a song like this.. now I found it. Thank you so much, Dodie!


I have butterscotch colored hair, and I love this song. It makes me cry, and Im crying right now thinking about it.


I love it! You are amazing!
hat
You'll understand if you read the description


I needed to hear this today and know I’m not the only one that feels exactly like this :(


I can't believe that I've slept on your music for so long! at one point, I related to this song, and I still kind of do in a way. it describes the bittersweet feeling you feel towards the "pretty girl"(or in my case, it would be "cute guy") so damn well, it stings just thinking about it. I love you and would buy all the merch I could if I weren't broke. A shirt, sweatpants, even a hat! 💙


Anyone else realize what a beautiful voice she has?! No autotune. Just raw beautiful voice, from a talented singer.


my nine year old self watching this in 2014 never related to this, but 15 year old me now is rewatching and damn this hits


Earlier this year I fell in Love with a guy, and made a pretty good relationship with him. All of that effort just to find out that he likes someone else from another school

❤I Love the song it speaks to my heart❤


This remembered me of the boy I loved for almost 5 years, and his (now ex) girlfriend, when they were together I sort of felt in the same way about her, and also she was great


Listening to this for the first time in 2 years and I’m proud to say, it doesn’t hurt anymore. Still a great song nonetheless.


listening to this along with the rain pouring outside is the perfect combination :)


This is beautiful and you are wonderful!(hat)


Can this please be available on iTunes 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼


I've discovered you two weeks ago dodie, which isn't a long time, but I really start to fall in love with you, your videos and your voice ❤


I love how simple and heartwarming this song is.. Hat.


I relate to this song so much and I love it. Love you Dodie, its so much fun to go back and listen to these songs after listening to your songs on spotify and your newer songs and seeing how much you've grown and yet how talented you always have been!! and since I did read to the end of the description, here's a "hat" <br>:) xoxo

I relate to this song so much and I love it. Love you Dodie, its so much fun to go back and listen to these songs after listening to your songs on spotify and your newer songs and seeing how much you've grown and yet how talented you always have been!! and since I did read to the end of the description, here's a "hat"
:) xoxo


What a beautiful song! I love it very much! Hat.


Tearing up because this describes someone perfectly in my life


I wont hate you
but oh it burns
how does it feel
to be adored by her?

+Super Villian fun fact: im a guy and this was supposed to be a straight thing but now it turns out im hella queer

THANK YOU FOR MAKING IT HELLA QUEER IT BETTER FITS MY SCENARIO BLESS U


Wish I could tell you how I really feel about you. How from the first time I saw you I knew you were so special. How you make my heart feel so warm, like no one has done. How I want to kiss you so badly, how much I love you. But you have a girlfriend, she is so pretty. And you seem so happy with her, I know  you really love her, I can't not be happy for you. I just hope she knows she is blessed by having you. You care for me, you are the sweetest boy I have ever met, and I am grateful for having you in my life, I wish things could be different, I wish I was the one who could be by your side, I wish you loved me the way I love you. But everything is going to be okay even though it hurts. I will always love so so much.


I love this song , it reminds me of my hat.


"He looks at you like life is perfect and the world is new"

That's an amazing line.


So ready for her to play this in her live stream


I can relate to this song so much. ahhhhhhhh I love it hat


Omg I can't belive this song was 2014! The year when I started following you and your music! Sure you changed in that time but you are still as lovely and adoddleble as I came on you in that year! Lots of love!


when your crush is also a really good friend and tells you about how he likes the girl with the butterscotch hair :((

I relate to this way too much. It sucks.<br>:(

I relate to this way too much. It sucks.
:(


So cute and yet so sad. Love your top - still waiting for your debut album x


when you Listen to Dodie do you ever just think finally someone wrote a song about an actual relatable situation. not just love and heartbreak


Your vibrato on "by" at 2:23 plucks my heart strings 😋


I’m crying listening to this bc it’s so relatable. It brings out that deep dark part of my heart that’s jealous of the “pretty girl with the butterscotch hair” we’ll call her that I pretend isn’t there


You know what would be even sadder than the song already is? If it was about a girl that is in a realtionship but her boyfriend is obviously in love with someone else and never really loved her

I NEED THIS IN MY LIFE XD THE SONG JUST GOT EVEN BETTER OH MY GOD

I absolutely love that interpretation, because I just thought of a music video idea for it :3 Maybe not necessarily a music video, but a story that could go with the song. What if both girls - as in, his girlfriend and his best friend whom he's in love with were to duet on the song in like, separate locations, but eventually cross paths and have this moment of, "You think he likes me?? But he likes you!" And then, they become best friends and get over the dude together. ;) xD

Like Goddamn by Falling in Reverse Ronnie's girlfriend is in love with someone else


this song hit so hard in middle school,,, I loved the boy but also the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair without even realizing


listens to this song and the next day my crush is dating someone else
w
why dodie


Oh my gosh, these chords are honestly the most emotional part for me.


the most relatable dodie song to me at the moment just went from absolutely smitten to adored by him...


From all of Dodie's songs, I think this one is my favourite, and that so many of us can probably relate to it. No matter how self confident you are, sometimes there's this one person who can make you feel so unimportant, and easily gets what dream of... and yet, even though it can be frustrating, you can't blame them- they're simply being themselves.


i can listen to this song over and over and it makes me so happy in so many levels. And kind of sad. I’m addicted to this music ❤


you're amazing and the song is amazing, hat!


two years later and this song makes me think about a completely different person


This was a beautiful, like my great aunt Marge's special hat


CAN WE HAVE ANGELICA SING THIS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL SONG ABOUT ELIZA?!?!😝


There was a point in my life where I felt this song was about my little sister. She was the only one who didn't fight constantly with my mom, and I would just sit on my bed and cry while listening to it and imagine that I was five years younger and okay again.


This is my new favourite song now and OOPS I'm crying


So relatable. You know that feeling when you don't want to hate your crush's crush but you don't know what to feel for her/him. It's so awkward especially if she/he knows you like them....


I adore you Dodie, your songs will never fail to make me so extremely emotional. The way you write just messes with me so much, I am either smiling so much the whole song that make cheeks hurt and I'm filled with extreme hope and and bittersweet optimism (?) Or I am just in a puddle of tears, thought and words rushing to my mind all at once.


Damn, like almost all her songs relate to my life.


When you've literally only ever crushed on celebrities and youtubers and are currently in love with Dodie.


i need the whole original songs playlist on spotify honestly


3 years after i heard this song for the first time and i still relate it to the same person :/


Wow, I just came from her Instagram Live 3 years later where she wore that exact dress and sang this exact song. 😍

I make comments cuz this is my commenting channel


I won't hate you but oh it burns how does it feel to be adored by her


There is no other song that could more perfectly describe my life rn.


Felt like this when my friend was dating this guy I was falling completely in love with when I was 15. We're married now :)


The songs have so much more meaning when you can relate to them.


I loved it, lovely. <3 <3 <3 And I love your hat ;)


This song reminds me of rain gently pitter pattering on my window at night, and bittersweet goodbyes. It's so good that it turns an idiot like me into a poet


Another time, I cannot say all this words I'm thankful for you and your songs. Tonight I told the truth about me to my brother.


the cutest thing on earth is the fact she styled her ukulele with a loop :D


completely describes my current situation, ilysm dodieeee💓

@Sophia M. :( i hope it all worked out alright?

Kind of same situation..... But it was my ex best friend who knew I liked him..... So.... Yeah.

@Briony B I'm glad that both our situations have imp

@LucyIsAFreak Kinda that is so amazing, congrats<33 this was my situation a few months ago and i seem to have moved on which im so happy about, he wasnt worth it.

@***** hey all of you, a few months back this was my situation, i was so close to tears whilst listening to this song because i thought he could never be mine. Today we've been together for 3 months and i couldn't be happier. It gets better.


I relate more to this song than I did when I first listened to it


about three years ago, when i was thirteen, i would listen to nothing but this song. it’s sad actually. there was this close friend of mine who i really liked and for a very long time, but he never noticed me at all. if anything, he’d constantly put me down.

we started dating a couple months ago and it didn’t end well. he only wanted me for superficial reasons, not for the person i really am. constantly pressuring me to do certain things and gaslighting me.

i’m over him now, although i can’t help but feel sorry for thirteen year old me. she waited so long for him to change his mind and, when it seemed like he did, he did nothing but harm.

I'm really sorry to read such a thing. But i'm happy for you to be over him now. Even tough you may wished for him to be good and everything to end well... It's better this way.<br>It may hurt now, but i think it's just better for your soul then to stay with him because of good but olf memories of how he used to be

I'm really sorry to read such a thing. But i'm happy for you to be over him now. Even tough you may wished for him to be good and everything to end well... It's better this way.
It may hurt now, but i think it's just better for your soul then to stay with him because of good but olf memories of how he used to be


i can relate SO MUCH to this song, too much even. this song is soooooo beautiful, i mean all her original songs are and a beautiful song sung by dodie clark is all i need in my life hat


Still absolutely love this song.. so you know. 💙💚💛❤ hat


i discovered thsi song 2 years ago and never imagined how much i would relate to this song...


I thought the start sounded a bit like 'the way we were' compliments to carrie and your voice is lovely lovely lovely!!! hat

I know! I was thinking so much of "the way we were"!


I love going through songs dodie wrote before I found her... like finding old memories with a thrifted <b>hat</b>

I love going through songs dodie wrote before I found her... like finding old memories with a thrifted *hat*


Explains how I feel perfectly Dodie thank you


It's been years since you posted this but this and absolutely smitten are still my favorite songs of yours ❤


dodie, you are beyond compare to she with the butterscotch hair <3


I can't stop listening to this song. I am addicted. This is my nicotine. Ily Dodie <3


this is my theme song.
So..
I've been in love with a guy for 3 years but I still can't do anything about it. He's had his first year anniversary with his beautiful girlfriend and I can't help but cry at night because all I think about is what it would be like to hold his hand


Your voice is actually angelic, have an amazing time in LA!!!<br>-A,x

Your voice is actually angelic, have an amazing time in LA!!!
-A,x


Sometimes I’ll just cry to this song <br>I know this will never happen but I would love if dodie would sing this again

Sometimes I’ll just cry to this song
I know this will never happen but I would love if dodie would sing this again


i love the little things she notices and the way she words it like "butterscotch hair" instead of blond or hazel and in her "I was bullied and l was a bully" video she remembers a rainbow back pack and unkept hair instead of her name. Sometimes i wish i could peak into her mind and see what goes on in there.


I love this song as much as I love (and this is a big feat) my favourite hat


I Love the Song, Dodie! It's a real hat!


What sucks is having the pretty boy with butterscotch hair and my "she" being my best friends. Both of them going to me to talk about how they like each other. I can't even do anything about it either, since if I told her, I'd be asking out my best friends crush. I've fell for her a year ago and no matter how hard I try, I can't get over her.

This song definetly got to me...


I’m reading secrets for the mad and I’ve been pulling up each song as they appear. This one made me smile because of its age. Going through each song just reminds me of each moment when I first heard them and how far I’ve come with Dodie and her music being present in my life. Ah Dodie, you always show up just in time.


OMB, Dodie! How do you write such relatable songs? You are one of my reasons for living now, your songs just lift my heart and after a long day I come home and I'll listen to one of the songs and I'll just relax and be truly happy for once in my life.

So from the girl with the midnight hair, thank you for creating your songs, Dodie and please, never ever stop. I love you.

Also, hat.


I like this song so much it makes me want to sit on a couch and cry and wear a big fluffy hat


I love this song so much, I actually fit a hat


I love this song especially the bit with the hat


this hurts very nostalgically and specifically i’m in PAIN


oh this song represents me, I've been looking for a song like this in a long time. I've always wanted to sing about something that happened to me this Valentines day..... hat


omg but imagine, what if she was trying to understand why to this guy liked that girl and then she just found out that she was awesome and fell for her too, so 'she' is, like, for the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair. no? cool.

O K A Y Yeah, have you now got her book?

and Peggy gONE AKABABVS YES NOW TO SEE HOW ELSE DODIE’S SONGS ARE LINKED

When I met dodie at SITC I asked her about my theory that she has a crush on the girl and also the boy in this song and she said that she did


do you realize what a beautiful song youve created. damn


thank's u help inspire me keep it up and u are the best


this is incredibly relatable right now :// like literally word for word, my love life at the moment.

it was the same for me four months ago

sigh

my emotions are still confusing

sometimes it takes forever to find out how you feel


i hadn’t heard this song for about a year and a half and i totally forgot about it. feels like beautiful nostalgia


beautiful song that deserves a big purple bow and a velvet top hat~😋


i've known this song for forever but recently conan's new album came out and this and heather are very similar in topic but kinda different in the ViBeS


This song describes perfectly how I've felt for a while now. Also, you once told me you didn't think you could use a ukulele in a sad song, but I guess you found a way. I'm glad because its beautiful.


Okay, Dodie<3 first of all you are my inspiration i love you SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!! Second of all this song is my boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE IT SO MUCH i want to listen to it all dsy and all night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11


Hi, Dodie! My name is Mya, I have been obsessed with your songs since A Song About A Song. I did a cover to this song on my channel and I was hoping you would check it out? Love you! -Mya


this sounds like it could be in Life is Strange :3

I don't hate you but oh it hurts. <br>How does it feel to be adored by her?

I don't hate you but oh it hurts.
How does it feel to be adored by her?

my friends sister did the voice of max for life is strange!

My sister made a song for Life Is Strange (her channel is Hannah O'Driscoll )

+Ann Garvida (E-ann) Brooke, her name is Brooke XD

+Charlotte Moran there was a girl who (i think) liked Warren, forgot her name tho. She was the one who had the drone? So this song could speak to her XDD

+Ann Garvida (E-ann) It does! I guess it would be either Chloe about Max and Warren or maybe even Max about Rachel Amber and Chloe??


Coming back to this after a year, and back then i never thought it would ever sting. Now it does. And it hit hard.


I dont hate u but oh it stings how does it feel to have an amazing talent like you?


dude she really needs to rerecord this for her second EP


Listening to this while the boy I’ve pined for the last few months is in the room right beside me with another girl who is absolutely gorgeous and so lovely


I can't believe to song ended with the word 'hat'.<br>You can sing so well!

I can't believe to song ended with the word 'hat'.
You can sing so well!


I actually love this song! Tbqh it'll end up being the song on repeat until I get fed up of it aha... Btw... Hat...


Hello, I was wondering if I could have the chords for the ukulele I wanted to do a cover of this :)


man, this song just came up again and it is describing my thoughts right now


i can really relate to this song
i was in love with this boy,  he had the greatest smile and eyes that could make me fall in love harder just by looking into mine.
i almost thought he liked me, but he didnt. and i was okay with that, even though it ached I just wanted the best for him.
the moment I met him he changed my life, and even though it's been 2 years I'll never forget that


I know this was a while ago but I have that same piano! My school band director gave it to me to learn on! You probably have a much nicer one now. I love the song, thank you for making it :)


I really hope she makes this a studio version


i absolutely love this song dodie also do you like hats? :p


This spoke to me deeper than anything... I teared up.


this perfectly describes my situation right now. his girlfriend is amazing. she's lovely and funny and smart and I can't hate her. but I wish I could. <br>smh

this perfectly describes my situation right now. his girlfriend is amazing. she's lovely and funny and smart and I can't hate her. but I wish I could.
smh


ahh this song is so cute and relatable. :) nice hat


2 years ago i sat up crying to this song. now i know what it feels like to be adored by him, and you didnt deserve it at all.


I've never been in a situation like this but the way you sing it and put all your heart into it...I feel it so much. Tears in my eyes...I'm such a shit. But you're amazing and I'm obsessed


it's weird that now 1 year after first hearing this song it doesn't hurt anymore. my best friend introduced me to you and I'm so grateful because you are truly talented and stunning. Love you!!!!!!!


Ahgghhghghhhhh.... This song came into my life at just the right time. I was just in this situation, and sorta still am, but I'm not sure if this song made me sad because of the lyrics, or happy, because I know I'm not the only one out there with the same thing goin on. But since it's doddies voice, its still an awesome song :)


ik I'm a bit late but this song is so sweet. I love it thank you.

Oh and hat


Graceful girl with the waterfall hair,
Your kind-hearted channel is a breath of fresh air,
We hope you see how you make our hearts glow.

And just for you: a hat! {|:p


No one has done a tutorial on this song so please make on💗what’s the plucking pattern


I loved the song sooooo much. I lost my hat.


You have such wonderful taste in music and YouTubers, Dil x3

Dil you are a very active sim....

I mean do you just stalk youtube all day when Dan & Phil are away? Very suspicious...

Dear god no hats, especially not from you

Finally, someone who reads the description.

This is really lovely she has a lovely voice and plays beautifully - it's very pretty I guess is the best way I can describe it.

@Ambika Juneja he gets it from his fathers

Dil you have a wonderful taste in music ;) xxx

weren't you on fall out boy too? man, good taste in music mate (and youtubers :P )


this song would fit perfectly in '13 Reasons Why'


I just got home from prom and this is all I wanted to hear.


I love this song and it makes me want to wear a hat 😉


She's a dreamer and funny and keeps it in and I'm here listening to this sad and stressed about him and numb and letting it out and not close to even beautiful because if I was he'd look here he'd find me but I'm here with just this


You probably get a million comments but I just wanted to let you know that I love all your originals and covers and I'm so thankful that you are so open about your life. I couldn't remember how I found you because it feels like I've been listening forever. But while I was rewatching all your old videos, I decided to watch "She" and saw my comment on it about how I'm going to describe! So now I know :) Thank you for existing. You are inspiring and helpful and beautiful.


It's been years but I still remember this song at some point doing nothing


I often wonder if anyone feels this way about me and my boyfriend. I do sometimes feel bad about how happy we are, especially since several of my friends have never had any kind of romantic relationship


I’m used to be in love with the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair<br>And now she’s with him, the boy that left me

I’m used to be in love with the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
And now she’s with him, the boy that left me


Always coming back to this song even in 2017


I wish this song was on iTunes ;-; touches my heart every time I listen to it...


Yes, the girl with the butterscotch hair is so beautiful. She's absolutely perfect, how her hair neatly falls and her round eyes sparkles and how she walks with her doll-like figure. I have nothing. I shouldn't have compared. I should've given my crush up sooner.


I don't have anything to say but you have a great soul. I love it. Butterscotch. Hat.


It's hard to know that the one you're in love is in love with someone else. I really know how does it feel, but I'm pretty sure that if I had heard this before my feelings would have been completely different, because things have changed and I guess I'm emotionally stable right now, but still hurting anyways, even when now I'm happy with him.


All your original songs have so much feeling, I go through so many emotions listening to them! You really put yourself into every song and I love that. :3


Feels like only yesterday I was crying listening to this song on repeat but now he's with me and adores me more than he ever adored her. I was right, I couldn't compare to her, I'm more important than she ever was to him


To the one, I dedicated "Absolutely Smitten" and "Would you be so kind" to, this is dedicated to you. You're adored by him, but I wish you know how much I once adored you.


This song is so beautiful and so original and so you! hat


This song is the most freaking beautiful thing on the internet hat


This song is beautiful and so relatable, I'm no beautiful girl with butterscotch hair and I don't think many people can say they are... hat


Why can I relate so much to your songs?? It's like they explain my life


Earlier this year I was in the perspective of dodie and now I have a loving girlfriend and I'm the pretty girl :)


this song gave me the chills! I love you dodie <3 hat


Every time I get to another page of song lyrics in the book I go to the song a mixture of the music and the beautiful writing I’m having such a peaceful night


Your such a talented artist and you are an amazing human being and I wish you the best for your life!! Please know that a lot of people love you and that you can do anything and that the world is nothing but a platform for us humans to roam around in and find out purpose. O hope you take this and show people what you can do. I have only been watching your videos for a little while but I think your amazing and I definitely look up to you!!!😋❤💖


WHY ISENT THIS SONG ON SPOTIFY 😭😭 omg if it is i cant find it but i LOVE this song and i swear every song you make is just <br>😙👌🏻✨ chef's kiss✨ AMAZING. Its so sad im only finding this song 6 years later 😂

WHY ISENT THIS SONG ON SPOTIFY 😭😭 omg if it is i cant find it but i LOVE this song and i swear every song you make is just
😙👌🏻✨ chef's kiss✨ AMAZING. Its so sad im only finding this song 6 years later 😂


Tbh I love this song and all your music Hat


I still love this song, and I will end my comment with the word "hat".


Does anyone know where I can find an instrumental for this


I never thought I'd see the day where I related so much to this song

Welp


This song has such a strong emotions that I've associated to it.
I used to be so jealous of this girl because she was with my ex and I remember feeling so resentful and so hollowed.
But then I just became obsessed with her and realized I was bi. so its algud :)


This song is so beautiful! I don't know why, but it reminded me of my favorite hat

+Anna Tanner I was looking for someone else who had red the description! ahahahahat.


Question, is this on Spotify? You probably get this a lot but I must know cause I love this song! ^^


Seriously Dodie this is GOLD. Please do a studio recording!


This made me cry because I really relate to the narrator. Also I got a new hat


Listen to this outside when it's raining. 10/10 recommend


one year after i first listened to this song and it has a totally different meaning now


I love this song even if it's older hat 🎩


it hurts how much i can relate to this song


Can you?? please?? put all of these on Apple Music/spotify/anywhere?? they're so prettyyyyyyyy


If you listen to Absolutely Smitten, This and then one for the road (from the perspective of the pretty girl) you'll fall apart.

My life. I used to listen to Absolutely Smitten all the time while i was in a serious relationship. Then he broke up with me and immediately started dating my close friend. So I listened to this on repeat for weeks. Then came One For The Road and I felt a lot better.

So listen to them as if you're the girl dodie is comparing herself to?

+edenthepotato hehe.. I told you you'd fall apart. (THE FEAR THE FEAR OF FALLNG APARTTTT)

+LilahIsAPotato I'll be sure to check it out, THANK YOU :))

I made a playlist of the whole story if you'd like to listen to it on my channel!


Somehow I feel she is like a sirene of the mythology where on the sea people are attracted to the singing voices


Last time I listened to this song, it stung cause it was exactly my perspective. <br>Now? I’m the one wanting the girl with the butterscotch hair.

Last time I listened to this song, it stung cause it was exactly my perspective.
Now? I’m the one wanting the girl with the butterscotch hair.


This song has changed meaning for my so much over the years , I have switched from the person singing to the person being sung to for a while . Currently I'm the person singing and it's horrible


This song is so blissfully good. I come back to this video often if I want to feel extremely happy and sad, hugged but constricted, like a hat


wowow i didn’t know that a song i’ve known for 2 years would end up being my situation ;-;


For all you be more chill fans out there

Michael as the singer, Jeremy as him and Christine as butterscotch

You're welcome


Reminds me of a certain something that's just in my mind all the time.
It comes in so many colors,
Red
Orange
Brown
And so many shapes
Circular
Square
Crazy tall cylinder
This song... Reminds me of hats


a song that got me through so much in year 7, as so many of your songs did, thank you for helping me all those years ago. She, with helping me realising it's okay to like boys and girls, one for the road to show me one day I will get over things, sick of losing soulmates to show me that it's okay to always think of someone, and this to show me that jealousy isn't awful and you don't have to hate someone. Thank you Dodie ♡


My Pops has that same keyboard, love that sound :')


this is all too real. it hurts my heart when i listen to this song but its so so beautiful. ((: hat.


It stings so much cuz I can totally relate..

I have a 'crush' on this boi in my class, but my bffs only knows that I liked him for one quarter last year, but they don't really know that I still like-like him, ya know?

But, having this stupid anxiety, I am scared of confessing. I act like I hate him, but I don't. I be honest, we have the same interests and likes, it's SO hard to hate him..

Back to the song, me and my bffs think that (I'm going to call her A) he has a crush on A. It was like, signs flashing in my face, but I held my ground, and not broke down then. I was definitely heart-broken, but I refused to show it to others..

We 'ship' them, even though I don't want to, I had to, for the sake of not being revealed. I am considered as the 'strong' one out of all of that, but I'm actually a big softie.. I want to cry, and when I actually do, I cover it up with the 'it's just an act!' act.

It is stupid to think I can compare to A. To be honest, teachers confuse us with each other, since we are both 'asians' and look like sisters. :/

She is also more athletic than me, can run faster than me, smarter than me and him! She's like, the definition of perfect..

Anyone else feels like this? Just me? Okay...

But.. how does it really feel to be adored by him...? I want to know, since I can't..

Thank you for surviving me horrible story this far.. I'm going to cry in my room now.. 😭

MusicalBee everything you said is a depiction of what’s going on with me but a little bit altered.

Oh dang are we living the same life? Yup i have the exact same problem.

I'm sorry this isn't related but

"it stings"
*profile picture is a bee*

I'm sorry this isn't related but

"it stings"
**profile picture is a bee**

So what if she is all of those things! I bet you have so many amazing qualities about you. Love yourself before anyone else❤

you are being strong, you are strong because you have to deal with A and your crush together each day - i couldnt do that...<br>anyway, if he cant see you, then he isnt worth it and there IS someone better xx

you are being strong, you are strong because you have to deal with A and your crush together each day - i couldnt do that...
anyway, if he cant see you, then he isnt worth it and there IS someone better xx

Jerika Kirkpatrick Mora you're good enough for lots of people. There are just some idiots in this world who can't see how amazing you are. One day, they're gonna look back and regret not being your friends.<br>p.s. no one asked but that doesn't mean no one is listening xx

Jerika Kirkpatrick Mora you're good enough for lots of people. There are just some idiots in this world who can't see how amazing you are. One day, they're gonna look back and regret not being your friends.
p.s. no one asked but that doesn't mean no one is listening xx

Don’t worry, youre not alone. One of my friends starting dating my crush. She’s obviously better than me. He got dumped by her and she treated him like trash. We used to be best friends, and I still like hanging out with him but that friend, showed him away and said we didn’t want to be his frieamd to. Screw off to ruin someone else’s life. (He was an amazing boyfriend to her  and I known he never hurt her.) I  tried to keep him as my friend but, ya know! I’m not enough for anyone it seems. : D XD (Sorry, no one asked)

MusicalBee For a time, there was an A in my life too. For me, the guy I liked knew how I felt but dropped me for her. It's funny, cos it hurt so bad for months afterwards, but now I look back at it all and I've realised that if he couldn't see how great I am in my own way, he really didn't deserve my attention in the first place. My A is beautiful, and smart, and has an amazing sense of humor, and so do I, just in a different way. I'm sure it's the same for you. One day, another guy is gonna love you for that, and not pay attention to any other girl. Rejection sucks, even if the other person doesn't know what they've done, but it always gets better ^-^ <br>(I know you wrote this a year ago but I just wanted to share)

MusicalBee For a time, there was an A in my life too. For me, the guy I liked knew how I felt but dropped me for her. It's funny, cos it hurt so bad for months afterwards, but now I look back at it all and I've realised that if he couldn't see how great I am in my own way, he really didn't deserve my attention in the first place. My A is beautiful, and smart, and has an amazing sense of humor, and so do I, just in a different way. I'm sure it's the same for you. One day, another guy is gonna love you for that, and not pay attention to any other girl. Rejection sucks, even if the other person doesn't know what they've done, but it always gets better ^-^
(I know you wrote this a year ago but I just wanted to share)

MusicalBee       I have an A as well. All I can say is... you’ve got to find your own strengths. The things you love to do, the things you think you’re good at, do them more.  You’ll become more confident in yourself and soon A won’t seem so much better than you. Because she’s not, you know. You’re both only human.


I hope that next time I listen to this song, it won't sting. And maybe I'll laugh about it. thank you Dodie. Means a lot.


I really really love adore this song hat


this describes me with every crush ever. literally my life situation


Why are your lyrics so good!!!!!!!!!!!!!?


I really love this 💜 you've got such a beautiful voice, is there anywhere I can buy/download your songs? (Hat🎩👒)

In some of her videos there's a band camp link in the description x


this reminds me of my best friend dating my crush even though she knows I like him and I still do ......... love you Dodie......... hat 😜🎩👒


I can't listen to this song without crying so so much. Yesterday I learned that my ex got back into a relationship with his ex that came before me. There's no song I can relate to more that this one. -hat


Well I reckon the beautiful girl with the chocolate hair is able to compete with the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair ☺☺(yes I'm commenting this years later even though I've known the song for ages!)


when we broke up they ignored me and dated their best friend without telling me anything. currently learning self care and self love. i was so silly. my emotional wounds are still healing but every now and then i tear the scabs a little bit. i don't regret that we met, but i regret that i fell in love too quick and agreed to date without knowing more about them.

i was so eager i agreed, but i feel like i wouldn't experience heartbreak so heavily if i hadn't just said, no, i don't feel ready.

i probably wouldn't have gotten ignored, either. it was my fault. they're right to know i blame myself. i overwhelmed them with so much affection, it probably lost its spark and meaning and uniqueness.

im apathetic, and meeting them gave me so much passion and love and interest... but my only interest was them. now, i don't know what to get into. my hobby is watching youtube, and i like watching mha. thaaat's about it. beside that, i want to forget them, but carry on what i learned, but i don't know how, yet.

no worries, only venting in a sea of comments no one will read at three in the morning, and... that's comforting.


Lovely and relatable song. Well done girly. Really liked the piano :D x


This song was about charlie mcdonnell to me 6 years ago and ..it still is. <b>shrugs,</b>

This song was about charlie mcdonnell to me 6 years ago and ..it still is. *shrugs,*


that little piano thing in the chorus is my new aesthetic


this is like some combination of she and absolutely smitten :0


my girlfriend just left me for my best friend, I couldn't relate to this song before, but now I can, especially since my best friend actually did have butterscotch hair


This song and "She" have been stuck in my head since the first time I listened to them, aka yesterday or the day before!


I love how you can’t tell if she’s talking about being in love with the guy or the girl


So this and helpless from Hamilton are in the same key. Guess what I'm doing when I'm not ill 💞


This songs makes my hurt but I love it :) hat


I love this song as much as I love my favourite hat


this is such a cool song. In other news i got a new hat.

Is it a nice hat? I'm very happy for ya 😊


i’ve liked this guy for what feels like forever but this song feels like my life rn