i always interpret this song as a boyfriend who feels that his best friend is in love with his girlfriend, and he doesn’t really know who’s side he wants to take. “it’s midnight, he’s drunk, and you’re the one in his head” is perhaps the best friend letting it slip that he likes the girlfriend, and the boyfriend sings this.


i fucking love this song it’s so relatable hat


I love this song Dodie so many emotions and musical talent, just a question though... Does the pretty girl a hat?


Breath - taking and oh so beautiful "hat"


came back to this because i can (unfortunately) relate to it now.


this song makes me sad and yet i love it so much pls send help


This is so lovely! I really enjoy your original music. I'll be at VidCon too! I'm SO excited.

Eeeee thank you lovely! I'm sure I'll see you there WOO! <3


I used to listen to this and think about this guy that I was friends with that liked my best friend. now we've been dating for almost 4 years :')


woah i just saw this and i love it😍😍 hat


Dodie, this was beautiful! Not gonna lie, I am crying, you're always able to put what I'm feeling into words in the most amazing way. But honestly, you're a beautiful human being inside and out and I don't doubt that you can get any guy you want!

Hat! XD x

Oh you cutie <3 Thank you so much lovely! <3


came back for a listen after reading that part of secrets for the mad and suddenly im crying


there's this guy I've kinda dated for a couple of months, I adore him, but he has a girlfriend now... this song made me burst into tears


Wow, absolutely beautiful...

And by the way... Hat!


I loved the song so much Dodie! Heheh hat.


You deserve way more subscribers than you have right now. Everyone in the entire world should hear your music


this is so good but now I gotta go get my santa hat


I really really want this to be on an EP. Really badly.


I came to this song after I found out that a guy I liked my friend, it's not a huge deal and I'm only 13 and dramatic but this sums what I'm feeling pretty well. dodie you are a wonderful songwriter and are just adorable! It was beautiful, especially the part about butterscotch hair hat


I cant hold back the tears. Im sobbing. Ive liked this guy for a few months now... Apparently he doesnt want me...


I can so relate to this song my crush had a girlfriend with butterscotch hair! Then they broke up, so he started talking to me, but they got back together... So I wish I was her, he just can't let go I guess. <3


WHEN ARE WE GETTING A FULL ALBUM WITH ADORED BY HIM, SMILE AT SNOW, DEAR HAPPY, SHE, BEANZ, HUMAN, ONE FOR THE ROAD, PAS DE DEUX, DOWN, FRECKLES AND CONSTELLATIONS, LITTLE ROOM, IM BISEXUAL, GOLD STAR FOR ME (WITH CARRIE) AND ALL THE OTHERS OH MY YOU TALENTED BEAN <3


I hate how I’ve found myself relating to this song twice in my life (and it was the same girl both times). It’s not fun comparing yourself to someone especially when you know you shouldn’t. But it’s hard not to in that situation. It hurts when they’re both good people and you can’t hate anyone but yourself no matter how hard you try to make yourself not care about them.


This song makes me cry every time I stg makes me think about someone who is completely unreachable yet I love him... still listen to it like everyday tho 😂😂


How is it that dodie has a song for every one of my moods and feelings


Dodie: says the word hug
Me: but da covid-

remembers this was in 2014

Dodie: *says the word hug*
Me: but da covid-

*remembers this was in 2014*


i have butterscotch hair and an adventurous mind this was a really big coincidence but i love the song you are amazing


GIRL I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER RELATED TO ANYTHING MORE THAN I RELATE TO THIS SONG RN!!!


This song relates to my best friends love situation. Speaking of my friend, today she tried to eat my HAT.


This is how I feel about a friend...but it’s in a platonic way


Ok, so in two different relationships with two guys I care for dearly, in one I'm Dodie and the other I'm the girl with the butterscotch hair 😅


How did I just fall in love with u more even thought this is my 10000000000 tune watching this


This song always reminded me of the soundtrack of the Live is strange 1 game soundtrack. And Dodie is even wearing a shirt with deers on it. Stupid coincidence?


I haven’t needed to listen to this song since seventh grade and I’m a senior now. I think that this feeling just likes coming up when you least expect it.


This is such a great song and your voice is beautiful. <br>Hat.

This is such a great song and your voice is beautiful.
Hat.


Okay this is an old video but I want to rant somewhere. Last year I was going through a really tough time, I was depressed, and dodie helped me through it. I listened to her songs for hours on end, they didn't make me happy exactly, but they made me feel peaceful. Things used to suck, and things still do, but thanks to Dodie things suck a lot less. I just wanted to say thanks.


I loved it and it relates to me also its been so long since you posted this XD hat


It hurts how much I love my music teacher.... And how much he loves his spouce....


I personally love this song! It makes me want to wear a <b>hat</b>

I personally love this song! It makes me want to wear a *hat*


I was singing this song the other day so I decided to comment something about how nice it sounds when you sing it hat.


Dodie, seeing you propelling through life, even with all that's been thrown at you lately, it's quite lovely to see you still creating. It gives hope to all. I've been looking back at all of your videos, and it's completely astonishing to see how much you've grown. You've gotten more real and relatable, out of your shell, even if that means you telling us about your mental health issues. You've become a mental health advocate that has helped all of us. You're truly an inspiration, keep creating, keep swimming love.


I love how we, the viewers, could view this in our eyes and replace "Butterscotch Hair" with any other hair color.

Such as: Raven Black Hair, Strawberry Hair, Chocolate Brown Hair, Bleach Blonde Hair etc.


I just want to know what Love feels like honestly


"I won't hate you,
but, oh, it stings.
How does it feel
To be adored by him?"
The truest lyrics...


the original heather <3 ahh the days of teenage unrequited crushes


Is it bad that I still feel this way although I have someone I dearly love. It hurts that he loved her first.


This was the song of my life SO MANY TIMES!!!! I was listening to the "original songs" playlist and it came on. I was wearing wireless headphones and I had got up to make a salad and when this song came on I litterally just sat down on the stairs and cried into my salad

this is the best and most relatable comment i've ever seen

Apple sauce Er...thats a good replacement for salt?<br>Sorry,not very good at comforting people.

Apple sauce Er...thats a good replacement for salt?
Sorry,not very good at comforting people.

+let's talk that one's going in the treessshhh


Y'all better vote so Dodie can do a livestream and play this!!!


this song reminds me of my old boyfriend. we aren’t together anymore but i still love him. he’s found someone else. it sucks because i used to be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair but now i’m the one wishing i were her


this song reminds me of when my boyfriend fell in love with my sister and how he cheated on me with her...


I'm kind of late, but better late than never, right? Anyway, it's amazing how you can put so much feeling into your songs and say exactly what millions of others are feeling and just my heart melted and yeah hat


your voice makes me feel as if i am floating in a cloud


this is so much like I'm Not That Girl from Wicked and they're both so sad and full of emotion


growing up means listening to this song in a different light each year. This time i understand, i guess love hurts


I use to relate to this sing when my ex and I broke up and a week later he is dating the girl he told me not to worry about lmao


"pretty girl there's no need to fret
Cause it's midnight, he's drunk and you're the one in his head
You don't even have to try at all."

That's exactly right.


This song hits me hard. Seeing so many people that you love and want to be with yet they're with someone else who is so much better than you. hat.


I love you and all your songs so much hat!


I totally forgot about this song. This was the 2nd song I ever discovered by dodie, as soon as I realised I liked her I just added all her music to my library, but of course this song is unreleased so I totally forgot about it. I thought I had all the main songs. I was just scrolling on her channel what with the release of Human and ended up re-discovered this song, and that has made me very happy.<br>We need a studio version of this, just imagine with harmonies and strings and bass etc, it;s making me light headed just thinking about it!

I totally forgot about this song. This was the 2nd song I ever discovered by dodie, as soon as I realised I liked her I just added all her music to my library, but of course this song is unreleased so I totally forgot about it. I thought I had all the main songs. I was just scrolling on her channel what with the release of Human and ended up re-discovered this song, and that has made me very happy.
We need a studio version of this, just imagine with harmonies and strings and bass etc, it;s making me light headed just thinking about it!


I can’t even relate and this makes me an emotional wreck (well more of one than I already was)


It makes me sad how much I relate to this. I recently broke up with my boyfriend but we're still great friends even tho I still very much love him and one of our best friends who moved away has come back (oddly enough she has butterscotch hair) and since she's coming back with her boyfriend, my ex told me that he's loved her since they were kids (childhood friends) and it just tore me up because she already has everything and now she has the first person I think I've loved (yikes, edgy and dark I know) listening to this song makes me sad but also somehow makes me come to terms with it. Thank you dodie ❤


the song that helped me get over a stupid boy that treated me like trash❤


Carrie's video brought me here!!! Love it, such a good song xxxx


This song depicts exactly what is happening with my crush and I rn. rlly good song. hat


PUT THIS ON SPOTIFY PLS IM BEGGING U PLS PLS


fuck, everytime I hear this i bout die ive never related to a song more in my life every line means so much 2 me <\3


Dodie! You should do tutorials on your ukulele/ guitar songs. I don't know about anyone else but that would be ammmaaazzinnngggg


This song is so deep. I love that someone in the world has the voice to capture the emotion I feel every day. It is very realistic to my own life, as the boy I have had a crush on since kindergarten (I'm now in high school) is in a relationship with a girl that's snooty and popular. She only wants him for his looks, as I want him for his humour, talent, and great personality. I made this account so I could make these types of comments without feeling subconscious that he would find out about my feelings for him. Even though I am going through my own things in my own life, I hope that everyone is having a much better life than me at the moment and that everyone is with their own crush because they actually had the courage to tell their crush that they like them.


Pretty girl, with the butterscotch hair
Your eyes in the sun shine, smile you wear
I can see, how you make his soul glow

Pretty girl, with the adventurous mind,
You envision so much you make me look blind
You spark his life, in ways I’ll never know

And I won’t hate you,
But oh it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him

And I won’t hate you,
But oh it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him

(—mmmmmm , Himmmmmm)

Pretty girl, there’s no need to fret
Cause it’s midnight
He’s drunk
And you’re the one in his head,
You don’t even have to try, at all

Pretty girl, oh he looks at you
As if life is perfect, and the world is new
In those moments, I just feel so small

And I won’t hate you,
But oh it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him

And I won’t hate you,
But oh it stings
How does it feel to be adored by him

(—mmmmmm , Himmmmmm)

How stupid to think,
That I could compare
To the pretty girl, with the butterscotch hair

Yes how stupid to think,
That I could compare
To the pretty girl, with the butterscotch hair

And I won’t hate you
But oh it stings
How does it feel, to be adored by him

And I won’t hate you
But oh it stings
How does it feel, to be adored by him

And I won’t hate you
But oh it stings
How does it feel, to be adored by him

(—mmmmmm , Himmmmmm, Himmmmmm)

(Yes I know she includes the lyrics in the description but it doesn’t have all the repeated lyrics so I just wanted them for me to use and for anyone else who wants them) hat


To everyone singing this song to themselves. Trust me. You are the girl with the butterscotch hair to someone. I promise.
I had a crush on a boy (we’ll call him Robbie) for a long time. 2 years. Over that time, Robbie had a crush on 4 of my friends at different times. 4. And yet not me.
I was constantly thinking why? why not me? 3 out of the 4 of the friends he liked didn’t even like him back, so why couldn’t he just like me?

Then a different boy came along. We’ll call him James. I knew one of my friends liked James. But... he liked me. But I didn’t like him, and he didn’t like my friend. So i became both the girl singing the song (with Robbie and my friends) and the girl with the butterscotch hair (with James and my other friend).
But, you know, I felt awful that James liked me and not my friend. I didn’t want to hurt her, so i tried to make him not like me. It worked eventually, or maybe the feelings just faded, but I saw how upset my friend was over him all the time, and i didn’t want him to like me.

So trust me. even if right now, it doesn’t feel like you are that girl, you are. I promise.

You are the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair to someone. you always will be.


i have been listening to this song for months , wondering and hoping it would never relate to me . now , my best friend likes the only guy in our friend group (basically, my best guy friend) and I'm 98% sure he likes her back . he says he does , but when we ask him if he actually does , he avoids it . anyways , I've completely fallen for him but he doesn't know and she doesn't know and I know it will never go anywhere . All I think about is him and telling him .


you should give more insight of what your beautiful songs mean


Someone put this as Hermione Granger singing about Lavender brown and now I can’t unconnect the two


Now, is this about a girl liking a boy who is already taken or...a girl being in a relationship with a boy but knowing that he likes someone else?

interesting, i always interpreted it as girl #1 watching from a far while  girl #2  has girl #1's crush wrapped around her finger even if she doesn't try.

For some reason I've always felt like it was more.
It's about a girl who was with a boy, but then that ended and now he's with somebody else.
I feel like most people's interpretations are like what they relate to the most so idk.

wow im late but i see it as dodie befriending a boy who she's fallen in love with, and the boy finds another girl to fawn over instead of dodie. maybe its just because im going through this but whatever.

+BadKittyKat Love i love that so much omg

I've always thought that this song was about a girl who's in a relationship with a guy and she's changed things about her and now the guy misses the old her instead...

I've always thought it was about 3 single people: 2 girls and 1 boy. And (dodie) likes the boy but the boy likes the butterscotch hair girl who is oblivious about him liking her 💕😋

Or a boy liking a boy who's in a relationship with a girl?

Or a girl liking a girl who is in a relationship with a boy

this comment made my heart completely sink tbh


I have slowly been binge watching your videos from recent to here and you SLAY LIFE Can I be you and what's your hogwarts house


I started liking this guy and my life was absolute bliss. I might have fallen a little too hard because it's been a year since he's started ignoring me and I still cry sometimes. When that tough time came around and he just seemed to forget I even existed, I remember even the sunniest days seemed so grey. This is when my depression really started to show itself. I didn't see a point in living idk lol. I remember I listened to this song on repeat not knowing how fucking true it would get. He has a really pretty girlfriend now. One who isn't socially awkward. Like a few months ago I was taking my friends to denny's and tehy were going on about how pretty she was and I kinda burst out crying. I have never been more embarrassed lol. It rly hurt my feelings lol A year later and I'm still depressed what the fuck lol I have therapy and pills and stuff now but whaterya gonna do y'know


This song is really good! I really like it hat.


this song was all i listened to 2 years ago and it's an all around weird and bittersweet feeling to listen to it again when i'm in-fact with the person i cried about listening to this song. sometimes the girl with butterscotch hair isn't perfect


aahh how does it feel to be adored by her boy  whom my crush has a crush on


This song is literally my current situation 🙄


I just loved song Dodie! Also I'm currently wearing a hat

(Read the description of the video)

I just loved song Dodie! Also I'm currently wearing a *hat*

(Read the description of the video)


I was recently reminded of this song and wow it stings


I think I have a fan girl crush on Dodie....I knew this day would come....felt it from the start XD

As soon as I first saw her videos, the hardcore crushing began.


This song would be good for a musical (hat)


Can someone please explain the picking please ❤❤❤


I loved this song sooo much!! Like my hat? 🎩


I relate so much, it's comforting to see how many people do too. What does she have that I don't?


muito triste q nao posso ouvir no SPOTFY


i feel like this is honestly written from dan's perspective to ashley on the book on wattpad cuddle buddy


I love all your songs aaaahh most of them are so relatable and calming! hat


i love the bow on your guitar its a nice touch

katlyn lundberg its a ukelele  : ) not hating just telling!


I'M SORRY, BUT THIS SONGS REMINDS ME OF BMC! THE ONE SINGING IS MICHAEL, THE GIRL IS CHRISTINE, AND THE BOY IS, OBVIOUSLY, JEREMY. I WANNA MAKE AN ANIMATIC OF THIS, BUT MY ART IS BAD. SOMEONE PLEASE MAKE AN ANIMATIC OF THIS PLEASE!!!


Still listening to this every single day and still getting sad cuz I messed up my chance of being the girl with the butterscotch hair


the first time I listened to this, I liked the tune, but the lyrics didn't mean much to me. listening to it now, it's a completely different experience. it's been almost a full year and it still hurts to think about him :'(


I just want to know genuinely, how do you write songs?


wow, this song describes my love life. ughh im sad and lonely. hehe


Your voice is so beautiful! It's just like milk and honey and rainbows and butterflies and unicorns and flower crowns!!


when your boy crush has a crush on you too but you're in love with a girl so damn it


I can NOT figure out how to strum like that. Someone help me ):

Sydneynope Its not strumming, its fingerpicking


I loved this so much omg! Reminds me of my favourite hat! <33

I think that's a wonderful thing to be reminded of! :D


Haha I love this song❤ I have a friend. Shes a great friend she doesn't know who I like tho.. And they talk a lot I can tell he likes her its kinda obvious and I try not to hate my friend... I don't hate her its just hard


I rewatched the perks of being a wallflower the other day and I realise that this song is most definitely about Mary-Elizabeth singing to Sam about Charlie. Duh


Songs for when you're the girl with the butterscotch hair? 3:


You're so adorable and your music gives me goosebumps.


Dear Max,<br>How does it feel to be adored by you? I see you with that girl that doesn't like you back and it stings because I love you but you treat me like your little sister.

Dear Max,
How does it feel to be adored by you? I see you with that girl that doesn't like you back and it stings because I love you but you treat me like your little sister.


my boyfriend of 16 months left me for someone else, and this song makes me so emotional right now (lol like it didn’t anyway)


I love this song and I'm a single Pringle so this kinda makes me sad but I love this song too much. Hat


Imagine this but in ASMR version omf (like her reading the lyrics)


For all of y'all being upset. It does get better :)


This song is really cool! I like the hat.


heno i need the chords what dodie uses :))


I wish the world had more people that understand everything happening in people life's and not judging them for it...the world would be a better place, like because I'm a guy and I love to listen to her I don't want to be judged for it like I usually am, a boy can dream <b>sigh</b>

I wish the world had more people that understand everything happening in people life's and not judging them for it...the world would be a better place, like because I'm a guy and I love to listen to her I don't want to be judged for it like I usually am, a boy can dream *sigh*


I relate so much. Wish I were the girl with the butterscotch hair... But it has to be my friend and it hurts me just so much every day :(


Well
I think I took this a different way at first. The girl that sings the song is in love with the girl with the butterscotch hair but she loves the boy-

So

Hi I'm ga-


The song works with a lot of dynamics. Someone singing to the girl, jealous of her boyfriend. In this case the line "how does it feel to be adored by him?" Is asking is there something special about him that I couldn't give you? Or, it's longing for the boy, jealous of the girl. The line "how does it feel to be adored by him" is then I want to know what his adoration feels like first hand.


I’ve liked him for three years. Everything feels better when he’s around. He’s with someone else, and they don’t even seem that into each other. He’s also very aware of my feelings...


this is a great song

i don't know what to say, i just want to end the comment with the word "hat"


This hits me so hard... my crush recently told me about his crush, this song explains how I feel SO SO much rn! I mean, the girl he has a crush on even has natural butterscotch coloured hair!! Fml


Saved this a while back because its a really pretty song. Came back because i finally can relate.


As Nico stared from afar holding on to his new instrument that made quiet small sounds and slowly sighed "But I won't hate you, but oh it stings, how does it feel to be adored by him..." he sang looking at Percy and Annabeth whilst a tear escaped from his tired dark eyes... understanding that he'll never be with the person he loves...

Halo! I'm just gonna leave this lil cannon here :3 have a nice day with feels. ;)

HerviPie this killed me just a little bit

I now have to go look at Solangelo fan art to feel better...

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO MY SOUL

I FEEL GUILTY SHIPPING PERCABETH NOW

@Flower Princess Ahahahah I don't try to be evil ahahah XD

You have just made everyone so sad. You wonderful, yet evil person!

@Francisco Hidalgo<br>i will heal your heart. :3 ty v much

@Francisco Hidalgo
i will heal your heart. :3 ty v much

wow... i honestly didn't think someone anyone would be able to read this omg ty v much :D

Oh wow thanks I didn't need my heart anyways. but nico has will now ty v much

I just read this and the feels immediately hit my like a truck so ty v much


this is so relatable. youve got a nice hat


This used to be me but now I have the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair and I'm way happier with here then I could be with him


ive liked a guy since 2nd grade and it's now 7th grade and everyone started liking him out of the blue and i thought i should just get it off my chest so i did and all of my best friend's like him and i know i can't compare and now the craze has kinda died down and only like 3 people like him but i just told him to forget about how i felt about him and that we were just friends and i went to one of my best friend's houses yesterday and he only texted me because he knew i was with her and he doesn't know i still really really like him and the girl has this golden blonde hair and she doesn't have to try at all to be  flawless and it just kills me because they both like eachother and i thought i was ok this week and i just kinda felt okay and i just bottled it back up and now i heard this and i just don't know any more. ive bawled my eyes out.

Cry Official :D thanks, I might update if any drama goes down

Cute lil bee I was in the same situation as you. I told her and we stayed close, but now we’re not friends anymore because she chose to be a bully to one of my close friends. I hope everything works out x

Shit, I’m in year 7 and I have a huge crush on a straight girl.... I told her yesterday over text... I think we’re still friends but I’m not sure..

Erin B it’s ok, relationships don’t usually last forever anyway. You’ll get a chance one day

Random 101 it’s ok to be confused, boyfriends and girlfriends are hard. they’re confusing to everyone. if you really love your boyfriend then stay with him. don’t let the guy that still likes you get to you too much, and just think about the girl. i mean, do what’s best for you.

So last year me and a guy kinda had a thing but nothing official. Now I have a bf and he’s told me he still likes me so I’m like idk what to do but like I love my bf but I also think I might b in love with a girl and it’s too confusing for me and I don’t like it. But I hate myself for liking this girl because she left me alone and like idk what to do

It's been one year, please tell us what has happened

Im sorry to here that, stay strong!! It will get better, just hold on. If you can, reach out, friends, family, or a hotline. Never think that by speaking up you are being a problem, most people would be happy that you are strong enough to do so. I would know, it doesnt always work (cause some people are jerks) but when it does, everything gets better (I know from Personal experience) if no one else does, just know that i believe in you!! ❤

Cerys Thomas sad part about it is it's still going on

its ok to cry, i'm so sorry you had to go through that :(

I likeu Hamburger yeah, but it's helpful, thanks

You shouldn't be afraid to tell your friend, like I said before, if they don't understand how you feel and accept that, they're not meant to be your friend. If your crush likes him, GO FOR IT, just tell your friend and ask for their permission first, because if you don't it could seriously effect your friendship, and possibly the relationship with the dude. If they say no, they're not the best friend you think they are. They should always be supportive, and I feel you should confront them about that. But then again, I am a Youtube rando in the comment section on a music video

I likeu Hamburger I'm actually quite scared to tell my friend that I like him too, and my crush actually would like me if he didn't like my friend

You're not a bad friend for liking him. Obviously you guys have similar interests, but I don't think you're wrong for liking him. You don't have to keep it bottled up. I think you should consider telling your friend, and if she doesn't get it, then she's not worth being your friend. If your crush doesn't like you back, he's DEFINITELY not worth your tears.

Erin B I'm in that same position rn, I hate it cause I want to like this one guy and he's with my friend which happens to have "butterscotch hair", I almost cry every time I hear this song

I likeu Hamburger That's genuinely sweet advice

It'll be okay. I liked this guy for a year (I had only known him that long) and like three of my best friends did too, so I didn't tell them, because I didn't want silly sympathy or empathy, so I kept it to myself. I gave him dating tips to learn how to ask out my BEST friend. She didn't know I liked him either. They dated for like a week and broke up after he chased her for a year. She made the decision, and I felt bad, but I'm over it now. You'll grow to love yourself more than anyone else, and you'll learn you don't need anyone else to be happy. Me and the guy and friends now, and he never knew, and I'm perfectly fine like that. Some dudes are better as friends than boyfriends..Well, <b>most</b> dudes.

It'll be okay. I liked this guy for a year (I had only known him that long) and like three of my best friends did too, so I didn't tell them, because I didn't want silly sympathy or empathy, so I kept it to myself. I gave him dating tips to learn how to ask out my BEST friend. She didn't know I liked him either. They dated for like a week and broke up after he chased her for a year. She made the decision, and I felt bad, but I'm over it now. You'll grow to love yourself more than anyone else, and you'll learn you don't need anyone else to be happy. Me and the guy and friends now, and he never knew, and I'm perfectly fine like that. Some dudes are better as friends than boyfriends..Well, *most* dudes.

I liked this guy for 6th through eighth grade (it started when I met him) and all three of my best friends liked him and some of my other classmates did too, and one of my friends claimed that she liked him the longest and knew that I was going to ask him to the St. Patrick’s Day dance, but she was quick and asked him first. I thought I was in love with him. It might take awhile, but eventually you’ll look back and think of how naive you were. None of this will matter in a few years.

Hannah Grace I know your comment was 4 months ago but how would u have done things different, if you could

Same thing happened to me and then i ended up dating him for four days before i felt silly and we broke up with eachother but we're still friends and i had a crush on this other kid but then i was turned down in a way but sometimes you cant let the silly men get to you love. ❤ you've gone your whole life eithout needing him so why not be a free woman

i like how this paragraph is just 2 sentences

Don’t worry. Patience is one of the hardest things about love. But it’ll come around. We’ve just gotta be patient

Hannah Grace If he would do something like that, he probably didn’t deserve it anyway. But good luck ❤ Hope it all works out for you

You poor thing. This actually makes me want to cry even though I've never really known love


This song embodies how I feel... introduced my best friend to my crush. He fell in love with her.. now im just... a third wheel when we hangout...


I used to be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair. Then, my girlfriend moved on and replaced me. We dated for a year. We broke up because we fought too often. 2 weeks after our break up she finds a new girl and says she already loves her more than she's ever loved me.


this is soooo relatable right now,.  i like this guy who's dating one of my best friends. he loves her, a lot. a whole lot. and she loves him. and i love seeing my friend and him hapoy but it's left me broken hearted... she's so lucky.


this instantly reminds me of your lie in April


Oh man... This song... I relate to this on so many levels..


I really like this song. You should have merch, like maybe a hat.

That was pretty smooth if I do say so myself.


I JUST SPENT LIKE FIVE HUNDRED YEARS searching for it’s midnight I’m drunk and you’re in my head and I couldn’t figure out if those lyrics were right and I KNEW IT WAS A DODIE SONG AND I FOUND IT...!!!!!!


i really do love this song dodie. i think it could fit well if you would've worn a hat..... hat.


If you listen to Absolutely Smitten, She and then this, you might go on an emotional roller coaster

Not really, but it makes for an interesting story


Yeah how does it feel to be adored by him? And I never got the same......:(


"I won't hate you
But oh, it hurts
How does it feel
To be adored by her"

Also, hat


around this time last year i rewrote this song to adored by her. now the girl i loved is the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair. life changes, huh?


O HH H HH HMY GOD I'VE FOUND THE PERFECT SONG FOR MY ORIGINAL CHARACTERS (spoiler alert: it's this song)


Hey, I'm from 2016, little you is so adorable) The song is really touching)


This song is to much feels... I had that massive crush on my best friend for 1 year and he knew but wasn't attracted. The he met my best friend at my new year's party and felt deeply for her. Wasn't the first time she attracted one of my crush but this one was more intense.  I lost it and felt into depression, couldn't stand be in the same room of him or even hear about him without crying. After a 7month therapy I'm better but we don't talk anymore and even now when stuffs remind me of him it hurts so much....


I really like this song Dodie! I kinda wish you wore your hat.


Honestly even know I love listening to this song and watching the video, oh and also I have a rather funny looking hat

;0 I read till the end lol


Why does this completely relate to my life rn


I can't believe this is 6 years old and I still relate


you're not a fish doodie you're a really pretty and amazing and talented mermaid! love the song!((:


i changed the “pretty girl” to handsome boy and the “him” to her because my mom has bipolar and because of her abuse towards me, i have to leave to live with my dad. the “handsome boy” in my story is my brother. she loves him more than she could ever love me.


just found out the guy I've had a crush on for a year has a gf...so rip me, this song is my favorite rn


Going back to songs I use to listen to as a kid lol. Was thinking of some dude back then and awkward enough thinking of him now since we have same classes together now. He likes someone else but at least I had the guts to talk to him and become his friend. 6th grade me is QUACKING


May I ask, what strumming pattern, or fingerpicking pattern, did you use for this song? Hat.


I'm a person who has alot of doubt in relationships, there's a girl who he liked before we got together, and I'm always so worried he still likes her, and everything about her is better Than me and I always feel as though he adores her not me and yeah,  it stings to think about. I know in reality it's not true and he's amazing but it just hurts to think about her

i think it was more her i didn't trust rather than him, but now i have learnt to to deal with it, i trust him completely and just try not to think about her. but thankyou for the advice, its still helpfull haha

Mags H i'm in the same situation as you, and I understand. But remember that we've got to trust the person, and that it's okay to have doubts but don't let it consume you.

+Alanna Bailey I'm the exact same, it's so nice to know I'm not the only person who feels like this

+Mags H and the worst part is, I'm really insecure so I never feel like I'm enough or that I make him happy so I actually think that might be the case

+Alanna Bailey it makes me cry too, i know in reality it's not true but I still believe it

You just described my current situation. That's why this song made me cry 😂

that happened to me also,he liked my best friend before dating me,he told me I had nothing to worry about because I was his and he was mine.


hey. does anyone know what chords these are?


I'm emotional so I'm sharing a story:

The first time that I ever felt extremely strong feelings was with this one person. They made me feel alive and wonderful and gave me so much confusing emotions.

I was falling for him, hard. Until I found out he was only leading me on. Of course, I have some fault in it, for being so blind.

He liked my friend, and now they're dating. All bad blood have been cleared, but there is still aches whenever I see them together.

I don't have any feelings for him anymore, but there's still moments where I think about times where it wasn't a lie.

Which led me to this video, lol.


This is like one of my all time favourite songs oh my life <3


Como te observei crecer, aprendín moito sobre o amor. Me diste tanto adorar na vida.


I used to listen to this song and think "wow how pretty" but as an outsider because I never thought it was going to happen to me. So now I'm just sad and exhausted and it hurts


Can anyone post the notes to the little piano bit after the chorus? I've been trying to get it right for hours and I'm going to lose it soon, lol. Thank you!


I relate to the speaker I'm crying this is beautiful ah grammar ; hat


Dodie, you're so talented. It's for people like you that I wish I was business minded enough to own a record label so talent like yours could be shared, appreciated, but not exploited.

Seriously though, gorgeous song!


I feel like that my boyfriend adores my friend more than he does for me . I wish I was the girl with the butterscotch hair. 😔😔


I never related to this song more then now


Ya know, for me personally this song is about a boy being jealous of a girls position of girlfriend with a boy he likes. That could also just be because I’m bi but also music is subjective and everyone has a different reason they love this song


the uke music in this sound alot like the stuff life is strange

+Michiko Tadashi she's secretly life is strange Stan #1

+Josh Richards All Dodie's original songs could fit in. We all need Life Is Strange 2, and Dodie should record, like, ,the entire soundtrack.

the life is strange soundtrack is my favourite soundtrack. this could fit perfectly with it

Omfg most of her songs are a perfect fit for Life is Strange's soundtrack


I didnt relate but i just started bawling my eyes, hat.


I wish I would have found this channel earlier...


Just the ukulele part sounds like the song from Life Is Strange.

omg it does!! (I'm a bit at listening to her song I only found her channel yesterday)

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku) "adventurous mind" "spark his live in ways i'll never know" rewind powers :00) "cause it's midnight, hes drunk and you're the one in his head" (the end of the world party) "he looks at you<br>as if life is perfect cause the world is new" REWIND POWERS,, END OF THE WORLD PARTY.... ANYONE ELSE MAKING THESE CONNECTIONS????

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku) "adventurous mind" "spark his live in ways i'll never know" rewind powers :00) "cause it's midnight, hes drunk and you're the one in his head" (the end of the world party) "he looks at you
as if life is perfect cause the world is new" REWIND POWERS,, END OF THE WORLD PARTY.... ANYONE ELSE MAKING THESE CONNECTIONS????

Aye, that scene with Chloe and Max is my favourite <3

@TotalTopHat Awesome I didn't know the name of the song.

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku) <br>I think the song you mean is 'Lua' by Bright Eyes, a wonderful song! I would so love to hear our dear ol' Dodes do a cover of it! <3

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku)
I think the song you mean is 'Lua' by Bright Eyes, a wonderful song! I would so love to hear our dear ol' Dodes do a cover of it! <3

SAME AND I IMAGINED BROOKE SINGING THIS TO MAX ABOUT WARREN

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku) I THOUGHT THE SAME THING!!

+Tainn Sumrall (ShingetsuTheOtaku) that's so true! i was thinking the same thing.

@Tainn Sumrall I was thinking the same thing!!!!

@Tainn Sumrall Plus you just happened to wear a shirt with deer on it...


How I'm feeling right now, beautiful song <3


i just found out the guy i dated (my first boyfriend & kiss) was in love with this other girl the whole time when he was telling me he only thought of me and stuff was head over heels for this girl and ive never felt this song more. but i also flippin haTE THIS GUY NOW LIKE UGH.


+Amanda the Bear CARRIE HAS ITS WONDERFUL

Like a modern Le Mis. This song would be so perfect for Eponine.

+charlotte higgs she did a couple of months ago, with Celinde

My mind just got blown. It's perfect for Eponine holy crap


i relate so hard. i really liked this guy and then one day he pulled me over and i got so excited and then he told me he liked my best friend and asked if i could hook them up...


This song makes me feel pretty uhhhh h a t


It hurts most when you know that no matter what you never even have a chance because that person  doesn't like your gender.... 'She' brings out the feels the most.

Hat


the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair = the original heather


For me there is no girl with the butterscotch hair it's just him and me, I told my friends about my crush and they kept teasing me and trying to get me with him, but of course he doesn't like me. One of my friends asked him and he said no. They keep trying anyways. I always wondered how it feels to be adored by him.


I feel like my stomach is caving in on itself when I listen to this song. it is so beautiful, man I am determined to learn this. also, hat.


YOU SHOULD DO AN UPDATE ON THIS SONG PLEASE


Not sure if it helps to keep listening to this or not, maybe until it feels less painfully relateble, got to feel it and then get over it haha


Only discovered this today through a friend, but relating hard to this song but it's so beautiful, can't help but smile through the sadness when I listen:) hat. Xox


i used to listen to this song sobbing in 7th grade- i just wanna give me 5 years ago a hug and tell her that she's gonna laugh at his pathetic self, that he's gonna come crawling back, and that she's gonna have the satisfaction of turning him down in due time.


THATS RIGHT. THE ALGORITHM KNOWS WHAT IM HERE FOR. THIS SHOWED UP ON ITS OWN.  HI DODIE!


My god I miss that one guy. He was so flamboyant, and elegant. Sure, he was very energetic, but he was beautiful. He had the most beautiful blonde chin length hair. A-and his smile! It was so calming and made me feel safe. My god it felt terrible when he said he had a girlfriend, and when he said he hated me.


MY GIRLFRIEND SENT ME THIS VIDEO AND TELL ME THATS HOW SHE FEELS RN mY fEeLs HeLp I lOvE yOu ToO aAaAaA


I loved this song so much!!!  and i love my favorite hat?? (i needed to end the sentence with hat)


this song hits me because i feel exactly like this whenever i see the girl my boyfriend was supposed to go out with a date.. yes he did go out with me in the end but "she's a pretty girl with shared interests with my boyfriend" which makes me feel a less of a person.. thanks dodie for this.. hats Xx


this is the "Heather" by Conan Gray of 2014


When your bestfriend, whom you've had a crush on for virtually all your life , dates your other female bff


i identify with this song so much, like so much x


Dodie 6 years later and this hurts so much more


i never get old of your video dodie. i love watching there over AMD over again 💙🌻 also...HAT


OMG SERIOUSLY! Someone needs to sign a petition for Dodie to be a Disney Princess!


I have never related to this song so much


Lmao, I was using scotch tape to “laminate” my homemade bookmark while listening to this.
smH
Almost forgot
Hat


I perceive this song in three different ways:
The first way is that she is jealous that her crush likes the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair.

The second way is that she is looking back on her past self reminiscing in how happy she used to make him but it's all different now. She wishes she was still the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair.

And the third is that she has a crush on this girl but she is straight and she likes this other guy. Dodie wishes that she had the relationship that her crush has with this guy. she wishes that she was adored by the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair as she is adored by him..

lol tell me what you thought cuz yeah~


Chords anyone?? I just bought a uke and really want to try this out!

NH.-B in case anyone is still interested... I don't know how the chords are called but I kinda figured out the tabs so here we go. You never use the g string by  the way so I will only write the other three strings
For intro and verse there are two chords, let's call them a and b for now:
   a     b
A 3    0
E 1    1
C 2    0

In the chorus you use three new chords, c, d and e, and b in the end, so it goes c d e b
    c    d      e      b
A 3    1      1      0
E 3    1      3      1
C 3    2      2      0

Now there is the bridge left with one new chord, f. The progression is f d b.
    f      d        b
A 6     1        0
E 3     1        1
C 3     2        0

Just to avoid confusion: the way I call the chords has nothing to do with how they are actually called

So that's about it


I love the song, but I know really want butterscotch


Last year, I was the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair. But now, I'm the person talking


Oh nothing like a 10pm dodie listening session before time for bed.


Any chance you'll ever do a tutorial on how to play this? I'd love to know how to :)x


I relate on a personal level

Funny story, pretty girl with the butterscotch hair actually dumped him then he chose me owo


ive cried to this song many times. maybe too many, but i can’t help but smile at how those problems seem so distant now. although this may seem insurmountable now, someday it’ll be over. we all move on.


I don't see any comments that end in the word hat... I don't mind, but I love your songs and you Dodie... I love what you write and how you sound... hat...

Violet Way look for recent comments, mine has the word hat


It's going to hurt so much when this is going to be what I think of when he moves on and finds another... 4 years and things fell apart... I'm going to miss being the one he adored...


pretty girl with dark brown hair
your smiles so bright im so in dispair
i cant help but to be happy for you

i wont hate you
you dont need anyone
but you sure are
adored by everyone

(i just wanted to add a tinsy bit to this lovely song i i can and make it fit dodie because she is awesome, also im v v jealous. Much talent, such voice.)


I actually related to this, I like this guy who liked an actual butterscotch haired girl. I love this song so much. Hat.


Carrie brought me here. Dear god am i happy she did. This song is beautiful.


So many Reyna vibes...

(The Reyna from Heroes of Olympus.)

Pretty girl with the butterscotch hair
Your eyes and the sunshine smile you wear
I can see how you make his soul glow

Pretty girl with the charm-speak of yours,
you envision so much you make me look blind
You spark his life in ways I'll never know

I won't hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by him

pretty girl there's no need to fret
Cause he has amnesia by Juno, fighting monsters, and you're the one in his head
You don't even have to try at all.

 pretty girl oh he looks at you
as if life is perfect cause the world is new
In those moments I just feel so small.

I won't hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by him

how stupid to think
that I could compare
to the pretty girl
with the kaleidoscope eyes.

Yes, so stupid to think
That Aphrodite was wrong,
and I could have
a happy ending.

But I won't hate you
though it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by them

And I won't hate you
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by them


I love you Doooodddiiieeeeeee!!!! 😍♥ Hat.


change the pronouns from him to her for the gay girls here and lets cry together.

and i wont hate you, but oh it burns, how does it feel to be adored by her?

Live the bi life where you're like I don't hate you...cause your pretty fit and I see why he adores you

and to make it rhyme, sing "hurts" instead of "stings"

Ok am I the only like Harry Potter fan here who is like omfg it's Dobby omfg omfg do you see him yasssss Dobby om please let me have an autograph haha cuz it's just like om Dobby and did anyone look at Dobby and be like I've watched all the movies read all the books it does to say he or she so I'm guessing Dobby is like transgender or something

Dobby I'm pan but I love girls most it doesn't matter what kind but I do occasionally like boys any kind SOOO yea les cry and I will comfort you

I'm Bi, but I think I'm in love with this girl, but she's straight :,,)

I had no idea you were a gay girl, Dobby.

+Darian Ozment but there is the one lyric that says "how stupid to think, that i could compare to the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair" idk tho...??

I think this song can be viewed in two different ways. when I first heard it i originally thought she was talking about a girl that she liked but that girl was in a relationship with a dude, idk lol just my thoughts

I love it how all of the people in this comment section are all lgbtqia+ people. And It doesn't have one single mean comment. I have faith in humanity :)

Them actually works pretty well in place for him as a gender neutral solution

AHA IM BI AND CHANGING THE PRONOUN LITERALLY DESCRIBES THE SITUATION IM IN ORZ yes let's all cry together </3

Lol both versions work for me cause I'm bi

Leave the pronouns for the gay boy here )': let's cry alone

I won't hate you
But how it hurts
How does it feel
To be adored by her...

For straight guys, it works too...


this stings. to this day. in a whole new way :/


One of my old crushes turned around to me in French class and was like “is ‘so and so’ in your class?” And I was like “yeah” and he said “she’s really hot” “yeah ino “ 😂. I don’t fancy him anymore but I just thought that was funny (I feel so loved).


i relate to this song so much... if "pretty girl" is pretty boy and "him" is "her"


I can relate to the song... Liking a guy for 4 years and now he's dating my best friend, that's my experience


i'm both singing this and the girl with the butterscotch hair and it really hurts


My crush found out I liked him. We were able to stay friends after a couple awkward weeks. But he began dating this other girl. They kissed today and I was just feeling really...alone.


Why is this so relatable, I'm young but I do like this guy but I know he doesn't like me as much as my friend, she's beautiful, she's creative they walk with us when she's around, it's her he likes and this song just explains feelings I have, Tha k you Dodie I love your music


The song was Amazing aaaa the feelsss;;; lol hat


This song resonates with me entirely with people who I've liked for the past years. It sucks when you have a big crush on guy who is younger and has a girlfriend who is 10x prettier than I am entirely. She seems sweet for me not to hate her, but I wish I was the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair to him. I wish i could have his attention all day and for him to feel the same. Oh, how these thoughts will never come true. ♡


I related to this song when I was 15. And now I’m 18 and I don’t relate anymore. It’s still lovely to come back and see my frame of mind at the time though and know I’ve moved on.


i’ve recently gotten a crush on this kid for maybe four months and literally two months after i started, one of his closest friends (and mine also) told me that he liked him too. so... knowing they’ve known each other longer, and its more likely my crush likes him more... haha.


The worst thing is having conversations with him while he goes on and on about her.<br>I have to smile and nod

The worst thing is having conversations with him while he goes on and on about her.
I have to smile and nod


Sigh....it’s been over a year An this song still hits me hard....especially since I still have a crush on the guy and he’s into my best friend....why must life hate me so?

Turns out that he kissed her this week and she’s coming to me for help....


im legit the one with the butterscotch hair and im like 'pretty girl with the... hair. how does it feel to be adored by himmmmmmmm?'


'you envision so much, you make me look blind'... There's a girl at my school who I admire so much and she's so creative and amazing and everyone else is like "No, you're amazing" to me and I look behind me to see if that girl is behind me and the person is talking to her instead. There's no boy involved... I suppose I just can't become as good as her.


I just realised, those 2 chords are the themesong from Life is Strange. So theoretically, Life is Strange stole from you haha


I recently lost my crush to a girl with butterscotch hair


I can barely hear her voice, it's too soft 😕


I listened to this when it first came out 4 years ago and it didn't mean anything back then. There was no pretty girl. There was only him, the boy that i liked. I told myself it's better if he has a pretty girl that he adores, so that i have a reason to why he doesn't even look at me. But he just really doesn't like me.<br>Now listening to this again, there is a pretty girl. She's everything and i could never compare. The boy i love can't get her out of his mind. I'll guess i'll just sit in the corner, looking at him look at her, wishing it had been me instead. If i could take back my words, i would never wish for a pretty girl as an excuse.

I listened to this when it first came out 4 years ago and it didn't mean anything back then. There was no pretty girl. There was only him, the boy that i liked. I told myself it's better if he has a pretty girl that he adores, so that i have a reason to why he doesn't even look at me. But he just really doesn't like me.
Now listening to this again, there is a pretty girl. She's everything and i could never compare. The boy i love can't get her out of his mind. I'll guess i'll just sit in the corner, looking at him look at her, wishing it had been me instead. If i could take back my words, i would never wish for a pretty girl as an excuse.


Your songs always inspire me to draw and to do artsy stuff, for some reason! ... hat.

Your songs always inspire me to draw and to do artsy stuff, for some reason! ... *_hat._*


I have a friend I've known (and liked hhhh) since fourth or fifth grade. it's the middle of seventh grade now and we still talk. but the thing is he fell for my friend. of course, I put on a button-on smile and congratulated them saying that I was happy for them. which I was. when they broke up I hate to admit it, but I was kinda happy they did. until I saw how crushed he was. i felt like a horrible person. i thought maybe I had a chance with him but. nope. he's dating another girl i know saying that he loves her.


May I use this in an animation <br>Your credits being in the description

May I use this in an animation
Your credits being in the description


At this point with one for the road and sick of losing soulmates I'm pretty sure we're all ready to fight tom law

+Arrany S It's weird that she said that because at her New York concert last week she said who she wrote it about (like his name and the situation and stuff) idk maybe she only feels comfortable talking about it in person or something

+Turquoise Alpacas no it is, Dodie just hide it very cleverly. She put Poppy as the main girl because that's a nickname her dad used to call her (or wanted to call her?? she said it in one of her random facts type videos) and the abusive boyfriend Tommy (cough Tom Law cough) and at the end her new boyfriend Sam (cough Sammy Paul cough).

+Aubrey Caulfield Don't forget Pas De Deux

I like this tom law guy. we have the same last name lmao

+Arrany S don't worry I didn't think you were rude at all sweetie omg! Yeah we all are going to fight tom law though 👏🏻👏🏻

Yeah, I know. Sorry, I didn't mean to come off as rude or anything. I totally agree though that we all want to fight Tom Law 😂

+Arrany S thanks but I was just joking about actually fighting him. Just all of her recent original songs have told us more about how poopy he was to her, and now we really don't like him.

+Arrany S sick of losing soulmates is about the friend that saved her from her bad relationship with tom. She talks about her bad relationship with Tom in the explanation, as well as the friend she eventually dated and broke up with and are now friends with that saved her from her relationship with tom.

+Aubrey Caulfield I'm pretty sure that this song and Sick of Losing Soulmates aren't about Tom Law, and although I would love to tell you who I actually think they're about she requested that we don't mention it. I'll let you watch the explanation video for SoLS and try to figure it out :)


I relate like the guy I like has a girlfriend with her butterscotch hair and I'm the girl he hates :') 🙄


Ik most won't see this post but I used to love dodies songs but a while back I kinda tuned out from her and am not as big as a fan as I used to be yet I always find myself coming back to this song it's like I can relate to it in so many ways in ways other songs don't make me feel and maybe it could be  memories of listening to it on repeat when I was feeling down but I prefer to think of it as the way dodie addresses it more because I haven't heard something like this in a long time and to know others feel this sting to makes me feel less Lonely.and knowing that even tho I don't always feel simular to dodie anymore I can see myself being in the same situation a lot of the time and feel good knowing she is bring people like me ex. Fans, fans, and people that haven't heard her before together makes me want to support her more than I did


Pretty boy with the butterscotch hair; I won't hate you, but oh it burns... how does it feel to be adored by her?


I really think you should record a studio version of this track!


to all the butterscotch haired girls, we won't hate you but oh it stings 😭


Idk why but I feel like she would be in the logang 🌹


I have watched this more that 20 times cause it tells the story of my life

I know what you mean my friend, exactly how I feel

+brea chua Isn't it such a travesty that so many people can relate to this god damn beautiful song xD


When my friends come over and my dog gives them more attention than me


She’s so pretty I’ve no idea what she’s on about


All these wonderful people relating to the song and im over here with a crush on the girl with the Butterscotch Hair


this is so adorable and sad and lovely all at the same time❤


Can you maybe do something with Rudy Mancuso?! Pleeaasseee♡♡♡♡♡  love you btw


When your crush likes you and kisses you and then 2 weeks later says he doesn't like you anymore but still wants to be your friend and you've liked him for more than six months :')


This will sound very dumb and whiney, since I ended up happyit in this situation, but this song reminds me of so many things
The main one was with this boy I liked for ages in my first year of high school. It was on and off and on and off but I had trouble getting over him
The day I told him, he told me that he had just been asked out by our friend, and he said yes to him
Wow.
One of the others was that my ex found somebody else after a while of us being apart. I'd had two relationships since then, (still in one of them ♡) so that wasnt the problem
It just hurt to see them so happy again, and in the end, they got hurt
The last situation was when I was crushing on my first boyfriend
He was kind of popular, but not one of the popular kids
So many people liked him
I thought I was just like the rest of them, and when I found out that he liked somebody, it just broke me
This song makes me think of that so much
I was upset until I found out he didnt like her any more and had barely liked her even then
And that he was in love with me
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡


This could easily fit on the Life is Strange soundtrack<br>


I’m listening to this again after some while.. Reason? My crush doesn’t.. feel that way about me. And I’m pretty sure he likes my friend - who, by coincidence, has butterscotch hair and a bright smile. Those smiles which once belonged to me are now hers. And, honestly, I’m kind of happy for him.. she could do better, though. She is a star among us asteroids:).. Enjoy the rest of your day everyone. Dont let my burden bring you down, I’m sorry<br>Edit: Friendzoned two times in a row:) great

I’m listening to this again after some while.. Reason? My crush doesn’t.. feel that way about me. And I’m pretty sure he likes my friend - who, by coincidence, has butterscotch hair and a bright smile. Those smiles which once belonged to me are now hers. And, honestly, I’m kind of happy for him.. she could do better, though. She is a star among us asteroids:).. Enjoy the rest of your day everyone. Dont let my burden bring you down, I’m sorry
Edit: Friendzoned two times in a row:) great


Does anybody know what uke she is using in this video? I’m looking to buy me a better one and I really like the sound and look of hers


Pretty boy with the sun bleached hair..... how does it feel to be adored by her.....


Discover this when i was on mu 8th grade. I had a crush who's a transfer student cause he is so cute af and i thought he likes someone from other room (which was way more smarter and better than me). But i tried to talk to him and surprisingly he likes me too. But we are not together anymore. Puppy love. Hahaha. 😂 Sharingggg


a few months ago, i was the girl with the butterscotch hair. this year, i'm in this perspective.

Moongem Dianthe yay let's be in pain together 😬


Sadly I relate to this song and the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair is my best friend. :///////


I've liked this guy for a year and a half. Six months ago, this song would make me cry, because I was so upset about the prospect of him liking another girl. Now? I've gained so much confidence and have come to realize that if he doesn't like me, it's his loss, not mine, and I should stop stressing. I'm gonna tell him this week, and if his feelings aren't the same, that's okay. I'll keep y'all updated.


I know this is from 3 years ago but this is one of my favorite songs from you. Keep up the great work :) <3


I will never be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair


since your lifestream yesterday this song is stucking in my head .... 0.0 oh I just noticed you wore the same shirt as in this Video! ^^


Is it sad that this applies to a relationship I'm in??
Pretty girl with the butterscotch hair...
How does it feel to not even try like I have to, to make him adore you each day?
Why am I worried about losing a guy I thought I already have...

Update, we broke up and I'm much happier. Look for the signs, ladies


A song I can sing because I have a crush on a straight guy :/ he won't even budge the other way and I hate the feeling of loving someone who doesn't even want you around.


Woahkay this hits really close to home on 4 different levels. This may make me sound like a wh*re but I actually have a crush on...3...people... ya...two boys and one girl. For the girl this song is exactly like what's happening, she had a boyfriend and is straight and I'm just a friend off to the side. For one of the boys it's, again, exactly like this song portrays. He has a girlfriend and I'm just that one girl that's in his friend group. And for the other boy, one I've been crushing on since 1st grade, he has a girlfriend. But the worst part is I'm friends with him as well as his girlfriend, and I just don't say anything about it. And the other one is just a friend AHAAGAGAHA I SHOULD STOP TALKING AHAHAH ISSUES AHAHAAH (Love the song❤🌷🎶)


THIS IS SUCH AN UNDERAPPRECIATED SONG DSHJKFHK


gosh i know no one will ever read but i need the hope that someone will. this. song. is. the. song.

i know most people relate this to their situation where the person they love loves someone else, or their crush doesnt have eyes for them, but for me, this song in my eyes, is just me against the rest of the world. i hate myself so much, i feel so anxious and i do things never in my favor and beat myself down, so much, its taken me hella guts to even admit it to an anonymous sea of people who dont even care or who wont even read this. i overthink and a voice thats in my head is telling me i dont, telling me that it isnt even there, that im making everything up, telling me i deserve nothing. its telling me im so low and inhumane i dont even deserve negatives or illnesses or death, i deserve nothing and i am nothing. but this voice is me, no matter what, no matter if everyone in the world tried to help me, i would still be and forever be the person that's keeping me from being fuffilled and happy and loved. that voice in my head is me and i cant separate myself from it. the choices i make, the words i say, everything that i've ever done is put through this filter, making sure, i get the least out of it. im so controlled by these thoughts that hate me and all i know is that if im anything less than perfect, im nothing. but nothings perfect.

the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair, for me, is everyone in the rest of the world. everyone else deserves to love themselves. except me. im so envious and angry and frustrated and sad and terribly anguished as to why, why cant i love myself? why do i feel as though i'll never reach that point? i just want to know, just for a moment, how it feels to love yourself and to uplift yourself. what is it like to admit to being good at something, or admitting to your looks, or your talents? what is it like feeling completely loved, happy, successful, fulfilled? gosh damnit, what does it feel like to smile genuinely in a picture, to feel good about yourself, to be confident, to be enough? i cant help but what to be someone that im not because i cant stand being me, yet, i cant believe i could ever think about actually deserving that kind of happiness.

i really do love this song.

also:
hat

gosh i know no one will ever read but i need the hope that someone will. this. song. is. the. song.

i know most people relate this to their situation where the person they love loves someone else, or their crush doesnt have eyes for them, but for me, this song in my eyes, is just me against the rest of the world. i hate myself so much, i feel so anxious and i do things never in my favor and beat myself down, so much, its taken me hella guts to even admit it to an anonymous sea of people who dont even care or who wont even read this. i overthink and a voice thats in my head is telling me i dont, telling me that it isnt even there, that im making everything up, telling me i deserve nothing. its telling me im so low and inhumane i dont even deserve negatives or illnesses or death, i deserve nothing and i am nothing. but this voice is me, no matter what, no matter if everyone in the world tried to help me, i would still be and forever be the person that's keeping me from being fuffilled and happy and loved. that voice in my head is me and i cant separate myself from it. the choices i make, the words i say, everything that i've ever done is put through this filter, making sure, i get the least out of it. im so controlled by these thoughts that hate me and all i know is that if im anything less than perfect, im nothing. but nothings perfect.

the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair, for me, is everyone in the rest of the world. everyone else deserves to love themselves. except me. im so envious and angry and frustrated and sad and terribly anguished as to why, why cant i love myself? why do i feel as though i'll _never_ reach that point? i just want to know, just for a moment, how it feels to love yourself and to uplift yourself. what is it like to admit to being good at something, or admitting to your looks, or your talents? what is it like feeling completely loved, happy, successful, fulfilled? gosh damnit, what does it feel like to smile genuinely in a picture, to feel good about yourself, to be confident, to be enough? i cant help but what to be someone that im not because i cant stand being me, yet, i cant believe i could ever think about actually deserving that kind of happiness.

i really do love this song.

also:
hat


I've said it before, but it's worth repeating - Dodie is one talented musician. She is far from flashy, just the opposite in fact -  but I doubt if most people realise how well chosen her notes are. Her playing (and singing, of course) is of a high level, but because she doesn't flaunt her musical abilities, I doubt whether many people notice this. Of course, Jacob Collier has noticed it, but then he's a very perceptive guy (as well as being a musical genius in his own right). When a four times Grammy Award winner notices someone's musical talent, don't you think it's about time everyone else did too?


Why does this song describe my life so much?


I'm here from The Prince and The Wolf phanfic and I'm fucking crying <br>Check it out if you haven't. It's on AO3 & it's Pastel!Dan with Punk!Phil. It's a fantastic slow burn that has me in tears

I'm here from The Prince and The Wolf phanfic and I'm fucking crying
Check it out if you haven't. It's on AO3 & it's Pastel!Dan with Punk!Phil. It's a fantastic slow burn that has me in tears


Does anyone know the piano part? I got a keyboard for Christmas and I really wanna learn it


I have a crush on my guy best friend. We would always talk at our lockers which are right beside each other. My best friend with the butterscotch hair likes him. He likes her, they’re together now, I don’t hate her because I love her, it just hurts. I wonder what it’s like to be adored by him


THERE IS NO HUMAN THAT IS PRETTIER THAN DODIE CLARK


Peut être un jour des paroles en français ! As tu déjà essayé ?


Real question: does the girl with butterscotch hair wear a hat?


All the songs you create make my cry idk. ;-;


There is a girl I like and she is so perfect its crazy. I'm afraid if I don't date her ill be missing out so much because she is so freaking amazing and perfect and I don't know anyone as great as her but she likes my best friend and I say that I ship them but i don't and it hurts to see them hold hands


I have a friend that I like. I like him a lot if I'm honest, sometimes to a creepy extent. However, he likes my best friend, and she doesn't care for him in that way. He knows I like him, but he's still after her. I relate to this song so much and it just hurts me.


I relate so much to this song. my best friend is so pretty and dosent like a boy in our classes, she loves her. hate to be that person but I... like him...

At least y'all have a chance with them..like you haven't dated yet and when they break up you could date them. Me however, I'm in love with my ex who's dating my super close friend. I've liked him for forever and it's so annoying please help...

+Epicgamer 44990 no problem and thank you again. it's very rare to meet nice people in yt comments!

@Lauren Burnett Thank you that's really kind of you and I hope that all of that happens to you because you seem really nice and you deserve that :)

+Epicgamer 44990 oh my I'm so sorry for you! it's kinda nice to know someone is/was in the same position as me now. thanks!

I truly hope you get someone who deserves you as a person and looks after you and you get to be in your dream job and everything!!!

Dont worry I'm the same except she has dating him 1 month and yet I've dropped clues before and asked him out but he said know saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship at that point but the next day he was dating her :( hope it gets better for you than it did for me :)


The way I interpreted this song was that she was jelly of the guy cuz she wanted the girl


This song is just gets better the more I listen to it hat


THE SONG WAS GR8 HAT (if u know what I mean look in her description)


..I hate that I can sing along and relate to this.


Loved it so much buuuuut could of been made better with a really cool hat


dodie’s songs bring me back to a time where i was in a horrible mental state. it brings me to tears but not in such a bad way. it just makes me thankful to be alive. without dodie i’m not sure i’d be here lol


AHHHH LOVE ALSO SUCKS IF U DIDN'T KNOW XHDUSBXIDHSKSHXJJ

I LOVE THE SONG IT IS ONE OF THE BEST SONGS ON YOUR CHANNEL


ugh i find myself at this video yet again. how many times is it now? its currently 1 am and raining lightly outside and normally i would crawl out my window and stand in the rain for a little, but thinking about him and her together makes me start to cry and then i can't think and i just want to go to bed. why did it have to be her, my best friend? and him? god im just so tired physically and emotionally. life sucks huh?


My ex crush loved a friend of a friend and now that he’s hurt me I wish I could say that my feelings for him have vanished. But whenever he’s near I can’t stop myself looking at him and I hate because I’m supposed to hate him, not love him still


I truly don't understand how you're this freaking good... Goals to be honest... AAHHH I LOVE YOU (sorry for that outburst I'm a bit of a weirdo)


it sucks that I can relate to this except that the girl has hazelnut hair. other then that I love it <br>(hat 🎩)

it sucks that I can relate to this except that the girl has hazelnut hair. other then that I love it
(hat 🎩)


i was in love with him, and for a moment, he was in love with me too. but i let anxiety and my fear to be alone win, and dumped him. i still don't get why i did that, but it felt like it was the right thing tô do.

now he's in love with the pretty girl, and i see how his eyes shine just to look at her. It makes me sad, not only because he is in love with her, and just because once upon a moment, i was the pretty girl.

that makes me feel a 6/10.

(Sorry for the english tho)


As rude and crule it is, I have butterscotch-ish hair. So. This song makes me feel a little better about myself.


I feel like dodie is singing for the girl not the boy. She's jealous that somebody else has the pleasure to love who she has feelings for, but she can't hate the girl for falling in love even if its not with her.


listen in this order
Absolutely Smitten
Adored By Him
Sick of Losing Soulmates
She


Honestly this is me though. The guy I like is bisexual and he likes this girl thats sooo pretty.


This song is perfect for my situation right now


This walked so heather by Conan gray could run


lol i sang this at a school talent show but i changed the pronouns so it was more accurate about the fact I'm crushing on the girl lol she knew it was about her :') wish me luck that she doesn't avoid me for life now


I used to be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair, but now I'm the speaker.


I'm crying because I'm having the same problem.

My friend and I have a crush on the same person, but it's clear he likes her WAY more than me. I think he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with her. I don't know if this is true or not but there's still this feeling of dread. I have pretty much NO chance to go out with him. If it did happen it would be a miracle. I hope and I pray that he likes me back...... Likely never going to happen.

I'm having the same problem with TWO BOYS!!!!

TinyMix Studio Hey girl, don’t worry about it. I’m probably given this advice too late, but better late than never. Crushes are hard to have. I know, it hurts. If he really means a lot to you, then go for it. Just make sure that you don’t let a stupid guy get in your way and mess things up. If you really like him, tell him! I had a crush, but I never told him I like him, and it is one of my worst regrets. Don’t let the same thing happen to you. I hope this was helpful in any way to you. Don’t let him mess things up for you.

TinyMix Studio same except my him is also one of my friends girl with the butterscotch hair bc I like him but my friend likes me eek


Gosh, woah. I just came across the cause it was in my recommanded and this is like after moster was released and this is crazy hat


I know this song is real old, but I still relate to it so much! I’ve liked this guy for a really long time now, and I found out from one of his friends who I’m also close with, that he likes this girl who’s blonde and pretty and funny and popular, all the things I’m not. I just wish he understood that I feel the same way about him that he does about her. I guess I just have to accept that he’ll never feel the same way, and just be happy that he’s happy. Thanks for letting me rant, sob story over.


I think this song is AWESOME!!!!!! hat

(If you want to know why I said hat, read the description) 😜


Your music is seriously amazing, your voice is so cute <3


I relate to this song so much it's pathetic... I'm i'm in 8th grade and I joined the cross country team last year in 7th grade and I started to like this boy a year older me. Even after the season ended he remained the only one on my team that would say hi after i would say hi to them every morning. This year I had a boyfriend for a week but broke up with him because it wasn't fair for me to be in a relationship with him but not give him the attention he deserves and this was during this years cross country season and my friend  told this boy I had liked for so long (we were on friendly terms and talked and stuff)  that I liked him and it got kinda wierd but not bad. Our last meet really botched anything good though, my friends were bothering him and stuff so I just asked him out. He is literally the nicest person and as I'm stuttering trying to ask him out he puts his hand on my shoulder and tells me he's not looking for a relationship rn. Three days later I saw him (in the morning were everyone sits in the cafe because school hasn't started yet) sitting with some girl kissed her on the cheek. That was fun, a couple min later he walks up to me and asks how i am and out of no where i just ask who you were  sitting with. His face is so f'ing guilty and he tells me his sister. I said,"like hell that is" because i know his sister and he says sorry i was trying to be nice and the worst part is is that this girl absolutley hates me (shes in my graDE)  but he doesnt know that and here we are...  sorry about how much time ive wasted if your reading this im sorry just wanteed to get this off my chest


This video reminds me of my favorite HAT.


This song is SOOO relatable! As are most of your songs❤hat

y’all this was a year ago and it’s still relatable, different guy, same problem


HOLY SHIT IN THE COMMENTS DODIE CALLED JON A CUTIE!!


fuck being adored by him, i wanna be adored by her


And in this moment every musician thinks "I wish I wrote that."


"pretty boy with the short brown hair"... being trans is hard :/


bi culture is being able to interpret the song as having a crush on the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair or the guy


Yes hello the strumming pattern how does one do that yes thanks.


This song brings me properly close to tears each time


When you're overwhelmingly in love w/ someone, but blew your chance now they're 'in love' w/ someone new after 2 weeks, but they'd never have said that about you ;-; sorry lol


please adore me. im not adored by anyone.


Never thought this would be so relatable =_=


Do you ever find yourself listening to old songs that remind you of a time that you were prettier and skinnier and had time left at school and didn't have to face growing up and although you really weren't mentally well it was ten times better than things are now and you just don't even know what to do with yourself except cry and cry and you don't feel like you can tell anyone because they won't believe you or understand


I really like this song. Hat. ( read end of bio)


i like to think that shes in love with the girl with the butterscotch hair, and not the boy


I don’t know when Shannon and paint started dating or when dodie started liking paint, but what if this song was about Shannon Barry and Jon/paint dating? Shannon is one of dodie’s best friends now, and it’s likely that dodie liked Jon, but the attraction wasn’t mutual. just the way that she describes the ‘pretty girl’ sounds like Shannon. She had butterscotch hair when she and Jon were dating, she mentioned the girl having an adventurous mind and the way in which Shannon writes is so beautiful and adventurous. From Shannon’s Instagram photos, her eyes and smile seem so bright and happy- another quality that is described in the song as well, with the line ‘Your eyes and the sunshine smile you wear’. They seemed like a happy couple when they were together, making Jon’s ‘soul glow’ and ‘sparking his life’. I’m probably wrong, but it’s just a thought :)


i so relate to this<br>one of my friends is really close to my crush and i'm pretty sure he likes her so

i so relate to this
one of my friends is really close to my crush and i'm pretty sure he likes her so

oliviaoddle my bestfriend just dumped my crush bc they were dating, but he still loves her. I love him so much words can't even explain ;-;


Whoever this man is - you can do better!


this song doesn’t sting anymore. i’m glad


for me I was the singer and a good friend of mine was the girl with the butterscotch hair although she was mean to him...😥so glad this time is over


It's been a min but who else feel the same exact feeling again.. bro🤕


I always thought this song was pretty, but not until recently could I relate.... The worst part is that this person actually likes a girl with butterscotch hair. I missed my chance if I ever had one.... He's asking her out and I am just sitting here trying to support them whilst crying on the inside. ;(

Rachel Joy listen to secret for the mad and know that you'll be okay, I'm in sth like that too


why did this made me cry i dont even have a crush DODIE STOP


Me when I find out my celeb crushes have significant others


I had a crush, his name was Ski.
We both developed in a few months but after the next school year, we had sepereate classrooms. ):
I still tried to keep in contact with him, (I had cried 2-3 times bc of him) but I felt like we weren't connecting.
Now, he has a crush on someone else while I was saving up for his birthday.
I gave up. :)


You really do have am amazing talent, your songs are poetry, your words just kinda.... Stick to me?


So I like this boy and he likes someone else and I'm like "oh k then" and it hurts I juST HATE FEELINGS SO MUCH


I just found out that my crush likes a girl with butterscotch hair but she's like a bff to me so I'm torn


I used to like this guy a lot for a bit, but then he got a girlfriend and I found out some friends like him. The crush has faded but it still stings when I see him with someone else, how sad.


I have this best friend, who is one of the most gorgeous and goofy and smart and giggly and popular girls who I love with all my heart and every time I get a crush on a guy they always talk to her like she is the best thing in the world with and extra bag of gummy bears and its sad and a lil painful bcos I'm just nothing compared to her but she is so wonderful I can see why they all like her and this song just makes my fee, bittersweet affection for her ( she is  also HYPER blonde as well with amazing jawline) (I've just reread this and good lord where are all my full stops and punctuation)


My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued Dan's face matches your comment

Is you're username a FOB reference??! XD

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued  RELATABLE

omg I love your username, this was really long ago and you probly don't want replies but omg its the best thing ever

I think its in reference to the fall out boy song 'my lawyer made me change the name of this song so I wouldn't get sued'

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued what was your username?

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued I have butterscotch hair but I'm not pretty 😂

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued  hahaha same lol

Wow Dan and Phil thanks for no social life Username goals!

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued Wow nice name and profile pic.......dan

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued and ur name XDD

My Lawyer Made Me Change The Name Of This Account So I Wouldnt Get Sued ME THOOOO


My best friend is the pretty girl with the butter scotch hair.


This is honestly me right now, the boy I fancied is now going out with my close friend who is prettier and skinnier than him. I don't want to mad at either at them but it bursts every time she talks about him


i just realized i might be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair for someone... hat


Want to share the UKE chords and stuff? xx


this is aimed at the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair for me. if only she knew 😔


This goes to my Crush... He currently has a girlfriend and its just painful to see them happy.. But as long as he's Happy... Am happy.. There having problems and it makes me sad seeing him emotional.


it should've ended with a quiet "hat" at the end


It's 2020 but this song still hurts to listen to.


Right * slaps thigh * so I like and still do like this boy and my friends in one of his friends lessons and his friend told mine that he likes me and that he was going to ask me out so she told one of my other friends and some of hers in the midst of the excitement and she told me at break then I went through break soooo excited and then at lunch she told me that his friend said it was all a joke and he doesn’t like me and ppl overheard her telling ppl so people then proceeded to and still do give me shit for liking him needless to say I walked home crying that day and who walks the same way as me ? Yep you guessed it him but he was like a street away so I was kinda safe so then I decide to go out in my bike instead of feeling sorry for myself in my room and who do I run into ? Him and his friends ?😂


this song is kinda sad, but I still love it


Am I the only one who thinks doodle looks like Boxxy?


listen to this song from baz's perspective talking to agatha


Absolutely Smitten
Adored by Him
Pas de Deux
One for the Road
an actual story omg


My crush is the 'cool' guy in our year and I'm really, really not cool at all. He's also going out with the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair and I can't bear it because I try so hard to be his friend, anything because I love him so much I don't care whether he likes me as a crush, friend etc I just love him so so so much


I've been talking to my crush more and more lately we've been hanging out talking on the phone etc he even said he might go out with me I confused my feelings for him and he said I'm too young he sent me a screenshot last night and I could see he was talking to his ex-girlfriend who is prettier than me older than me and nicer than me


what if i'm with the boy however he feels this way towards a butterscotch hair girl


i really like this hat alot XDDD wow just wow


Does anyone know if this is a Soprano or  a Concert Uke?


Why am I thinking of the mother in HIMYM...


This guy loves a girl with long butterscotch hair. And there’s a girl who likes him. But he doesn’t like her. He only likes this girl with butterscotch hair. And every time she sees him, she’s reminded of what he looked like with the girl with the long butterscotch hair.<br>And she likes to wonder what would happen if only he adored a girl without butterscotch hair.

This guy loves a girl with long butterscotch hair. And there’s a girl who likes him. But he doesn’t like her. He only likes this girl with butterscotch hair. And every time she sees him, she’s reminded of what he looked like with the girl with the long butterscotch hair.
And she likes to wonder what would happen if only he adored a girl without butterscotch hair.


Dont know if anyone will see this and don’t know if anyone will care, but I’m putting it out there anyway, there’s this guy that I really really like. We work together, I see him every day - he flirts with me, we get along super well, he cuddles me and laughs with me and we just have this bond. But he’s seeing this girl. It’s becoming kind of obvious that they don’t have the best relationship, even still I wouldn’t dare ever mess in their relationship. Still, I really do like him and im totally stuck on what to do. Uh, someone help?


I never get to be the pretty girl with the butterscotch hair.


this is actually so relatable im in tears


What hurts the most is when you were led to believe you were the girl with the butterscotch hair....


My best friend likes the same boy as me and I'm sitting here listening to them talk to each other and this song makes me sad now. i want the best for her, so i just let it be. I'll stop rambling now , bye.


I listen to this song and I was fine whenever i heard it but now (only in the space of a few months) when i hear this song i start to cry for no reason and it's so strange


W A I T
I HAVE BUTTERSCOTCH HAIR
I HAVE A BIT OF A CRUSH ON MY FRIEND
WAIT DOES SHE LIKE ME BACK
OH MY GOSH
prays please

W A I T
I HAVE BUTTERSCOTCH HAIR
I HAVE A BIT OF A CRUSH ON MY FRIEND
WAIT DOES SHE LIKE ME BACK
OH MY GOSH
*prays* please


plot twist:<br>she and the girl with the butterscotch hair end up together

plot twist:
she and the girl with the butterscotch hair end up together


This is an amazing song but it would be even better if you were wearing a hat.


I can sadly relate because the girl I really like likes someone else and they are smarter and cooler and she talks about how much she likes him in front of me and it makes me wanna dieeeeeee


I don‘t really know his butterscotch hair girl, I‘ve only met her once, but she was so nice and cute I guess I can understand. I guess I have to.


I just keep imagining this in Eponine's POV

+Molly McGrath "and I soar through a world that is new that is free" "every word that he says is a dagger in me" actually dead 😥😥

+Naomi Stephenson I compared "he looks at you as if life is perfect and the world is new." with some of Marius/Cosette's lyrics. And now my heart is dead.


The time that I was not in homeschool I was the girl with the butterscotch hair


She needs to let her voice sing a little. She holds back too much. And I know it might be style but she can still keep her style even if she sings louder with more power. Don't get me wrong. I love her and her songwriting skills are bomb. But she'd be even better if she's sing with more power and add a little umff into her songs. If you know what I mean?


This has for nothing to do with this song but I really need some advice by some dodie fans cause you guys are really nice and don't judge. Anyway I have a bf but I'm not really feeling into the relationship anymore and idk how to tell him. Now one of my friends has just met him and has started to express to me of possibility of liking him. Now even before this relationship I've liked a girl she was my best friend and idk what to do about that as well. I get that probably no one will read this.


Me: Currently having a crush and feeling this way to much, cause i am just a big old pessimist. hat


All I can think about is Eponine singing this about Marius and Cosette.


This song is the only thing that keeps me going right now. So me and this Boy have liked each other for like a year or two now and we finally started dating about 4-5 weeks ago. We have broken up because i wasn't ready for such strong commitment. But i swear the feelings for him have gotten stronger, he said that he'd never leave me. No matter how hard i pushed him away he'd always love me. Well, Yesterday I found out my Ex best friend had exchanged numbers with him and they are now dating. I just feel so hurt and so vulnerable. She knew I was head over heels for this boy and now she's acting like the victim! Does anyone have and advice or any experiences of their own i could learn from? I'm really hurting....


my situation doesn't completely match the song because a/ it's more platonic than romantic and b/ it's "adored by her" but damn

I won't hate you (I only dislike you)
but oh it stings
how does it feel
to be adored by her
;-;


I still love my ex. I broke up with her because my mental health was (and still is) really bad. I’ve regretted breaking up with her everyday. She doesn’t like me.


How stupid to think
That I could compare
To the Pretty girl
With the pretty red hair


I relate to this song.. I've liked this guys for a while a lot of people told me he definitely likes me.. Then all the sudden this girl says she likes him and he says he likes her and their a thing and here I am


So my best friend recently told me that he was falling in love with me.  We both have boyfriends.  And recently I have found that i will worry about him before I worry about my boyfriend.  We spend so much time together.  Im not sure what to do because I think i still love my boyfriend.  But I love my best friend too and I dont know which one I love more or even how i love them.

Update he broke up with me and I have gotten over it and now me and my friend are talking because the relationship with his bf is going downhill


5 years later she's on a North American tour playing venues of up to 5,000 people


ughh just watched absolutely smitten im shooketh and broken aaa hat


Sadly I'll never be the girl with butterscotch hair


This song used to mean nothing to me but now it hits way too close to home 😒


I love your voice, Dodie! Not just your singing voice, but your normal/talking voice. It's so soft but lovely and quiet.


Why
Oh why
Does every song have to be about him


Please someone help me out. What's the picking pattern? I can't find it anywhere


Me tho... My crush has a crush on my best friend


How I feel after I get a complimented. Probally doesn't make sense but, my friends joke that I could get anyone to date me and this is how I feel sense there's this one 7th grader who I swear has dated everyone ever like da hell


I RELATE TO THIS SONG! Because my best friend is dating right now, and my crush, (her ex) told me, that if she wasn’t dating right now, he would try to get back with her. SKNSHWYJABEEVUSJE REALLY???? ARE YOU SERIOUS? But there’s nothing I can do about it besides listen and relate to this song


Listening to this song after finding out the guy you like only likes you as a friend helps a bit


If only everyone could be the girl with the butterscotch hair....


realized a while ago that I pretty much became the girl this song is talking about, but at least I got my s/o out of an abusive relationship. 🙂


Hi, I'm spanish. Can anybody tell me the meaning of butterscotch hair? Thanks!

Eli Sanchez q butterscotch Is like a sweet (candy) and it's like a blonde/caramel colour so when she says "butterscotch hair" she's referring to the hair colour (I hope you can understand that) 😊

Eli Sanchez Butterscotch is a orange color so when she says butterscotch hair it just means her hair color!


I forgot I knew this song. Gotta go find my comment from 2018


This is hitting the feels a bit too hard right now.<br>Hat

This is hitting the feels a bit too hard right now.
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I have a crush on my best friend but he has a girlfriend who he clearly loves because everytime my friends tease me about liking him when I'm around him, he always says I have a girlfriend. It hurts a lot whenever he says this because it reminds me I'll never have a chance. I love him so very much butI just don't what to do.


Whenever my best friends over she plays this song because recentley she found out that her crush and "dream guy" has the biggest crush on me and i mena yeah hes cute and i would date him but she knows that i have a boyfriend and im perfectly happy with him but more importantly i would never do that to her ever ! Yet she dosent relise that and when ever i hear this song i get upset becaus of this occurence it put a strain on me and my bffs relationship...


I love this, I love you, Hat.
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Story time!!<br>So basically i’ve liked this guy for a while but hes had a crush on one of my best friends a while ago and i thought he was over it kinda. Well today she told me that she kinda likes him and they talked and they might date. They’ve been hanging out a lot more now and I just know they are about to date n it hurts. Its kinda my fault tho, i told her that i dont like him anymore...

Story time!!
So basically i’ve liked this guy for a while but hes had a crush on one of my best friends a while ago and i thought he was over it kinda. Well today she told me that she kinda likes him and they talked and they might date. They’ve been hanging out a lot more now and I just know they are about to date n it hurts. Its kinda my fault tho, i told her that i dont like him anymore...

Kinda random thing to add on, the only person who has ever like me is that girl who might date my crush, she is bi and I figured out that she used to like me and it sucks. I love her and all but the fact the one person who ever liked me was a girl and i cant reciprocate those feelings since im straight makes me sad. I just was to be adored by someone ya know,, someone who i can adore back


Would it be okay to ask for the tabs to this song <33


my Australian side wants so sing "I won't hate you but oh it stinks"


My crush just rejected me.He said he liked someone else.He is my bestest and closest friend.What made it worse was that he said I was too young for him......


This song is more beautiful then the most beautiful hat.<br>(I tried XD)

This song is more beautiful then the most beautiful hat.
(I tried XD)


I love this song sooooooo much!! It's so pretty and super relatable. I'm in love with one of my best friends and she has eyes for noone but this other very good friend of hers...but the song is AMAZING!! (If I could I would were the song as a hat!) also I have a huge crush on you dodie!! <3333


Your voice is amazing, I could listen to you  24/7 and never get tired of hearing it 😍


Dodie, this song was absolutely amazing and I love your music so much. Also I thought you said hat. :)


I love this song so much, and am so happy for you and how far you've come. you are amazing! Hat!


This song is literally my favourite song ever! I am addicted to it!


I love this song.. it helps everything being held in finally come out ^^ hat


This is an absolutely wonderful song, I love it so much! I also feel like this is Nico di Angelo to Annabeth about Percy.


I love this song, I want the lyrics printed on a HAT.


Amazing song! So many memories wrapped in it❤ Hat


Just found you, and I've been binge watching all of your songs. This is way too late, but keep up the incredible work! (hat)


the one person you love with absolutely everything torn from you because life SUCKS :) thanks for this song, dodes


I love how you put so much emotion into your videos. 😍 Hat


this is such a bittersweet song, lovely.  i tip my hat 😊😊


I've watched this video at least  twenty times. I love this song! hat


Please put some of your songs on Spotify? :/
Like "Adored by him"
"Dear Happy"
"Would you be so kind"
And mooooore! D:


I can really relate to this song right now, so much that I almost started crying! Thank you so much for this dodie. <3


I have a friend who is basically dating a guy that I wish I was with. He looks at her more than she looks at him (not that she's less loving, its just so obvious from his looks) She has butterscotch hair, she has a bright smile, and I don't hate her obviously, but it stings.


Oh my god, you should do a cover of "Surprise Yourself" by Jack Garratt! <3


This song is amazing and really relatable