i dated a girl for a year. we broke up. well, rather, i was dumped. i missed her but i was afraid of seeing her at school. she made me feel uneasy. the girl she left me for made sure i saw their hugs and their exchanges in the hall. when my ex girlfriends new girl left her, she came back. she said she missed me. she said that she pictured a future together with me and missed all the things we did. i loved her again. and she loved me. we started talking months ago but never got back together. i always wanted to. i'm madly in love. but now there's a new boy and as her friend i get to watch them fall in love in all the same places we did.

my life feels worse because i already had to get over her once. i don't want to do it again. all my friends tell me i need to get out. but i feel like i need her. she's perfect to me.


I'm getting open here but how do I get over a crush I've had for three years? I know we'll never be together because he recently starting dating my best friend (who had knowledge about my crush). Please give me some advice it's literally hurts.

you've gotten some good advice already but i just want to add that if your "best friend" has known you've liked him for three years and started dating him anyway, you may want reconsider your friendship. "friends" don't do that to each other.

Juce that's a really sweet text! Super helpful and I know your advice works ☺ thanks for posting

Mala T I'm not a professional, and I don't know everything about your situation, but I think getting closure may be the best thing for you to do. I would tell them that you have had a crush on them for a long time and that you want to get over it. Accept the fact that you won't be together that you may need to cut ties with them in order to get over it. It's scary and it'll hurt, but like Dodie said, you'll be okay. You will. <3

Mala T I was in the same situation. Completely in love with someone for five years who would never love me back. I didn't deal with it as well as I could have, just didn't tell anyone. But honestly, distance is the best. If you don't think you'll get over it anytime soon, do your best to see them less, or not at all. Go out of your way to meet new people and make friends, date other people (even if you're not interested, going on dates and just  talking and getting to know others can be  really good for you). If that isn't really an option, I recommend opening up to them about it. For me, admitting to something like that almost automatically starts me getting over it. Like the secret was a major part of why I couldn't move on. Once I let it out, it didn't seem like a such a big obstacle. And if neither of those things helps, time will take care of it. It's a cliche and awful, but things change, people move and change, and your life will go on. Good luck to you, friend.


i have no idea how to deal with the situation i’m in. my ex broke up with me last week and i was so so hurt and in so much pain. i was betrayed and lied to after a year of memories, promises, and building a future. i tried so hard to be happy within those 7 days. but two days ago i completely fell apart. i found out that not only has my ex lied to me once more, but that they started dating my best friend. my best friend, my only friend, my friend who i’ve known since birth and considered a sibling. im a mess. i have nobody to talk to and i feel betrayed and i feel like nobody else understands. this video is so old, but if someone who has been in a similar situation stumbles across this comment, please, i beg of you, give me some advice to help me get through this pain.


I have a major crush on my coworker but it's painful because on Instagram, he flaunts his girlfriend a lot (as any loving boyfriend would). I've tried unfollowing him but it's difficult bc I still work with him and I'm not going to change my job bc a) I like my job and b) it's difficult to find other jobs on the fly. He's sorta physically attractive but to me I find him attractive because of his personality and his humor (humor gets me all the time in people). He's hilarious and knows how to take jokes. I sorta had a minor anxiety attack earlier because I felt like I have no one to tell. If I tell my mom, she'll just turn it into a lesson or whatever. If I tell one of my best friends, I don't know what she'll say or do in response. If I tell my other friend whom I believe I kinda bother with my friendship, I don't know what she'll say either. I feel alone so that's why I'm venting here.

He's leaving in less than a month because of school so I think my problems now won't matter in a month so honestly I think I shouldn't worry. But I don't know.

I'm confused.


how do you cut ties with someone you have to see everyday :/ e.g school


my best friend and i recently started dating and they broke up with me before we were even together for 10 days. this is the second time we broke up and the first time it was an April Fools Day joke and they just wanted to play a prank. if they didn't think we would work out I'm wondering why they even asked me. we are still best friends but it hurts to even talk to them. I don't want to cut ties with them but they have used me like a toy but they make me so happy. I feel like I'm just a depressed weight and like I don't deserve them and I know they can do better than me.


Dude I need more videos talking about this


my ex broke up with me a week ago and she forgot about me quickly, she's already with another girl. all she told me before leaving is that she never loved me, but we were together for half a year. i still love her...


i really need this right now. thanks dods


Aw man, I wish I had this video in early September. .

early september for me too ... that's awkward

Oh mhgod dodie i just know someone who really needs this advice thanks a lot

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@Marlene Dietrich Yeah, that seems to be a tragic month for quite a few people :(


I wish I had watched this video two weeks ago. I managed to not talk to him for two months, took him off all social medias but I couldn't handle it so I texted him and at first it felt good but now it's gone back to how it was before and I need to start over again. I was so proud that I had managed to not talk to him for two months but it wasn't the easiest two whole months trust me. He would be the first person I would think about in the morning because I would check my phone and want to see if he had randomly messaged me and he wouldn't of. It hurts and I know I did thr wrong idea by messageing him because now I'm more hurt than I was before but it's okay to make mistakes and in time I will learn that he doesn't care


im so glad i remembered this video. thank you <3


Your audio is bomb, and thank you 😚 but a lot of these things are hard. Because she was my only friend. And i have nobody to talk to since school is out.


i needed this right now. one of my friends is seeming like she just doesn't want to be with me and is basically making me feel like crap. thank you dodie. ily 💗

Laney Tran Thank you so much, I hope too

//Heloise// oh my gosh ok so i went through something very very similar to what you're going through right now and i ended up cutting ties and it took a bit but i feel so much better leaving with that toxic friendship. i'm really sorry she's doing that and you do not deserve that !! you're a great person and you deserve so much better. i hope you find the courage to leave one day ((:

Wow I really didn't mean to write that much. If you read what I wrote then I'm sorry for my bad english.

Same :( I've been friends with a girl for six years and during these years I wasn't happy at all. I was sad, complexed and depressed. I didn't know that until the beginning of 2016 and it hurted me a lot. She made me feel like crap and she thought she was superior and I didn't notice it. She used me for anything and I was like a dog to her. She made fun of me with other people and I felt ashamed and sad when she did but I was hiding it. My parents told me she wasn't a good person but I refused to face the truth.. Now she still thinks I like her but since I realised the unhealthy and fake friendship that we had I don't want to be friends with her. She has impacted me a lot and has made my life so much worse. I can't stand being in the same room as her. The internet is the only place I feel safe because I can't talk to my other "friends". They can't see anything and I realised they didn't like or care about me either. Last week I saw my "friend" (we're not in the same school anymore but we both went to an event) and I stayed with her and my other friends. Then I started panicking because I saw no one cared about me and I started crying in the middle of nowhere...Nobody helped me. They saw me but they didn't care and they continued their conversation and were laughing without me. It felt horrible and when I came home I was crying on the floor and just thinking at this moment makes me cry. I can't talk to anyone except on the internet because my friends don't care about me. I think it was peer pressure. I can't unfriend them, especially her because I'm too scared of her. I know her and she could do anything bad to me and I know she will try to hurt me in the worst way possible if I do. I wasn't happy but the internet is so nice and caring. She thinks I'm stupid and treat me like crap, I have to do something but I can't.. For me it's impossible to find new friends in real life without unfriending my old and fake friends, they wouldn't understand and I can't even speak to new people. I can't make friends in real life.

megisnotonfire you'll get through it, I'm half way through doing it rn and I already feel so much better about it. Stay strong

cut ties with toxic friends, even if it's hard. good luck!

same here... but after watching this i feel so much better <3

itsonlyemily i hope everything works out for you!

megisnotonfire me too, this video was very helpful

megisnotonfire megisnotonfire I've recently had a similar thing with my best friend, and we're still in the same group so it's hard, but  I hope things get better for you! X

megisnotonfire Ik something similar, hope u feel better soon :)

megisnotonfire i had a similar experience where my "friend" was treating me badly and i don't talk to her anymore. It's hard to do when you still see that person around but I assure you it's so worth it and after a while, you will feel so much better. No one deserves to feel like that.  Good luck!

megisnotonfire shit im sorry that happened, i hope things get better soon! xx

megisnotonfire I hope things get better 💖

plus just a few months two of my other friends revealed they hate me, and i'm still not over it. this is really helpful


WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE RIGHT NOW, I DON'T WANT IT TO BE DAMMIT


I have one friend, and whenever I ask her to hang out she's like 'meh, maybe' and then when she finally says yes she cancels at last minute. Or, she makes up a dumbass excuse. And she always has parties with all of her friends accept me, and when she finally invites me I'm there and she won't even talk to me, and if I left or if I am not talking to her she won't even notice. And when we finally do hang out or go somewhere, it's usally for 10 mins and then she will get bored and leave. Idk how I should cut ties with her, pls help


I literally just was back stabbed by someone and I have tears streaming down my face and I turned on YouTube and this was in my recommended


i broke up w my boyfriend bc he wasn’t in the place for a relationship. he said some incredibly hurtful things and said i’m unlovable and that everyone hates me and i never cared about him. it hurts so bad. i feel so lost and depressed. and my best friend is still friends with him despite all of this. i am hurt so bad. i miss the good parts of him, but not all of him. my heart is broken and he continues to say terrible things about me. advice?


seeing dodie is the best birthday present ever

Kaz Love thank you and I know its so freakin cool

Ehlias Avneer HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You have the same birthday as Bill Nye omg

also thanks a lot dodie I really needed this video


If i only could watch this earlier ... Its not like i havent thought these things but it was way too hard to move on alone. I finally cut my ties but during the process i hurt my dignity real bad, i did a lot of stuff i wish i never did them and it was soooo tiring and i still cant stop accusing myself but im trying to forgive myself even if the steps i take are baby steps.


My friend sent me this video twice after finding a new group of friends, after that she asked me if I had taken my meds

This is the first time I've watched all the way through and I'm in tears


ok first I'm going to say my experience with cutting ties but then I'm gonna say my situation with a different person ok ok cool

Going through a pretty similar thing ((including the trump thing wow)) I'm lucky cuz shes moving away so I won't see her anymore but I just say steer away from her the best you can, or if your braver than I am sit her down and talk to her. Try not to say "you, you, you", instead say "I feel like" or "this makes me feel". Hopefully all goes well!! Goodluck!!💓

but now I have this friend that we disagree on a lot of stuff, but this year it's gotten worse (for me at least). she's become grumpier (I don't want to sound judgy or mean but it feels like she was in a constant state of PMSing) and more defensive. we have classes together and she doesn't have a lot of friends so I don't want to be mean and say "hey I don't want to be friends anymore", but idk what to do. we're in softball together and I want to get better at softball, but she doesn't try so idk if I'm actually doing things right, but again, she doesn't make an effort to make new friends so she always pairs with me. she also gets really defensive with one of my really good friends and always says that he tries to be right all the time etc, but he's not and she just doesn't let other people have opinion other than hers, and if you do she will explain why she's right and why you're wrong (which was really stressful for me during the election bc she supported trump and I didn't (pls don't get into politics I just used it as an example)) so if I said something that I think she says how I'm wrong and how she's right. idk what to do bc she's in my classes and everyone thinks we're super super close, if anyone has any advice that would be great. I love you all and have a good day!! :)))

so I had this friend in 6th grade who was super possessive and was using my niceness against me, it took me from the first day of 6th grade when I met her to the end of the first semester of 7th grade to tell her that she was making me anxious and was taking over my life. she did not take it well, but thank god for my friends and understanding teachers. my teachers would let me stay a little longer after class to kinda hide in their rooms and do my homework while I waited for my brother to get out of school instead of hanging out with this girl, and my friends were there to steer her away from me. LISTEN TO DODIE'S ADVICE!!!


i have a best friend who ive been in love with for 4 years :/ im having a bit trouble getting over it but i cant cut her off :( she doesnt even know i like her plus she apart of the freind group and i dont want to ruin things for anyone


Okay please can someone give me some advise:<br>Basically my very close friend and my sister kissed and kind of had a thing but my friend (who was my sisters best friend) didn't want to start anything so they kind of agreed to just be friends. We were all talking a lot about this online but then randomly our friend just stopped talking to us without any explanation and since she's going on holiday she finally sent a text to our group saying she's going to talk to us in four weeks (when school starts). We tried to talk to her but she just won't talk and keeps acting like we did something to her but we're just really confused? We don't know what to do but my sister just wants to cut ties and never speak to her again because she's already done things like this before. Idk what to do?

Okay please can someone give me some advise:
Basically my very close friend and my sister kissed and kind of had a thing but my friend (who was my sisters best friend) didn't want to start anything so they kind of agreed to just be friends. We were all talking a lot about this online but then randomly our friend just stopped talking to us without any explanation and since she's going on holiday she finally sent a text to our group saying she's going to talk to us in four weeks (when school starts). We tried to talk to her but she just won't talk and keeps acting like we did something to her but we're just really confused? We don't know what to do but my sister just wants to cut ties and never speak to her again because she's already done things like this before. Idk what to do?


i’ve been in love with someone who doesn’t love me back for about half a year. i’ve been trying to get over it and move on but i don’t let myself. i always think “what if they like me back someday??” but it’s made life absolute hell for me. my grades suck, i cry in class, i can’t focus, i’m suicidal again, it’s all horrible. i needed to see this video. i think i’m ready to move on...


I'm not hurt emotionally. I'm hurt physically. I cut the tie because my only group of friends started beating me up. I have no social media with any of them and I try to avoid them at school but they follow me. All of them do. And they grab my bag and they hit me and I can't get them off me. The school doesn't do shit. I tell them stop and get away from me. How do I cut a tie when I'm forced to be around someone?


but i keep thinking "if it is written in my destiny, it will come" and keep hoping to get back :'( any advice?

I feel the same way..  Just tell yourself it can't happen... i saw that doing my passion helps alot... shit this was from a year ago..  hope you're over it

Ariana Gomez if it's meant to be, it's gonna happen again at one time in the future, but you cannot stay stuck now or keep waiting. They'll develop and make new experiences, and if you don't, there's no way you are ever gonna find back together


I need to do this but it's my grandma. I can't deal with her belittling me anymore, but she's still family.


I haven’t ever and I’m not cutting ties with anybody right now. <br>I’m just watching this video because...because I can.

I haven’t ever and I’m not cutting ties with anybody right now.
I’m just watching this video because...because I can.


what if you have fallen out of a long-gone relationship, but your friends still hang out with them and care about them even though the person in the relationship said some things and you don't want to be around them.<br>can someone please help me with this?

what if you have fallen out of a long-gone relationship, but your friends still hang out with them and care about them even though the person in the relationship said some things and you don't want to be around them.
can someone please help me with this?


Why dose the truth hurt so much? :'( want to be friends with my ex but we've only just broken up and I'm realizing trying to go back to being friends straight away isn't going to work. I needed this


i need to rant and where better to do it then a youtube comment section! i had a mental breakdown 2 weeks ago in front of my mom and only shared like 20% of my issues. she then offered me therapy. my sister is in therapy and they put her on meds that made her issues even worse and she wasn't herself. i'd like to get help but i don't want to get meds that ive seen make people unlike themselves. so without even thinking it through i just immediately told my mom it's depressing for me, a 14 year old, to be such a fuck up in the head and going to therapy at my age was depressing. i definitely don't actually think that, you can get help at any age. but i said it as a split second decision thinking about how it would only make everything worse with some medicine they'd give me or a doctor thinking its hormones. i need help but i don't know what to do. do i get therapy and try to see if it helps or is it better to not go through pills and tears in an attempt to fix my unfixable problems?? i don't know and maybe some random stranger on the internet may give me advice on my life

bella b I'll suggest one thing: let it out. Let whatever you find yourself thinking about everyday out, whatever thought or a lot of thoughts
 been hunting you, something you've always wanted to say it to someone in your life, talk about it with someone. Don't keep it going till it wears you out, then rot you. You'll be making the way for yourself now and in the future much, much easier. So therapy sessions could be good enough, even if you feel they don't understand you (which I do and believe) just do it for your own sake, your own mental health. I say this from heart. And best of luck.

bella b I'll suggest one thing: *let it out*. Let whatever you find yourself thinking about everyday out, whatever thought or a lot of thoughts
 been hunting you, something you've always wanted to say it to someone in your life, talk about it with someone. Don't keep it going till it wears you out, then rot you. You'll be making the way for yourself now and in the future much, much easier. So therapy sessions could be good enough, even if you feel they don't understand you (which I do and believe) just do it for your own sake, your own mental health. I say this from heart. And best of luck.

In my experience with my mental illnesses therapy and pills and a few involuntary hospital admissions starting at a similar age to you (I'm 21 now) has absolutely helped and have saved my life but I think it depends what kind of problems you are going through. Having a therapist or counsellor isn't a bad idea though even if it just helps to have someone to talk through things confidentially with. If you don't want pills they won't force that onto you. If you're in the uk and don't have private insurance there could be a long wait for help but it's worth going to your GP if you can to see if they can offer you any help or advice? I hope this doesn't sound like I think I know it all or anything because I definitely don't but I hope I've been a bit helpful. Hope you're ok xxx

bella b if you don't want to take meds, you don't have to. I would suggest seeing a therapist! Therapy is just talking and working through your problems with somebody who knows how to help. It's surprising how just talking can help so much. Also, it's not sad or wrong for someone your age to seek help. I'm fourteen too, and two of my friends, and many people that I know online go to therapy. You're not alone. If you want help, I'd start with telling your doctor or your parents that you do want to see a psychologist! It's hard work but it'll be worth it in the long run. Your problems are not unfixable. Like Dodie said, you'll be okay. Wishing you luck! <3

bella b I am sure, there  are different kinds of therapists. And if you say, you don't want medicine, they probably have to respect that

bella b from my experience I don't think pills help or do any good at all but I did some therapy and as pointless as it seemed at the time 8 months later the girl with severe social anxiety is speaking her mind and doing plays. Now it's very important to have a good therapist make sure they are good , if you feel they are hurting you even more change therapists, I hope the breakdowns become less frequent and that you get good help rather it's from a therapist or a friend/parent


What if your rejected by a good friend & they did it in a caring and polite way

Im hurting but i dont want to cut ties


Not only to dodie but to everyone: what if it takes longer than a year to get over someone? ://////

I spelt it wrong haha, it's SiteBlock. It's a Google Chrome extension. I'm sure you can get something similar for other browsers :)

Jutta i've never heard of sideblock but i'll definitely do that! it makes me feel better that i'm not the only own feeling like this, even after a year!

I felt the same about the social media, that was the hardest thing for me to cut off because they were REALLY vocal on the Internet. So I would constantly check their Twitter or Facebook for any kind of sign. You know what really helped me? As silly as it sounds but I installed SideBlock. That way, whenever I tried to access their social media, it would just go to a blank page. Since doing that, I've never been on their Twitter or Facebook or blog again.<br>As for the period of time it takes to get over someone, it's also been over a year for me. I may not be completely there yet but I'm so, so, so much better than I was before. Everything Dodie says in the video is 100 % true. You'll get through this <3 :)

I felt the same about the social media, that was the hardest thing for me to cut off because they were REALLY vocal on the Internet. So I would constantly check their Twitter or Facebook for any kind of sign. You know what really helped me? As silly as it sounds but I installed SideBlock. That way, whenever I tried to access their social media, it would just go to a blank page. Since doing that, I've never been on their Twitter or Facebook or blog again.
As for the period of time it takes to get over someone, it's also been over a year for me. I may not be completely there yet but I'm so, so, so much better than I was before. Everything Dodie says in the video is 100 % true. You'll get through this <3 :)

It'll be okay. It'll take awhile but after its done it'll be the best thing you ever did for yourself. trust me

stuck in that situation now // watching this video over & over helps though // thanks a lot dodie 💖

ah it feels good to relate to someone and not feel pathetic. i hope you get better soon :)

ah sorry to hear that!! it definitely sucks. the constant struggle is not checking up on them via social media. like apart of me still cares and wonders how they're doing. but thats what im doing wrong!! it sucks so much but hopefully this "care" will go away.


he told me he likes me. he told me, me & his ex (they were together for 3 years) are the only 2 people he has ever cared deeply about. he just doesn't want to go through the hurt that he went though with her, with me. & all he wants to do is focus on his career. i get that i really do. it just sucks that his words & actions replay in my head every single day. we came to an agreement that i would try my best to get over him. i pray that in the future we find ourselves again, mature & better.


Dude this is rough. My ex and I are still so close, but I know I need to do this. We broke up a few months ago but I’m still so attached to him and it’s really holding me back. Ugghhh life sucks man.


it would have been so much nicer if i had watched this before making the stupid mistakes i made that i probably will never get over


ItS HaRd WhEn YoU'Re Ex iS YoUr BeSt FrIeNd


I just cut ties with someone and I feel really guilty because I was their only friend/ not abusive person in their life but they were so dependent on me and wouldn’t accept the fact that I was trans and I had to cut them out but I feel so guilty because I told them why but they’re probably so hurt and maybe even confused right now and that sucks a lot and I hate that I know this is the right decision but that I still wanna go back and comfort them


"if you're crying right now"

Shit, how'd you know ?


I’m trying to cut ties with my controlling emotionally manipulative ex but I want him back so badly and I don’t understand why


The problem with me is that it's just a crush on a guy. And I just feel like he doesn't like me back....but I'm just picking that up through context clues. There would be long stretches of time when we worked together that he would just not talk to me.  I never risked the humiliation of saying to him "hey i like you" and him saying back to me "i don't like you back". The idea of doing that was just never an option to me.....my ego is way too strong. So I never really got closure. He just moved onto a different workplace and I blocked him on facebook about a month later.

I keep having this fantasy of us running into each other and I'm a lot more beautiful and skinnier and my life is a lot better and him asking me why I blocked him and me admitting that I liked him.

But yeah...I don't have any closure. There is this part of me that still thinks "well it was left ambigious....you don't know that he DOESN'T like you....." and then i go on and on.

I don't think I've made the choice to let him go yet.

I have to let go of a dream. And I think that is what hurts the most.


I don’t know if anyone is reading the comments anymore since it’s unlisted. I feel very alone. I don’t think I can be happy without this person but I don’t have a choice. They broke up with me, a 15 year old, and are now dating an 18 year old I thought was my friend. It’s been over 3 weeks, almost 4. I feel alone, my friends don’t seem to want to talk to me. It hurts so bad. They were my entire life. I don’t know what to do anymore.


LETS MAKE A BOW WITH OLD CUT TIES okay sorry Dodie this video was amazing but I felt like someone had to make that reference <3


the amount of views ive given to this video over the past 3 years is unholy


my god, i’m going through this<br>thanku dodie-from-five-years-ago

my god, i’m going through this
thanku dodie-from-five-years-ago


I can't really talk to them about it. They always pity me, and I hate that. It clouds their mind and judgement regarding me and they might say something they don't mean. I hate the absolute uncertainty of it all. Because if I asked them if cutting ties was the best thing to do, they'd say it's not, but I've only helped them twice. And they've helped me so many times. But I just feel like I need to pull myself away. Not to mention she's not in love with me and I'm in love with her. And that's hard. And we've been drifting away recently. So I'm not sure what to do. The only thing I want is to make her happy, but I'm not sure if I'm doing that. But I'm too selfish to let go. I'm depressed, and she's the first person I've been able to talk to about it. So essentially, I'm a mess that can't do without  her, but I know she'd be able to do without me. I'm sorry for anyone reading this. Don't let some random stranger dump their emotions on you. Have a nice day for the people who can't


I don't usually comment on videos, but I really just wanted to thank you.  I found your channel just watching cover videos one day, and I'm glad stuck around.  I admire you and respect you so much not only as a musician but as a person.  I really needed someone I can respect so much to make this video.  I'm a guy who was in a relationship with a girl I fell madly in love with for a year.  She was my first love.  Back in August, we broke up because of a big picture detail in our lives and I am still hurting a lot from it.  I miss her desperately, I screwed something  up, and deserved to be dumped, but it doesn't change how much it hurts, I didn't expect how much it would do to me.  This video will be kept as a reminder when I'm need.  Once again, thank you Dodie.


{cont} however, i didn’t give up. i kept trying to understand what was going on and receive closure. finally, he texted me recently (we see each other every day at school because of conflicting classes and i could tell it was hurting him too) and apologized. we are now at a neutral point. sadly, i still care. a lot. he’s the only person i’ve ever really loved. i want to continue loving him, but i can’t. i am teaching myself to let go. and dodie has really helped with that. i needed this.


im kinda confused on what to do right now cause someone who was my closest friend is starting to drift away and im so scsred cause it happened before and the worst part is they both drifted towards the same person and it makes me hate them even though they did nothing wrong. it makes me feel so selfish that i want to hold my friends back from making new friends, but i think its just cause its happened before. now i feel like i'll never be able to fully trust anyone anymore cause they could just leave me at any moment. also my so-called-friend happens to have a crush on the person they're drifting towards, and they have quite an obsessive personality. now they've changed what was their just kpop fan account into a kpop and dan and phil phan account just because their crush likes dan and phil. this makes it seem way to obvious that they have a crush on her cause the two are completely unrelated. surely they could just make a seperate phan account? also they said that she is their 'best friend' which honestly hurts me because we used to be best friends but i feel like im getting replaced and it sucks.

i dont want to talk to them about it cause im scared that it'll hurt them and they are quite unstable and has had issues with self harm and i dont want them to start again because of me.

help i dont know what to do
(also sorry if thats really confusing theres just too many people)


I lost 2 people i loved today, i'm huuurting


Soooo, I broke up with my girlfriend today and I feel like shit
It wasnt because of us, it was because of her parents
They didnt let her have a boyfriend and we were together in secret (We lasted a year and a month)
But they found out and threatened with not signing her up for her prefered high school
I dont know if we did the right thing by breaking up, it just happened a few hours ago and I feel sooo bad, ive liked her for so, so long and I convinced myself that she was the one for me, I still am, it is so painful and I feel like ive lost everything
I love her and I dont know what to do, I really need help


i had a toxic friend ( also boyfriend? it’s honestly complicated,, ) for awhile almost a year ago and im still extremely upset over it. they really hurt me and they just suddenly left me and i haven’t really gotten any closure since they did leave. im getting stronger though and i haven’t been thinking about them really at all lately. i have weird trust issues now, but it’s getting better. im really glad they’re out of my life because they really were horrible and rude and extremely abusive.


i was cheated on in december and forgot this video existed but it would’ve been so helpful. it took me forever to unfollow and things. i only fully got over it about last month when i got closure


can you do a video on how to figure out if a person is toxic or not? i need help lmao


i finally unfriended him on snapchat. thank you dodie.


My ex left me shortly after going to a dodie concert with the girl he left me for. This was a difficult watch... XD


what if you thought that they were your best friend for over ten years, and maybe at some point they were, but now you realize that they never loved you how you thought they did


You might not be an "expert", but you speak with a sweet balance of your heart and your brain and you've reached mine!..... thanks! you are lovely


What if you want to write a letter to someone but at the same time, you don't want to piss them off. What do you do?


aaa this came up randomly on my feed when i needed it the most. does any body have any advice for someone who desperately needs to cut ties with a toxic friend? i love this person deeply and don’t want to hurt them. i’m the only person they have but this has gotten to the point where her presence suffocates me


how do you fall out of love with someone who doesn't like you back?


I have/had a crush on a girl for so long and there’s this guy who’s been chatting to her for 3 days and she’s already super close to him although I’ve done so much for her, idk I must’ve been too nice and helped her out too much. It hurts and angers me whenever I see or hear about her, she has me on her private Snapchat and I don’t know how to get that removed. She always posts videos with the guy and I’m the jealous type, although I was never with her and it’s destroying me having to keep knowing that she’s there. Idk whether to block her or not because she’s going to a different college


I don't think that this video quite relates to me, but it's not totally a different topic. There is this girl that I met last year, she seemed confident and outgoing, and she is, but a lot of her actions weren't very genuine, it's a little bit hypocritical for me to say but I do talk to my friends if something is bothering me or hurting. She did this thing where she would randomly sing to show off her singing voice, and that always really annoyed me. She either acts like she's better than everyone else, or talks about her problems to get sympathy points. I don't deny that she is talented, but the way she displays it is just so cocky and annoying. But I do know that she is hurt. She moved here last year, and moves are always hard, and her mother and father are split up. My mom also told me that her mother actually pushes her towards the arts (usually acting and singing, as well as writing). That year we met her, me and my other friend went to confront her about these things, we tried to be helpful, and not to be too harsh, but I guess we did something wrong and the next day she came to us, basically saying that we were mean and terrible, and that she was fine. I may be overreacting but that is a summary of what I remember her saying. We don't really talk that much anymore, but she doesn't seem to judgey of me. She also recently got a part in a play that I'm involved in that I rally wanted(while I got a pretty stupid part) so just to add on to all that there is envy. I don't hate her though, I just think... She's a little broken. Anyway, thank you for letting me rant to you. (And reading this all Jesus)


What do you do if their obsessed with you and stalk you on social media

If you truly care about them and want them to do better,Block them on social media,and give them their space,because that's the best you can do for them to realize that being with you won't do good to them,And you should understand and take this in an absolute positive way


i always come back to this video :) thank you sm


my ex best friend and i “broke up” back in september, i’ve deleted her off facebook and unfollowed her on instagram, i don’t hate her it’s just better for me, she actually went through all my followers and followed them all and it made me angry. i feel like unfollowing her was the best thing to do, even though i’d like to check up on her and see what she’s doing it isn’t healthy for me or my mental health. i needed to do this. i’m not completely over our friendship breakup completely, but i’ll get over it. checking her instagram and seeing how she is getting on with all my other friend she stole from me when we fell out (i’m completely alone now ha) yeah. thanku for listening to my brain spill. i just feel like it’s best and i know she’s gonna be like wtf why did she follow me (BOOM WHEN TYPING THIS SHE REQUESTED TO FOLLOW ME) wow the worlds crazy. not sure what to do. thanks for listening to my brain spill :)


it’s hard to believe she’s gone. i’ve lost the love of my life forever and ever and ever. i’ll never talk to her again. ever. i miss her huge eyes and her coloured hair and her weird black face mask. but it’s gone. our relationship. my everything. i’ve lost the smartest person i know. she’s never coming back. but she’s still there.


wow i didn't realize how many likes this had gotten


I love you so much, I wish you were one of my best friends


Ok um what if they cut ties with you and it still hurts even though it's been like 2 months and you go to school with them and they were your only healthy relationships that made you laugh and made you happy.


first time ive been told its good to cry


started crying 30 seconds in... That’s a sign. Going to start with step one soon.

one month after breaking up with him i still get the waves. I miss having someone who loves me so much


The cinematography (or aesthetic, depending on how pretentious you're feeling atm) is 10/10 in this one

I think she meant the lighting and the color correcting and the shallow focus, not the nonexistent camera movement.

I'd say the filming was an outstanding 5/7

Do.. do you know what cinematography is..

(No one make a 6/10 joke about my comment I swear to gOD)


it's been about a year and im still affected by a person.. this is normal right lol


I really like one of my best friends. I have liked him for over a year and he is completely aware. I feel as though there is no one I can talk to, and I wish I could talk to HIM about it.


I have been waiting for a sign and have been wanting to cut ties with a guy friend I really like but he doesn’t like me that way and I didn’t know how and it’s been really hard and I came across this video and now I know what to do wish me luck I have been crying this whole video 😭😔


I sent that song to somone who I cut ties with, idk if they listened to it or not, I hope they did

@josie mac <i>hamilton and dodie ohmygod</i>


Me: watches video to find out how to not have a crush on the person I have a crush on

(Watches)

 Me: ohhh that’s for how to not think about your ex. That was useless,


one of my friends is about to cut me off over some drama that happened and i haven’t even opened her message but i already know i’ll need it


all of my best friends blocked me at once and i still don't know why

however much that sucks and most probably hurts it just goes to show what kind of people they truly are. you don't need people like that in your life, you deserve better ♡

now they're all talking about me behind my back and saying how weird and annoying i am. great.


is it weird that i'm not watching the video for the advise but for her voice because i love it so much um


just going to rant here because no one is going to see it:
I used to hang out with a group of nine people and my best friend out of the group moved schools so it was just the eight of us because we didn't get to talk as often. Anyways so out of that five there was this girl I'll call her Mary, Mary was meant to be friends with the group but she was sending ss of our group chat to this guy she fancied which almost got me suspended because the guy had been saying shit about all of us so we were deciding how bigot and horrible he was so anyways I found out that Mary was sending these ss but I promised her I wouldn't tell the group because the group wanted to know how he had ss and I still haven't told the group and it's been about two yrs remember that it's important. But anyways a couple of months Mary and the group got in a fight because no one except for me and one other girl and boy liked her so everyone sided against her except for me. The reason I did at first was because I felt like she was going to be left alone and I didn't want that so naturally I told my friends that I would spend lunch with mary. My friends of course weren't exactly pleased with that and I don't blame them and to this day I don't know why I did. Anyways recently I've been noticing how rude, mean, self centred she is. For example, I skipped a yr and she didn't so when I was at the fair in our school we had to go by year groups and I was hanging out with my friends in my year and she came up to me and one of my friends joked that me and her have no friends just each other and I laughed and said we do and when that friend walked away Mary kicked me in the leg and said I have other friends than you. And I was a bit hurt physically ha and mentally I guess. Also she always expects me to be there for her which I always am but as soon as I need her she ignores me. She got super mad at me and wouldn't talk to me because my second best friend in the group was moving away and I wanted to hang out with them one last time. She always goes on and on about being ignored but she sent me a message asking me saying 'what did you do, why is one of our old friends texting me' and because I didn't do anything I said nothing why and she hadn't opened that text for a week and when she did she ignored it and started talking about this boy that has a crush on her and started getting mad when I seemed uninterested. Because I basically dumped all my friends so she wouldn't be alone she's the only one I hang out with during the morning break and lunch and she never texts me anymore to tell me that she's not going to be in (she's not in a lot) meaning it's another day I have to spend by myself, also she constantly insults me to the point it's not funny anymore but when we are around other people she compliments me which confuses me a lot. This week I decided I would slowly cut ties with her by spending morning by myself and some lunchtimes in the film club because she has often told me it doesn't matter if I'm here or not she has a group of people she can sit with. Then when I told her I would be spending my lunch in the club she was like cool and I was telling her how every monday doing chemistry with my chemistry class and she rolled her eyes and was like oh so you're a busy person now... like as if I'm meant to give up everything just so she can sit with someone at lunch like I have given up so many activities because she doesn't want to go... but this film club is apparently on for nearly the whole week so idk when I'm going to tell her but I will and I just don't want to be friends with her anymore she constantly kicks or punches me when I do anything like not compliment her and she doesn't care about me now this seems self centred and it is but what showed me she really didn't care was most of the people I know asked me how I was for the big exam I had to do for uni or wished me luck, she 'four days later' remember when she realised I wasn't studying because she came to my class in the morning... but idk how I'm going to get rid of her social media because if I unfollow her idk what she'll do because she's my friend I've told her stuff but yep I'll do it but no matter what she acts like she is my best friend and idk how I'm gonna deal with no telling her things even though she doesn't care. Mary (not your real name) you weren't a great friend but we did have a few good memories together but today I'm gonna leave that in the past.

just going to rant here because no one is going to see it:
I used to hang out with a group of nine people and my best friend out of the group moved schools so it was just the eight of us because we didn't get to talk as often. Anyways so out of that five there was this girl I'll call her Mary, Mary was meant to be friends with the group but she was sending ss of our group chat to this guy she fancied which almost got me suspended because the guy had been saying shit about all of us so we were deciding how bigot and horrible he was so anyways I found out that Mary was sending these ss but I promised her I wouldn't tell the group because the group wanted to know how he had ss and I still haven't told the group and it's been about two yrs remember that it's important. But anyways a couple of months Mary and the group got in a fight because no one except for me and one other girl and boy liked her so everyone sided against her except for me. The reason I did at first was because I felt like she was going to be left alone and I didn't want that so naturally I told my friends that I would spend lunch with mary. My friends of course weren't exactly pleased with that and I don't blame them and to this day I don't know why I did. Anyways recently I've been noticing how rude, mean, self centred she is. For example, I skipped a yr and she didn't so when I was at the fair in our school we had to go by year groups and I was hanging out with my friends in my year and she came up to me and one of my friends joked that me and her have no friends just each other and I laughed and said we do and when that friend walked away Mary kicked me in the leg and said I have other friends than you. And I was a bit hurt physically ha and mentally I guess. Also she always expects me to be there for her which I always am but as soon as I need her she ignores me. She got super mad at me and wouldn't talk to me because my second best friend in the group was moving away and I wanted to hang out with them one last time. She always goes on and on about being ignored but she sent me a message asking me saying 'what did you do, why is *one of our old friends* texting me' and because I didn't do anything I said nothing why and she hadn't opened that text for a week and when she did she ignored it and started talking about this boy that has a crush on her and started getting mad when I seemed uninterested. Because I basically dumped all my friends so she wouldn't be alone she's the only one I hang out with during the morning break and lunch and she never texts me anymore to tell me that she's not going to be in (she's not in a lot) meaning it's another day I have to spend by myself, also she constantly insults me to the point it's not funny anymore but when we are around other people she compliments me which confuses me a lot. This week I decided I would slowly cut ties with her by spending morning by myself and some lunchtimes in the film club because she has often told me it doesn't matter if I'm here or not she has a group of people she can sit with. Then when I told her I would be spending my lunch in the club she was like cool and I was telling her how every monday doing chemistry with my chemistry class and she rolled her eyes and was like oh so you're a busy person now... like as if I'm meant to give up everything just so she can sit with someone at lunch like I have given up so many activities because she doesn't want to go... but this film club is apparently on for nearly the whole week so idk when I'm going to tell her but I will and I just don't want to be friends with her anymore she constantly kicks or punches me when I do anything like not compliment her and she doesn't care about me now this seems self centred and it is but what showed me she really didn't care was most of the people I know asked me how I was for the big exam I had to do for uni or wished me luck, she 'four days later' remember when she realised I wasn't studying because she came to my class in the morning... but idk how I'm going to get rid of her social media because if I unfollow her idk what she'll do because she's my friend I've told her stuff but yep I'll do it but no matter what she acts like she is my best friend and idk how I'm gonna deal with no telling her things even though she doesn't care. Mary (not your real name) you weren't a great friend but we did have a few good memories together but today I'm gonna leave that in the past.


What if you're not sure if it's right to cut ties in the situation?


“i’m not a therapist, i don’t really know what i’m talking about” 😂💀


Not sure if you'll ever see this but you're amazing. I'm 19 and my life's been hell lately, between my father being in and out of the hospital, losing a dear friend, having my girlfriend of 2 and a half years tell me she wasted my time because she didn't love me, and working constant 12 hour shifts. all your music and vlogs are one of the few things that keep me going every day so thank you for having that kind of impact in my life. This past year I've cut so many ties and it sucks. anyways keep being amazing and being yourself Dodie.

That One Bear You're amazing, keep on being strong :)


What if you need to get over someone who you were never been in a relationship with and you haven't seeen him in months


the writing a letter thing really helped. i wrote almost six pages, and then i read them aloud to myself, and cried. but after i felt better - i felt clean.


Question, for anyone that is reading this. How can I get over a friend? As in I'm in love with one of my best friends. But for his sake and mine it might be better in the long haul that I learn to get over him.


Is it really bad that part of me wanted to cry but I couldn't physically do it, because I'm so used to having to pretend I'm ok for other people?


@Billion EP Purba she said fab not fob lol

Billion EP Purba but their profile picture is tøp

I write fanfics Nøt tragedies nice profile pic

omg ur profile pic and username are both fab |-/


what if you live next to them and your best friend lives with them?


im so sad and ive deleted most of my social media so this is where im gonna vent tonight bc i feel bad venting at my friends late at night. i dont know how to feel abt the toxic friendship im in right now. well actually i know exactly how i feel. I feel betrayed, sad, angry, confused, conflicted. I literally feel like im grieving or something.

it doesn't matter to me if someone reads this or not. but if anyone has some advice please god give it to me.

I never knew i would find myself here. Everyone talks about someone being obviously horrible to them for the most part.

But i havent seen many on emotional manipulation. At least thats what i think i experienced.
My "bestfriend" of 5 years has always been kind of off to me. She was so nice to me in the beginning and when she pushed me to the side like i was nothing i found myself constantly seeking the amazing emotionally supportive friendship i once had. I will admit that i was a bit codependent. I had some reasons. We just cut off a relationship close mutal friend which brought us close. She had me and i had her from then on. We did everything togther. I still had other friends and so did she but she was my bestfriend. Things were fine for only a year and she seem to move on to other friendships but its confusing bc usually u take your bestfriend with u for the ride ya know. But i was deliberately ignored by her and not included. I got super inscure that i wasnt good enough and shit. I become friends with someone who wasn't good for me and depended on them for all my emotional needs bc i had my bestfriend didnt want me anymore. I cut ties with that person after a year bc i had a crush on them. My old bestfriend was getting nice with me again. She would ask me how my day went and when we hung out it was fun. But there were times were i was ignored i was pushed to the side i was used i felt alone. I know i have issues with co dependency but this cant be completly my fault bc it sure as hell feels that way. I feel so fucking wierd i just want to curl up into a little ball. maybe there is something wrong with me maybe im the bad friend maybe I'll never know what any of this means but i can't stand it any more and the only thing i kmow for sure is that it hurts

whenever you want to talk, I'm good at things like this

sorry i forgot you deleted your social media lmao

@Alicia Carney you have no idea how much is means to me that at least one person can relate to this because I feel like I've gone a bit crazy in the past week

I'm going through the same, you are loved and not alone


what happens if my friends don’t want to hear about them anymore


Idk what to do...I can't do this cause it's too selfish. It's rlly hurting rn and idk what to do. Fuck.

Ty guys this really helps, I have a couple of people I've felt trapped with who never give me any care back and use me like a dumping ground for all their shit, and I will keep with one because they're changing and I think they deserve a chance but taking your advice I will cut ties :) ty xx

Katie Terrill you have to put your own happiness first. It may hurt, but it's not selfish

Katie Terrill sometimes whilst it hurts like hell, you have to be selfish-trust me, sometimes cutting ties is the best thing for both parties eventually, it's going to hurt but it does get better I promise you x

Katie Terrill sometimes it's necessary to be selfish. There comes a point when making yourself unhappy for the sake of another's happiness is not right, no matter what their issues are. It's not your problem. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be with someone, either platonically or romantically. You need to do what's best for you, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Only then can you truly help others. Making the decision is excruciating. I know. But if you want out, you must summon the strength to do it, and you will be so relieved once it's done.


Really wanna meet you. You're amazing. Love your Vids gal xx


what if the people I think I should let go of ARE my friends? what then? how do I find new people who I know genuinely care when all of my past friendships are the same cycles of not initially realizing they don't really want me around?


My best friend backstabbed me and started hanging out with my bullies from elementary school all the way through high-school. We were friends since 6th grade. She was my only friend and now I have 0 friends and since I am so fucking awkward I can’t make friends while she is so happy, and has millions of friends.


So one year later, after watching this video and applying it to one little toxic asshole, everything is better. Except, i have one upcoming problem with my best friend and haha thats fun


my ex and i broke up a little over a month ago, we were together for a year. we’re still friends and we’ve also had sex a couple of times since we broke up, like last week at his new years eve party. it’s fucking hard cause all of my friends are also his closest friends. so i feel like it’s gonna be so much harder because of that, i know that i can talk to him almost whenever i want, and i am able to hug him whenever we see each other, which is when my friend groups hangs out like once a week, and i will maybe be able to cuddle with him or kiss him again. shit’s hard and i try to think about other things but it’s very hard. i’m only 18 so a year is a long time for me and he was my first proper relationship. just wanted to rant...


I’ve only had two boyfriends and this was when I was 4 and 6. <br>:(

I’ve only had two boyfriends and this was when I was 4 and 6.
:(


How do I cut ties with someone that sits beside me everyday? Someone that I cannot avoid. I do all I can to get days off school just so I don’t have to see this person. Of course, if I cut ties with her completely, all of my other “friends” will fall out with me because I’m not a pretty, innocent girl. I don’t have any other friendships to rely on, but I can’t stay friends with this girl.


I'm in love with two people. both of them are my friends. person A is my bestest friend in the world, and we have both expressed how we don't want to lose each other. however person A doesn't know that I'm in love with her. She has a very good boyfriend. person B is not as close and we have never hung out outside of school, but we are close mutually in an undescribable way. I'm also not sure if person B is still in a relationship or not (it was/is a guy). I don't want to cut ties with either of them and I'm pretty sure they don't want to cut ties with me. how do I get over them? (I'm bi, person A is bi, and idk what person B is)

I can't talk to my friends about this because I don't want it to make it weird with my other friends and the 2 friends Im in love with. and I don't want to keep secrets, but also don't want to tell the people I love that I love them because it will make our friendship weird and I value our friendship. I can't talk with my parents either because I'm not out to my dad and my mom disapproves. I can't talk to my brother because I'm not out yet and he will make me feel unsafe if I do, so I'm not going to come out to him. my other brother I don't want to talk with because he is abusive to his girlfriend :(( so I DON'T want advise from a manipulative person.


I have such a tendency to invite toxic people into my life


ohh I wish that we were friends in real life..


I tried this I have an Ex-boyfriend who absolutely loves me, he basically spends all his time watching twitch streams until I got online. I spent literally every second of my free time with them and while he always said I didn't have to talk to him if I didn't want to but later he'd whine about not spending time with me and when I told him I felt smothered he'd just say something like oh sleep less then you'll have more time to yourself." but he makes sure I text him when I wake up and if I don't he;ll wine when I eventually do. I even remember him saying one time "us time should be the same as you time." I eventually broke up with him but tried just being friends hoping he'd lighten up but that didn't happen and I eventually told him I didn't want to talk anymore. three weeks past and I was happy, I felt so calm and relaxed and free when he texts out of the blue begging to call me I texted back worried he was depressed or worse and agreed I'd talk again. At first things were fine but he's started taking over my life again and now it's worse because I'm in college and thus have even less time to myself and he's even started telling me he loves me again and once the other day I told him I didn't want to skype after dinner and he straight up started crying and wouldn't stop till I stayed on, sometimes he'll even call just so he can sleep with me there and he also gets upset when I'm doing stuff when he's on because he wants my full attention. Even if I told him I was going to bed he'd look at my steam account to see if I was up playing video games.

I understand I sound selfish but I really just want him out of my life, I don't think he's doing this all on purpose and I really don't wanna hurt him but I just can't take it anymore. What do I do?


Kellie apishO oh shit, same... In september I moved out for college and I've been way better since then. I still keep in touch with my mother, but not actually living with her is great. I don't know your situation, and it's difficult, if not almost impossible, to completely cut ties with a family member, but a time will come when you will be able to distance yourself a little bit, and trust me, it will definitely get better.


I just broke up with my girlfriend and she got pissed and now everyone in my friend group is really pissed at me. I'm suicidal and I just want to leave. I'm happy dodie has this because I really need it right now.


I want to talk to him and make a big empowering speech about how he doesn’t deserve me because of how he treated me but the whole reason I’m here is because he ghosted me..


youtube recommended this today and i literally just broke up lol


this might be to...to get rid someone in your life who's a bit toxic.
ow.

this might be to...to get rid someone in your life who's *a bit* toxic.
ow.


i’m not trying to get over someone per say, but trying to cut an amount of toxic people out slowly but surely, this helped so much. i’m so so grateful Xxx

and we return a day later just having been left by someone i cared about (my link lol kmn) and i came straight to this


I wish I'd seen this video when I needed it

Aaaaaaand it keeps coming up on my recommended what is YouTube trying to tell me
I brought someone back into my life that I cut out
Uh shit


my sunday just got 587763746 times better


My friend sent me this video, she's telling me I need to cut ties with a couple people because they hurt me but I don't want to. I just want to be friends with them still because if I cut ties with them I'll think about them more, I know, I've tried to. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have some advice?


I keep coming back to this now and again


this video showed up in my recommended right when i needed it


the way u set up your fairy lights looks like the illuminati triangle. dodie is part of the illuminati confirmed


I wish i can cry . I feel it so much but i cant cry , i want to goddamit


4:46
calling kgb high command, i have located comrade dodie. yes, begin the retrieval operation immediately. no, i do not know why she is in britain.


Step 1: Get a tie. Step 2: Get a pair of scissors. Step 3: Cut that fucked up. Step 4: Profit!

sorry I can't do step three, too difficult, accidentally did the opposite, got too attached .... WOoOps

dont worry im in a tough situation and your comment gave me a well needed laugh XD

P.S. I know this is a serious subject, but as an Evan fan, I couldn't resist.


y’know, it’s funny how this popped up first as soon as i opened youtube right after my crush told me they didn’t like me back and that they wouldn’t be talking to me anymore because it would be too weird.


Anyone else want Dodie as their therapist?


What if I'm the toxic one I feel like I need to quarantine myself it's even more painful because I know I'M making the other person worse

I understand that feeling so well. I know that when I cut myself from basically everybody I knew I fell apart, so be careful and think about your decision carefully. However, if you do end up loosing people just use the oppurtunity to improve yourself and work on being less toxic. You'll be alright and don't blame yourself too much because where does that get you? No where, so just treat yourself kindly and good luck! We'll figure this out together :]


I am in a current situation where I don't want to be in a relationship with this person and now I have no idea what to do. He left me before and a week or two later, he came back and he asked if we wanted to date again.So I said "Not right now. I feel very down and I don't want to be in a relationship at the current moment." But I am assuming that he forgot what I said. Or is pretending to forget what I said because I obviously said no. Now he thinks we go out. I don't know what to do. This is probably my first time breaking up with someone and It's impossible to not hurt him and I don't want to. <br>All I want to be is friends and I don't want to cut ties with him. I am already over him but I don't have the guts to go and tell him that I just want to be friends.

I am in a current situation where I don't want to be in a relationship with this person and now I have no idea what to do. He left me before and a week or two later, he came back and he asked if we wanted to date again.So I said "Not right now. I feel very down and I don't want to be in a relationship at the current moment." But I am assuming that he forgot what I said. Or is pretending to forget what I said because I obviously said no. Now he thinks we go out. I don't know what to do. This is probably my first time breaking up with someone and It's impossible to not hurt him and I don't want to.
All I want to be is friends and I don't want to cut ties with him. I am already over him but I don't have the guts to go and tell him that I just want to be friends.


When you posted this video I thought to myself that I'll come back to it when I need it. I guess the time has come..


My ex boyfriend was toxic. He was emotionally abusive. He was Manipulated and a liar and a stalker. I blocked him from everything. He copied me on my talents. I like dancing, he started dancing. I like playing piano, he started playing piano. He kept copying and just he sucked at it. Don't be caught in a toxic relationship. It has been 8 months since I haven't talked to him or seen him. I'm fine. And now I'm just thinking about my sexuality. Dodie your amazing. You bring joy and laughter to everyone. Just keep being you. ❤

Go you! You did all of those amazing things because you're amazing.

Kai' Rose my ex boyfriend was the same way. I was tired of him financially and emotionally sucking me dry and hurting me. A friend came to me and put everything on the table of why he wasn't good for me and I got to a breaking point. So I broke it off after two years. It was hard, but I feel so much better afterwards. And he made my cosplay group hate me and manipulated them to see me as a bad person. Now he is dating one of my friends. I cut them off entirely and it made it so much easier.

I've been in a strangely similar situation. I'm so happy you got yourself out of that and were able to learn from the experience.

Kai' Rose very proud of you for getting out of it 💕


I really need this because I had a crush on a girl at school and she didn’t like me back so I was really quiet and sad and I told her I wanted to cut ties because it was bad for my mental health and not to contact me etc and it was killing me and then her friends keep trying to contact me cyberbullying etc I’m still hurting and the worst part is I can’t cry because I feel numb all the time anyways trying find a way to get better


I am alone tho. <br>Just moved away, dealing with a break up and have no friends at all.

I am alone tho.
Just moved away, dealing with a break up and have no friends at all.


i just got broken up with tonight and then i opened youtube to listen to sick of losing soulmates and this popped up first and honestly , thank you youtube


"If you're crying right now..." crap how did she know


a year?  that's a long time.  Thanks for the video.


I don't know what to do I need to cut off my best best friend. She hasn't done anything but I am just kinda toxic, I breakdown, I constantly disappoint her and she just brings stress to my life without doing anything. So I can't just go up to her and say I don't want to be friend's for no apparent reason. Not only that but I walk to school with her everyday and it's just full on awkwardness and we've been friends for two years and I want to stop it simply because I enjoy no company over any company all the time. I don't want to be a bad person but I don't know what to do.

I have done the same thing. it took me a full year to get rid of everything. all i can say is slow but effective


How do you decide if it is really toxic.. cus sometimes this person is just like on this side that you'll never want to touch. But there's also the moment you felt wow it's still soo lucky to have them...<br>ok there's another best friend of mine just ghosted me. I have been wondering why for months and it hurts. But after watching this I guess probably I'm the one who was toxic for her...

How do you decide if it is really toxic.. cus sometimes this person is just like on this side that you'll never want to touch. But there's also the moment you felt wow it's still soo lucky to have them...
ok there's another best friend of mine just ghosted me. I have been wondering why for months and it hurts. But after watching this I guess probably I'm the one who was toxic for her...


It's just fucking weird how you were so happy in somebody's arms and now you have to force yourself to let everything go


I wish knew about this video before this would of helped younger me from the past.


My friend is great but for the last month she's been rude I care about her a lot and she been getting bad grades so I wanted to keep her focused and been trying to help her with things  but I said something today she got super mad I felt unimportant I was trying to help her so she is successful I told her and she said it was annoying that was just today I've been thinking about this for a while it might be because of some of her friends changing her Im probably over reacting but when she started being friends with the other girl I felt like I couldn't tell her anything im scared to cut her off but I feel like its necessary


I mean by friend, broke up a friendship with me for near to no reason and I’m going through all of this. But I do all of this a lot :/ and I swear they just don’t care about me


I keep coming back to this video lol what does that say about my life?


For a gay person, I know I'll never find someone. No matter what I do and how nice I am and how good I look, I can't get even just a casual boyfriend. fuck life! I didn't choose to be gay and now I'll have to suffer alone for it! 27 years old and I've never been in a relationship ever! So sick of my life. I have lots of hobbies that I love doing and they keep me busy, but at the end of the day, we can't live alone :'(


I was dating my best friend and then she decided she wasn't ready for it so we went back to being freinds but it was awkward, then things were back to normal but she started dating this girl from work (she's bi) and it's awful. I'm genuinely happy for her but seeing them together is so painful i can't stand being around them. I feel like i need to cut her out of my life, but is that the right thing to do?


I became attached to this person for a whole year. I had a crush on her and did everything to become close to her. I didn't really expect anything out of it but we became close, closer than I ever expected. Then I fell in love with her but she's straight, and has a boyfriend that she really loves. So, yeah, I know that sooner or later I have to move on with my life, and just find someone new. But, the problem is, should I tell her? You know, when I cut ties with her? Should I tell her why? some part of me just wants to hide it and stay friends with her and hope that I'll someday fall out of love, or find someone new and I'll get over her but we still get to be friends and she won't get hurt and everybody's happy. I know that won't be the case tho, and I just don't know what to do. please help, huhu.


What if you’re the one being cut off? He’s doing it for him and not me. He kinda just blocked me on everything and doesn’t talk to me at all...when I asked why he said he doesn’t know and that’s the last time I talked to him. I miss him he was my best friends...he meant everything to me...what do I do?


my (ex) boyfriend recently broke up with me and i can't figure out how to get over him. he's done a lot of shit to me that's really hurt me and i'm a little fucked up because of him, but for some reason i can't seem to stop loving him and thinking about him and constantly checking his social media. when he broke up with me he told me that it was because he's not ready to be in a relationship, and i understand that, but i still blame myself. it's not logical and i don't know why, but i keep telling myself that if i had done something differently or acted in a different way he would still want to be with me. anyway, sorry if this is boring to anyone. i don't usually rant in the YouTube comment section, but this community is very sweet and supportive so i figured why not. if anyone has any wisdom or advice to impart upon me, anything at all, please don't hesitate.


o god i watched this before i ever got in a relationship and im back now right after a breakup with my first serious boyfriend and o wow i needed this.

Rachel Anne yeah I broke up with my girlfriend last night and I needed this too


I did all this with a toxic friend of mine, but they made new accounts to stalk me with. I just want her to leave me alone.


honestly i'm just scared i won't find any other friends cuz she's really my only close friend besides my boyfriend


i cant take her off social media, i just cant. im homeschooled, but she isnt. shes in school, surrounded by a crowd of dickbags who will talk about me, lie about me if i do the slightest thing. whenever i see her in a picture i always get upset, its either 'i took that photo' or 'oh look she wants to go outside with OTHER people' or even 'thats our inside joke, why is she using it with other people unless shes mocking me' i hate this so much.

like with dodie's ex-boyfriend she also liked to play the passive aggresive game, her and her friends went to a cemetery in a sleepover, i didnt want to go but if i did they were gonna leave me in the house by myself (bear in mind, it was only the month before that i lost a family member. she knew this. she didnt care.) my mind is WELL graphic, and it imagines stuff... when i was there, i envisioned my dead grandma hanging from one of the tall poles - because of this i had a panic attack. i thought it was real.

she knew. she didnt care.

no one there - out of 7 kids - helped me calm down. i was alone, having a panic attack, in front of a bunch of graves. fun.

another time, my asthma was really bad. i got so scared that, in the middle of us walking and talking i pulled out my phone, asking to text instead - all because i was afraid that i would have an asthma attack if i used up too much of my breath. she played the silent game. (i know we were texting, but it was different. like you could sense the anger coming from her)

she scolded me for reaching out, her friends have hinted that i'm 'stupid' and i just hate her so so much. the worst thing is, before we went to high school she was lovely, nicest person you'd ever meet. we 'made up' after our argument 6 months ago, but i call bs. she claimed to cry at night because i wasnt her friend for that period. i literally lingered around her school when all the kids would go home, just for the chance to see her. i missed her so much. she stopped caring about me.


bless you just bless you you are an angel amongst this humanity


forgot this video existed. wish i had re-watched it in august


I needed this. I really fucking needed this.


the problem starts when you don't have anyone else to lean on


damn i'm not ready to unfollow him yet. he doesn't answer me anymore and we're not in the same city so it should be easy for us to forget each other but i still want to know what he's up to. i still want to know what he's doing even though i know what he puts on his social media is way braggier and more perfect than he actually is and i know it's not anything vulnerable and personal and it's not what i want to see of him but at least it's something. because i don't have any other way of knowing anything anymore. i don't think i love or loved him. i know it's probably for the better we parted. but i still want to know him. i think i will unfollow him eventually. i won't want to know him forever, will i?


I cut ties with all the friends i had because i realized that i was toxic. Now i don't have friends and i dont know if i would ever let myself have true friendships, i don't think im good to have as a friend


Someone ditched me. Broke me. She was my best friend


what happens when i have no one else but i am super toxic to them maybe and for myself?


I got dumped few weeks ago so there is that.


no one will see this irl, so my thoughts are safe here;;;

once upon a time, there was a girl, a sad little depresssed girl who had just reached a somewhat unimpressive milestone of a hundred followers on instagram. this girl was also on her twelveth birthday that day. she was happy, because she had bought one of her favorite albums on vinyl, called a moon shaped pool. she had also gotten kids books, very expensive at that. this was the only time of the year that she could get whatever she wanted.

that day, she decided to share her birthday with the small world of just over a hundred she had created over her account. she opened her phot editing app and made a quick photo that said its my birthday and added some photos of her favorite stuff to it. she opened her instagram app and shared that little edit she had made. a few likes later she started getting some birthday messages and sarcastic words from her small group of followers. one in particular caught his attention though. a message, that fitted her personality so well, it said "happy birthday! you are one year closer to death now!" and she giggled to herself. she sent a reply to this person, who then direct messaged her saying "hi" and the girl was pumped, nobody had ever bothered with talking to her ever before. she quickly responded to the person quickly and they started talking.

after hours and hours of chatting later, she had learned that this person was a she, and was called rhian. she had forgotten her name though, so she introduced her to her school friends as rhylie. they kept talking and talking. you see, rhian had a boyfriend that she didnt love anymore, so our naive girl got closer to her, helped her break up with her boyfriend, and helped her gain confidence. she had never realized that she was developing a crush on a certain blonde-haired pretty girl living in dubai, so close to her. when rhian said that she loved her, she was over the happpy state, she was something different. she had thought it was platonic, and when rhian said she was lesbian, oh boy i cant even explain how she felt. she had thought she was happy for her friend.

then rhian introduced her to her soulmate, dian. she was so sweet, sarcastic and funny. our girl and dian instantly clicked. it was awkward at first, because rhain was basically doing matchmaking and they didnt know anything about eachother, but it was the best move of her life.

then rhian found a girlfriend, morgan. our girl felt so sad, betrayed even. she didnt know why she felt like this, she pushed it off as platonic feelings. rhian was happy with her, and that was all that mattered. so she pushed the anger inside, the anger she felt whenever rhian would talk about her "oh so perfect girlfriend". our girl felt something for the first time.

anger

they were still chatting, but rhian was leaning more towards the i-dont-hate-you-but-i-will-give-you-short-answers-that-you-waited-for-hours" side. their friendship was crumbling. she hated morgan for it, she had thought that she was doing it. but sometimes people think wrong. and this was one of those times. she was

wrong

soon enough all that was going on between them was our girl responding to rhians stories, which made her especially mad. because the things rhian said on there were things she would tell to her. soon rhian said that she didnt want to be in their group of friends anymore, which consisted of four; our girl, rhian, dian and a friend that our girl had found along the way, well, the girl had found her trough her wattpad and stalked her. she was called duru and fortunately she was from turkey, our girls home country. they all got along well, exept for rhian. she never chatted. and soon enough, after she left, our girl and her started arguing. our girl had realized that she had a crush by now so she wanted to call her her own but things were going for the worse. they were

arguing

our girls worst fear was arguing, after her parents.

then rhian blocked her, when our girl asked why on her other account, she had said it was because our girl had dmed her in a lesson and she didnt know how to mute her phone. our girl didnt believe that for a second. some parts are not worth saying here, but she got blocked alot.

then rhian broke up with morgan. she had put up a story saying i made someone go into depression and our naive little girl, being the nice kid she was, dmed her. she was constantly trying to get them to be friends, but rhian wouldnt accept it. so rhian responded rudely, they got in an argument and she got blocked again. she tried committing that night. but her friends took good care of her.

they argued more on her other accounts and now our little girl was blocked everywhere

our girl started talking with morgan, which she had started calling morgie, and learned why she had broken up with rhian (which she didnt, rhian broke up with her in a very cruel way) she also learned how much of a b*thc rhian actually was. coming to the end of our story, it was hard for our girl to cut ties with rhian, and she is even more depressed now, she regrets wasting her first internet friendship on rhian. but she will go to therapy hopefully, and feel better. now, if you need the truth about our girl,

that girl is me.

i am wrecked

broken

hurt

and probably will use this as my suicide letter.

but that doesnt matter; overall im just a lost girl in a lost world commenting in a section she knows she will get even more lost at.

={(fin.)}=

no one will see this irl, so my thoughts are safe here;;;

once upon a time, there was a girl, a sad little depresssed girl who had just reached a somewhat unimpressive milestone of a hundred followers on instagram. this girl was also on her twelveth birthday that day. she was happy, because she had bought one of her favorite albums on vinyl, called a moon shaped pool. she had also gotten kids books, very expensive at that. this was the only time of the year that she could get whatever she wanted.

that day, she decided to share her birthday with the small world of just over a hundred she had created over her account. she opened her phot editing app and made a quick photo that said its my birthday and added some photos of her favorite stuff to it. she opened her instagram app and shared that little edit she had made. a few likes later she started getting some birthday messages and sarcastic words from her small group of followers. one in particular caught his attention though. a message, that fitted her personality so well, it said "happy birthday! you are one year closer to death now!" and she giggled to herself. she sent a reply to this person, who then direct messaged her saying "hi" and the girl was pumped, nobody had ever bothered with talking to her ever before. she quickly responded to the person quickly and they started talking.

after hours and hours of chatting later, she had learned that this person was a she, and was called rhian. she had forgotten her name though, so she introduced her to her school friends as rhylie. they kept talking and talking. you see, rhian had a boyfriend that she didnt love anymore, so our naive girl got closer to her, helped her break up with her boyfriend, and helped her gain confidence. she had never realized that she was developing a crush on a certain blonde-haired pretty girl living in dubai, so close to her. when rhian said that she loved her, she was over the happpy state, she was something different. she had thought it was platonic, and when rhian said she was lesbian, oh boy i cant even explain how she felt. she had thought she was happy for her friend.

then rhian introduced her to her soulmate, dian. she was so sweet, sarcastic and funny. our girl and dian instantly clicked. it was awkward at first, because rhain was basically doing matchmaking and they didnt know anything about eachother, but it was the best move of her life.

then rhian found a girlfriend, morgan. our girl felt so sad, betrayed even. she didnt know why she felt like this, she pushed it off as platonic feelings. rhian was happy with her, and that was all that mattered. so she pushed the anger inside, the anger she felt whenever rhian would talk about her "oh so perfect girlfriend". our girl felt something for the first time.

anger

they were still chatting, but rhian was leaning more towards the i-dont-hate-you-but-i-will-give-you-short-answers-that-you-waited-for-hours" side. their friendship was crumbling. she hated morgan for it, she had thought that she was doing it. but sometimes people think wrong. and this was one of those times. she was

wrong

soon enough all that was going on between them was our girl responding to rhians stories, which made her especially mad. because the things rhian said on there were things she would tell to her. soon rhian said that she didnt want to be in their group of friends anymore, which consisted of four; our girl, rhian, dian and a friend that our girl had found along the way, well, the girl had found her trough her wattpad and stalked her. she was called duru and fortunately she was from turkey, our girls home country. they all got along well, exept for rhian. she never chatted. and soon enough, after she left, our girl and her started arguing. our girl had realized that she had a crush by now so she wanted to call her her own but things were going for the worse. they were

arguing

our girls worst fear was arguing, after her parents.

then rhian blocked her, when our girl asked why on her other account, she had said it was because our girl had dmed her in a lesson and she didnt know how to mute her phone. our girl didnt believe that for a second. some parts are not worth saying here, but she got blocked alot.

then rhian broke up with morgan. she had put up a story saying i made someone go into depression and our naive little girl, being the nice kid she was, dmed her. she was constantly trying to get them to be friends, but rhian wouldnt accept it. so rhian responded rudely, they got in an argument and she got blocked again. she tried committing that night. but her friends took good care of her.

they argued more on her other accounts and now our little girl was blocked everywhere

our girl started talking with morgan, which she had started calling morgie, and learned why she had broken up with rhian (which she didnt, rhian broke up with her in a very cruel way) she also learned how much of a b*thc rhian actually was. coming to the end of our story, it was hard for our girl to cut ties with rhian, and she is even more depressed now, she regrets wasting her first internet friendship on rhian. but she will go to therapy hopefully, and feel better. now, if you need the truth about our girl,

that girl is me.

i am wrecked

broken

hurt

and probably will use this as my suicide letter.

but that doesnt matter; overall im just a lost girl in a lost world commenting in a section she knows she will get even more lost at.

-={(fin.)}=-


I mean I can't cut myself out of my life


But what if you're tryna get over a crush and u never knew for sure whether they liked u back or not... not sure if it's even that important for me to talk to them about it (they knew I had a crush on them btw)


And I love you got making me feel so loved


ah yes, back again in 2021. nothing feels real, but I'm working on it :)


How can I get rid of toxic friends if they’re my school friends? I have to see them everyday in lessons and I walk to and from school with them. I feel really unhappy with them and I want to change but I don’t know how because I don’t have a choice of when  I’m m around them


anyone else repeat this video over and over and over againnn


idk if any of u could help me with this but i'm in quite a weird situation rn.

recently, my girlfriend and i broke up with each other. we had been falling apart for a while so we knew it wouldn't last forever. both of us have been apart of the same friend circle, so when we broke up she was kind of booted out ? and the other friends of my circle ever since then have been completely unforgiving to her, basically bullying her every chance they get. even more recently she was taken to the hospital because she was suicidal. i was so shocked and torn because i still care for her so much. after she came back to school, i tried so hard to make her feel loved, and i realized that i'm one of her only close friends. i feel this major responsibility to keep anyone from hurting her but it's hurting me so much to where i feel my own self withering away while i attempt to keep her intact. it's been so unhealthy for me seeing her everyday and talking to her because it hurts me so much but i'm afraid of the consequences if i leave her. i really don't know what to do


Why didn't I see this when I needed advice like this :(


I was in a toxic friendship. This girl was very manipulative. It was all about her. When she was sad, everyone had to stop what they were doing and support her. Now i know thats how friendships work but it should go both ways. If she hurt me and I talked to her about it, I was yelled at/ignored and it was my fault for feeling things. To this day I don't always tell people what I am feeling because I don't want to be yelled at. When I was sad, I would cry in bathrooms...alone. I had no support from her. My other friends didn't help much either. Two didnt understand, one was that girls bf, one was not around much and the other was her. The people I surrounded myself with, left me in my time of need. I was sick of being put 2nd. I was sick of not being heard. I stopped being friends with this manipulative girl...and thats when it went silent. Her bf, who was one of my closet friends, stopped talking to me. My other two friends continued not to understand and washed over everything and the other girl was again, never around. I was alone. I felt complete emptiness for about a month. Its been 4 months now. I now have new friends and I am happier and still healing. I still want to talk to these people. i still think that I over reacted (as I was told that when I was upset) but I keep reminding myself why I left in the first place and how different my friendships are now. How much better they are and not one sided. It still hurts but it gets better. Stay strong loves


I thought this video would help... then it got to step 5 and i realised that without her, i dont have anyone... i really dont know what to do. She's moved on from me but im still stuck on her and stopping talking to her makes me feel so damn alone... i dont talk to anyone else... i dont have anyone else. I dont know what to do


I really loved her. I loved her. I loved her so much. I loved her so much. I loved her so much. I loved her. so much. </3

I loved her so much she was my bestfriend and she was my everything. oh god. I think about her everyday how am I supposed to not think about her. it's been 5 months already. i need help. I loved her so much. I loved her so much. I loved her so much.


Екатерина Ривендейл


How do u know ur in a toxic relationship


I'm currently trying to cut ties with a friend because their toxic
I've talked to my other friends and Bill(my mom's bf) and they also believe that our friend ship is not good for ether of me and and it is very onesided as in it was always about them and they made me feel like shit and they always make me deal with all of their problems and Its like I'm their therapist
And I just can't do it anymore
I've been thinking about it sense(at the most recent) may last year but I don't want to hurt their feelings so I pushed down my own because they make it out like every thing is a personal attack on them and everytime I don't reply to them because I don't have the energy to do it they say I'm ignoring them and that I ignore everyone and it makes me feel like I'm a terrible person and I just can't do it anymore


i should've watched this earlier. <br>too bad I did the exact opposite of what you have just said. dammit.😂

i should've watched this earlier.
too bad I did the exact opposite of what you have just said. dammit.😂


I fell in love so quickly. But then she left right after I realized that I was falling so far for her. Now I can't stop thinking about her, shes always on my mind. Its always her but I can't fill that void by talking to her. So I'm stuck here thinking about her. Her dad found out about us, and that's why shs had to stop talking to me. But I can't get over her if I keep talking to her, but she said maybe one day we'll start talking again and I so desperately want that. But I know I can't, and its tearing me apart.


what if the other person wants to be friends again?


I want to get over someone but I just can’t


but what do i do if i cut ties with him but i have to see him like every week and theres no way i can get out of it?


Broke up with my first "boyfriend" but he wasn't even that. agh


i can't really talk to my friends because they're too busy doing drugs, which i don't do anymore. so they're too intoxicated to listen :/


I have a friend that makes me behave like a dick and makes me talk shit about my best friend and she is toxic and she doesn’t truly support me but I’m having a brain bang and I’m just confused...and a friend of mine legit cut me off today so yeah...not having the best day


I don't have anyone that would help me. I've been replaced by one of my friend that just used me to get back to her ex. She stoled my ibff that I know for 4 years now. She stold everything I had. She destroyed my whole life. I just can't get over it, I cry every night and I still didn't moved on. It's just a hard situation rn for me..


What if leaving them is what is whats healthy for you but would make things worse for them


coming back to this after having to cut off the millionth person who changed their mind and decided they don't have room for me in their life

why doesn't anyone want me


Okay, advice? I don't know whether to cut ties with my ex. He was my first boyfriend, he was my first kiss , we both lost our virginity to each other (tmi I kmow but it's important). We recently got in contact again after three years and surprise, we keep sleeping together and we care about each other, I've told him I have feelings for him but he refuses to tell me how he feels. We chat like old times all the time and ugh I don't know. I am 19 and he's 20. We dated when I was 14 and he was 15.

tegan julie i would cut ties. if he’s ignoring the subject, he’s using you. im so sorry you’re going through this, but you will get through it and be okay. of course, ultimately it’s your decision and im only 14 but that doesn’t sound like a healthy or nice relationship.


how do you cry in public? anyone? when you can't stop it and you have nowhere to hide?


I am so afraid of hurting my ex by cutting contact with her. we broke up 4 months ago because her religion drove us apart. but she still keeps texting me every once in a while, telling me that she loves me and such things. I love her too, but her religion makes it just impossible. I just can't stay in this painful limbo any longer.

how should I approach her? I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know how to move on when she keeps on contacting me like this


That was a lovely face at the beginning 👌🏼👌🏼


The thing is I wanna cut off unhealthy people from my life. The thing is if I cut off one they'll all fall. I'm scared for many reasons. I'm worried about what will happen with them, how they'll take it.  Dont get me wrong, I love them. I love them so much  but to a point where my happiness is not in the equation. I feel selfish and horrible but I just dont want to carry so much anymore. Does that make me selfish?


"Let's make a bow with old cut ties" dunno if this relates???


how do you get over someone who you almost but never had


i want to tell the person but i dont know how to put it into words, i love her but she doesnt love me back

and i have no other friends


How do I tell him with out hurting him ?


but what if I’m forced to see this person every other day because of school? it makes it so much harder and awkward.


How do you get over someone without cutting contact? Like if the person isn't toxiz and didn't really hurt you intentionally, but thinking about/being with them kinda hurts?


O doubt you'll ever read this but can you plz cover "the night we met"big fan


I've got a huge crush on a teacher who I've got all the time for at least the next year and I hate it so, so much, anybody got any advice?


I just cut a tie with a very close friend of mine because she always fought with me and loves drama and was very clingy and I feel terrible please help me what do I do? Please


I can't bring myself to get over my ex. I did get over him but then I fell back in love with him :-( I broke up with a good/happy person to be with him again >:-( he hurts me (not physically) 4 times. most of my friends thinks I should delete him from social media & yes I agree with them but I just can't bring myself to do it. I love him but he totally forgets that I exist or anything. hELP ME