ladies and gentlemen we have reached a point of humanity where parents arguing is a nostalgic trip

I didn’t even hear it I was just focusing on Mario cart

You're one of those Gods people talk about, this is my first time seeing one with my own eyes, very impressive.

The previous generation truly failed us in many ways

Lol where’ve you been the past few decades? That’s ALWAYS been the case with any kind of traumatic event a lot of people relate to. My mom’s generation does it too (Gen X). Sharing in it kinda just makes it less painful for a lot of people.

It's not so much of a nostalgic trip when you're currently experiencing it

Parent arguments still at least exist in some countrys

Someone didn’t pay attention in history class…

nostalgic? im still experiencing it they argue every single day smh

@dontkick mychick honestly, it does. In safe spaces to discuss these things, we both share, and remove power from, our trauma, little by little. I love that these discussions happen. It lets us all know we aren’t as alone in our experiences as we may think, and that others feel our pain, too. Solidarity means healing ❤🩹

@Red Sprinkle I've lived this three different times where dad was always the problem

@mivhou "you people are proof that evolution can go in reverse"

-Squidward

I mean it doesn’t have to be violent arguing. Sometimes it’s just hearing people’s voices

@zeropiewhat's your problem with my profile picture? Also, it's unoriginal in the sense that other ppl say it too often

@Red Sprinkle same, i wish you luck getting through it

Oh this isn’t nostalgic, I’m living this right now

@xin people have been telling you that the most painful thing you've experienced is a dying character? Wouldn't that mean it's time to change your profile picture

@zeropie bruh i don't even watch anime, it just looked cool, also, it's not a nostalgic trip for me because it's still happening

@zeropie hah roasted chicken hahahahahahaha

@zeropie hah roasted chicken hahahahahahaha

@xin thats probably the reason you have an anime pfp, the only pain you've experienced is the side character being killed

I'd never be like my parents 😔 if I ever have children, I'll give them the childhood that I didn't get

Dunno if I’d say I feel nostalgic but yeah its relatable

<b>At one point, walking would be nostalgic.</b>

*At one point, walking would be nostalgic.*

@Captain Skiper lol my parents would be even louder and end up dragging us into the fights as well and I still find it nostalgic

Oh sh... you're not wrong and that makes me uncomfortable

i mean... maybe if your parents are divorced and only one of them has full custody, then you might remember the days they were together, the days when your family was a "normal family". even if the majority of the memories are of them fighting

@dontkick mychick if we split the combined trauma we all suffered between ourselves we're all gonna get instant schizophrenia.

That ain't nostalgia that's just a painful memory

@mivhou well for their generation mass genocides and war were nostalgic

I suppose if we split the trauma between ourselves it becomes a little less painful, now doesn't it

@Lenin Chan isnt it relatable because its nostalgic?

@mivhou Life isn’t sunshine and rainbows they’re always going to be disagreements

Gonna be honest this entire  video is more relatable than nostalgic


the ds guy is a god. He inst even moving his hand and winning the mk race

When this happens to me I just go still mode, I barely move my hands or my body waiting for them to stop

He just have good gaming chair not hacking


the anxiety i feel when their voices grow louder and it's more scary when they start throwing things and i try to ignore it by playing games.

wait they throw things? Jesus Christ I hope you’re ok, I thought my parents yelling for a few minutes was bad. sorry

@meep I had the same fear. My mom pulled a gun on my step dad once, and after that, I would barricade my door because I was worried it'd happen again, and that I would be next

My dad would get violent with her and beat the shit outta her it was so fucking scary

Its the same feeling of stress and dread as when you are young and scared of a thunderstorm for me

I know the feeling. It was always dread, for me, though, when they were suddenly quiet. My mom and her bf got really violent and I would imagine her lifeless body underneath him when there was a sudden pause.

Oh god I remember that same exact thing with my parents

My dad used to get reaĺly violent with my mom, always got really scared. Am older and they still argue alot but they don't get violent anymore, whenever they argue I just ignore it but I do get slightly scared "god please don't end up divorcing or hitting eachother" but I got used to it anyways.

That's horrible, sorry to hear that. My parents would yell all the time, but at least they never got violent


You truly captured the awkwardness of pulling up a DS while they’re yelling.

I wonder how the inventor of the DS feels knowing his gaming device became a coping mechanism for me and many others. Legit would just play Mario kart while mom and her boyfriend argued as a kid

@Trick Trick please tell me you are joking

@Trick Trick A Dual Screened handheld gaming console

@chi yeah, but the XL version. It wasn't mines tho

@Klaus Mikaelson wolf kart* but yes. nah you’re good i play mario kart 8 and wii

@Trick Trick i am so ashamed of this generation

Exactly, not to mention I had Mario Kart 7

Is it bad that im still playing mario carts on my 11 year old nitendo????

@Trick Trick jesus christ tell me your joking


It’s a blessing and a curse. My parents divorced around when I was 2 or 3. I never got to grow up in a stable family and never had a mother figure in my life. But I did not have to deal with the pain of listening to them argue, nor did I have to experience the divorce or miss one parent very badly.

I got the fun of a divorce and the fun of fighting! Thanks stepmother, you're great, just saying though, not exactly compatible with mi Padre.

@Comrades doggo rip comrade dog 2007-2019

this happens to me too.  i don't have mother figures since my mother kinda don't want me.


I like the touch of having rainbow road as the track, cause everything else is so dark and gloomy but you’re focused entirely on the colourful and bright and happy video game, so much so that if you did this every time your parents fought, it would be as if nothing was happening


everybody gangsta until they take their headphones off and the muffled yelling don't stop

@Thiago Bonetta todos gangsta hasta que se quitan los auriculares y los gritos no paran [traducido de google]

@FailedtoVerify I need some rn. Especially them noise canceling ones

@DreDeeBee_Shorts dang. parents r fr annoying. they literally cannot deal with their problems w/ out yelling at each other and letting their kids know that they're having some sort of drama.

Box Dazai we'll see about that since mangas and animes don't really tend to make me sad.

@Larry F this turned into a horror story god damn

ngl my own comment hits too close to home

Everybody gangsta until

Your parent's has been pretty much dead over 3 years ago, you live alone, 3 kilometres away from the nearest city.

Everybody gangsta until

*Your parent's has been pretty much dead over 3 years ago, you live alone, 3 kilometres away from the nearest city.*

Box Dazai haha yeah i kin mitsuba and i've been planning to read the manga for a while now

Dang the comment got like 40 likes in a hour

People that don't use headphones: <b>My power generates gravity</b>

People that don't use headphones: *My power generates gravity*


This hits home further for me because I would be listening to the muffled yelling from my bed playing that exact game sometimes that map even.  I just wish they would defuse the situation and say we are where we are now and we can only move forward or compromise.


It’s crazy that so many people experienced this often. Most of my friends have divorced parents. It’s sad that most people don’t think about how this affects their kids. My parents are still together, but the few times they argued loudly really used to scare me. They think it doesn’t affect their kids, but it really does

My parents have done this since forever. The fact that they're still together is beyond me.


Then you start cleaning up your area so they don't have anything to get mad about when they walk into your room.

Its so sad of the amount of people found this relatable :(

Bro the amount of relatable comments is crazy good 😂

Man, I remember doing this, and it would have worked had I not been doing these things just as one of them came in to say "you're only doing this now?!"

mhm then if you have it you start on your homework so when they walk in you look like a good little child

Relate to these comments too hard it’s scary

@Chloe Gibbs they don't fall for that but my world record Is making it to 5AM

Or pretending to go to bed so that they can’t get mad at you and forget it in the morning, even though it’s only 7pm

then you get picked on anyway 'cuz you didn't put up something you didn't even notice

When you try your best to not stand out to not get picked for anything, relatable.


I’m ecstatic my younger brother will never be able to relate to this. My parents have grown a lot since I was a child, and thankfully they held off on having another kid until they were actually ready. Nothing makes me happier knowing that the marriage is stable now and the worst is behind them, all good things for my baby brother.

"One sacrifice for the safety of the other."

Idt it makes sense


I'm just more stunned by the fact that this unnamed child knows how to use telekinesis to play Mario Kart.

Which means that he/she currently has a calm and stable mind while his/her parents are arguing


Wow... Helps showing me how good I've had it. I don't have any memories like this. Sorry for all of you, hope you got through it well enough.


How to know if someone has balls of steel: they go downstairs for a snack or something while their parents are loudly arguing

Done that before then headed back to my room with said snack.

Done that before then headed back to my room with said snack.

I go in the bathroom and get diarrhea 2 times

I go in the bathroom and get diarrhea 2 times

I did that once when my parents were arguing and they just stopped and looked at me and then I went up stairs and thought I stopped it and then it would progressively start to fire up again.

I would get out of my room to grab a snack or go to the bathroom mostly to see them argue

Wait, I do that.

It's fine, it isn't that bad.

Wait, I do that.

It's fine, it isn't that bad.

use to casually go downstairs to get snacks while my mom and her bf were arguing loud as hell

it's pretty easy, just take a balls of steel pill, go downstairs, eat the snack, and prepare to lose all those soul hearts you got from the pill

@I'm a person I used to come out of my room when the arguing sounded like it’ll become physical and I would just be stuck after seeing them and hearing them argue. my mom would tell me to go in my room or try to push me back but I just could t or wouldn’t move. Almost like it’s subconscious or natural to stay near the fight in case someone gets too angry and violent

I did that but we don't have a downstairs

I did that but we don't have a downstairs

I do that. But not without hurting mentally, and as soon as I am done I run back to my room

nah my parents make me get into the fight

nah my parents make me get into the fight

dude I legit was the kid to do that, my mom would always say go back in the room but I legit just shouted back with a normal face and continue getting the snack I wanted.

@I'm a person my parents just keep arguing then sometimes yelling at me for some weird stuff

Or me standing at the stairs and hearing the toxic comments and crying every five seconds for them bringing me up

I once interrupted them to say "Can I watch youtube?" <br>Guess i have some balls of steel and guts

I once interrupted them to say "Can I watch youtube?"
Guess i have some balls of steel and guts

I used to build gundams on the floor, that was the last time i build a gundam on the floor while my parents are arguing

I used to to that when I was really little 😂 I would be scared now cause I understand what’s happening

I actually do that. Except it’s usually me going to the bathroom or getting a water bottle or something.

@SerbianCaps MY DAD LITERALLY CALLS ME TO MAKE FUN OF MY MOM WITH HIM-

lmao my siblings make me go in the room bc my parents would stop fighting after

I always go downstairs and stare at them until they stop

I always go downstairs and stare at them until they stop

I did that so they would see me and realize they are being loud

I did that so they would see me and realize they are being loud

I could eat an entire meal in the same room as them and they would keep fighting in the background

@Edith Marka oh okay hope your in a better situation now.

@Edith Marka oh okay hope your in a better situation now.

@Dare Bear Anyways that I wanted to ask my mom for something while I knew she was arguing with my dad. Get it now?

@Edith Marka I've reread this 50 times and it still doesn't make any sense whatsoever sorry.

When I was small, I was watching TV in my parents room while they were arguing. It wasn't working so I went to the living room to tell my mom... While she was still arguing and u knew I shouldn't go to ask her to fix it at that exact moment but I just needed to watch TV. But my elder sis didn't let me go.  wanted to watch TV

I did this when i was 10. I barely paid attention

I did this when i was 10. I barely paid attention

@Eva 💜 it's funny (not really) because if it was the other way around the cops would've been called. Unless if their is more to it.

Haha it was me, they were never noticing me, unless mother wanted to scream at me or hurt me, I could even go downstairs and make myself some grilled sandwiches next to my parents.

that’s me, my parents would be fighting and i would just walk past them to make myself some chicken wings and get some water

Damn I should’ve done that before they got divorced lmao

Damn I should’ve done that before they got divorced lmao

I went to get wwater when my parents were arguing and I almost had a shoe thrown at me 0-0

Lol, usually when my parents get into fights my sister and I sneak out of the house and walk around the neighborhood until our parents stop arguing

@I'm a person Yeah same tbh. I usually pause everything so I'll be able to hear when things get too loud and go downstairs or into whatever room they're in so that I can kinda just sit there like 👁👄👁 until they realize I'm there and calm down.

@d51318 that means you have fuckin balls of diamonds

@d51318 that means you have fuckin balls of diamonds

does getting a snack at 3 am then abruptly breaking up a fist fight between your mom and her bf count?

I mean, I've done that before, but I had music blasting in my earphones to try to ignore their arguing and to get the brownies out of the oven

I would get scared and just play and stay in my room where I felt safe

@I'm a person lol my dad literally calls me to see my mom getting hurt

I would just start listening to my favorite band at the time ultraspank since I had their CD progress

I DID THAT ONCE AND WATCHED MY FATHER GET SLAPPED-

I DID THAT ONCE AND WATCHED MY FATHER GET SLAPPED-

I don’t have stairs…

I’m

I have gear stairs

I don’t have stairs…

I’m

I have gear stairs

I’m the walk out to go to the bathroom type 😩 or get a water bottle

I’m the walk out to go to the bathroom type 😩 or get a water bottle

@I'm a person damn wish that worked for me

@I'm a person damn wish that worked for me

I would just stay in the same room as them and just see them argue because when I was there they wouldn't be able to hurt each other because they didn't want me to see them hurt each other :D


"oh god i hope he doesn't come in my room oh god please leave me alone"


this wasn’t my parents, rather my mom and my brother would constantly (and sometimes still do) argue like this. good times


And then you start hearing serious glass breaking and slap noises...

And then you start hearing serious glass breaking and slap noises...

@plankton gunslinger why's there a bossbar tho 😟

@plankton gunslinger why's there a bossbar tho 😟

TURNS OUT YOUR PARENTS WERE ACTUALLY BREAKING GLASS WITH THEIR VOICES AND PLAYING PATTY CAKE

And then you hear "my dog stepped on a bee"

And then you hear "my dog stepped on a bee"

That’s starting to become every night for me

That’s starting to become every night for me

There ya go. I used to try to step in and try to distance them from each other when I was REALLY young but It didn’t usually work. They’d just tell me they weren’t fighting and for me to go back in my room before starting up again

But whats really serious is hearing Frag Grenade sounds

But whats really serious is hearing Frag Grenade sounds

And then you start to hear the <b>door</b>

Yeah that's when you run into your closet with your plushies

Yeah that's when you run into your closet with your plushies

then you hear them walking over to you...

then you hear them walking over to you...

then you hear multiple gun shots and a nuclear bomb go off like wtf nigga

Then ur parents bleed and bleed, then they get the knife and stab and then....

@RetroDubs (I guessed u were blak if that helps 😐)

@RetroDubs (I guessed u were blak if that helps 😐)

@Humble Sometimes yes. Sadly that's some dysfunctional couple dynamics for sure. How messed up are those kids now.

This shouldnt happen..cant brain how one dare to slap the other

This shouldnt happen..cant brain how one dare to slap the other

Some windows of my house are made of plastics now

Some windows of my house are made of plastics now

@Futaba Fan Club <b>Infront of them: DON'T TOUCH THE CHILD >:(</b>

@Futaba Fan Club *Infront of them: DON'T TOUCH THE CHILD >:(*

😔is sad that some kids have to deal with this and I meant a lot of kids I know

@Fishy Fishy I HAVE A WII AND ITS 2022 AND I HAVE MADE SO MANY MIIS-

@Fishy Fishy I HAVE A WII AND ITS 2022 AND I HAVE MADE SO MANY MIIS-

@Leonardo Garcia and then the water boiling, and all the pieces being put in the soup. Mmmm vegetables in the soup. Then you go down, and see that it was just them making soup through a new technique called “yell to soften the vegetables”

@lorelia confesor RELATABLE? THAT’S ABUSE! That should not go unreported!

You made me scared now since I'm 10. I never hope this happens to me.

You made me scared now since I'm 10. I never hope this happens to me.

@ghastlygNO oh gosh my parents sometimes argue but it’s never that bad

@ghastlygNO oh gosh my parents sometimes argue but it’s never that bad

@oye bro we're just trying to cope chill 😟

@oye bro we're just trying to cope chill 😟

i remember how my dad just picked up his shotgun and just blow someone's brains. that was funky!

Then you hear a single shot and a woman laughing maniacally

Then you hear a single shot and a woman laughing maniacally

@plankton gunslinger that doesn’t happen.

@plankton gunslinger that doesn’t happen.

@Jasel and you get hit by a beer can, that’s e best part of all lol

@Jasel and you get hit by a beer can, that’s e best part of all lol

The gunshots.. the louder screaming.. and then eventually enough.. the sirens outside..

@Divine Light not sure if you should be glad

@Divine Light not sure if you should be glad

and you see a random peice of ice slide into view from outside the door...

@Lama "that turned dark fast" ... Like my childhood 😅

@Lama "that turned dark fast" ... Like my childhood 😅

<b>And then you hear your mom calling for help in the living room so you go over there and she throws her phone at you while your dad's pushing her against the couch demanding his car keys—</b>

*And then you hear your mom calling for help in the living room so you go over there and she throws her phone at you while your dad's pushing her against the couch demanding his car keys—*

<b>My mom telling me she broke my favourite glass after arguing with my dad</b>

*My mom telling me she broke my favourite glass after arguing with my dad*

Is there such thing as playful glass breaking and slapping noises?

Is there such thing as playful glass breaking and slapping noises?

@Abnoxios <b>fnf music starts playing</b>

and then you hear the camera start to record

and then you hear the camera start to record

Me : <b>switches my airsoft gun to full auto</b>

Me : *switches my airsoft gun to full auto*

@nayeonyny yea, a racists that came from a black brazillian family, nice job mr. Peace, you stopped racism

@plankton gunslinger then you hear the gun

@plankton gunslinger then you hear the gun

I wish i slept in a different room instead of my parents

I wish i slept in a different room instead of my parents

And then u hear “GET OUT‼‼💥💥💥” along with various bangs possibly from ur mom throwing shit at ur dad like a clothes basket

And then you start hearing applause to the tv while the tv is going "bvvvvvvvvvvvvvvt"

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@plankton gunslinger then you see blood coming from your door

@plankton gunslinger then you see blood coming from your door

Then he throws her on the ground choking her in front of all the children screaming and crying

brain: “ i gotta separate them before anything goes too far “

Whole body except brain: “ itttttiiiiizzzzz wat itttttt tizzzzz “

Then you hear a pan noise like if someone hit a pan on something hard

Then you hear a pan noise like if someone hit a pan on something hard

I used to hear pots and pans being thrown..

I used to hear pots and pans being thrown..

This says a lot about the state of our generation

This says a lot about the state of our generation

The. A loud thud follow by a stream and a kick….I should stop

The. A loud thud follow by a stream and a kick….I should stop

That's when u hear cop sirens and Gun shots with ur siblings in ur room and ur holding the phone with 911 dialled!

@plankton gunslinger stop acting like you have trauma

@plankton gunslinger stop acting like you have trauma

And the sound of a gunshot and silence after

And the sound of a gunshot and silence after

@Divine Light umm I’m kinda worried for u

@Divine Light umm I’m kinda worried for u

I'm really worried about the people in the comments...<br>People that have their kids watch them do that are idiots

I'm really worried about the people in the comments...
People that have their kids watch them do that are idiots

Don't forget the paper towel rolls being thrown

Don't forget the paper towel rolls being thrown

Then you hear a loud bang and someone say you made me do it

Then you hear a loud bang and someone say you made me do it

I locked out all the memories. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any. I don't have any.

Glad I'm not the only one living with that

Glad I'm not the only one living with that

And later you hear somebody seemingly reloading a shotgun

And later you hear somebody seemingly reloading a shotgun

@Roux They could of had bad parents and they might be joking and most of the people in the comments probably are too but IDK because none of you are using innuendos

And shuffling of utensils. Like,, you get chills down your spine but one of your parents are just making dinner or lunch 😐😐 got me hyped for nothing.

Oh god that comment is my entire childhood.

Oh god that comment is my entire childhood.

@୨୧ 𝒍𝒊𝒍𝒌𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 ୨୧ all I hear is a different language

@୨୧ 𝒍𝒊𝒍𝒌𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 ୨୧ all I hear is a different language

@Haxani when your parents are arguing you start hearing noises you never knew existed

୨୧ 𝒍𝒊𝒍𝒌𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 ୨୧

@god won't be so mercyfull And don't forget that one defensive pose where they put there arms above themselves like this kinda- 🙅♀

@ganyu's number one fan Bro my dad has thrown much worse at my mom and I even saw it once 💀

and then you hear the dad throw a pizza box at the mom.

and then you hear the dad throw a pizza box at the mom.

Then you hear gunshots followed by one of your parents breaking into your room and then they force you into the car at gunpoint

Then you hear a scream and the room goes silent

Then you hear a scream and the room goes silent

And then you see some important legal papers being talked about to end relationships

@Logan Lastname don't worry, thats just the pris- BUGS

@Logan Lastname don't worry, thats just the pris- BUGS

@American CountryBall oof never heard that one :,)

@American CountryBall oof never heard that one :,)

But then you do the “get a drink” maneuver and nothing is happening

But then you do the “get a drink” maneuver and nothing is happening

I think the slapping noises were something else

I think the slapping noises were something else

@plankton gunslinger  How could you hear knives from far away 🤣 . They must’ve been swords

@Reckless Anime I’m black but nice assumption???

@Reckless Anime I’m black but nice assumption???

Then They get Freaky On a Friday night yeah

Then They get Freaky On a Friday night yeah

That's just them escalating to the bedroom 😀

That's just them escalating to the bedroom 😀

My dad always make a big noise like throw glass to my mom and try to breaking the door

im starting to get worried about the pepole in the replies

im starting to get worried about the pepole in the replies

@plankton gunslinger then you hear the cutting-board

@plankton gunslinger then you hear the cutting-board

I remember this happened to me and my sibling my dog and I hid under a counter top in a bathroom because we were terrified, good times...

i remember hearing my mom throw a lamp at my dad one night. that was fun.

Welp. Here comes my PTSD.<br>Thanks a lot...

Welp. Here comes my PTSD.
Thanks a lot...

Niggas be romanticizing parents arguing now wtf

Niggas be romanticizing parents arguing now wtf

@plankton gunslinger lol how the heck do you hear knives

@plankton gunslinger lol how the heck do you hear knives

That’s when you start playing wii instead

That’s when you start playing wii instead

@ghastlygNO that is called a trigger, unironically

@ghastlygNO that is called a trigger, unironically

this made me cry and laugh at the same time because it’s so relatable <33

this made me cry and laugh at the same time because it’s so relatable <33

This comment and the replies made me remember stuff...

This comment and the replies made me remember stuff...


"The louder and better your headphones are the less their problems can reach you" i always tell myself this when this shit happens and i am always looking for better headphones, i just can say if you can solve the problem the best is to avoid it the best you can


Ah yes childhood...wasn't always the best I'll admit, but sometimes a child's imagination was always there so I could escape that reality and honestly I never realized my parents fought until someone pointed it out when I was around 8


When times were tough, Mario and his friends were ALWAYS there to take my mind off teh stress

Don't Mario, & Luigi like to argue a lot?

@Certain People same. I it and tried to ignore the comment but I just couldn't

I feel like it's only relatable for Americans

Nah fam link was always there for me witch is sad cuz it happend a lot and link only 1 peeson

Reminds me of a story a friend would tell me. He said he grew up in a ghetto neighborhood and tells me that he could've been in a gang and got shot if it wasn't for the fact that he was more interested in playing on his NES than being a gangbanger. Therefore Mario probably saved his life.

I like to think that I dont relate to this but inside I really know


I'm glad I did not have to go through this. It takes real strength to get through something like this.


Lots of bad memories. I remember my parents arguing so I would hide behind the couch crying covering my ears, pleading for them to just stop. They never did. And they still argue to this day it never ends and I don't think it will.


Did anyone else also have their parents like, come and vent to them about the other after the argument? And then you have to sit there listening and trying to solve their marital problems?

Edit: Man, it is, admittedly comforting and also depressing how many people here relate to this. I'm glad y'all are sharing your stories though, and I hope all of you are doing at least a bit better now!

Yea it's always the "don't be like your dad" and "don't be like your mom"

Yeah I remember my dad telling me my mom was a ticking time bomb, and her taking about how he never appreciates anything she does. (As far as venting goes, there was a lot, but this was the main)

Yup same here I feel like doctor Phil trying to split them up to stop arguing I have to younger sisters one 9 and the other 16 and my parents like to argue in front of them. I’m not the eldest yet they come to me I tell them they shouldn’t argue cuz of my little sisters yet they don’t listen so I gave up and ignored them but it’s no good for my little sisters because they are suffering from stress and anxiety not to mention me and my 9 year old sis is autistic and my 16 year old sis has a disability affecting her mental cognivities. Parents need to understand that we are their kids not friends.

Then after that they act like It never happened, make up, and gang up on you-

Whenever they are alone though, my mom hating my dad’s habits, and vice versa except my dad also has ptsd with him

Both my parents do all the time been hearing it for the last 22 years

YEAH- I would sit and listen like I understood but I was really too young to realize I shouldn’t be hearing those things at that age

Kinda annoying also cause one says this about the other but one says that about the other and you don’t know how to feel about either

kids should depend on parents, not the other way around<br>but oh well

kids should depend on parents, not the other way around
but oh well

We basically were the psychological dumspter of the family

Right here only I'm part time therapist, witness, spy, and counter spy

Yup, it was just taxing on my soul, and by the end of it all, I wanted nothing to do with my parents, I was tired of their relationship issues being brought up to me when I had a relationship of my own to worry about and a job that I recently picked up, so stress was high as hell during that time.

yes I just kept playing me that yoshi's wooly world for the 3ds

yes, it happened to me so many times, i wish i could help them but im only 12..

Luckily i didnt have to deal with that part since my older sister handled it, but it was always sad to see my sister so overwhelmed at the age of 12, bcoz me and my brother were 5 and 3 so we couldnt do much

LMFAO AND IT WAS A DAILY THING TOO, you never rlly know how to respond cause theyre both ur parents 😭

yea being the therapist kid rlly sucked :/

Not anymore since they are divorced and remarried

That’s called emotional insect actually. I didn’t know until I was 16.

Same lmao. Recently I learned that is an abusive behavior called "parentification". Look it up if you want.

My mom once gathered me and my sister to discuss where we would live if my dad divorces her... Yeah, it was fun. Totally traumatized 7yo me

Me, part time lawyer, therapist, while I also need one too

Dude my dad does that with me except it's about my step siblings

@WesleyDoesStuff (Geometry Dash) yeah I mean that should be the case for everyone but unfortunately its not 🙁. I'm glad you're parents are loving 😊

@Lemon Boy nope lol, my parents are perfect and loving

My dad would always come in and lay on my bed and get me to listen to him and have me try to help with his problems. It got to the point where just being in my room made me feel bad so i'd hide in the bathroom or the hallway closet. I never had a lasting safe space lmao. They would also always argue in the car where i couldn't leave so id turn up my music to the point it'd hurt my ears. Then after a while, my mom would start cornering me in the car alone so i would validate her and listen to her.

Some adults really have issues :/

Same, but I'm kinda ok with it sometimes

Same, but I'm kinda ok with it sometimes

@Teir Likes Tacos I feel like my mom kinda told me too much about her past so yeah lol

Parents shouldn’t do that. Kids aren’t therapists. Hell, even if they’re grown they aren’t your therapist and they can’t help. I get that having a therapist costs money many people don’t have, but just about anyone is better than venting to a kid.

@Teir Likes Tacos same. I thought it was normal for everyone......

@Sophia Kesidou Lmao, me, but a part time therapist

Yep, they both seek for validation, and before you realise it you become a part time lawyer


I swear parents be straight up shooting eachother with rocket launcher and we all were like "darn a new adventure time episode let's watch that"


This animation goes SO hard. Stay strong out there, everyone. You're not alone.


I love how the game is the only colorful thing. Because it's true, in such moments live is ass and the game is your only savior

Music & crying to sleep when this happened.

Mariokart ds rainbow road 😎 for legends (though I prefer flower cup, particularly waluigi pinball and delfino square)


The fact that this is nostalgic. Bringing me back to times when my parents would argue and I'd play a game or watch a video loud enough to drown out their voices says a lot.


The painful and bitter memories just give the true meaning of "life"


I remember telling my sister to go to my closet so me and her could stay there since my parents were both arguing. I would tell my sister everything would be alright and hug her. Really weird bad memories.

That would never happen between me and my brother

I would do this with my brother when our stepdad got drunk

Damn that’s sad, I miss times like that but both my older brother and sister moved out ages ago so now it’s just me and I usually just hide in my room and message online friends for comfort

devoid lmao it looked longer on my screen until i looked at it a second time

@Celia Wait how u got two different names???

I have a older sister like that, she holds my hand when they're really going at it, it's not much but it's comforting

Celia Moser they could be a brother you know

i used to tell my lil brother to stay quiet in my room while i listened trough the door, i remember being so scared i just accepted that i was gonna die and that tranquilized me in some sort of way

damn, you and your sister must have a pretty good relationship. My older brother does/did this with me too except the situation i can clearly remember was when my mom was rushed to the hospital after losing her breath.

holy shit i just wrote a whole essay-

oh, nevermind


Everybody gangsta till mom puts her rage on you.


i cant relate to it solely because i didn’t have anything to drown out the noise 💀


Worst part is with having a very strict mom is that if she is angry for a crappiest reason she'll take it out on anything she sees, I live in a small house so I have nowhere to hide

@NiranjInBox it's way too late for that :(

Holy I have the best mom and dad in the world then<br>Stay respectful and strong❤👍🏻 Never let her hurt your feelings

Holy I have the best mom and dad in the world then
Stay respectful and strong❤👍🏻 Never let her hurt your feelings

@reniki I hope things get better for you koraa

Even Omni man isn't strong enough for a mom.

I feel you bro, my mom literally turn my room into a restricted area for weeks because I usually hide there when she get mad…

We have a cat and its nice to hold them well ur crying

same issue here. mom pronged me with a fork 2 days ago :(

Irizu The Weird One I hope, stay strong brother

Yep and in our culture she's not being abusive, she's just like that or "she loves you in her own way" 🙄

Oh shit same, except she's not very strict just whenever she's in a shitty mood, everyone has to pay the price

@Streety It’s hard, I get it if you don’t want to stand up for yourself because she would see it as “talking back”. It’s gonna be rough, but you have to know that you will always be more mature than she will ever be. You deserve better.

I was in the same situation growing up. I just recently moved out to go to college after so many years of torture. <br>Stay strong, stand up for yourself, and make sure you know that it is never EVER your fault! If I made it, you can!

I was in the same situation growing up. I just recently moved out to go to college after so many years of torture.
Stay strong, stand up for yourself, and make sure you know that it is never EVER your fault! If I made it, you can!

That’s not strict that’s a power struggle

@MJUI  GOKU she really can be a karen sometimes, even if she hurts me I wouldn't hurt her

MEN YO MOMS A KAREN U GOTTA BEAT HER UP TO MAKE HER BECOME NORMAL

@Frank Nah bro, she's my mom so I got a little bit of my strength from her, she could destroy space itself

Damn Omni man can’t you just throw her to the moon or something?

@Streety I reccomend getting out asap if you have anywhere else to go your grandparents aunt uncle etc. If you cant start saving you might be able to get a cheap apartment at 16. Best of luck bro stay strong

@Streety i had a pet fish and she threw him in the drain

@Lamodaa my dad left me and my moms abusive

@Wasted Shin I can murder the Avengers, but I can't kill satan

@actual melt when every disagreement is a fight constantly standing up for yourself is   very draining.

This is very serious. If your mom harms you in any way, shape or form, tell an adult ASAP. If you have a counselor at your school, please talk to them about your situation.

Stay safe.

@Streety | You should deadass stand up for yourself, even if she is your mom, you should still have a little bit of self-respect and do something

Merch got a dog and she took her away from me

Merch A little challenging, but I'm sure OP could figure out how to hide inside the cat.

Stay strong! You are not alone, and you are safe! I love you ❤


I wish everyone here that experiences some sort of similar nostalgic memory like this a safe, healthy, and happy future.<br>🫂

I wish everyone here that experiences some sort of similar nostalgic memory like this a safe, healthy, and happy future.
🫂


I am so glad that my parents never made me suffer like that


I'm so glad my parents pretty much never fought and loved each other a ton. I feel bad that I'm seemingly the only one that never had these experiences, kinda makes me sad knowing that seemingly most people have parents like that.


11 year old me playing Tomadachi life with full volume while my parents got divorced downstairs in the living room:

I got Tomodachi life in 2014 for my 2DS and it got me through being a only child

XD The Tomodachi Life references people were making are hilarious.

I’m sorry so many of you faced divorce situations.

me except I was playing the ps3 in the basement while my parents got divorced upstairs

The only way to sooth my soul is with some dancing. Hot groovy robo dancing.

@TriStain crusty beasty beast I shall saveth the day

@tuned s15 lords and ladies gasp in fear

@spong it's funny because that actually happend in game-

Better not let that happen in the game...

my parents broke up while i was playing minecraft

I’m literally playing tomadachi life right now


My parents never get into fights with eachother, but they do argue from time to time. It’s scary, and I always try to drown out the noise with my phone when it happens.


Must be nice to have a TV in ur room, I was poor and my parents argued 😭


And then you realize that they're not arguing but screaming and complaining about you in the living room.

That would be even worse that hearing slapping or breaking glass

Ok my parents never fought, but they sure as hell did that

when that happened i'd just get mad at my parents and say "you don't love me anymore"

then it'll quiet down after abit, and i'd be good again with my parents.

Hermaeus Mora I-<br>I did not know about the emoji thing, holy shit I love that...

Hermaeus Mora I-
I did not know about the emoji thing, holy shit I love that...

Hermaeus Mora yup I feel that, on a side note how’d you get PAIN in bolded letters?

Yep. They do that while my door is open. Honestly they'll do that if still downstairs in the kitchen. There will be peace soon tho. Praise dorm living.

Sounded like my parents long ago before they divorced back in 2016


Bro this feeling💀💀 When your parents are arguing and you're trying to keep yourself calm and playing some games being scared shitless


My parent did argue with each other a few times, but afterwards they would be sorry and fine again, nothing bad from an argument ever lasted 'till the next day.


<b>ayo I paused and the muffled yelling was still there, this some 4D shit-</b>

*ayo I paused and the muffled yelling was still there, this some 4D shit-*

@Hillery Chan now that's some experience... I hope you and your family are doing well. I can't imagine the feeling of losing a parent. It would've been very very hard for me...

@2Far my parents are argued a lot and we’re leaning towards a divorce but my dad passed away from<br>cancer before they actually got a divorce. I was sad but also weirdly relieved they didn’t have to fight anymore. But of course I miss my dad sooooo much I cried every night for a long time

@2Far my parents are argued a lot and we’re leaning towards a divorce but my dad passed away from
cancer before they actually got a divorce. I was sad but also weirdly relieved they didn’t have to fight anymore. But of course I miss my dad sooooo much I cried every night for a long time

lmao just put on ram ranch on full blast when your parents are arguing, works everytime

@The Debb124  thanks, I really hope so too. Currently in second year of college (but online, and yeah it's so frustrating) and met new people here and there but probably not found the one yet. Btw a very good day/night to you you wonderful human being, and yeah I'm a dude lol

@2Far I hope so man,i wish you can lead a happy life and have a caring wife(assuming you're a guy,sorry if i'm wrong😂) and kids😁

@The Debb124 but yeah, may the good days awaits us ahead, hopefully in the near future 😁

@2Far I've lost count of how many times they arguing and led up to talk about divorce,and everytime violence is always included😐

@The Debb124 guess we have to be in this together then, my parents almost divorced 2 years back, but I hope that point never comes :)

@lol It would be good if it's really a joke,because it's not a joke in here😀(my house)

@The Debb124 i think they meant as a joke

That's kinda sad man,stay strong alright?


Tell me the most heartbreaking words anybody has ever told to you .<br>Im listening

Tell me the most heartbreaking words anybody has ever told to you .
Im listening


The way he’s playing Mario cart while on the other hand his parents are arguing

Yes i love how the juxtaposition of the scene is executed here.

Thank you LuigiFanBoy for your gratuitous observation


It's horrifying to think that this is a shared memory. We live in an age of divorce and broken relationships and family traditions are slowly falling apart

Mr. Iqbal; but it's better to just break up then stay in an unhealthy and unhappy relationship.

That's so true, and extremely sad nowadays

Arguments in a relationship isn’t unhealthy

It's better than being kept in the unending cycle, that's for sure. Traditions will be broken sooner or later

arguments don't necessarily mean divorce and broken relationships

@ケルシーKels Actually not true, people used to be happier and more content. I think we like the idea that people were secretly unhappy because our society needs a reason to eschew the traditional family model. Most of us know our grandparents were happily married (that's not the same as Instagram happy).

I'd always see my other family relatives and they'd look so much more happier than my parents which made always jealous of my cousin for having loving parents :/

My Parents argued often and it was Horrifying
It Broke my Childhood and Destroyed my Emotions...

Since that day i sweared i would be the Best Husband and Father that ever Existed....

But also i need the Perfect Person For me
Cuz i don't want to Destroy lives...

Yet every day my Hope is going away...
I don't earn much Money to afford an Stable Life...
Im still Shy against Girls (Bad Experience/ Heart Broken)
It's so Difficult.
But i don't want to Live my Life Alone...
Living With Parents or Friends isn't the same.

@bruh i think there are good and bad parts of family traditions, and we should know which ones to keep and which ones not to keep. But also, family for whom "family traditions" are important and "traditional family" are different things and we shouldn't confuse them

non traditional families are happier, so yeah those are the ones that should exist lol

@Corner Log
Cons of Living in this Generation:
Divorce
Unhappy
Things are bad all the damn time

Pros of this Generation:
Mariokart

tradition doesn't prevent abuse and dysfunctional homes, half the time it enables it :/

perhaps instead of discouraging divorce, we should encourage people being emotionally and mentally healthy enough BEFORE they choose to have kids?
that way they don't nope out of a relationship or feel trapped in it with someone that isn't right for them and/or abusive. those shockwaves will always hurt the kid.

Yeah… cultural reaction to cultural abuse…

The wheel of generational trauma keeps turning…

@Exodius sometimes one of them is a toxic and childlish self absorbed person so that is near impossible T_T

it happened since the beginning of time — it’s just now that it’s becoming mainstream to talk about it. there was less divorce a few decades ago but that just means more people were stuck in unhappy marriages

This is honestly sad that this is happening often… I have so many people in my life that had to deal with this including myself


fact about me: whenever my mom and dad start arguing out of nowhere, i just play games while crying


When you are half focused on the game and half focused on their arguement and when they get louder the more anxiety and fear you have<br>. This one hit home like a bulldozer

When you are half focused on the game and half focused on their arguement and when they get louder the more anxiety and fear you have
. This one hit home like a bulldozer


never experienced my parents fighting while i played any games but i did play a lot of mario kart ds, this shot me back to the past

You lucky bastard, living an epic life, I'm hella jealous xdddddddddddd

Same i have a great family But i hope everyone gets out of this situation

My parents would argue only a lil bit not much rly and I would play on my Wii mostly cuz my ds only had like 3 games

Really? It happened so often that it was normal for me

lol my parents still argue to this day, actually not because my dad left us a few weeks ago, maybe he’ll come back

Well that just sounds like my life but reverse. Never played any Mario games and my parents always fight even though they are divorced.


My parents used to say that they argued <b>because</b> they love each other, and that we should be grateful for it

My parents used to say that they argued *because* they love each other, and that we should be grateful for it

top 10 most bullshit things parents have ever said


Man someday I feel my parents are gonna get a divorce  :(


Damn dude. I really hope I make a good father. I dont want to argue like this with my wife. I remember this shit too fondly.

I’m too afraid to even dare become a mother bc of this

Fallen Angel he legit said “dude that sounds gay” like as an insult idc if your straight or whatever I care if ur homophobic or not

Think about the children, and don't yell

Fallen Angel what's wrong with gays tho???

I like to think that if I have kids and if the missus and I start to fight, I'll prioritise staying out of earshot of the kids over anything else.

i grew up with my step dad and mom yelling most of the time, and now im just very scared to get in a relationship now..

Good luck to you dude.... I wish you and your family will always be happy

@Pardola Games OR, hear me out, hear me out: I go talk to a girl

@Daniel Bakel It's quite the opposite actually

@Pardola Games That sounds REALLY gay ngl

Impossible

But anyways, go watch Tonikaku Kawaii

@yeet delete you are not the only one thinking about it 😔.

I agree, I fear myself that I wouldn't be a good father when the time comes.

Yeah it's hella confusing when you're a child going through that

40%, my dood. Humans must think they "win" forty percent of the time to avoid feeling dominated. The key is open and honest communication.


I never understood this, but it’s cuz whenever my parents had arguments I got really upset and felt like I had to stop them.


People underestimate how much impact and good video games can really do to a person in their times of need.

Yeah. I used to take my sister’s DS and play sonic sega all stars or cooking mama coz I didn’t have one 😌

Like many forms of art/literature/music it can be used to escape, even if only for a little while.


remember guys you werent alone those moments. me and millions more we were with you


when my brother is just talking to my mother or my parents or just talking and I think there’s a fight because of my music, even when it’s just laughing, it never fails to terrify me


Each time this happened I always felt guilty playing a game and just... Paused it sitting there in silence

@Shrek I know I'm a year late but popularmmos was great

I can definitely relate to that. You want to make it stop, but you don't know how. Then you think about ignoring it and you feel guilty because you love them and want to help them. The screaming gets to you and the cycle repeats.

@Ilya N. Leo<br>not her choice. never was

same i used to watch this youtuber popularmmos so that i won’t hear them arguing

@Ilya N. Leo basically impossible since anything could happen but still a child shouldn't experience traumatic things.

it feels awful to be that powerless, I went thru the same. I hope you all eventually get to have a happy and healthy life of your own so you never have to experience or think about that again.

Same, even walking past there room or where they where fighting

@PS1 Hagrid Children should not have to go through this.. i wish people didn't have kids entell they have had their lives fixed..


I remember how all my siblings would gather in my room scared and we would get the house phone and call our uncle, even after the fights our mum would make us pack all of our belongings, put them in the car and go to a family members house. The funny part was that we would come back the same day and have sooo much to unpack.

I hated it.

Both tragic and funny. Having to do more chores just to dip out when things heated up.

I don't miss being a kid


Whenever I hear my parents arguing, I just turn off whatever i had on. I don't want them to yell at me for whatever reason they have to yell at me.

EXACTLY!!! It seemed like they ALWAYS got mad at us for everything after they had and argument-

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ i would rather ran away lol

It do be like that, except I live under a single mom with 4 divorces, all those memories were just arguing about me existing. Lol

I relate but than I have an anxiety attack and my heart feels like it beats out of my chest....

@l agree with your comment ya'll had phones n shit to turn to when ya was little... wow, you guys had it a lot better then other people

@I guess I'll start using Music oof I’m kinda offended since I’m religious but anyways I’m just gonna stay out of this-

@Aidil Xander it's not a sin you religious puke suicide is actually personal and you should actually be taming the poor comrade so he doesn't commit suicide

Same, sometimes whenever my dad's drunk i would pretend to be asleep so my dad wouldn't yell at me for being a disappointment :D

I do that with video games, if I'm playing one and they argue, when I play that game I just remember that moment for so long it makes me not wanna play it anymore

Yeah, like I always hide my phone or else they will tell me stop using it because I'm not doing any chores when I already did everything.

I would hide when my parents argued, I had some clever places when I was younger but that changed when I got older and could not fit in my prime hiding spaces and changed into pretending to be asleep.

Henry I'm also doing the same thing except whenever they have an argument I also take a hit from that, because of this I'm not confident and I am almost always pesymistic about my point of life.

@Aidil Xander thanks for telling me this I will change my religion because of this comment

@Aidil Xander so you are telling me that god makes us feel awful and when we finally do it he will sent us to hell too?

@holographiq I'm sorry, man.. I hope you'll be able to at least partly overcome your anxiety. Maybe you can't stop your father and step mother from arguing, but better mental state should help you not to get too much into the abyss. So... Wish you the best, bud. Believe in yourself. Stay strong. 🥺

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ that took a HUGE TURN

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ oof suicide is a huge sin

They always find away to drag you into it. I just try and stay as quiet as possible so they forget about me

@holographiq if that happens to me I will suicide to make them feel the WORST

@holographiq aw I feel so bad I hope it goes well for u

Same here. My parents divorced when I was ten and even after my dad remarried I can hear him and my step mom yelling downstairs and my anxiety (diagnosed, attending therapy) spikes a bit. I always just turn my lights off and pretend to be asleep and maybe have an earbud in one ear and listen to music to try and chill out as much as I can, but in the back of my mind I’m always worried that they’ll get divorced and I’ve gotten worked up over it multiple times :(


READ TO LEARN : They have max volume on to drown out their parents arguing and to ignore it


lets all agree to be better parents then our parents were


It's my fault
It's my fault
It's my fault
It's my fault

Those thoughts ran through my head as i was trying my hardest to not listen to the conversation

I never once figured it was my fault, even though it probably was.

I still struggle with thinking that maybe if I wasn’t born my parents may still be happily married

But it’s ok
There is nothing to be done
It is for the best

@Peepee poopoo Vdbhxvbcc lmao yeah it kinda helps with the pain

@Peepee poopoo Vdbhxvbcc trauma core is a very weird way of coping with these types of things..

This was my my thoughts with my mum and stepdad, except he wanted everything to be my fault so he could get off the hook with cheating and sneaking around

Even when those thoughts come in, it's NEVER your fault

@Peepee poopoo Vdbhxvbcc she even has one of those characters they keep putting on those images as her pfp

You are a traumacore enjoyer, aren’t you

same. except i still go through mental and psychical abuse


I relate. I haven't trusted anyone since the divorse. People can't hurt you if you don't let them get close enough


I never experience this but I can tell how it feels.


Me: <b>sits down on my bed hearing my parents fighting as if, my mom takes away my phone when she's angry.</b>

Me: *sits down on my bed hearing my parents fighting as if, my mom takes away my phone when she's angry.*

@YaKUB I still have parental controls run restricting time limits and certain websites, not to mention it can be immediately blocked if they are angry at something.

@xNekomancer 2000x you did not just say scene bitches 💀

from a time where most us didnt have phones and that dsi was our only handheld device save for an mp3 player with 600+ songs from limewire, and a pair of earbuds with the sound out on one side again because the sound always seemed to blow one side first.
Putting action replay for dsi into the slot hoping like hell it would actually show up as inserted on the menu this time.
XD
21 now
was 12 back then.
Kudos to all mah scene bitches in the club say rawr XD

@Sein2512 wait I have family link right now! Did you just say It doesn't track firefox?

@YaKUB Yeah, my parents did all that family link bs too...
If only they knew it only works on chrome and not firefox

@YaKUB Yeah, my parents did all that family link bs too...
*If only they knew it only works on chrome and not firefox*

@astro kitty nah sounds like those reddit text to speech stories

@Cameron Mitchell my parents used to put parental controls on every device in the house behind our backs. I spent my whole childhood working around parental controls and finding loopholes.

I heard a story from my cousin that once his mom got so bad, she stormed into his room and snapped his 3DS in half

i hv nothing to say to everyone, they're true, and all i can do is sigh; *big sigh*...

When my dad takeaway my phone it’s to “✌🏻turn on my location”✌🏻/track me

When your mom is upset and destroys your phone

yeah as a kid my mom wasnt even mad at me and she still took everything away from me like she was taking it for a dna scan.


The fact I even looked up for a few seconds while I heard the voices and moved my phone like it would've been my DS-


This is exactly happening to me rn when i am writing this. A storm outside, my parents arguing and me playing video games✨✨


Good job, you’ve not only managed to bring up shitty memories, I now realize just how much my parents argue

Uhhh- Obama here uh- I uh- approve of this uh- message


The memory of them arguing was so clear… It was common before and each time my dad would be using profanity and vulgarity, speaking gibberish about he doesn’t argue with “fucking failures”. Sometimes they would get violent, and if it reaches that point I would start crying to let them calm down. Anyways one point my dad knew he was losing the argument that he started and went to the kitchen and pulled out a knife… The police came afterwards.


This hurts on a plane that I didn’t know existed


Like relaxing from the ball car flip reset epic moments

Same

It's probably cause our minds are used to this situation and so are perfectly comfortable with it and maybe a bit of sadness because of being reminded of it

Have you defeated you in your mirror or wut!?

Sry for the exaggeration, but I hugely disagree..


Everytime my parents fought, my dad forced me to be involved with the situation asking who’s right. I hated it and I don’t want to do that to my future kids.


If he was playing zelda majora’s mask he would instantly fall into depression


Everybody calm until your parents include you into their arguments

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ bro never know that 911 or doctors exists

𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐖𝐚𝐬𝐀𝐒𝐢𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧シ

You have balls of steel if you were calm while your parents were arguing

@Mii 2.0 nah revenge is always the answer

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ Dude. You need serious help. Revenge is never the answer.

@tia i hope so too. Thanks you're really kind.

@dum that happens to me a lot, i feel you.<br>i hope things get better for all of us.

@dum that happens to me a lot, i feel you.
i hope things get better for all of us.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ How is that supposed to help??? Just call someone like 911 or an ambulance.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ Eyo we have similar mindsets and that scares me.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ I don't know if I should get help or agree but I feel like I should get you help

@BlueBomber875 it is 👍 they will be miserable forever ;)

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ That is not revenge my friend

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ You need help, bro?

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQSuicide hotline exists 👍

@Camille it's not like it got better anyway but yeah

@dum omg im so sorry that must have been tramatic ☹

Yes my dad tried to punch my mom but I tried to stop, he punched me instead and out of rage he kicked my mom so hard on her ribcage she had to tell everyone she fell down the stairs.


at night trying to sleep but ur parents words and yells makes u crying and scared that u cant even sleep


now i'm understanding that my parents didn't argue.<br>even if they were shouting at each other, they end up laughing their lungs out.

now i'm understanding that my parents didn't argue.
even if they were shouting at each other, they end up laughing their lungs out.


As someone whose parents were fighting for half of spring break, this feels relatable.

@why are same situation here. Mothers (usually) get too close to their children to even think about leaving or doing sth outside the family.

Only for spring break? Consider yourself lucky

But I realized that I don’t care anymore

My parents have been fighting for years and my dad is gone now it’s always the dad lol

Only spring break? Not the rest of your life?


my guy be bringing up repressed memories 💀


My parents would usually speak in a different language when they fought.Most of the time my mom would do most of the yelling while my step dad tries to remain calm. My mom had said multiple times she will divorce my step dad but they’re still together. They don’t fight all the time tho. They can be lovey dovey.


Oh my parents argued, I just couldnt afford a ds

@Christian Caldwell "i couldn't afford aids" xaaxaxaxaxaxaxaxaxaxaxaxa

I read this as “I just couldn’t afford ads” I was so confused, but it made it 10x better lmao

Well I just sat there and watched them argue. (true thing btw)


People would constantly tell me to get over it because it’s normal for their parents to fight but it scares me nonetheless. I used to have a perfect family.


At this point, my cellphone is the only escape route when my parents argue


it’s crazy how a lot of us experience this. I hope that y’all are doing great guys.

I feel really grateful to my parents cause they never shouted or argued at eachother infront of me and my siblings

They're still arguing, years later.

Cannot wait until I move out.

@mitski’s gf that’s true <br>I hope it’s over soon for me

@mitski’s gf that’s true
I hope it’s over soon for me

My parents fought a lot and ended up getting divorced this year, I'm 14 years old.

sadly, quite a lot of us are not doing so well.

@Toby Temple its crazy because no child deserves a childhood spent hearing their parents argue and it shouldn’t happen this often. it’s a bit scary seeing how so many people relate to this.


ngl im thankful my parents are in a happy relationship


I'm surprised at how rare the cops actually showed up.


I remember one night my mom and dad were arguing like all hell. Literally, it was so bad that my neighbors told me and my sisters that they were considering calling the cops to see if everything was alright. I cried a bit for like 30 mins playing pokemon black. Eventually my sister, my elder sister, and her boyfriend snuck me out to go eat some tacos to just chill out for the night. When we got home it was really quiet but our dad yelled at us for sneaking out but it he cooled his engines quicker than we thought. It was times like those were my parents fighting put me in some really bad emotional times, but I thank and love my sisters for taking care of me and keeping me away from troubles that weren’t mine.

My parents divorced when I was young, though I still have vivid memories of them fighting. I remember going to a friend's house for a sleepover and his parents were arguing when we had just got into bed. Its things like this that make me relive those memories.

im really glad you have siblings like yours, i'm an only child so whenever my parents agure i go on my phone is distract myself from them.

alex x don't compare your sister with someone elses sister


I was shaking uncontrollably whenever they would fight, and I still am dreaded by those events


Its kinda sad that I've normalized this, like I hear it almost daily and stuff and im not really fazed by it anymore, maybe its because I'm 16 now but it happens so much and has been for my whole life that I know nothing bad will happen, anymore that is


Man this is so relatable, being in the back of the car, playing on your DS, parents screaming at eachother about which one should pay the dinner bill. Good times

The mf dinner bill?! It’s always the most retarded shit

At one point my mom almost made my dad stop so she could get out of the car and I was in the back like 🧍♀

for me it was the economical crisis we had in general and would and still argue over everything for money...

Sometimes it wasn’t even arguing and just some pointless yelling match. Like that one time my dad was driving too fast, and my mom was telling him to watch out so we wouldn’t get hit and have an accident. I just silently cried and my mom pointed it out (which I got upset at because I was silent for a reason) and then they stopped yelling after.<br>Not so good times👍

Sometimes it wasn’t even arguing and just some pointless yelling match. Like that one time my dad was driving too fast, and my mom was telling him to watch out so we wouldn’t get hit and have an accident. I just silently cried and my mom pointed it out (which I got upset at because I was silent for a reason) and then they stopped yelling after.
Not so good times👍

For me it was road trips, not even 30 minutes in they would start to argue and then the next 4-5 hours would be awkward af.


When your parents used to come and complain about each others to you…. rest in peace mother, would wish to hear you complain again if it meant hearing your voice.


The worst thing is that I don't even have a door in my room,so it's really hard to not pay attention to them arguing,thankfully they don't argue much


its weird how i got used to it. on one hand i knew it wasnt normal, but on the other it was a regular occurence for 10 year old me to stick my head out of my bedroom door and yell "can you be a little quieter? i'm trying to do homework"

waking up from my sleep from my parents arguing and going downstairs and seeing something broken is like a part of my schedule now

Same. I thought it was weird, but my parents always told me couples are bound to have arguments from time to time (in their case, every night), so I just got used to a daily routine of playing Pokémon and tomadachi life at full volume

@ဪ hell on earth is trying to do math homework while your dad screams at you for getting the answers wrong

Doing homework while your parents are arguing is basically hell on Earth

i was probably the only one not scared by parents arguing lol. heartless little machine that i was

@Aint Nothing nah bro i was a good kid. school n shit. i miss those days

Same, I still use the same excuse and well for now 2-3 years my parents are still married but they distanced from each other. They did divorce only a couple of times but only got back together because of social standards from my family members in general

Holy shit that's literally my situation rn. Whenever my parents argue i always just go " argue in your damn room, I'm tryna watch somethin ". I pretend to myself I don't care but honestly in the back of my mind I'm absolutely terrified. It's awful

Like 10 year old you would even think about homework😂😂


I really need to reflect on how fortunate I was for my childhood


I was holding a phone or something.<br>After my Mum properly explained that it's a common family internal conflicts I halved my concerns of some kinds of brinkmanship.

I was holding a phone or something.
After my Mum properly explained that it's a common family internal conflicts I halved my concerns of some kinds of brinkmanship.


I actually always thought this was normal. Of course I had bad feelings when it happened, but I didn’t pay any particular mind to it because I thought it was one of those bothersome things that happened to everyone and didn’t really deserve being talked about much, like getting water up your nose while swimming or stubbing your toe.

like someone here already said, just because it’s normal doesn’t mean it is healthy. it shouldn’t be this way. but humans are very flawed and sinful by nature.

@LoGanon bro I'm getting water up my nose while standing in the shower. I think my nostril is shaped just so water curves and goes up...

@breathe woody it's normal because its common, but it shouldn't be normalized as a healthy trait of a relationship

@breathe woody it's kinda normal, but not healthy.

Water up my nose and stubbing my toes are very deserving of being talked about. The worst sensations known to humanity.


I always used to just cover my ears or blast music in my headphones and pretend like nothing was happening. When I was REALLY young though I would interfere since I was afraid they’d kill each other 💀💀 So I’d tell them to go to their rooms and calm down while tugging on my moms shirt. My mom would lower her voice and say “we’re just talking. We’re not arguing we’re just talking. Go to your room. We’re fine.” And when I did they’d continue going back and forth. They used to use my brother and I as an excuse to stay together. I very much expected their divorce so I wasn’t upset when they did split. Lots of changes were there and it wasn’t happy so to speak but DEFINITELY preferred over how it used to me. I’m much happier now and they are too :>

Edit: ngl going through this comment section feels like therapy since it’s so validating 😭 I’m realizing how many others have gone through exactly the same shit


It’s pretty messed up that this is a memory we all have some version of. Kids shouldnt have to listen to their parents problems, anger, selfishness, greed, etc. it just seems like as time goes on, parents get worse and worse.

Every single couple will argue at some point it’s normal. However, if it’s all the time and your parents are dragging you into it, disappearing for nights or it gets violent, that’s when it’s bad

Parents arguing is a normal occurrence though, and it's fine as long as they don't make you listen to their problems or involve you in it. Doesn't mean they are always angry, selfish, or greedy.

@Big A <br>That’s true, but you don’t have to do it near you kids. They are not responsible for your problems and should not have to bear any of the burdens that come with them.

@Big A
That’s true, but you don’t have to do it near you kids. They are not responsible for your problems and should not have to bear any of the burdens that come with them.

I remember watching Nickelodeon  while they were yelling always terrified  me

They need to understand that relationships are not perfect and even where u are marriage or sucessful u experiencw anger,sandess and its okay,except when u hurt someone else

@Anthon My parents beat me with a belt when I was a kid...

@Anthon it was legal to slap/ beat kids in school when my mom was little, times have changed.

Actually tho parents were so much worse a long time ago 😂 it was fucking legal to beat you with a belt, this is kinda nothing compared to that

I mean, we’re all humans and we all have flaws. Even the best couples are guaranteed to argue at one point, it’s just a part of being human


I definitely understand this cause my parents are yelling at eachother right now, fr.


I'm lucky to have parents that dont fight.


for me if they weren't arguing then they would be flirting with each other weirdly

Fallen Angel ive been told im lucky yet i have the worst shade of brown on my eyes😤

My mom and step dad did that. Lmao I always thought it was gross. But now I realize I was somewhat lucky.

Lucky, my parents never flirting to each others. Even sleeping on different room. I realized since long ago, they're on the edge of divorced.

@Henry I really didn’t want to do this but...

You’re*

Mine argued and did that too I’d get hella scared when they did either of those things

Ha, if I heard my parents even complementing each other, I'd know that I'm either hallucinating or dreaming!

Well, at least that means their relationship is stable

The Aberdeen Pig Farm in RDR2 type? Because they were brother and sister.

For me it was that or arguing 24/7 because their relationship was and is still toxic 🥲

Yeah we're the same lmao usually my dad would  bother my mom n they started to flirt with each other. 😂

My parents were like that too, and I cherished every second of them actually showing affection to each other

sometimes my parents would do the same but i was a little kid and it was traumatic 💀

@Anonymous and if they were talking about something and i asked about it they acted like it was top secret

And they would do that as if they weren’t arguing like 2 seconds ago 😀


My parents argue a lot. My moms at rehab now and they’re repairing the relationship. But I’d hide and play games while trying not to cry.


My parents divorced when I was 6 but their fights were f*cking huge and happened all the time. My dad had a habit of breaking furniture. Once my mom left my dad, the rest of the family didn’t get along, and I have to hear my mom argue with my sister. Thank goodness for the 3ds I got for christmas that one time :’)

Maybe go down their and be like hey! You know how this effects me!? Or maybe you don’t care

@Gabe kun zin  Thank you very much! Yes I am doing pretty good now. I didn’t expect this comment to blow up 0_0

Damn... bro That's really sad... I hope u are fine :>

@ZEZAS ✔  thank you bro :’) i guess i will borrow my sister’s earplugs.

Stay strong man ✊. Also buy some headphones or earplugs so you don't have to listen to that.

I'm so sorry to hear that.. Hope your situation will improve. <3


i didnt play games, i was too young, that was my brothers, instead they told me to come into their room and i just listened to my parents fight. eventually leading to divorce lmfaooo


Never heard my parents fight. They were very private about it. Then mom told me out of the blue that she and my dad got a divorce.


My parents arent even fighting verbally or physically, they have been ignoring each other since February. Its painful.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ I was suicidal as well. Not anymore, if you want to know, hit me up

How are y’all doing now in 2023? Hanging in there?

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ you are the edgiest person I have ever seen

How is it going bro? I hope it all went better🙏🏼🙏🏼

@mus dude litterly nothing is happening to him only the commenter use your brain before commenting

Same here mate, hope thing will be better for both of us

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ: Ow. Owwie. Hit me right there. You know? Just the right spot. (like in a game. You hit the small glowing part of my body that takes the most damage). How will I ever recover from this?

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ: Get a look at this quirky edge master with his horrible advice. Bet he wears makeup irl.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ Wouldn’t it make sense to kill THEM instead?

Oh wow...I hope everything will be fine for your family...your parents seem hurt and It's obvious it hurtd you too.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ well.. I’m sorry you feel that way.. I’m sure things will get better for you, and not through suicide.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ Looks like a wild sociopath is found in the comment section.

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ the hell did you censor yourself for

As the saying goes "the best kind of revenge to get through that pain is through success". Another saying that also works is "revenge is best served Cold"

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ wut bout just kill hes pet n write those message?👍

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ get some help loser holy shit

Hey i hope you're doing okay, stay strong ❤

@Anti LGBTQ Fūçκ LGBTQ you need help right now

If I were you I would ķīŀł mŷŝ3ŀf and write a letter before that telling that it's because they have been ignoring each other and that it's their fault. That would make them miserable for the rest of their lives, a perfect revenge

Damn I feel sorry, I'll pray for your family to get it back together, and if not then I wish you'll keep moving forward with your life getting better	<3, I know this isn't a big much of help but I really do hope your doing ok


I'm so glad it was never aggresive or anything. It's just a small argue and that's it. Afterwards it would just sort of get quiet or back to normal. Hope others didnt have to deal with it too bad


When the amount of times that your parents argued comes to a point in which you realize that your parents should have stayed apart.


The worst thing is them arguing while your in a call with your friends.

@Nion's Media and Logo Archive lmao same

Even worse while a friend is at your house...

Id say that was good, i always felt safer with someone on the call just because someone else was listening


My parents fight a lot and it's hard for me to not pay attention, I end up crying myself to sleep at night and sob during the day. I try to solve problems between them but never have the guts to come clean to them about how I feel. I need help


Its sad that nowadays its a norm for having your parents separated/divorced.


My parents used to argue a lot when I was a kid. I was damn scared when they started to scream at each other. I used to hide in the bathroom hoping it to stop soon. Whenever my parents get into fight I knew few days will be really bad for me as they used to scold me for every little thing I did. I am happy that they don't fight or argue anymore.

@bee man please only do that if their hurting you, not scolding.

Idk wtf is wrong with this reply section.<br>I hope you are doing better Rai.

Idk wtf is wrong with this reply section.
I hope you are doing better Rai.

@BeachioSand -Formerly DoomPerson89- It's not.

If they somehow still scold you, pull out something that can hurt bad but won't kill, like a BB. Or just pull out an empty yet real gun. That works too. The point here is to look extremely menacing through firearms.


It was usually followed by the sounds of broken glass from bottles being thrown and cuss words being yelled. Ahhh good times


My parents never argued with each other, but they sure did with my older brother. I distracted myself by playing BOTW.


One time when I was like 7 or something like that my parents were arguing in the car and I just said “Stop arguing I don’t like it” and they just kinda awkwardly looked at me then stopped

Wow they listened? Good for them mine didn’t 😭 they’d just both turn their yelling louder and onto me

I think some parents don’t realize the effect they’re having on their child(ren) unless they speak up, and some kids are too scared to say anything simply because they don’t want to make things worse, be it an abusive parent or causing something else to, snap, if you will. eg. parents getting worse mentally because of the realization that they’re hurting their child(ren)

Sad stuff.

I remember once my parents started arguing when we were eating and i got frustrated, so i told them "I'm not hungry anymore" and went into my room

Man, my family just gets mad at me when I say that

I wish my parents back then would do that if I told them to stop

wow, i shouldve said that to my parents when they argued :pensive:


When my parents fight sometimes, I play games to cancel out the noise.


Be distracted as possible. Cover away the noise.


Nintendo: We here to bring joy to all family!<br>That one kid with his DS:

Nintendo: We here to bring joy to all family!
That one kid with his DS:

@Sephelions wdym joy? They fucking saved us


I just remember playing Super Mario Odyssey and taking a nap when they were arguing. But my mom ended up taking us to a hotel, I still go to my dad's house and they take turns so it's fine now.


I remember when I was 7 years old and I used to yell like a demonic gremlin in my room when I won the grand prix 3 times.


<b>Enters room</b> "son we need to talk about something."

*Enters room* "son we need to talk about something."

Nah cuz then they always talk about how we need to pack up and shit, or one of them will leave and won’t come back until the next day and by then they are fine but the house smells like alcohol and I can’t look at them

>Blink-182's "Stay Together for the Kids" starts playing in your head.

<b>sits on the corner of the bed, patting the bedsheets with a smile trying to hide the pain</b>

*sits on the corner of the bed, patting the bedsheets with a smile trying to hide the pain*

Them trying to make it up to you is worse than doing nothing


They were arguing pretty quietly, that was actually pretty tame lol. I could barely hear them over the game!


My man is such a pro that he completed mariokart without even moving his fingers


the kid was so good at the game that he didn't even need to move his fingers

While his parents were arguing, meaning that basically he was playing it with his mind which happens to be calm and stable while his parents were arguing.


Gaming was the only that took my mind off     my problems, gaming literally raised me.


My family isn't so dysfunctional enough to have this nostalgic trip that I wished I always wanted. Then again, I rather not have one.


I was only raised by my mom but I can't imagine how awful it is to overhear an intense argument between your parents and playing videogames is the only way to disconnect and feel "safe". As if being occupied by yourself in your room minding your business is the only way to stay out of it but really it's just indirect trauma.

I guess I didn’t realize how traumatic it was until now 😂

Kirby aw bro that’s really sad
Keep your head up and try not to take it too hard
My parents divorced when I was 9 (currently 14) and things were hard but you just gotta learn how to cope and deal with being by each for a week or pick one to live with and visit the other every once in a while
I know, the choice would be hard but to avoid the infinite push and pull game, you gotta choose bro
But if you wanna be by both, that 1 week cycle could work
stay out of conflict and arguments and just try to be happy man

and then my dad takes away my phone even when i did nothing wrong . it is my escape and helps lessen the stress i have at home. i’m so so so so scared i don’t want to be home all summer break i’m so scared all i can do is say how scared i am online because there’s nothing else i can do

Last  year  this in 2021 happened 12 times

yeah im still suffering the consequences of trauma to this day xd, got triggered by my mom a few weeks ago


Change this to a adult and a sibling fighting, and you got a slam dunk.


Yes, and then the more louder it gets the more shaky my hands start to get while I was playing


You guys remember when you were In a argument with your parents and they treat you so different and you can't say anything, so you apologize and mean nothing.

@Sylas The Fox Hey, if you feel this problem inside of you, just go to a psychologist, it will fix this sensation of yours, trust me. And if it don't work with one, try another one and another, you can find bad psychologists too, just don't give up and be determined to make yourself better everyday! 💪❤

..the fact that we can all relate to this is kinda crazy and a bit sad. But in some way, quite comforting.

@Sylas The Fox you’re not an asshole for standing up for yourself yo

It’s still so ingrained into me that even though I’m trying to get out of that, I can’t help just still feeling guilty despite having done nothing more than stand up for myself as a human being. I always feel like the AshHole even when I know I’m right because I’ve been so used to trying not to rock the boat for years.

@I are olmedo or you make a really good point but since youre aggravated it comes off rude so they pop you in the mouth and lecture you more

@Hawk Feather true, sometimes even after the argument i would feel like im right but either i didnt have the time nor mindset to actually get my point across cuz of the yelling or they straight up yell so much i lose my confidence on my point at the moment. and i dont get it, do they think that they'll win by saying it over and over and over again?

Or you actually had a point in the beginning but they won't listen so you agree with everything they say to get them to stop talking to you. And they,just,keep,talking!


I remember doing this I would always care about winning the game instead of whatever my parents were yelling about


I had to listen to make sure my mom didn't get hurt again lol


god the memories and anxiety this brought back...

I might have an anxiety attack <br>Not a big one but remembering the past is hard for me

I might have an anxiety attack
Not a big one but remembering the past is hard for me

@Jacob from Fortree bro... honestly both

McDonalds is for fat Americans stop eating there

For your parents fighting or for rainbow road?


My parents were arguing, it's just we were all living in one room.


My parents never argued but the 3Ds at like 12 at night is the most relatable thing I’ve seen today


I got the same heavy chest , abnormal breathing , feverish feeling which I used to get while distracting myself. On point I must say.

I didn’t… I didn’t have the parents to argue for me


There weren't any games near me to keep me "distracted". In fact i didn't have much of a choice but to watch the house get trashed


Damn, you’re right…parents didn’t argue until the 2000s.


that vision...it really gives you the vibe of focus on games and just "play, play, play"

I would literally tell myself to keep playing so I would restrain myself from interfering 💀


I'm so sorry for everyone that understands this,hope yall are alright


Man I just remembered the time I was sitting in the living room playing minecraft pocket edition and my dad put a hole in the wall while arguing with my mom. I'm so luck my dad didnt hit her.


A shame that little the kid knew he was never going to see his dad after this event. :(

@𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫 loll

@𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫 loll

@𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫 Congratulations. Ur dad is a bitch

@𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫 same except I saw him again when I was 6,

he had to go get a gallon of milk 😅<br>i know thats fked but XD

he had to go get a gallon of milk 😅
i know thats fked but XD

@𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫 i never saw mine since i was 7 too im 15 now he has a family too we knew by the rumors and his public social media account that is private now he has a son now its a baby girl and i dont even care fsr

I guess I am lucky that non of my family members left us

His dad will still be proud he won the race.

I never saw mine until I was 7 but he came back with a new family lmao.

𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙮 𝙢𝙛. 💫


My parents don't even argue over bills they be arguing over the most random stuff 💀


Yeah...I know the feeling...

I would sit there terrified at their screaming...

And just keep my face in my 3DS, staying quiet, not to get noticed or involved...


It's truly sad how many people in these comments are relating to this, nobody should have to experience this, stay strong and have a wonderful night :)

I dont think that "nobody should have to experience it", if it happens pretty rarely and isnt violent or too intense, i feel like this is just having parents, you know?

Thanks, for that uplifting comment.. I honestly just stay strong until I’m alone or with my sister or crush, then I could vent to them about it…


Bro I remember watching Glitter Force with my siblings and talking about our favorite characters while our parents argued bout some shit 💀


i just got gaslit into thinking my depression isn’t real. i have such great caring parents

@Kamini SinghNah ya can't just snap out of it bro

Attention all field units: code "If your depressed just be happy" is active. This is not a drill. I repeat, this is NOT A DRILL


I was in this exact situation right before my parents divorced I think I'm having a PTSD attack

@カルピス when you’re having a panic attack you’re panicking so can’t focus on what’s going on around you because you’re shaking and panicking and aren’t able to think straight

@L also, I don’t think having a panic attack can completely make you unable to type. I might be wrong though, I haven’t had a panic attack in a while.

@Usuario HELLO THERE
HIDDEN MESSAGE
OH YEAH

man divorces are terrible, sometimes it's for the better but nevertheless it can really hurt..<br>i hope things are going better now and if not; it's always completely fine to talk to someone about it

man divorces are terrible, sometimes it's for the better but nevertheless it can really hurt..
i hope things are going better now and if not; it's always completely fine to talk to someone about it

@L literally. My parents are divorced, but I lived wi th my dad and his mom, and they would argue almost every single night, it would upset me but it's not like I shake everytime I think abt it

You don’t get ptsd from parents arguing lmao you get ptsd from war and you wouldn’t be typing that out if you were having an “attack”

I went through the same thing too. It happened in the living room when my parents were fighting. My brothers were in the room, and I was in the bathroom sobbing away...

RIP for you, my parents got divorced when I was 3 months old

@mr mc crunchy McDonald Oh yeah?, well try to read it

I can empathize, so if you need to reach out, I'll be listening

@Usuario Bro is this kindergarten? That’s way too easy.

@mr mc crunchy McDonald If that's true then try to read this:

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May I suggest a therapist? Mine is quite nice to me and if you need to just,,, talk about your favorite show for a month or two before getting into it a good one is more than happy to let you.

Do you need to talk about it? It's good to talk about these sort of things.


I dont understand this but my parents CONSTANTLY argue with each other... 💀 Is it the faint yelling voices in the background? If it isnt i dont understand.


When the arguments got really really bad I would play Pokémon Omega Ruby and fly on Latios because it would play a beautiful song, I would also go into my closet and plug up the door gap with blankets to lessen the noise


When parents arguing is a moment where your body just stop being carefree.

@snethies it’s needed for their future but sorry ig lol

@Jupiter bro it doesn’t really matter, they’re not being graded

You’re = you are<br>Your = your thing that you own

You’re = you are
Your = your thing that you own


This is too familiar. Back then, I used to just sit, turn on my computer, turn my headsets on and ignore. Nowadays, I dominate In these fights and act as a pacifier. It's really helpful to grow up. Since then, there have been little to no arguments.


Its almost like divorce was a “trend” in the early 2000s sadly its part of most of our childhoods

@Divine Light Yeah, mine too. They need to just split up already, but my mom's too religious and takes the relationship too seriously because of Christianity.

Dang...if I were you I would ķīŀł mŷŝ3ŀf to make them miserable for the rest of their lives, a perfect revenge

@Divine Light I have a feeling that if my parents weren't catholic, they would think about getting a divorce

@sand covet exactly 😔 anywhere where things like that are forced can easily end up toxic and unhappy at best

@Antwon yes, they often fought about it with each other saying they wish they could. My mom tried and long story her doctor told her she was crazy to, so she gave up. after, they both just sunk into denial watching TV and eating junk food together. they just sat feeling stuck in their choice from someone else's opinion, and having their only child be sick and disabled didn't help, one of those cases of "stay together for the kid" when I wished they would have split bc my dad got downright abusive after.

i wish it was more prevalent in the middle east, but sadly divorce is shamed here and marriage can turn very toxic very fast, especially for the children

@Crazyman109 I think they mean they wanted to divorce but couldn't, so they were forced to be together in a bad relationship

Luckily tho my parents have had some rough patches they are still together

Mine stayed together until they died sadly, Catholic rules.


A few years ago I realized many people have parents that argue a lot, I’ve never experienced that.


Bruh, my parents argue to argue, never escalates to yelling or any violence, I pray yall are doing ok.


did you just turn my life into a video? well played

@rayhib was that a declaration of war right there?!?!


arguing aside, but this man is fucking goated at the game


As a broken home,this is very legit and accurate<br>If we get carried away by the situation it will get even worse,the one and only solution is something that make you relax

As a broken home,this is very legit and accurate
If we get carried away by the situation it will get even worse,the one and only solution is something that make you relax

Something that makes you relax huh?<br>420 likes

Something that makes you relax huh?
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I can sadly relate to this on a hard level


My parents are divorced, for more than a 6 years now and I remember that every time they got into a fight I would turn on some gta v gameplay and not actually watch it or play a lego game on  my ps3 and not actually doing anything, just free roaming or something while my mom admitting that she cheated on my father for almost 3 years. Video games are sometimes the only thing that can truly keep you sane


And the fear really kicks in when the door opens

Worst part is when one of them say to you something and you argue back, after on one them turn around And you see the killer look in their eyes..


i would have to watch my parents argue and not just sit in a room, still have to!


Makes sense seeing as I don’t have a dad 💀


My parents argue every night and the only reason they r still together is because of financial reasons. When they argue I play Minecraft to escape to my world where everyone is happy

Don't  make it a habit to dissociate from reality. Its okay to escape, just don't favor your fake world over the real one.

Same, I’m 20 and it still bothers me, more anger than anything else mostly nowadays, it really bothered me when I was younger, now it just pisses me off and gives me really bad anxiety so I play games and blast music to drown it out and stay distracted

Soon tho I’ll be able to afford somewhere else to live, where there’s peace and quiet…

@Matty_arm76 huhh...<br>It doesn't work in mine!!

@Matty_arm76 huhh...
It doesn't work in mine!!

@Mii 2.0 I do intervene but it only works sometimes

Unfortunately, I live in the same reality, the only thing that pays the bill is me

Did you ever tell them to be quiet? Call the police?


This brings back my pre-broken DS memories.  My DS was a hand-me-down with a busted hinge and microphone, and I was limited to SMB 2, Horses 2, and a ratatouille game that I forgot about

It finally broke after my younger pulled a spiderman on it.  It was on top of my short closet, and he somehow climbed up using the handles, grabbed onto it for a second, then promptly fell with it

The reason it broke was because the top screen broke off and the ribbon was ripped, It broke off easily because the right side of the hinge was basically falling apart

I have a new DS now, the only difference between my original DS is that it's white and there's no damage on it.  Horses 2 somehow didn't get lost, and I now have Lilo and Stitch, Fastastic 4: Flame on, and Yu-Gi-Oh

It doesn't feel as magical as it was when I was younger, and I wish I got to play with it more when I was younger, I really do miss 2010


Wait 5 minutes after your parents are done arguing before entering the room they were in.


Man, I never had a DS or anything else to take my mind off the arguing, I just laid in bed staring at the celling until they stopped or if I fell asleep.


For me I would just go outside during family arguments because I didn't like being around that at all.


My parents started fighting more recently and I just blast my loud music through earbuds or just watch horror to distract me


“When I grow up I’ll NEVER argue with anyone EVER!”

Good luck buddy. One thing though: if you don’t argue then don’t let people treat you like a puppet.

@GrimPig6969 bad

He ment to say bad kids


Then you hear broken glasses and doors slamming


My parents used to fight all the time in the kitchen. I was really little ( about 6) and my brother would come invite me to play Minecraft to make me feel better.

Solutions to both you and your brother. Stay strong and keep your chin up ❤


Us reminiscing about this just shows that we didn’t have it that great and things got worse.


My parents are still together, but my DS with MarioKart still loaded in it is sitting by my bed.


The anxiety of just feeling like you can’t do anything about it… I can’t wait to move out and just not having to worry about making sure everything is perfect so I don’t risk an argument


my parents never argued on a daily basis and I still understand


My dad was coming home and my mom said on the phone to my dad “im not gonna open the gate” so I was scared and worried then my dad arrives then my mom almost called the neighbor's but luckily dad steal the key and opened the door and they fricking started to fighting.

I always help my parents not to fight and I cry every time they fight.


Playing Wii sports while my parents are arguing and Im crying inside!

Strike!
"I want a devorce you bitch!"
Foul ball!
"The kids are ruining our life!"
Nice shot!
"All you care about is money!"

Unfortunately I didn't make up any of these sentences 😭

I use to play the same game over and over on my Nintendo 2ds


Guys, don't be the part of the matrix, break the chain your parents are creating by NOT arguing with your future wife... Or else your children's in future will comment the same "tHiS iS sO rElaTaBle"


That was exactly me..but I remember a night when I was young, where I was cradling my little brother are trying to silently cry while my parents screamed and shouted, breaking almost every glass thing inside the house. It was even worse because my mother was pregnant and my dad was trying to kill her.

I will NEVER forget that night.

That was exactly me..but I remember a night when I was young, where I was cradling my little brother are trying to silently cry while my parents screamed and shouted, breaking almost every glass thing inside the house. It was even worse because my mother was pregnant and my dad was trying to kill her.

I will *NEVER* forget that night.


I’m not sure if I should be sad or nostalgic


If anyone here needs a hug, I'm here.

Crappy childhoods and loud tense parent arguments should not be so normal. But I've been there too. Guess that just means we aren't alone, even if we are in our rooms either living it, or reflecting back on it in our adult lives.


I'm very happy to have a functional family


<b>The fact that my parents are arguing right now just makes this more relatable for me</b>

*The fact that my parents are arguing right now just makes this more relatable for me*


I can relate to this a lot more than a lot of people so it is actually pretty sad


Its worse when they argue with me, it gave me some really bad social issues that i still have today. & we still argue too 💀