Timestamps to all the questions etc.:

0:00 Hello and welcome.
1:20 What the song is about.
6:05 Why we chose to go so sexy.
8:34 How did you get the faces to be blurred?
11:27 What the intimate scenes were like.
13:45 "The story"
16:30 The pandemic.
18:04 dodie takes on any challenge.
19:31 Was the connection to Hazel's short film Dementia intentional?
20:35 Was it intentional that the last shot looked like it was from the perspective of a person leaving?
20:54 Different interpretations.
21:13 What Hazel said to each actor.
24:06 Internet issues.
26:40 Why Reb's legs are in the video.
29:26 It wasn't as hot as it looks.
30:30 The things you end up saying while editing.
30:50 Credits.
32:14 Who directed?
32:24 Can you sing a song for us?
32:34 How did you go about the colour scheme?
34:22 Where did you film the shot on top of the building?
34:59 How do you budget for a music video like this?
35:18 How emotionally prepared were you to film the music video?
37:56 What happens to the furniture after a shoot?
38:41 WHEN WILL YOU WEAR WIGS?
39:38 Was it inspired by Bly Manor?
39:45 Did you ever fart?
39:50 WHEN WILL YOU WEAR WIGS?
40:28 How do you fight the male gaze when you want to express sex on screen?
41:14 Showing a woman being sexy, from a woman's perspective.
42:57 Hazel being uncomfortable.
43:38 How performative it was.
44:10 Did you drink real alcohol on set?
45:36 Can you talk about the echoed voices in the chorus?
47:19 Did you speed up the song on set?
48:23 Was the lack of time clarity supposed to represent the lostness of it all?
48:42 The last shot.
50:30 "I Kissed Somone"
50:57 Wrap up.
52:51 One nice last question.
53:30 Who contributed how much for ideas?
56:25 Thank you for watching.

Thanks for the sweet replies, it makes me very happy to know I was helpful! ♡

I honestly don’t wanna know how long this took... but thank you. :)


Hazel's calming mom friend voice in the beginning just makes me want her to be my friend and keep me sane

I noticed that too it kind of melted my heart

Being the calming mom friend, it's nice to be soothed for once lol.


hazel saying "darling" just <i>cured</i> me

I swear the first 20 seconds cleared my skin watered my crops and gave me a forehead kiss 😭


Is anyone actually surprised dodie is a sexual being? Even in her coming out song, which was pretty wholesome and whimsical overall, she made it very clear that she had kissed people of the same gender and liked it lots. Have we forgotten about the lovely photoshoot of ver in lingerie? About shadowboob??

It took me SO long to figure out what the fuck shadowboob was

@Lea "I'm bisexual - a coming out song!" from 2017

@Sister Perish no but dodie has already made it very clear that she's not asexual imo

@Sister Perish i don't think they meant to say all humans are sexual, just that dodie is human and there's more to her than what she presents online

@Mia E Not all humans are sexual beings.

@Mia E yeah, like i get that she started on youtube with a very peppy, joyful and "manic pixie dream girl"-y persona, but she's so clearly evolved beyond that, even in her songs.


Hazels kindness towards dodie is just so precious 🥺🥺🥺


ugh their friendship is so pure, you can see they care about eachother so much and it makes me so happy :))


I honestly loved the beginning here, just seeing dodie being shocked that she hadn't started the stream and hazel going "and that's ok" in the most comforting way? That was amazing, seeing someone deal with a situation that could be quite stressful for a person so gently and respectfully. Love it


doesn't anybody feel like Dodie's really glowing in this video today? :O <3


I know this is for the song but I’ve missed this; dodie and hazel just chatting for a long time and letting it play as I potter around, it’s so nice and comforting. First lockdown vibes.


I cannot believe the timing of this. We broke up three months ago and I recently reinstalled tinder and felt like this. It was so wrong, like I was cheating, but also like I didnt really want to look at anyone else like that but I did WANT to want to look at other people like that. Dunno what the best place out of this feeling is but Im trying to push through and try to flirt and whatever until it feels natural and right again and like Im not missing something or someone. I loved the video and song btw obviously <3

You should give yourself some time, no one can heal you but yourself, if you were with someone for a long period of time it's best to know yourself again cause you were living with a shared personality. You have to build yourself again and meeting people it's not gonna help doing that, you're just gonna feel empty.


Yessss! I love that you talked about how people perceive you as innocent little Dodie for some reason. I'm very glad you gave the music video that angle!


after watching this, I'm like ---- damn i really want to act in something directed by Hazel


Ok now I really want a dodie tipsy talk, with them talking about her new album and both of them having fun with how ridiculous it must feel to interview your friend lol... That sounds like a bad pitch but it sounded good in my head 😅

Oh my gosh yes I’d love another tipsy talk with these two after the album comes out!!!


idk 'bout y'all but hazel and dodie are giving me persephone and hades vibes and i love it


I kissed my first person since my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up - this song came out the next day, and I cried a lot. Bah, your timing is amazing. I love growing with you.


I did get some "Human" vibes... Also in Human, there is a face without a body. And here, bodies without faces ! I love it :)


hazel is so good at soothing people <b>i feel soothed</b>

hazel is so good at soothing people *i feel soothed*


Almost felt like it could have been about someone trying to get past someone who had died? Not purely the grief process, but trying to be back to living... it created that feeling in me.


this is definitely one of my favourite dodie songs, the bit that always gets me is the echoes of “i know” it’s just so eerily sad. dodie and hazel really outdid themselves


I came late but now I get a hazel and dodie podcast to listen to while I embroider :)

Oh great idea! I'll save this to listen to when I paint :)


Just wanted to say that the sisterly love that Hazel and Dodie have, is beautiful.


took me a full three times of replaying the phrase "how do you fight the male gaze..." to work out that it was in fact "male gaze" not "male GAYS" 😂😭😭


i think somewhere midway i just started zooming in on dodie, and before i knew it i was crying and i don’t really know why but i just feel so much for you dodie, and i’m so proud of how far you’ve come you brilliant magnificent human. ily

aLSO GIRL YOU LOOK SO GORGEOUS AND CONFIDENT AND JUST PERFECTION BYE


Listening to this while drinking an awkwardly large glass of wine is the only way to write a paper on a Monday night


i feel like mentally i've grown alongside dodie ever since i discovered her music when i was like 11, so now that her songs have more 'depth' and maturity, it's just good to know that people change over time and that its okay to embrace that. also... hehe fill a hole..


"of course I have a back" one of my favorite bits of the video


I love the maturity and sexiness in this video and seeing a more drown up side of Dodie. Love your growth!!


Awesome that you guys have such a genuine friendship and also working relationship, makes me want to make an artistic collab with my best friend


@Harley Quinn  Directly, about 28:19, with the question leading up to it starting at about 26:40.

@Louisyed If you'd like to see a component of her personality she's in some videos on Sammy Paul's channel playing tabletop games with this friend group.

@Louisyed reb day, her ig is @rebstagram i think? friend of theirs


I love love love hearing all these tid bits and behind the scenes stuff, especially with you and hazel as a amazing team, I hope you continue to create things together in the future!


I loooved watching this with tech difficulties and all. Also as a tomboy all my life the two of u make me feel somewhat proud of being a woman. You killed it and ive recommended ur song and music video to so many ppl! Powerful stuff.


Hazel is that sweet mum friend we all need


I really liked the music video and this livestream because I feel like I have such a deeper understanding of the song now, so beautiful dodie


Your new song and video are both amazing dodie! I'm so excited for the album


Absolutely beautiful video. I love seeing this more adult and sexy side of dodie. I can’t wait for the rest of the album to come out.


The funniest thing is when I saw the thumbnail I went 'Ouuu this is gonna be so cool.' I don't think it ever felt out of tone for me and I've been watching you since 6/10. Maybe before? Some people don't like to accept that people have grown up because they associate your cuter(?) phase with a time in their life they might miss.


Hazel, you look stunning in this! Also, the use of color and handheld shots is so unique, and you really pinpointed the story I envisioned as I listened to the song. I absolutely adore it. Well done.


Hazel, you're just such a good friend! The situation with the boob is hilarious and I'm laughing so hard! but i'm also realizing, this is amazing. i wish everyone has a friend who covers their nipple at the right time.


The 8 year friendship between you two definitely shows! ☺


Forgetting to press the button and talking for 10min as if they're live is such a Dodie thing to do


thanks for giving us such an in-depth look at the music video and everything behind it!


This video also feels like dating and meeting people who turn out to not be for you and searching for the right person. Basically online dating and sleeping with some people and that moment of realizing that it won't work with that person and having to start over again every time.


i agree! that beginning bit 46:20  i thought it was a 100% hazel! lovely video, love you both


I love hearing about the process of making the video! Thanks for this.


this song came out the day after i had my first “relations” with another person since my breakup. I cried all day out of guilt and feelings that i didn’t understand. thank you for putting how i feel into words, it’s beautiful ❤


This friendship is so beautiful. Also love the song & video


you guys need to make a podcast together i beg


ICONSSSSSSSS ❤ This is wonderful - you two are wonderful!<br>The music video is honestly something really special.

ICONSSSSSSSS ❤ This is wonderful - you two are wonderful!
The music video is honestly something really special.


this was so comforting, i love you both so much, i am so happy for you both and i love the video and the song!


this music video was so fucking beautiful. I cant wait for the album!


The song is amazing, the video is beautiful -and sad-, and these two are so talented and gorgeous.... ugh <3


at the end she wakes up and immediately looks next to her, looking for someone . i think that showed a sort of codependency side to this story where waking up alone feels cold and empty and wrong. she clearly wanted one person there next to her, the person she is trying to forget but still longs for. the last shot being handheld made it feel like a person walking away from her, maybe that person who is 100% over her, and maybe never loved her at all. the one light is SO stunning, showing how she is completely alone in this pit of darkness. absolutely beautiful visuals thank you hazel and dodie for this video<33333


yall are so cute and im so proud of both of your creative development


Thank you for doing this, it was great, and the video was beautiful!


Hazel is such a pro! Thinking of everything and erverbody on set. Very impressive!


The music video is so good. I remember when human come out and I watched the commentary on that music video too. It is so interesting to find out about what happens behind the scenes.


i love your songs and music videos so much and it's so nice to hear about all the things that went behind making it. as a filmmaker and video editor (and as someone who has a dream to work in music videos) i love seeing hazel's input in it and how it all worked out 💞


I have such a huge crush on dodie after this music video dear god help me! 😂😂😳❤

Bro I’ve had a crush on her since 2017 so here we are 😭😭😭


this is literally my comfort video i just sit and watch the whole thing every few weeks


imagine getting a call like "so we're gonna pay you... to make out with dodie"


The video, the song, the humans who made it: stunning 😍✨


Can we see the animatic at some point I’m dying for another hilarious hazel human vibe animatic🤩


Im glad she's straying away from that 'precious smol bean, yellow dodie' portrayal - tho it was a cute era, it was sickly ... this is mature

Honestly I've always seen Dodie as both at the same time cos her YouTube depiction of her self Vs Snapchat/Instagram stories shows the real her more.<br>And she basically has mastered the same qualities of pulling off cute and hot

Honestly I've always seen Dodie as both at the same time cos her YouTube depiction of her self Vs Snapchat/Instagram stories shows the real her more.
And she basically has mastered the same qualities of pulling off cute and hot

what do mean by "sickly"? in what way was is that

sickly is kind of a mean way of putting it, she was being herself and that dodie still lives inside her with the rest of her past selves. as dodie herself said, there's no shame in being a girl on youtube with a ukulele

@Georgia Rose i think it's more, she is no longer trying to go back. She has talked about wishing she was sixteen again, I think that's why she was so cutesy for so long

tbh i felt like i've grown with dodie. as her music has matured, so have i. i'm really grateful i got to experience her music for a memorable portion of my life <3

@Georgia Rose she was 20 when she was stuck in that depiction ~ new year, new aesthetic haha

i mean, in that era she was a child/ just out of being a child. it made sense at the time, but i agree. it wouldn’t make sense to go back to that :)


You can't censor yourself because of the male gaze. Sexuality should be celebrated, in a respectful and genuine (non-degrading) manner :)


petition to see the reb cut of the music video where it’s just reb and dodie for the entire song


It's a really great song. Sadly relatable and relatably sad.


Please please please make another podcast-esque type video 😩😩🤎


The sentiment of the song reminds me of the first line of Night Shift by Lucy Dacus but like less angry


omg no they dont know what the haunting of bly manor is. watch it on netflix both haunting series are incredible storytelling and just really good horror


hazel is the literal sweetest ever- i just had to say it again


i felt no anger whatsoever when seeing the thumbnail, just a bit of surprise and then pride and then every feeling at once as i got sucked into the actual video and concept


kudos to dodie and hazel today, so fukin proud


Will there be a livestream on may 7 for the album release?


ily guys so much <3 it was beautiful as always


i dont like the term single/lonely, i prefer the term 'on standbi'


All their friends when they thought the stream went down; "YOU ARE LIVE! DON'T SAY SOMETHING YOU'LL REGRET"


this is my 5th time watching the live and i still laugh cuz they thought they where live


The beginning of the live session is so dodie


I wonder if Hozier's 'Someone New' played any tiny role in the making of this song..


The wigs questions had me on the floor <3


This was the video deep dive i didn't know i needed


Loved this q+a! Ha hate the typical chatty guy on a date way too many of them. Lol can’t relate to meeting a guy who’s looking to fall in love 🤣


Please consider covering Love Everybodys gotta live


Ahh i missed it but it’s lovely music video.. i’m pretty sure it’s one of your best music videos!


“And you do have a back! I’ve seen it!” LMAO


i’ve looked at dodes so much my dpdr got me thinking her face is mine aahh :,0


I love the reference to that prank interview lolololololol


Hazel "they didn't think you had a back?!" 😅


Dodie, you might just pull a blink182 where the singer wanted to kiss Halle Berry so he wrote it into the script. 😉


Oh my god Hazel is just so....

💖💝💕💞💓💗💞💝💘💕💓💓💓💝💘💖💕💕💝💝💕💞💓💗💞💘💖💖💝💝💘💕💕💞💓💗💗💘💘💕💖💘💝💞💗


you don’t know what bly manor is?? you would love it!🥰


39:35 actually surprised neither of you have seen bly manor, highly recommend though :)

Yeah that was really surprising!! I guess maybe they might not be big fans of horror? But it’s so much more deep than like a slasher movie or something (not that slasher movies aren’t awesome in their own right) and I just feel like they would both love it!!! Especially Hazel with its themes of dementia and everything. Seriously, they gotta watch it. (Also Bly Manor and Cool Girl came out so close together that their vibes are very mixed for me so yeah I really want them to watch it!)


I recently adopted a dog named Hazel and I can never watch these videos the same way again


It's not meant to be an uncomfortable thing. Girl they don't have faces. I'm uncomfortable lol


40:33 ngl I heard "How do you fight the male gays" and was very confused


45:39 casually hearing this video as background then suddenly hearing dodie say my name Anelis 👁👄👁  uh hello hi


Can someone tell me where I can get dodie's black dress? ❤


Anyone know where hazel’s dress is from?


bly mannor is a netflix show horror/thiller!!


When you do a chear with glass and not drinking after wards bring bad luck to each other's , ok honey


Love you both , Pete my name , wish u luck


what this needs is an otter. is it unnecessary? you decide.


I do find it ironic how dodie talked in her book about sex scenes being filmed unrealistically and how sex is way more awkward than that, and then proceeds to star in said unrealistic sex scenes for the song. Didn't feel the need to show any slip outs huh?


Um I kinda can't concentrate on the video because of how hot Dodie looks??????


And like.... if you look, the boy from Human.... his legs can be seen in frame. Nice nod


Now I'm so sorry I commented about the thumbnail:(


Okay but has she never heard the word rebound?

there's a big difference between a rebound and a one night stand when in the grief period of a relationship ending


who is somone (im sorry... typo's suck I know)


venomminute - hmmm... If only it was that. Unfortunately, it goes much deeper into the rabbit hole. You should know.


How the hell can you kiss a man with a beard? ew!!!!!!!