her "do you have to leave?" at the end is heartbreaking, that detective was still a comforting presence for her, and probably one of the very few

She's faking it, she's "Sad and devastated" because she's caught.

She's faking it, she's "Sad and devastated" because she's caught.

Ive been arrested before, theres so much waiting in an uncomfortable environment wondering what's going to happen next involved that the last thing you want is to be alone with your mind. Especially when you're having mental illnesses such as depression.

kids brought up with no love could turn out ugly

kids brought up with no love could turn out ugly

My friend u r missing the part he is a trained detective trying to get a confession

@Logan Pickup This is so true, when I have pressure on me it completely demotivates me and puts me off achieving things I would have achieved if I had just been left to it. When you're pressured you feel useless and like nothing you do is ever good enough

@Squiddy Jones Jr. oh man it’s so sad ): i feel really bad for her ):

@Squiddy Jones Jr. oh man it’s so sad ): i feel really bad for her ):

@ChimkenNuggiee She had a whole boyfriend and the option to go live with him. Stop making excuses for her.

I should add that I don’t parent the way these parents did , and I take issue with some of the ways they parented , but it was no excuse for her to murder them .

@J11
Ah, yes. You've skating. I feel like I've gotta use that at some point...

@J11
Ah, yes. *_You've_* skating. I feel like I've gotta use that at some point...

@Logan Pickup  Parents are a huge part of growing children’s  lifestyle and mentally, it’s really depending how they have treated the child. Especially bad or sensitive memorise, children have really sensitive brain and that’s why it’s really important to teach and give them love from the beginning, at least one of the parents could save all this happening to give and be more supportive to her, more freedom in social life, teaching how to be and which people you should not hang out with and what to not to do. people are different , someone are weak , someone are strong mentally, unfortunately this girl couldn’t bare it and I believe she felt pressured yet under the parents,  I can say it’s not that easy to escape especially if you feel you are controlled by parents, doesn’t matter if you even are 50 years old, if you got that mentally because of strict parents since childhood it’s not that easy for someone to get rid of it or think in many plenty better ways. That’s why I think she thought to get rid of their existence will give her freedom. Let me clear it , this is not a excuse but a reason, she’s a victim but a criminal in the same time.

My parents were extremely strict. We didn’t get to go play w friends we had chores and homework. We did everything for them. They instilled the drive in us to persevere and to succeed. We went to college we earned education to work. We never thought to lull ourselves or our parents. She was and is weak. And a killer

The whole time she showed no remorse and was only afraid of what would happen to her

@DianaEmilia911 Bravo to you 👋👋Someone needed to Remind people who the true victims WERE her Mom & Dad.

@Tessa Bishop It doesn't matter if police call you to ask for your side of the story you still have the right to remain silent!

@Eric Taylor  But she was called, to give her side. I wonder if they tried to tell, and wasn't she a minor at the time

@Tessa Bishop People need to know there rights you do not have to talk with police or explain your side of the story.

@Eric Taylor  No, they want as much from her as they can get especially if she is vulnerable.

If I was a detective I would simply tell people you need to speak with attorney before talking to me I'm not gonna make the DA. Job easy!

Shouldn’t have killed her parents and maybe she could’ve had more

Shouldn’t have killed her parents and maybe she could’ve had more

@k m This is such a wild take. She could just leave. This women deserves no empathy. She didn't freak out and accidentally kill them in a frenzy. She had them killed and came up with an elaborate story to cover it up.

Yeah, seems she just wanted that human touch, & concern, to be spoken to not told.

@k m I respect your opinion but "treated her like crap?"

Remember, we only know her side of the story. Now imagine you find out that you're 24 year old, who you think is getting a degree in pharmacology (that you're paying for) has been lying to you for ALMOST A DECADE.

She didn't even graduate high school (at 17-18) and lied for years prior to that.

Instead she's been living with a drug dealer boyfriend for a big part of this time.

How would you react? Even after everything she did THEY STILL OFFERED TO LET HER LIVE AT HOME, USE A CAR THEY PAID FOR AND WERE STILL WILLING TO PROVIDE FOOD AND SHELTER FOR HER.

Its safe to say that there's more parents who would tell a 24 year old "you're on your own" rather than giving her ANOTHER chance. Why were they restricting her? For her own good.

Again,  you're entitled to your own opinion but it blows my mind how you could blame the parents at all.

Black, white, Asian or alien, the majority of parents wouldn't have given her another chance after her pitiful actions.

What was their reward? She tried to have them killed so she could inherit (what she would've gotten one day anyways) what her parents worked to the bone for her.

Sorry, I don't feel anything for her except joy that she got caught and I'm hoping she's suffering while I hope the father finds peace.

@Eagle Winnings What she did was pretty damn horrible, but in a way, I kinda see her as a victim too. If you totally neglect the part where her parents literally treated her like crap, then you wouldn't understand how she managed to reach such a state. Ultimately, all of this is because of bad parenting, in my opinion at least

@Melissa C it's not easy for abuse victims to easily leave, please know that

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@stupid Cat Ironic how you said her parents will be supportive of her. The only time they will be "supportive" is when she will have good grades, but obviously not everyone are built to have good grades. We all have at least one talent/skill that we excel on. These parents "wants" their child to be successful in their terms and not the child. Instead of being supportive for her and motivate her to do better in school, they scold her and was disappointed of her, that's not "guiding" that's "pressuring". Pressuring without helpful instructions on how she can walk on the path they chose for her to walk. Like teaching a kid to ride a bike blind-folded...

As an Asian there is no escaping this trash mindset of a "person with good grades, will be successful" bs. I know people and friends who were exiled by the family because they want to be in charge of they're lives and decide they're own path, and not the path the parents wanted them to take. And the sad part is, most parents will still keep their ego when in the future they're children became successful regardless he/she sucks at school.

Can't blame her for faking a grade card, done that myself before... A child is born to be loved and guided, not to have good grades that will be irrelevant at sometime in the future, let's be real. Even though we have good grades, life will still find a way to make us feel shit. Her dreams was shattered because of an injury, life's demanding enough... why should our parents be as well?

@stupid Cat no, even if they loved her, they were clearly emotionally abusive. They didnt deserve to die, but the way they treated their child is gross. Period.

@stupid Cat You failed this one... sorry lol

@stupid Cat You failed this one... sorry lol

@ChimkenNuggiee she could’ve left with her comforting boyfriend. Her parents gave her the option to leave!

@stupid Cat “as a parent your job isn’t to make your child comfortable” what?? Literally one of the main things you must do as a parent is be a comfort to your child..

I wonder if at that moment he had said, "I have to go, unless you're ready to tell me the truth," would she have broken. Withholding that little bit of comfort for the promise of understanding might have been the straw that broke the camel's back.

@stupid Cat you are totally right... but shelter ( love ) isn’t ruining anything without that the world will be a really coldhearted place so parents always need to give that to their children and like in this case talk to her more to know whats up with her bc i don’t think they really did.They just wanted her to follow the rules they gave and if they showed they cared or loved her what they only showed by wanting the best job and education for her then this wouldn’t happen.

@stupid Cat I’ve skating was probably the only way for her to feel free

Her parents were obviously too much, how a child grows up is the biggest determining fracture of how they’ll end up

There are even psychopaths who may not feel empathy but don’t go and kill people simply because they grew up in a place where they were thought about empathy

Parents are to blame

@stupid Cat There is a lot of research to show the opposite. Children who have discipline at home but also love and warmth, and have their feelings taken into account, are linked to better financial (better job, education, etc.) and emotional (more friends, lower percentage of mental health problems) outcomes worldwide than children who have authoritarian parents. There is also a lot of research to show that having sensitive, responsive parents at home <b>helps</b> children deal with stress and gives them positive tools to respond to stress, because they know that no matter what happens they have a safe place at home. All of these things help children adapt - being overly controlling and forcing hardship on them has been shown to give children more anxiety both during their childhood and later in life, leading to among other things higher suicide rates. The "school of hard knocks" approach demonstrably causes more children to die, at the extreme end of the scale. There's no justification for it anymore.

@stupid Cat There is a lot of research to show the opposite. Children who have discipline at home but also love and warmth, and have their feelings taken into account, are linked to better financial (better job, education, etc.) and emotional (more friends, lower percentage of mental health problems) outcomes worldwide than children who have authoritarian parents. There is also a lot of research to show that having sensitive, responsive parents at home *helps* children deal with stress and gives them positive tools to respond to stress, because they know that no matter what happens they have a safe place at home. All of these things help children adapt - being overly controlling and forcing hardship on them has been shown to give children more anxiety both during their childhood and later in life, leading to among other things higher suicide rates. The "school of hard knocks" approach demonstrably causes more children to die, at the extreme end of the scale. There's no justification for it anymore.

@stupid Cat uhhh no. grades and jobs ain’t love sweety .. love is giving safety, comfort, hugs and let the child do what they love to do... not demanding it.

@stupid Cat Crushing expectations go far beyond the line of "preparing them for what lies ahead." The wellbeing of your child should <b>always</b> take priority as parents, and their expectations seriously endangered her, given that she mentioned wanting to take her own life and resorted to self-harm.

@stupid Cat Crushing expectations go far beyond the line of "preparing them for what lies ahead." The wellbeing of your child should *always* take priority as parents, and their expectations seriously endangered her, given that she mentioned wanting to take her own life and resorted to self-harm.

@stupid Cat her parents weren’t that comforting, they were pretty demanding.


I wonder if talking to these detectives is the only time she’s been able to talk about the pressure from her parents and get sympathy from an authority figure. Like I wonder if she’d been able to speak with a good therapist if things would’ve been different.

@D Boy Murder wasn't the solution. If her own parents cared about her, she would never had the thought of murdering of her own parents and her bf wasn't supportive either. Different story but recently, in my country, a young guy in his early 20s killed his own dad because the dad was an alcoholic and abusive towards his mum and himself on a daily basis, he would beat them up. No one would help them. He couldn't take it anymore and in act of rage and hate,  he killed him. It's very sad

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll we are getting into hypotheticals I see. Either way you can think someone deserves to die all day and night, attempting murder is where the line is drawn

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll we are getting into hypotheticals I see. Either way you can think someone deserves to die all day and night, attempting murder is where the line is drawn

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll the society I inhabit has laws stating that murder is unforgivable. Seems pretty compatible. I think you like to hear yourself speak, or in this case type.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll the society I inhabit has laws stating that murder is unforgivable. Seems pretty compatible. I think you like to hear yourself speak, or in this case type.

Gayle Elizabeth Look around you and stop being such hypocrites. On a different video people who say what you two say are just as likely be effusing why someone deserves to die.

Steve Jesus Christ how short is your memory? You were saying killing parents is never unforgivable and I’m illustrating how that holier than thou attitude is incompatible with the society you inhabit. Life is not as precious as you were implying.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll and you ask what am I on about... lmao <br>What does that have to do with murder? You're on about commercial pursuits that shorten lives... wtf is right lol.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll and you ask what am I on about... lmao
What does that have to do with murder? You're on about commercial pursuits that shorten lives... wtf is right lol.

Steve Wtf are you on about? We as in society you eejit. And we all turn a blind eye to commercial pursuits that shorten many many lives everyday so let’s not pretend we all value the sanctity of life above everything else when they evidence that we do not is all around us,

@Michael Knight you know, if she just did her school work she would've been able to leave and go to college and get away from her family if she felt the need to. Instead, she's a highschool dropout who lied to her family which is what caused them to take drastic measures. Her parents gave her two options: Stay and get her life back on track with academia, or leave with your drug dealer boyfriend and we will no longer give you a place to stay or money. She lied to them about her entire academic career. They have a right to be upset and they have the right to become estranged because of how she betrayed their trust.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll Who's we? I've never killed anyone in the name of any profit... have you?<br>Are you for some reason saying I think murder in the name of a profit is ok? Not sure why you even said that. Murder in the name of a profit is still murder, and my point stands.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll Who's we? I've never killed anyone in the name of any profit... have you?
Are you for some reason saying I think murder in the name of a profit is ok? Not sure why you even said that. Murder in the name of a profit is still murder, and my point stands.

@Steve What's it like seeing the world in black & white? If life was a fraction as precious as you seem to think we wouldn't be killing 1000s of people every day in the name of profits.

@baby Maharaja she shows classic signs of narcissism and psychopathy. You dont teach that.

@baby Maharaja she shows classic signs of narcissism and psychopathy. You dont teach that.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll yes murder is always unforgivable... not hard to understand.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll yes murder is always unforgivable... not hard to understand.

@Dingdring exactly!! There are parents out there way worse than hers! Expecting collage and a hs diploma is pretty normal from what I've seen in america, and id prolly want to keep my kid in home and safe with me if they lied for the last how ever many years and we're involved with a drug dealer nd bad people, they were trying everything they could to help her and she went and got them murdered

@Gayle Elizabeth its scary how many people apparently think its ok to have your parents murdered for making you do homework. Seems alot of people lack common sense or a basic knowledge of how the law works.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll it is absolutely unforgivable in her situation she had no reasonable need to hire people to murder her parents

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll it is absolutely unforgivable in her situation she had no reasonable need to hire people to murder her parents

The problem with her parents was not the issue. The issue was that she was involved with a criminal boyfriend and his criminal friends who acted like they cared about her. Yes the parents put a lot of stress on her, but parents do that so that you can have a successful life. If she just did her homework in highschool she would've gotten A's and been able to go off to college and and get out of the house.

@D Boy yeah true. she could have easily said she was hiding in her room the whole time but she couldn’t resist seeing it happen. that would have been a whole lot easier.the motive was the money but she craved seeing it happen too

@Oliver and did your girlfriend decide to murder her own parents???? No and that's why she's able to move on and I assume have a good life now. Everyone has bad situations many people have it 10x worse than Jen did there's no reason that makes her decision reasonable, she is a cold blooded killer plain and simple... Everybody goes through bad shit in life and it's our CHOICE wheater we let those things make or break us and she choose

@D Boy Where did I make an excuse? I said I condemn her actions. I don't think she had any support and she's been mentally abused. I''m speaking from my own experience and my gf's. If you didn't see my other comment, my gf had it really bad and she had depression and suicidal thoughts. Her parents controlled every aspect of her life. In my case, as a teenager, lying was part of my life to avoid being abused by my dad and i wanted him to die. This is how bad it is to wish for your owns father's death. And as I say it again, not everyone is the same. Sometimes you want to be loved by your parents and not being rejected by them. It's the parents fault that led to this unfortunate situation. My wish is that hopefully the new generation of parents are not that abusive, be more open and communicate with their kids and not control their life.

@Noah Zork I know what I said and I made it clear I was referring to this case and the feedback on here, whilst acknowledging we can't know enough to do any more than speculate.

@Oliver I say bs YOU are in control of your life, not your parents not anything external. She could have walked away, she chose to lie, she chose to murder. Millions of kids have parents that are even stricter than hers and don't even think about doing what she did, she is a cold blooded murderer and deserves to die in prison and think about her mother every night quit making excuses for a murderer

@D Boy It's obviously her parents fault that led to this situation. They wanted to control her life and dictate her what to do and what to become. This can bring psychological problems which can lead to depression and suicide and this can occur at any age. Not everyone is the same especially when you don't have the support you need. I've explained in a comment that my gf been through a similar situation where she's been psycologically and emotionally affected. It is a very tough situation. I also had some issues growing up with my dad and sometimes I wished he died instead of my other cousins dad who died from illness. I was jealous of my cousins' dads. All my other cousins get along well with their dads but not for me and my brothers, my dad will always swear at us for every single mistake that we do since we were little. Imagine your dad swearing at you with do much hate for just having long hairs? Sometimes you'll be humiliated in front of the public, imagine this embarrassment. And lying becomes part of your life, I lied a lot to my dad because if I didnt lie I would be beaten and getting swore at. Oh and I'm a sttuterer and my dad humiliated and hated me because I stutter and never been supportive. Till this day, my brothers and myself don't talk to him unless we need to and we never had a real dad/son conversation. Don't judge everyone because saying you are grown up and strong but not everyone is the same and sometimes you need to be in their shoes to understand. But I do condemn her actions and she should have been helped which would have prevented this situation. I guess her bf was not much supportive.

@llIlIIIlIIliIIll  Hey bud, I don't if you have picked up on this, but everyone HERE is talking about the case we just watched, not some other hypothetical situation.

Who is being naive? She was more in control of her thoughts and actions than most children her age. She was in control of her ENTIRE life during the time she was supposed to be attending school, except for those pesky times she had to spend a couple hours a day lying to her parents about how her day went. You could say, and I do, that she was more in control of her parents than they were of her.

If she was sexually abused or tortured by her parents for her whole life, the final stage of the murder investigation , when the walls were closing in, would have been the right time to divulge that.

Her parents said "You have been lying to us and living a fake life for years, that deeply hurts and disappoints us, however you are still our Daughter, and we can give you the food and shelter you need while you try to start a new healthier life. That is what we will help you with. If that is not what you want, we can accept that, but we will not continue to enable your current life style"

So she hired a hit-squad.

@Doka Doka it's not just getting good grades. It was living up to her parents' expectation. My gf's been through similar issue where they control her life. She's been psycologically affected, depressed and had to see a psychologist without her parents being aware. She was around her age and she had to move out of her parents house because she was really affected. So not everyone is the emotionally the same, you can't judge without being in the same shoes.

Lisa G no Chinese and Filipino for a lot of eat Asians they also consider other combinations of Asian ancestry mixed raced especially when It come south and south East Asian descent

D Boy You act like killing parents is always unforgivable. Life ain’t that simple and depending how they treated her and/or others maybe the parents did deserve a grizzly end. The law has to apply the same set of rules to everyone... but we don’t and if her parents were evil xxnts then who are we to judge? I’m not saying all that applies in this particular case but it may do, and will do in others.<br>Plus don’t you think it’s a bit naive to assume being an adult means being in control of all your own thoughts & actions? Pretty sure the media, politicians and advertisers would (privately) disagree.

D Boy You act like killing parents is always unforgivable. Life ain’t that simple and depending how they treated her and/or others maybe the parents did deserve a grizzly end. The law has to apply the same set of rules to everyone... but we don’t and if her parents were evil xxnts then who are we to judge? I’m not saying all that applies in this particular case but it may do, and will do in others.
Plus don’t you think it’s a bit naive to assume being an adult means being in control of all your own thoughts & actions? Pretty sure the media, politicians and advertisers would (privately) disagree.

Definitely would’ve been better with a therapist

Definitely would’ve been better with a therapist

it’s sad to know that getting therapy before could’ve helped her.

it’s sad to know that getting therapy before could’ve helped her.

@Cerena yes but she wanted it done while she was there think about that

@Cerena yes but she wanted it done while she was there think about that

@D Boy i agree except i’m pretty sure she decided to kill them instead of just walk away because she needed the money. they gave a her an ultimatum to either walk away with no more financial support or stay home with them to continue her studies. she wanted her freedom but also really needed the financial support and killing them would give her automatic inheritance of the money while still being free to live with her boyfriend

@Steve oh yeah of course I feel bad for her tough life also but at the same time she could have used it as motivation to do something great in life rather than choosing to use it as an excuse to murder her own blood

@D Boy ya man, crazy. I do have sympathy for her having a tough life but in no way does that justify murder or make her less of a psycho. Its people acting like her parents had it coming thats concerning to me.

@Steve I agree I feel like people sympathizing with her just fell for her sob story at the end or something, good thing the interrogator is a pro!

@Steve I agree I feel like people sympathizing with her just fell for her sob story at the end or something, good thing the interrogator is a pro!

I mean if she had friends, went to school, had access to a phone, had access to the internet, she had plenty of ways to reach out for help. Either way, murder probably not the way to go hmm??

@JASON VOORHEES 🤣 back to camp crystal lake with you!

@JASON VOORHEES 🤣 back to camp crystal lake with you!

@Anon Guy exactly!!! There's litteraly thousands of more effective ways she coulda solved her problems, like If she was willing to kill them than what's the difference between that and just walking out nd never seeing them again, she had resentment and wanted revenge because there's no other reason to do something that extreme, these people litteraly fell for her fake sob story she used in desperation to get away with murder!!! I hope her father and brother are doing well, another thing people are forgetting she took away her brothers mother!!!

@kauyen why would I feel sympathy for someone who tries murder their own parents she coulda just walked away or been honest from the beginning she chose to lie she chose to murder, plain and simple she even used suicide and mental health as a gag to cover it up!!! She is sick in the head man just sick

@Michael Knight ohh yeah that's so much worse than murder????? Wtf is wrong with you people

@Michael Knight ohh yeah that's so much worse than murder????? Wtf is wrong with you people

@Doka Doka exactly!!!!! This girl is 24 years old!!!! She was in control of her thoughts and actions not her parents, she is the one that chose to lie half her life not her parents, she was the one that chose to murder, she killed her own mother and had no sign of remorse at the funeral!!! I think she deserves the death penalty

@Merri M That's exactly what i feel many commenters are missing here. The threat of becoming disinherited leaves me with zero sympathy for the parents.

@Merri M That's exactly what i feel many commenters are missing here. The threat of becoming disinherited leaves me with zero sympathy for the parents.

D Boy obviously you haven’t watched the whole video or feel any sympathy.

D Boy obviously you haven’t watched the whole video or feel any sympathy.

If she'd had the courage to talk to her parents about feeling so pressured, (perhaps depressed/anxious?) I'm pretty sure the parent's reactions would not have been positive or supporting. They likely would not have gotten any psychological help for her, maybe due to cultural reasons, like it might be seen as 'shameful' by her parents. I'm no expert, just my own thoughts.

@Young Jo Was her boyfriend half Vietnamese and half black?

@Young Jo Was her boyfriend half Vietnamese and half black?

@Young Jo If one needs to confide in someone, it's always best to do it with a total stranger as they tend to not have a biased stance. I'm sure her boyfriend only added fuel to the fire. In many cases, it takes multiple convincings to carry out such an evil and volatile act.

Well, if I where to guess I would presume she probably spoke with her boyfriend often about the pressures she experienced at home. It is even possible she shared this stress with other friends/acquaintances.The sad thing to me is that the boyfriend and friends probably were not the best therapist (influence) for her, seeing as she chose to hang with a crowd of morally questionable people.

Exactly what I was thinking... It's really sad how relieved she seemed to feel just talking about the pressure despite the crazy circumstance she was in.

Exactly what I was thinking... It's really sad how relieved she seemed to feel just talking about the pressure despite the crazy circumstance she was in.


boy you can really tell she really wasn't smart.  There were so many ways she could have gotten away with this, having them intentionally hurt her, a simpler story so she could keep her facts straight, or hell, just not being there.  Then again, if she was truly smart, she wouldn't have done it at all.

Also, I had wondered if she may have had a chance if she didn’t speak in the first place. As a “victim” she wasn’t required to speak with them. But I imagine she would have been questioned later on anyways. <br>Who knows, 🤷🏼♀ what an idiot.

Also, I had wondered if she may have had a chance if she didn’t speak in the first place. As a “victim” she wasn’t required to speak with them. But I imagine she would have been questioned later on anyways.
Who knows, 🤷🏼♀ what an idiot.

i think it wasn’t just her not being smart though, probably all the pressure and fear affected her and made her not be able to see clearly. we are at an advantage for coming up with “solutions” as well bc were able to think things through with more time and without fearing for our futures

If she was smart she would have stopped talking to the cops.

Her not being there would be more suspicious tbh. She's a horrible liar lol

If she was smart she wouldnt have dated a drug dealer secretly for 8 yrs.

Also talking to the police without a lawyer present. I would NEVER. Innocent or guilty always have a lawyer.

she should’ve just said they sent her to the grocery store or something

To be fair they got coke heads and a drug dealer to do the job and they most likely would've been caught. They also needed a way in the house

@Ag I was wondering why on earth she gave accurate descriptions of them, but she must have felt like she had to after realising her father wasn't dead.


wow this is so twisted.  at one point i agree it was wrong that she murdered but the fact that her parents pushed her to the corner makes no difference then they mentally abused her.  Someone in the chat mentioned she could have talked to her parents, are you kidding me? you must not know what Asian Tiger parents like. What's worst is the end, when the detective finally got her, he asked her if she needs an attorney.  OMG  what an AH! Misleading her as the victim then nailed her down then offered her an attorney. wow how twisted is that.  While these all seems to be the right thing but somehow i feel so uneasy about it.....


My mom didn't wake up from a nap and I found her body. I was a hysterical mess. If I witnessed the murder from parents you wouldn't be able to get a coherent word out of me and I'd be on the floor in the fetal position. You can't fake that sorrow.

People react in different ways. I found my dads body but I acted with anger

When one of my parents died and the other one found them. They didn’t cry for days. They were truly heartbroken but grief stricken, utter shock. People are different.

I'm so sorry you had to experience that :'c

I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ve never been in that situation, but if a parent died suddenly, I think I would be in a state of shock. Like feeling surreal, as if I’m in a dream or something. I’m not sure I would be hysterically crying right away. The sadness would hit once reality sets in. Idk, everyone reacts so differently

Yes. Exactly. When my sister died, I kind of shutting down for a very long time.

as my grandma died (we were very close because grandma lived with us and take care of the kids when my parents had to go all day for work), i didn’t cry. I even still made jokes the first few days until the burial). months later, out of nothing i woke up at night and cried my eyes out for days.

so everyone is different indeed.

I saw my mother draw her last breath at the hospital but only cried a few days later. I think I need therapy 🤔

@Lilith Watch up how you use the name of God!

People do react differently to things though. I'm quite stoic and calm in an emergency

not everyone is like you. People take things differently, do you have ANY idea how different humans are from each others? lol

@MegaSkillaOf course, but in an ICU you'd probably witness natural deaths or, death's that the family saw coming. Not brutal murder...

hi im hoping all of u are doing well
ur all very strong for going through these things
wishing u guys the best have a great day/night ok keep thriving⭐

@Rodolfo Flores  That's true, many wouldnt, but as you can see, she describes a life where she lives with her parents and appears quite close and happy with them, while also explaining in great detail, with no sorrow, about how things went, having no questions on her end. This is such a bizarre contradiction. Personally, i wouldnt curl in a ball, but id scream for them to find out who they were, where are my parents, what happened, why arent the people there doing something to find the murderers instead of questioning me, and like OP, they probably wouldnt get a coherent sentence out of me either, but i think anger, sorrow, numbness, hysterics, these are all very different but very possible reactions to witnessing murder, she seems way too rehearsed and articulate and also appears to have processed the death of a very close family member too quickly, and also processing very grim questions pretty smoothly

couple months ago i heard my mom screaming i walk in the room and my dad was cold. had to pick him up and put him on the ground and do chest compressions for 20 mins because it took the ambulance that long. he didnt make it and im still hurt but like u said if i saw that happen i would be genuinely insane. the psycopath in her just isnt able to show remorse i guess. the fake crying or whatever is wild to me. also im very sorry for your loss. R.I.P to ur mom

I'm very sorry. But ppl have different reaction for traumatic events. I never cried when my grandad died. And I joked my  way on session with psychologist  about my abusive ex

I found mine in the same way... everytime i talk or even think about that moment i feel so weak i just stop talking cause i physically can’t do it and break down crying. i feel anxious even if im not guilty, cause i remember every detail of that night. I cant imagine also losing my father... at the same time... i would probably kill myself i i were in her position.

@Rodolfo Flores most people when losing their parental figure(s) would just feel empty and have blank stares, barely emotion at the start

Sorrow comes in many forms, not everyone curls up on a ball with eyes wide open and stays silent.

Sorry for what you had to go through and I completely agree, my friend found her mum the exact same way and I've never seen someone so emotionally broken. You can see from the start the lack of emotions and the fact its like she had to push and force herself to show sadness and then no sign of that emptiness you feel when you've really lost someone you love you know she isn't innocent.

Do hope you're doing better yourself now!? 💙✌

Oh my god I'm so sorry you had to go through that, hope you're doing better now 💜


Shockingly she never mentioned she wanted the police to find the murderers.

Yeah, right after something like that I would be PISSED or depressed af

@Smayan Sahu its kinda like when someones child is kidnapped and the mom is pleading for someone to find the perpetrator. She shouldve at the very least asked if they had any info on them

@Pink. Lemonade it could be something like “obviously they are gonna try to find the murderers, that’s their job” so why even mention it

@holy cow but it's normal for a victim to want the perpetrators to be found, even if the police could or could not. If she where a victim she would have wanted that.

I'm pretty sure police officers are not supposed to make promises like that anyway...

That's a good point lol, should have been brought up


Jennifer Pan's case is the exact illustration of that famous saying that goes <br>"If a child is not embraced by the village, they will burn it down to feel its warmth"

Jennifer Pan's case is the exact illustration of that famous saying that goes
"If a child is not embraced by the village, they will burn it down to feel its warmth"

@sokami first off you have no idea how her parents treated her and secondly it is NEVER the solution to kill your creators.

She is a sociopath !!! I don't think bad parenting makes one . Everybody's got some conscience! This saying can't justify her action even if it gives her a reason to do what she did

@Strikhedonia :3 sorry but if she didn't feel she could be safe or open with her parents, why not take the opportunity to leave and live with her boyfriend that she was happily seeing behind their back? I'm not saying that her upbringing had no impact on her but there are plenty of people who have strict parents who manage to cope without plotting to kill them. She is very much the exception, not the rule, and there is clearly something else going on mentally for her to be able to lie in the calculated way that she is.

@Atropa Belladonna I think 'fractured relationships' is slightly different to calculating and plotting to murder your parents. People are saying that she had no means to leave make a life for herself but it seems like she was pretty happy to lie to her parents and date a drug dealer without fear of how they react. Seems to me that she was happy to rely on them financially rather than get a job and stand on her own two feet.

@Strikhedonia :3 No, I'm sorry. There are millions of kids raised by domineering parents, had some of my own. Do you see people killing their children? No. That's not even reasonable. She was bad from the get go. Stop making excuses for evil people, they're evil and there's no other way to say it!<br>Who the hell watches and orchestrates the murder of their family? No one that isn't evil. Homegirl knew EXACTLY what she was doing.

@Strikhedonia :3 No, I'm sorry. There are millions of kids raised by domineering parents, had some of my own. Do you see people killing their children? No. That's not even reasonable. She was bad from the get go. Stop making excuses for evil people, they're evil and there's no other way to say it!
Who the hell watches and orchestrates the murder of their family? No one that isn't evil. Homegirl knew EXACTLY what she was doing.

@s j Scripture says to call out and expose the darkness!
It's important when you cherry pick your verses to fit your opinion, you have to read the context in which it was spoken, and the ones being spoken to and by whom.
Satan loves people like you, he wants you to be free to say and do what you want without fear of being pointed out for your sin. Doesn't work that way. You have lots of studying to do if that's what you really believe. You'll also be held accountable for misleading people with your cherry picking, better take thst seriously.

@maddie H Girl, I can say what I choose, when I choose. I said it right.

@maddie H Girl, I can say what I choose, when I choose. I said it right.

@E.B. Hydra i don't think people are justifying a murder here. They are just pointing out what could have made her to do this. If she came from a different family dynamics, i really don't think she would have done this.

@Sweettina2 it's understandable what made her do this.. it is not however justifiable. If you are a psychology major, you should have way more understanding about what might have gone through in her mind. Use whatever you learned in your degree here not your religious beliefs....

even if her parents were bad it doesn't justify murdering them. the only case where killing them should be if she physically needed it as self defense bc she was being hurt to the point of no return. tiger parents can be extreme but that literally doesn't mean she was right in killing them

@Mariyam honestly I wouldn't want to hear her life story because she has done something so heinous her previous actions now mean NOTHING.

@s j I could not stop laughing at your comment "not to judge"....HELL YES it is our place.

@s j I could not stop laughing at your comment "not to judge"....HELL YES it is our place.

@xxuenii I had never heard this saying until Hillary popularized it.   She used it in the context that more than parents are needed to raise a child.

@Olek the Eternal so true.  There is a wave of these types now.

@Olek the Eternal so true.  There is a wave of these types now.

@s j No, I it doesn't say that. It says provoke not your children to wrath. It says to honor your father and mother.

@s j No, I it doesn't say that. It says provoke not your children to wrath. It says to honor your father and mother.

Matheus I understand your point and I agree that no parent should force their kid to become someone else. It must have been hard on the girl trying to constantly keep up with her parents’ high standards. Believe me, I know that because most East Asian parents are often like that and I grew up in S/Korea myself. Only, I was so fortunate that my parents weren’t so hard on me as other parents were to their kids. On the other hand, I felt like that Jennifer’s parents might have felt the compelling need to guide their daughter to the right way when they found out what she was going through. You see, parenting can be seen as harsh if you were pressuring your kids too much but if they didn’t do anything to help knowing what their daughter is going through, that can be seen as neglectful. And certainly it does not give this girl an excuse to kill her parents for trying to help her. If it was money she was after, she could have stolen it and left instead but she chose to go further instead. Why? Perhaps she mixed with a wrong bunch of people such as her drug dealing boyfriend. If she didn’t, her parents might have been alive and she might have had a fairly normal life and even have kids of her own and one day, she’d realise what her parents did was only to help her. As a parent myself, I know now no parent is perfect, even my own but they did their best. Parents are humans too and they all make mistakes as we learn because no one was a parent when born. <br>If your child is about to put his/her hand into fire, what would you do? Let them burn and learn their lesson? Or keep them away from fire? Whichever choice you make, it ain’t hard for parents either.

Matheus I understand your point and I agree that no parent should force their kid to become someone else. It must have been hard on the girl trying to constantly keep up with her parents’ high standards. Believe me, I know that because most East Asian parents are often like that and I grew up in S/Korea myself. Only, I was so fortunate that my parents weren’t so hard on me as other parents were to their kids. On the other hand, I felt like that Jennifer’s parents might have felt the compelling need to guide their daughter to the right way when they found out what she was going through. You see, parenting can be seen as harsh if you were pressuring your kids too much but if they didn’t do anything to help knowing what their daughter is going through, that can be seen as neglectful. And certainly it does not give this girl an excuse to kill her parents for trying to help her. If it was money she was after, she could have stolen it and left instead but she chose to go further instead. Why? Perhaps she mixed with a wrong bunch of people such as her drug dealing boyfriend. If she didn’t, her parents might have been alive and she might have had a fairly normal life and even have kids of her own and one day, she’d realise what her parents did was only to help her. As a parent myself, I know now no parent is perfect, even my own but they did their best. Parents are humans too and they all make mistakes as we learn because no one was a parent when born.
If your child is about to put his/her hand into fire, what would you do? Let them burn and learn their lesson? Or keep them away from fire? Whichever choice you make, it ain’t hard for parents either.

that explains the riots and the looting.

that explains the riots and the looting.

@Sweettina2  Interesting. You only respond to receptive comments and pretend contrary comments directed to you don't exist most of the time, while simultaneously pretending to be a herald of critical thinking above everyone else in spite of the fact you rely heavily if not exclusively on logical fallacies to support your arguments.

@Hannah Noneyabiz Exactly. There are abused children everywhere, they don't kill their parents. It hurts me to think of the sexually abused children in this country, even they don't grow up and kill their parents. It may happen, but not often.

@Sweettina2 gotta agree. Even if her parents were truly shitty people and some level of her psychopathy was because of how she was raised, killing isn't an option that can be justified/moralized on any level.
Circumstance doesn't really apply in such a malicious murder like this one either like some people think, this was just cold and calculated...
I don't really think we will ever know if her parents were abusive/uncaring like she says, but I also don't think it really matters.

jaim haas she was psycho. And has no heart.

jaim haas she was psycho. And has no heart.

@Sweettina2 You can't even argue with the points made. I don't even know what your arguments are because you made none, you instantly went to name calling and calling anyone that disagrees with you as evil. Ironically you're saying that people lack critical thinking but you clearly won't even take a second to question your own opinions and put them to scrutiny, which is what critical thinking actually is. Critical thinking is not assuming you're right about everything and entering every discussion with that belief.

E: tbf, the correct definition of critical thinking is to be able to evaluate beliefs, using all knowledge at your disposal to decide the validity of a belief and recognizing your bias and other people's bias and trying to mitigate it in your decision. In any case, coming into a discussion just to yell at people who disagree is not critical thinking by any definition.

Sounds like everyone in BLM and the Freaks and Geeks in Antifa.

Sounds like everyone in BLM and the Freaks and Geeks in Antifa.

@Doug’s AnalGland You are spot on there. It's pretty awful because "tiger parenting" often crosses the boundaries of "parenting" and steps right into "abuse", all that while the parents try to excuse it with the good old "well it's for their own good". It doesn't work like that, the ends don't justify the means.  And as you said, "appearances" are often what drive these parents to the extreme.
At the end of the day, what everyone should get through their thick skulls is that JUST because you are able to procreate and have "good intentions" doesn't mean you are/will be a good parent. Raising and educating an individual (who has their own personality, needs, dreams and desires) and being damn good at it, is probably the hardest job in the world, yet most people do it and thus why most results aren't optimal.

PS I obviously don't condone the murder, but people should at least expect the possibility of fractured relationships with their children, if they are so keen on defending this parenting style.

@Matheus Exactly what i was thinking. Learning her life story may be sympathetizable for many who can relate, but it shouldn't lead anyone to sympathize with her ultimate action

@Sweettina2
Majoring in Psychology should have given you a clear notion that there are, yes, many reasons on Earth why a child would kill their parents.

Also, with a degree in Psychology, you really wanna justify human behaviour with the Bible?

Well... for God's sake indeed.

@Mariyam They absolutely didn't deserve it. No
But I think it goes more towards the thing of
"Understandable? Yeah.
Justifiable? No"

@Rose Hepworth <br>I understand your point very well. But I still agree with the quote in the sense of embracing, not actually loving. Love surely comes in many different ways, but I think the problem with Jennifer wasn't that her parents didn't love her, but they simply forced her to be someone she was not. And they were very strict into that. That's where she snapped.

@Rose Hepworth
I understand your point very well. But I still agree with the quote in the sense of embracing, not actually loving. Love surely comes in many different ways, but I think the problem with Jennifer wasn't that her parents didn't love her, but they simply forced her to be someone she was not. And they were very strict into that. That's where she snapped.

@That T-shirt Guy I adore this thank you a thousand fold brother

@That T-shirt Guy I adore this thank you a thousand fold brother

@Dimitri It's an African proverb. In Africa it's the community (or village) that raises the child along with their parents. If the child feels ostracized from the community/village, they'll burn it down and bathe in the heat of the flames to feel the warmth they've never received from the community/village.

It's quite gothic.

Nice quote, but not sure if it necessarily fits in with this girl’s situation. Just because parents are strict, it doesn’t mean they don’t love their child. In fact, if you were a parent of a daughter and you knew she dropped out of school without telling her parents, dating a drug dealer and lie about the whole thing, would you approve that? I think that was probably way of love Jennifer’s parents had for their little girl. Parenthood is tricky as hell - you can’t be too loose or too tight with your children, and that is damn hard.

@s j You need to read the chapter, not just cherry pick verses that you wrap your logic around. Jesus said that to the hypocrites because they were telling others how to live. If you read scripture it says in more than one place to call out and expose the darkness. Period.

I like that quote <br>Did u make that up?

@Better Betty Pondue Because she made it up.

@Better Betty Pondue Because she made it up.

That's not a saying! There's a Communist quote that says it takes a village to raise a child, utter propaganda to sway the way people think. It obviously works.🙄

@s j Oh, please, are you kidding?? As if there is ANY reason on earth to kill your own parents! Good grief, it's flat obvious that the dumbing down is really true! smdh

@sokami I'm stunned that 28 people thought that was profound....smh.

@sokami I'm stunned that 28 people thought that was profound....smh.

@Darius Jones  Spoilers but like...Itachi only killed his clan so Danzō wouldn’t kill his brother and because his clan was planing a violent coup against Konoha.

Itachi’s like actually a real cool dude and I won’t have him slandered like this 😂

@Mariyam Does being overprotective mean your child is afraid to come home with less than top grades? Or that your child grows up to be an adult that hates you? And wants you dead?

Its important to be nurturing and open towards children, but as far as I can tell in this case, the parents were not so oppressive, as overprotective. And certainly they didnt deserve to be attacked and murdered by the child they raised and took care of.

@jaim haas I think its more to everyone else are equally important to give warm. It doesnt necessary have to be the creators themselves eg. Relatives, Friends, etc

@Dimitri It's an ancient African proverb popularized by it's use in the movie Black Panther.

@Dimitri It's an ancient African proverb popularized by it's use in the movie Black Panther.

@jaim haas It makes sense to me. The parents are the village that did not embrace her for who she is, so she attempted to kill them because the dead have no expectations.

hmmmm not feeling it....she could care less about village and targeted her creators.

hmmmm not feeling it....she could care less about village and targeted her creators.

Where is that from? A real dart in the heart that

Where is that from? A real dart in the heart that


i could not be an investigator, this looks so mentally and physically draining

About the psycopathy talk...  He have a lot of experience, have been interrogating people for longer than most of us lived, and, probably is better than same experience peers.  So, he got good at that.  To the OP's point its true, we would be extremely unconfortable doing that, even poorly on minor cases, but psycopathy? Nah.

first last your comment sounds like a cowboy bebop episode

dana102083 so I am guessing you are in the medical field ? Elaborate

Of course it's draining just look at the top of their heads

@Packrunnerjay Stan its called adrenaline.. It does give you a buzz.. First responders and other medical peeps all get it too.. Pilots.. Part of the game controlling your thoughts during it. Some people freeze and some act.. Why its called fight flight or freeze.. Training is everything but its super stressful to the worker and why chronic disease is rampant. Adrenaline is to avoid death.

I know I'd end up shouting at the person "CUT THE BULLSHIT. IT'S BEEN 5 HOURS OF LIES!"

I wouldn't want to talk to these people for two seconds.

Hardest job I've seen in a while. Exhausting.

i would love too its looks like a riddle u need to figure out

HardCoreHockeyPlyr14 Ikr. I had to go to jury duty last year & it turned out to be a murder case & that was enough for me, man. Sitting in the same room as the murderer was so chilling...

@MoonCrow I think that you need to at least to be a little bit of a psychopath to talk to people like that. It may be halpful to get them to confess. At least, thanks to that second investigator they lock her up and that is definitely good for rhe society

Toob247 Toob247 he’s talking about getting a buzz from it dude that’s a bit weird

Dont you think its a great buzz, like poker bluffing big at the main table. Inside your hearts pumping like mad but you cant show it. Just hold it together and get the bad guy to make a mistake ahh what a thrill!


Another thing of note is that Jennifer's boyfriend started a new relationship with someone else when Jennifer could no longer see him. She made up a story that she was assaulted by  a group of men and that his new girlfriend sent Jennifer a bullet in the mail.

 I dont think Jennifer was ever honest with anyone in her life, and it's sad it lead to this horrible crime. She could have walked away and had a life as a piano teacher, but greed got in the way.

She wasn't entirely sheltered. It just seemed like her parents wanted her to get on a career she simply had no interest in and that's one thing I hate about Asian parenting. Don't get me wrong, they are both at fault.

To my understanding she was living with her parents and lied to them about her job.

Her parents found out and her dad wanted to kick her out

She was too sheltered to figure out how to survive on her own.


Detectives in tv shows: “You’re the murderer aren’t you?” <br>Detectives in real life: “Do you think you murdered them?”

Detectives in tv shows: “You’re the murderer aren’t you?”
Detectives in real life: “Do you think you murdered them?”

@Fr0g that’s the problem maybe the person who made the video didn’t have time to put a time stamp. That’s how dumb that argument sounds it’s just not there get over it. Basically if you can’t watch this video be proactive and find your information or another video somewhere else on this specific topic ,Coddling and making sure everyone is included all the time is why Americans are a joke and considered weak in the eyes of 3RD WORLD countries come on man!

@ol' mate You know those people still find the time to watch a two hour movie. So they shouldn't have any problem choosing to watch this instead.

@ol' mate all the free time in the world vs an hour and a half

@da wizard 666 No, he would rather spend several days watching it instead. Makes totally more sense.

@OnceUponATimeThereWasAPersonWithALongUsernameItWas some people dont want to sit down and watch an hour and a half of something unimportant to them.

"Because if you are lying its the most cold blooded thing I've ever faced in my life" That probably made her so nervous

@ol' mate how busy must your life be if it takes you several days to watch a 1 hour and 30 minute long video?

@Delayed Creator I mean it’s not that hard to give a time stamp like he/ she was probably askin because they didn’t have much time

@Roman Reigns #1 P4P King 1:06:05 is the first time they directly state that they know she's involved

@Roman Reigns #1 P4P King there is, just scroll through the comments

@Roman Reigns #1 P4P King A few days? It’s an hour 30 minutes just watch it..

If there’s a time stamp anywhere for when she got caught or when they talked about it please let me know its gonna take me a few days to catch up 🙏🏽 god bless