"and I love you so I'd love for you to know" dodie-- I'd love to let you know that I love you <3 I love that you said 'plural genders' instead of two, as it's 2+ genders // this is so healing for me thank you for continuing to support the LGBTQ+ community and being a part of it and helping make it truly so beautiful


Finally! A better way for me to open up about myself! 🤗🤗🤗 I hope that would know the simple/easy piano chords and how to play it... please... I love this! Thank you!


have you heard of LGTBQ+ Well I am

depressed...

it doesnt have to do
with LGBTQ

This is
a cry
for help

edit:
thx 4 the likes
calm down its a joke
im not making fun of depressed people. I am getting over depression slowly with help. so its ok.

Proud that this is just joke if its real imma hug you

@real  thos person was not self diagnosed.

Banana Mustache Army same<br>Can’t really help you as I am a random stranger on the internet but yo same

Banana Mustache Army same
Can’t really help you as I am a random stranger on the internet but yo same

Banana Mustache Army wez here for ya!!!!!!! :)

You only cry for help if theres help to cry for..

I hope you get some medical help!<br>Best wishes

I hope you get some medical help!
Best wishes

I like this<br>Depressing jokes are great

@liquid bones at first i agreed with i do not like kpop, but then i saw your next comment. its not really funny now because some people are just using the word freely, but its something serious. so i would just suggest not joking about it. i applaud you for recovering. alrighty have a great day!

can we get Fs in the chat

psst, keep fighting the good fight my dude

can we get Fs in the chat

_psst, keep fighting the good fight my dude_

haha thanks for the concern. ive been diagnosed by a professional. this year ive been in and out of the hospital for suicide and all that. i have been doing a lot better. i have a therapist, im taking medication, and im taking care of myself. this post was supposed to be a joke but i guess it wasnt as funny to most as it was to me.

dude dont cry about it here. no ones gonna help u here. get. medical. help. stop. self. diagnosing.


im crying in class reading these comments :< so sweet


Here's one for genderfluid, genderflux, demigenderflux, etc ppl who have changing genders:

Have you heard of LGBTQ+ well I am the T
I have a heart that can change to several genders
Yes I'm demigirlflux, and I'm proud to be me!

You don't say demigirlflux if thats not you, you would say your gender, but thats my gender so I hope that helps!


Have you heard of LGBTQ+?
Well I am the 'L'
I have a heart that loves the female gender
Yes I'm lesbian
And I'm proud to be me!


I sent this to my Mom! She is so proud of me! I Love This! Thank you! ❤

@🔪Bunnzie🔪 i'm so sorry, i hope things look up for you. <3

8 months later here I am Crying in my bed Because My Mom Said she Thinks The LGBTQ+ is A Sin...


You're such a great actor on top of being a FANTASTIC singer


Her voice is PRECIOUS. And qvdksbz her smile in the end is just BEAUTIFULLLLLL


Thank you Dodie! My 11 YO daughter used this video to come out to our family, this is really such a gift you are giving 🏳🌈 youth! This wonderful song is forever part of her coming out story. 💖

Temmie Pup I'm so glad for you guys! I'm straight but my friends are closet bi cause their parents don't like it.

Thank you(im the daughter XD and im fangirling so much right now)


(This is NOT my song/poem, I'm just using this as a way of coming out!)
Have you heard of the LGBTQ+,
well I am the B,
I'm Bisexual and you know what that means,
I can love every gender,
with the preferencing of two :)


I honesty might use this song in the future to come out- to someone-


I needed to find this to come out to my parents


So, I went back and saw a comment of mine on a video, and in it, in the context of the video, I had mentioned I was straight. That was 5 months ago....wow, everything has changed...now I'm bi, we got COVID-19, ya know. IDK why I'm telling you guys this, but I told one of my best friends that I liked her, and I was freaking out soooooo much!!! Luckily, she likes me too, so yeah.....most of you are gonna ignore this comment anyways, but if you're telling someone that you like them, or you're coming out, go for it! Unless you know for sure something bad will happen, do it! Stay safe, stay together, and stay true to yourself!!!

So, I went back and saw a comment of mine on a video, and in it, in the context of the video, I had mentioned I was straight. That was 5 months ago....wow, everything has changed...now I'm bi, we got COVID-19, ya know. IDK why I'm telling you guys this, but I told one of my best friends that I liked her, and I was freaking out *soooooo* much!!! Luckily, she likes me too, so yeah.....most of you are gonna ignore this comment anyways, but if you're telling someone that you like them, or you're coming out, go for it! Unless you *know* for sure something bad will happen, do it! Stay safe, stay together, and stay true to yourself!!!

@_Not Found_ this was the best most polite way to correct someone. ❤

That's so cool, I imagine how happy you are now that you can freely be yourself at least with one person. Just a friendly advice, saying things like "I was straight but now I'm not" or "I've decided I'm not straight" can make people outside the community think that we actually have control over our sexual orientation and that if we want we can "turn ourselves straight". I understand what you mean but statements like this could spread misinformation about the LGBTQ+. Once again, congratulations It may have took a lot of courage, you're doing great!


Have you heard of LGBTQ+, well...

i'M aLREaDy tRaCEr

_Have you heard of LGBTQ+, well..._

*_i'M aLREaDy tRaCEr_*

*_why is this my most liked comment i'm going to cry this is so bad ;-;_*

New one
 Have you heard of LGBTQ+, well...

 AnD I'm KaNyE WeSt!

New one
 Have you heard of LGBTQ+, well...

 *AnD I'm KaNyE WeSt!*

@akemi akemi Turn off you notification if you haven't or can :)

omg, this comment is really old, please stop responding to this! 😭 i regretted writing this, the meme is dead now.. and please support lgbtq+ people, they deserve all the love in this world! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

You should have said Have you heard if lgbtq+ well I am the t because I'm already tracer

@send help I'm so sorry, I didn't meant to be rude, it's just a joke. Please don't take it seriously. I don't want to offend anyone! :)

@that one tee-shirt you never wear e p i c

@that one tee-shirt you never wear *_e p i c_*

My sexuality is tracer. Witch means I only like gamer girls. <br>Flag colors: 💜🖤🧡

My sexuality is tracer. Witch means I only like gamer girls.
Flag colors: 💜🖤🧡

@Bella Smith I'm sorry I didn't meant to. It's just a joke. By the way I think I'm bi too! (not sure) 😅🤞

@jayden hunter *_i'm already widowmaker_*

S a r a E r o n e n I’m already Winston!

Mietta Kerper have you heard of tik tok well I’m already tracer


Me and my bisexual self are gonna put this on my spotify playlist immediately
Edit: nevermind i cant find it

The worst responce I got from coming out to one of my friends...
My friend: "ok"
Me: 🤦🏼♀
When I came out to my mom...
Mom: "I support you, but you should stop watching gay stuff, it might be leading you in the wrong direction"
Me in my mind: "you can't stop me... but you never said stop making gay videos, besides I can't remember the last time I watched something straight on my phone"


I'm thinking of sending this to my parents as my way of coming out


I remember listening to this when I first started coming to terms with my sexuality I thought I was bi back then I'm just gay now


Im a straight dude and i love everyone and im proud of all the brave LGBTQ darlings of the world <3

Chollio Folio ayeeeeeeee love ya too mate 💕


How do I send this to my parents without sending it to them


dodie has very non straight energy I love it


I would sing this to my parents.... but they would criticize my singing lol


This is probable the only youtuber who didn't cry while coming out 😂

A. Aziz there's #askbidodie and her coming out video you can just look them up

Legit BETRAM hey what about alexis g zall?

Ah, fair enough I guess. In a perfect world it would never have been something to cry about. I'm just tired of people who shame others who get emotional when coming out, cause it happens all the time. Sorry if I came across kinda harshly.

quinintheclouds she said shouldn't, not isn't.

Legit BETRAM yes I mean it shouldn't be anything to cry about now

well she has posted other videos of her talking about being bi in the past.

but even in those i don't believe she cried 😂😂


"I am apart of something really beautiful"
Lgbt+ community: tearing each other apart because of many reasons
Me: Nah thats all you hun <3

"I am apart of something really beautiful"
Lgbt+ community: *tearing each other apart because of many reasons*
Me: Nah thats all you hun <3


I FINNA USE THIS ONE TO COME OUT IN LIKE 2 DAYS 😰


first time i heard this i was a little sad bc i thought i was lesbian and wanted a cute little song like this

uh. i know im bi now tho so i can enjoy it properly >:3


i'm a girl and i'm like 99% sure i'm bi cuz like guys are cute... and girls r cute... but i don't know if i really want to come out? i know some friends will scream "i knew it!" some "why aren't u pan then?" and some "nah ur just gay but don't wanna tell us" and "who do u like?" (when i currently don't like any specific girls) uGH idk someone plz see this :)

Only tell the friend that are smart and you can REALLY trust. Go be you,and tell who you want,and,ye! Good luck!!😊😊

Only tell the friend that are smart and you can REALLY trust. Go be you,and tell who you want,and,ye! Good luck!!😊😊

Well it actually is sometimes a phase like I'm not kidding

Well it actually is sometimes a phase like I'm not kidding

@lannapeanut the purple in the bi flag represents non-binary genders

@lannapeanut the purple in the bi flag represents non-binary genders

@stream nct dream we go up the word is that bi people love both genders and pan people love all genders, but pan uses non-binary and trans people for validation but bi people can also love those groups and saying "trans people" is transphobic because it implies theyre not the gender they id as, that's my opinion but it's really about pretty much a coin toss for which one you wanna be

@rea keebz can you really just id as queer and nothing else tho

@rea keebz can you really just id as queer and nothing else tho

Do it and if they say the thing about pan say you need to not, dont like it when people say thing like that I really dont,

Do it and if they say the thing about pan say you need to not, dont like it when people say thing like that I really dont,

I’m not sure if I am bi. I have never had a crush on a girl but I dunno

I’m not sure if I am bi. I have never had a crush on a girl but I dunno

i'm so late but i went through the same thing three years ago and it's okay not use labels and just experiment (i'm now very very proud to be out as a bi girl!)

i'm so late but i went through the same thing three years ago and it's okay not use labels and just experiment (i'm now very very proud to be out as a bi girl!)

What I'm doing is just telling my chillest friend...

What I'm doing is just telling my chillest friend...

lannapeanut That is really smart. I agree. People feel really pressured to label themselves when reading the only problem they have is that they have eyes.

lannapeanut That is really smart. I agree. People feel really pressured to label themselves when reading the only problem they have is that they have eyes.

ReadaBook having the exact same issue just too scared I’m wrong and then have to be like no act I’m gay/straight but then when ever I think oh I’m straight I want to like girls and I feel like somethings missing if that makes sense. But if I’m like I’m gay I want to like guys in the same way I wanted to like girls and it’s like uuhhhhh why can’t you just have a way to tell.

Sweetie, I really know how it feels. I was really confused for like almost 2 years but the moment I figured out who I was it made it really easier for me to express myself to the world. I think that's the best. Talk to yourself that's the only thing that matters. And after you figure everything out (you don't even have to label yourself) you can tell people you love and I'm sure they will be really happy for you even if it takes a little time and patience from you.

I know it's difficult but identify however feels right. After I broke up with my first real boyfriend, I worried that I had previously misidentified as bi and was actually gay...did some thinking on it and understood that I was (to my dismay) into guys, but seeing as I seriously don't want to have anything to do with men, I mostly identify as gay now. Even though technically I know I'm attracted to both, I only want relationships with females and I identify so much more as a lesbian...so I just do. Even if your label doesn't quite fit what other people have defined it as, if you feel like it's right for you, if it feels like the right word, the right identity, just own it. And I know all about those insensitive questions...my dad asked me if I had been sexually assaulted by someone and "how could I know cuz I haven't had sex"...I think it goes without saying that my father, along with my ex bf, is currently one of the reasons that I'm turned off men, probably for good.

Bushra Mohummed that’s tough. All I can say is if you are confused or even considering that you might be a little bi, then you probably are. If you where straight then you would know no questions asked. Well anyways I hope you figure it out 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈

I’m in the same exact situation for real like I’m pretty sure I’m bi but don’t really wanna come out but still like want to be me without being afraid

I’m in the same exact situation for real like I’m pretty sure I’m bi but don’t really wanna come out but still like want to be me without being afraid

ReadaBook haha same here but the only person that knows is my twin and my friend I came out to my friend today because it’s NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY!

ReadaBook haha same here but the only person that knows is my twin and my friend I came out to my friend today because it’s NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY!

lannapeanut aaaannnnnndddddd now I’m questioning my self again.

lannapeanut aaaannnnnndddddd now I’m questioning my self again.

I went through the exact same thing as you. I needed up telling my closes friends and then some how word spread. I should have been mad but I was actually kind of relieved because there was to much stress on me telling everyone. I ended up getting this crush on a guy in my class and I haven’t told him yet. I don’t even know if he knows I’m bi?! So I’m in this awkward position where I don’t know what to do and besides all of that, I haven’t even come out to my actual family. I need help.

Well I feel you because I actually have two crushes which is a boy who I used to talk to and my best friend who is also a girl and I'm like 50% percent I'm bi well Mabey 70ish but I think she's really cute and nice and everytime I'm around her it brings a smile to my face no matter how much I try to suppress it and I'm proud I guess but she was also saying that she was bi but I think she was just joking but I'm so confused help jdnfodnwodmcbcifn

Bisexual is when a person is atteacted to both genders. Pansexual is when the person likes somone else but does not care about biological sex, gender, or gender identity. Thats a bit of PRIDE for you!

Bisexual is when a person is atteacted to both genders. Pansexual is when the person likes somone else but does not care about biological sex, gender, or gender identity. Thats a bit of PRIDE for you!

So definitely, yes. I feel you on all of these.
Except it's harder for me. Because I don't have friends ro come out to?
And I'd be coming out as a quiromantic greysexual genderfluid demiboy... like who the hell knows what that even means besides someone in the LGBTQIA* community? No one.

Oh well my friends told me "yeahhh you look soooo bi like rebellious and shit " and i was like "?????? Bitch??????"

Oh well my friends told me "yeahhh you look soooo bi like rebellious and shit " and i was like "?????? Bitch??????"

I'm bi too! I don't think you really have to come out properly if it's not a big deal to you or you aren't sure yet. I personally am pretty open about it but never really "came out" the people who want to know and have asked know or if it comes up somehow I don't hide it and people are fine with it, I haven't had any worse reactions than "but how do you know? how can someone be bi?" and then I just explain that even though I haven't slept with a woman yet I can still have crushes on women and feel attracted to them and that they probably knew what gender they feel attracted to before they had experience with them and that for me I just have that with both genders 🤷🏻♀

@lannapeanut I pressed read more on this and it scared me cuz I wasn't expecting so much text 😂

@lannapeanut I pressed read more on this and it scared me cuz I wasn't expecting so much text 😂

@Anna Rees for anybody that has come out knows that there is always gonna be doubt bc its something you have to figure out so they could easily be straight just as much as they could be bi, pan, queer any parts of the LGBTQ+community I dont mean to be mean  or sound bitchy  but all Im gonna finish off saying  is love is love <3

@stream nct dream we go up bisexual means you care and love for both genders as female and male but pansexual means you care and love for anyone regardless of gender  hope it helps <3

@stream nct dream we go up bisexual means you care and love for both genders as female and male but pansexual means you care and love for anyone regardless of gender  hope it helps <3

stream nct dream we go up It really depends on how people want to identify, definitively bisexual uses the root word bi meaning two so it is common for people to say a bisexual is attracted to two genders though some define that as two or more which is perfectly fine, the root for pan means all or many so pan people can love anyone, regardless of gender, or all genders

I wouldn’t worry about it, the people who give you beef for it are just jerks anyway they aren’t worth your time if they can’t give the time to support you! In all honestly gay is cool lesbian is cool demi is cool Pan is cool aro and ace are cool bi is cool and so are the rest of the romantic and sexual attractions that I have not named love is love and people need to get with the program

This is veeerryy late. But I was bi once. I came out to all my school (I have no friends) not family cause they don't support. And I had homophobic people in my school but they weren't mean. Then I later fully came out as a gay women. Still no hate.

DaaAnthony1 lgbtq+ people come because they arent straight and they just want everyone to know.

DaaAnthony1 lgbtq+ people come because they arent straight and they just want everyone to know.

I dont think  "Coming out" should be something that happens to LGBTQ+ people i feel as if sexuality is something where you have to come out.. because strait people dont come out so why should you?

I dont think  "Coming out" should be something that happens to LGBTQ+ people i feel as if sexuality is something where you have to come out.. because strait people dont come out so why should you?

Im so unsure xD I dont want to say i am yet because I am young so it might change

Im so unsure xD I dont want to say i am yet because I am young so it might change

Kind of same but I HAVE NO CLUEEE!!! And it’s so frustrating!!

Kind of same but I HAVE NO CLUEEE!!! And it’s so frustrating!!

Ok,so show your friends this video and if they get it then tell them to be respectful and not tell anyone you dont want knowing.If they dont get it then tell them why you showed them the video.If they arent supportive and they dont like that your bi then go find a new friend unless they say ok im fine with it(come to the comment sections,i could be a  friend!).Its hard to say stuff like this but you just came out to a whole comment section! Isnt cool? I mean its harder irl but still there are many people who support.And if they ask questions calmly explain.Good luck if you come out to your friends Btw!

Laila oof really? Well I am on here a lot lol

Laila oof really? Well I am on here a lot lol

Samantha Lewis Same and I’ve seen you around, YouTube.

Samantha Lewis Same and I’ve seen you around, YouTube.

I'm right where you are, fam. I know exactly what you mean.

I'm right where you are, fam. I know exactly what you mean.

ReadaBook  my friend is so stereotypical.

ReadaBook  my friend is so stereotypical.

ReadaBook i am literally the same way this is me to a t, like i kinda dont feel the need to tell anyone right now bc i just dont think its there business to know and i will tell them some day, whenever i feel like it...but then also what if i am not actually bi, just a little curious? Does that even still count or something very different. I can appreciate a hot guy, and a hot/cute girl haha so idk pretty sure i am bi?

Maybe just come out soon so that way they will accept it sooner and not be too suprised

Maybe just come out soon so that way they will accept it sooner and not be too suprised

ReadaBook JUST DO IT HUAAAAAAAH

i would send this to your friends then answer all those jokey questions before they can watch it.

ReadaBook JUST DO IT HUAAAAAAAH

i would send this to your friends then answer all those jokey questions before they can watch it.

vixx_unloyal_stan pansexual is you can like everyone like genderfluids and stuff and bi is you only like girls and boys

vixx_unloyal_stan pansexual is you can like everyone like genderfluids and stuff and bi is you only like girls and boys

Kairi Castillo omg ya same here it's just so confusing uhhhh

Kairi Castillo omg ya same here it's just so confusing uhhhh

eykyra same I want to tell my friends that are girls but if I say that I am bi I worry that they'll think I  "like like" them.

eykyra same I want to tell my friends that are girls but if I say that I am bi I worry that they'll think I  "like like" them.

I feel the same way fam. When I came out to my mom, she said it was probably me just still confused about who you like. You don't have to have a crush on a certain guy/girl to be bi. You just gotta know you like guys and girls fam.

I feel the same way fam. When I came out to my mom, she said it was probably me just still confused about who you like. You don't have to have a crush on a certain guy/girl to be bi. You just gotta know you like guys and girls fam.

vixx_unloyal_stan
Well sweet one
Pansexuality is when you like all genders

Bisexuality is when you like just the two genders (i.e. Male and female )

vixx_unloyal_stan
Well sweet one
Pansexuality is when you like all genders

Bisexuality is when you like just the two genders (i.e. Male and female )

My advice is, tell this Joke, 'let's get this straight. I'm not.' I used that on my friend, then just tell em you're bi

My advice is, tell this Joke, 'let's get this straight. I'm not.' I used that on my friend, then just tell em you're bi

ReadaBook well I found out recently when I developed a crush on a girl but I also like boys, and I've been starting to notice some girls that I like. It's been a ride since then. I've come out to 2 of my friend's and both of them accepted me! 😊😊😊

ReadaBook well I found out recently when I developed a crush on a girl but I also like boys, and I've been starting to notice some girls that I like. It's been a ride since then. I've come out to 2 of my friend's and both of them accepted me! 😊😊😊

vixx_unloyal_stan bisexual is when u like boys and girls but pansexual is when u like  boys, girls, transgender ppl, bi ppl, gay ppl, straight ppl, basically anybody

vixx_unloyal_stan bisexual is when u like boys and girls but pansexual is when u like  boys, girls, transgender ppl, bi ppl, gay ppl, straight ppl, basically anybody

ReadaBook Ah Ikr I'm the same except I'm pan but everyone will think it's because of a "trend" and it's annoying

ReadaBook Ah Ikr I'm the same except I'm pan but everyone will think it's because of a "trend" and it's annoying

U know I’m the same and my attitude is basically it doesn’t really matter so they don’t need to know

U know I’m the same and my attitude is basically it doesn’t really matter so they don’t need to know

I am attracted to soft features on guys and girls, cis or trans...

I am attracted to soft features on guys and girls, cis or trans...

ReadaBook there is no rush on coming out if you dont want to then dont. There is no rush until you want to come out

ReadaBook there is no rush on coming out if you dont want to then dont. There is no rush until you want to come out

late reply ik but don't feel like you have to put yourself in a box- fancy who you fancy yk💗

late reply ik but don't feel like you have to put yourself in a box- fancy who you fancy yk💗

I just came out to my bisexual friend first (who had actually just came out and thank god I had a bi friend to come out to) after that was really scared to come out to my best friend because I didn't want to her to see me any differently but I saw her reaction to my bi friend coming out and realised she is the most loving and accepting person ever so I sent her this song and splurged my heart out through my dm's on twitter and told her things I had never told ANYONE. Now i'm so close with both these friends more than any of my other ones. because of me felling I could tell her anything and not be judged me and my best friend just tell each other everything and she is always and I mean ALWAYS there for me. I say tell the friends you trust and the ones who are the closest. Coming out can potentially ruin friendships and that fear tends to override any other possible future but remember that coming out can also make them stronger and have a connection that you don't have with any other friend. I still haven't come out to anyone other than my three most accepting friends but I don't feel any pressure to because they are there to listen and support me through any decision I make. Considering this was three months ago maybe you have already come out to your friends and if so I'm really proud and hope it was just as good of a response as mine, and if you haven't yet I wish you the best of luck in getting through with all of this and i'm here if you ever just need someone who will listen. (I'm a great listener and supporter according to my best friend lol) my twitter is @/eedeenn if you want to contact me or for anything else, much love 💛 (apologies if this was really soppy I tend to get like that sometimes when I talk or write about things I care about LOL) I would love to know how things got on xo

Im in the same situation and its very annoying cause i have come out to my best friend and now she thinks i like her  just because im bi...

Im in the same situation and its very annoying cause i have come out to my best friend and now she thinks i like her  just because im bi...

ReadaBook <br>U don't know if u like the girl bc u feel like u don't know how people will react and ur just scared of liking her. Don't worry I'm the same

ReadaBook
U don't know if u like the girl bc u feel like u don't know how people will react and ur just scared of liking her. Don't worry I'm the same

ReadaBook OMG THIS IS LITERALLY MY SISTER LOL

ReadaBook OMG THIS IS LITERALLY MY SISTER LOL

when i came out to my friend i said i was bisexual bc i wasnt sure if she knew what pansexual is

when i came out to my friend i said i was bisexual bc i wasnt sure if she knew what pansexual is

I'm pan. But i am so lucky to have a supportive family so ik that if i were to come out to them their reaction wouldn't be a bad one. BUT, i dont want to come out bc i dont really think i need to. I only tell people that I'm pan if someone asks me what my sexuality is. Im proud to be pan. but i dont think i need to make it a big announcement to the world. If u r proud of ur sexuality go spread the word!!! But if ur parents arent accepting maybe dont talk about it too much if ur trying to keep it a secret from them

I'm bi too but I don't plan in coming out EVER. Like my parents are cool enough so i'll just tell them one day "hey, i'm dating this girl" and they'll probably understand. If not, I have a gay sister that'll except me for sure.<br> I don't plan on coming out because, have you ever heard anyone cone out as straight? No, it doesn't happen. So what's so different if you're bi or gay?

I'm bi too but I don't plan in coming out EVER. Like my parents are cool enough so i'll just tell them one day "hey, i'm dating this girl" and they'll probably understand. If not, I have a gay sister that'll except me for sure.
 I don't plan on coming out because, have you ever heard anyone cone out as straight? No, it doesn't happen. So what's so different if you're bi or gay?

i know there is a difference cause I'm bi and my friend is pan and neither of us would identify as the other but its hard to put it across in words so we just don't always use labels

i know there is a difference cause I'm bi and my friend is pan and neither of us would identify as the other but its hard to put it across in words so we just don't always use labels

ReadaBook I relate to you on so many levels. I'm kinda confused about my sexuality rn, but I'm pretty sure I'm bi. I came out to my friends, and most said they knew, some kept mistaking and saying I was lesbian, and some asked who I liked and it was stressful. But my friends all accept me now ❤❤❤❤

i decided I'm bi and I'm in a similar spot

i just don't want to limit myself by thinking I'm straight because I'm demi anyway and i wouldn't cringe at kissing another girl

i decided I'm bi and I'm in a similar spot

i just don't want to limit myself by thinking I'm straight because I'm demi anyway and i wouldn't cringe at kissing another girl

I have never related to something more than this 😩

I have never related to something more than this 😩

LorenTheGinger I'll be your internet friend, and you can share whatever you want.

LorenTheGinger I'll be your internet friend, and you can share whatever you want.

ReadaBook Honestly I'm the same way... the difference is, though, I'm an 18y/o who just graduated and is all alone and have no one to share my confusion with... womp .-.

ReadaBook Honestly I'm the same way... the difference is, though, I'm an 18y/o who just graduated and is all alone and have no one to share my confusion with... womp .-.

girl you got timeeeeee, and i really do hate how people nowadays always just low key outing people ya know? it's fine. when you are ready, do it. if you're not ready, it's fine! why is sexuality being treated as such a big deal in 2017 anyway? also the spectrum is so wide and there are so many sexualities like wtf? anyway, have fun exploring it can be fun if you make it ;)

ReadaBook Its really not even an important feature, really. Dont treat it as such. Love is love and desire is desire. It is what it is. A lot of people want us to be pawns in their causes, or enemies to fight. Just refuse. Life is too short and this is too insignificant to put too much thought into.

Endwar1997 THANK YOU so many ppl i know just scream IM GAY and i don't think i'd ever want something like that but they pressure all their gay friends into doing the same thing. it doesn't define your whole self, it's kind of like by (bi lol) the way.

If you want an opinion from a  bisexual?
First of all, dont care about the label. It's just a word. Don't feel pressured to put yourself in some kind of box, and fuck anybody who says you have to. They want sexuality to be a big deal, when it really isnt. Just let yourself feel feelings. It doesnt matter what theyre called. If youre straight, so what? Bi? Who cares? Gay? Why does it matter? Dont believe ANYONE who tells you otherwise.
Second, if you do find yourself attracted to both genders there's no pressure to tell anyone, there shouldn't be. It's a personal thing, one's sexuality. Don't tell anyone only if you feel like you have to. Tell them if you want them to know, and ask yourself why you want them to know in the first place. If you don't want it to be fully public, but you do want to tell someone, be careful who you tell. But MOST IMPORTANTLY: so many people want this to be a big deal, so many want to dislike LGBT people, so many want us to shout about it from the rooftops to everyone. But you are you, and this is just a simple fact about you. When everyone else wants to focus on it, we have to remember. It's no bigger a deal than your fashion sense, or your taste in food. It's just you. It's our lives, it's a private thing, and it's just who we are.

Don't worry about having o decide right now. I got some crap when I came out (as bi) because "You've never told me about crushes on girls. You sure it isn't just the pressure to be something other than straight?" But, regardless of what anyone says, you know you. You are you. Take your time in finding out this part of you. Think about it as little or as much as you want to. Once you have a clearer idea, then you can look into things. My advice is to just take a deep breath and don't worry about calling it anything yet. Figure yourself out first. Take it easy. There is nothing saying you need to come out or decide now :)

ReadaBook Oh and don't you worry about coming out to your friends. I was really worried to tell my female friends I like girls because I thought they were going to think I liked them in that way. But when I did tell them they were really supportive and understanding and they just say that it was ok. I got some curious questions on how I found out but just to know more about me. So don't be afraid because if they're really your friends they won't judge :)

I think you don't really need to pressure yourself to fit into any specific box until you feel comfortable with it. The queer community is basically a big umbrella because a lot of people see sexuality in a very wide range of ways. I, for example, know that I'm attracted to certain people for certain things that determine their personality but I know that gender is not one of them, because some people have a very strong notion of gender when others do not. Some people do not even believe in gender as more than a social construct. I simply not think about that that much. The thing is that I mostly tend to say I'm bisexual because I've been pretty sure that I feel attracted by people regardless of genders for al long time, way before I knew about non-binary options. Possibly I should start saying that I'm pansexual because I think that I could like a person that doesn't feel identified as a man or a woman and that would be OK with me. But my point is, I don't really care about it. I've been half of my life considering myself bi and know I know about pansexuality and I think I would probably fit more in the definition but who cares. It's just a name. What I know for sure is I like who I like. You'll get more and more sure of what you like over time, and probably you wil come up with the most fitting name but at that point you won't need it. What matters is that you are comfortable with who you are.

james harper: Leave. This is the happy comment section.

james harper: Leave. This is the happy comment section.

i didn't expect this much feedback! thank you all for your lovely comments it really helps :)

i didn't expect this much feedback! thank you all for your lovely comments it really helps :)

ReadaBook I've got the same issue, I've not been with either so I feel like I can't give an honest opinion. I want to just come out, but I feel like I can't without knowing for sure

ReadaBook I've got the same issue, I've not been with either so I feel like I can't give an honest opinion. I want to just come out, but I feel like I can't without knowing for sure

agreed don't be pressured, like I'm probably straight all things considered but at the end of the day I just don't bother with a label cause love is love, I'm mostly attracted to guys (80%) and so (20%) attracted to girls. I don't really see the point in labeling myself when you know I don't even know for sure yet haha, so don't feel pressured just be you and you'll figure it out xox

don't be pressured to label yourself! you can love who u love & if it's a guy, cool! & if it's a girl that's cool too!

don't be pressured to label yourself! you can love who u love & if it's a guy, cool! & if it's a girl that's cool too!

Rea Keebz that's smart i'll try that thank u!

Rea Keebz that's smart i'll try that thank u!

My name is [Dan] this helps a lot thank youuu

My name is [Dan] this helps a lot thank youuu

I know this will be unpopular, but you're probably straight. Because of course both genders are attractive (we all have eyes lol) but a very small percentage of people are attracted to the same gender/both. Of course some people genuinely are LGBTQ, but I think in the current Internet culture, there's almost a type of 'pressure' to identify as some type of queer. So if you're doubtful it's most likely you are straight. If you weren't I think you'd feel strongly that you weren't; if you're not sure and your reasoning is that "girls are cute", then well yes of course they are, but it just means you've got eyes.

ReadaBook if I came out to my friends here's what i would say; "now listen, please don't ask me anything to do with thus subject. I'm bisexual, I like both genders and I don't love anyone right now, but please if you don't support me don't yell at me don't bully me and definitely DONT TELL ANYONE! Please This is hard to do but in coming out, I love girls . I love boys. Love is love, who cares if I like someone who is the gender as me, it's who I am, and I am proud to be me, I'm proud to bi. I love self and that's what truly matters." Hopefully this helps :)

im having the same situation ;-<del>--</del>;

shadowcraftmc technically bisexual means you're attracted to males and females, while pansexual means you're attracted to people regardless of their gender (so males, females, non-gender-binary people, agender people etc.) but I personally use them interchangeably because it's easier for people to understand bisexual than pansexual

whats the difference between a pansexual and a bisexual cuz im not sure which one i am

whats the difference between a pansexual and a bisexual cuz im not sure which one i am

ReadaBook I think you should think hard about what you'd like to identify as (whether it's straight or bi or pan or queer or questioning or whatever you want) and then try it out on yourself. Experiment with it, say it to yourself in the mirror. Try thinking about yourself as that "label" for a while before you come out to anyone (especially if you think they might question you about it). Become comfortable with it first so that if/when people question you, you will know exactly how you feel and they can't make you second guess yourself. That's just my advice and kinda what I did though; you do what feels best for you xx


God I remember not really understanding the LGBTQ+ community and seeing this. I remember sending it to my sister (finding out she was biphonic lol) <br>Despite it being 3 years that I’ve seen this, Im proud of myself :)

God I remember not really understanding the LGBTQ+ community and seeing this. I remember sending it to my sister (finding out she was biphonic lol)
Despite it being 3 years that I’ve seen this, Im proud of myself :)


I'm going to use this sound to come out to my parents


yall before i knew i was lesbian i would listen to this song on repeat for hours istg


I used this song to come out on tik tok like 2 years ago and I had no clue this is sung by you😂


"And yes I'm pretty sure it's not a trend" tell that to Tik Tok...

fr0q I’m going by the same, I’m really sorry for you.

Loads of people don’t know that she invented this tune....

Long Schnozzed Tribesman   <b>okay buddy I’m gonna give you 10 seconds to run before I let my army of kitchenware on you</b>

Long Schnozzed Tribesman   *okay buddy I’m gonna give you 10 seconds to run before I let my army of kitchenware on you*

Ya my ex-friend asked me if I was really bi or if I was doing it for a trend or attention. Which I wasn’t I am really bi also one of by best friends that I Already came out to she asked me if I was really bi.And I hate when people just say there bi for attention or a trend, because when you’re really bi people don’t believe you.

Guys ur lucky if everyone's coming out around you. It's so much worse being at a school where people would actually hurt u if u came out..

@Mobisdiary Hi, as a bi person, I think a lot of people are very fluid in sexuality and like multiple genders. Now that people are talking about "girl crushes"/"guy crushes" more people are starting to question and realize that they just aren't straight. So you and your entitlement can really take a seat. You're essentially doing what you're complaining about -- telling bi people that they aren't "real" or that they just "want to be bi." Sounds like you're the problem. Let people explore their sexuality and realize it doesn't affect you <3

I hate it when people want to be bi because it's a "trend" or "quirky", while there is real people who know that they are bi (me & more) and they get ignored or be like "omg no you are not" even though I knew ever since 2 years ago or even when I was born.

To be fair I think a lot of people have fluid sexualities (especially girls, it seems) so maybe that's all just coming out (haha) recently

Tell that to my ex- best friend she asked if I am really bi also she said I am not bi I am probably doing it for attention.

and to elaborate on that, i’ve only come out to my sister as i’m pretty sure she knew anyway and i’m terrified of coming out to anyone else at all because they might point fingers and label me a “fake”... not sure why they’d do that, just irrationally afraid and needed to get that out of my system.

@Heidi Kurjak, granted if people are faking being LGBTQ+ as a joke, then yeah, that's really disrespectful, but just because more people feel comfortable to be who they truly are, doesn't mean that that is a bad thing. We really shouldn't care about the number of people who are LGBTQ+ as long as they are honestly so.

Shawn Payne my mother needs to know that

Shawn Payne my mother needs to know that

I don't like Tik Tok. It kills memes faster than Reddit in the most horrible manner possible.

But Reddit gets a pass. Reddit is the best.

@Tiger Leddy I'm so sorry about that. Don't feel guilty. You shouldn't have to feel like a joke. People faking it is not okay and should not be a joke. Your sexuality is valid.

@melody its bc of people faking being bi that i feel like its kind of a joke at this point and ive been struggling with my identity for a while now. When i came out as bi i immediately felt guilty or not accepted, and i feel like a joke

SheHeldTheWorldAponAString I LOVE SHE HAD THE WORLD (sorry this has nothing to do with the topic)

Yeah straight girls pretending to be bi are the bane of my existence >.<

Maddie_ Is._.trash My little sister is on TikTok and isn’t

No and saying that doesn't help actual people who are looking to come out. People faking being LGBT are not folks I'd want to associate with.

Heidi Kurjak oof, soon they’ll know lying is wrong

kit kat king yeah, there are a lot of those at my school

Heidi Kurjak as a lesbian I can confirm that girls I’ve asked out who were supposingly “bi” are actually straight ._.

Melody Cutie Cupcakes yeah that’s exactly what I mean thanks

@Heidi Kurjak Oh yeah. People faking is pretty disrespectful to the community so I get it. It also might make people who are really bi, not be taken seriously about their sexuality. So I understand why it would be annoying.

Melody Cutie Cupcakes I know, but I just think that people are “coming out” just because they want attention. And I feel like it’s wrong to fake being “bisexual” when you are not. I’m not saying that all people are like this, but there is a large number of people who are coming out as bi, and I think some people are faking it

@Heidi Kurjak I don't see a problem with that.

@Heidi Kurjak I don't see a problem with that.

My friends and I talk about it but nobody really cares if they're not one of my friends.

@Heidi Kurjak I go to a catholic school so... Not that people think that it's bad, it's just that everyone is obsessed with Fortnite and nobody really cares about anything else.

It’s not just Tik Tok, I don’t not about your school, but EVERYBODY is coming out as “bi” it’s kind of annoying

@Naturalbornlosers is your name from a Pretty Odd song by P!ATD? or is just random

@Madisyn Deidel what does this even mean?

@Madisyn Deidel what does this even mean?

Shawn Payne now everyone on tik tok is like bi or something lmao

Shawn Payne in a few days they are probably be making fun of it

and its 2018 everyone is bi or part the LGBTQ group at least


I know this is a 3 year old song but still I love listening to this. This song, as a bi, just makes me so happy :)


Shes so cute and sweet and nice and supportive 🌌🌌💜🌌🌌


Am I the only one that played this song when I came out


"yes I'm pretty sure it's not a trend"

Every girl in my school: "allow us to introduce ourselves"

@Evie H these girls are not the ones harming LGBT people. Bigots are harming LGBT people and scapegoating young girls for it.

@Alyssa Lelis You deserve attention and your sexuality is real no matter what you do or what you call it.

@Bye Thank for the sweet reply and reassurance. Still very unsure and haven't told anyone yet, but I appreciate that you're looking out for people :)

@blankness that's what I thought, but at the end of the day; would you be telling yourself this if you were just attention seeking? No, you'd scream it to high heaven with no regard. So with that in mind: you're probably not, and are just indeed bi. You don't need to tell anyone if you don't want, but at least accept that it's true and accept yourself for it.

I hate that so much. Many girls say they're bi, and I'm not trying to say I don't accept or believe them, it's just that they think that simply thinking a girl is pretty makes them bi. It doesn't and they're harming LGBT people. Obviously they're not trying to be harmful but it just makes me so angry. If you are bi, then you are valid. I'm a straight girl but I can see how this shit gets old quick.

anony paws you might be scared of being the person who wants to be lgbt or thinks it’s a trend

madinah gibrin I’m gay but I’d never date anyone I just have trust issues and fear of commitment (and fear of breakups or rejection) lmao

Ella McKinney its not a trend its that its a bit more accepted(not completely but ya know)

Shaming ppl for experimenting with their sexuality... isn’t my kinda vibe...

I don’t think that’s necessarily a bad thing though. If anything I admire that a lot of girls feel comfortable enough to explore their sexuality like that. As a guy, I never really got that chance when I was younger since being attracted to other guys is highly stigmatized, especially among teenage boys. Nowadays I know I’m only attracted to girls, but I still think that being allowed to explore the possibility of not being straight (even if you ultimately are) is better than not having the opportunity at all.

Me and like 5 people are the only straight people in my school lol

Yeah lmao I'm bi myself and I would never come out to my class because I'm scared of being called attention seeking or being seen as "fake" if I ever end up with a dude. It's stupid, even now, after years of progress and acceptance some of us still can't come out to people. On the bright side, at least we aren't being jailed for it but ya know

@Probably Asleep mom you cant just go around saying you're bi... DON'T YOU KNOW HOW CRAZY THESE SHIPPERS ARE?!?! I dont have the mental energy to see all the mitsuki x inko fanfics

Katsuki bakugou BAKUGOU- oh i’m so sorry you had to find out this way

Starry Ink Because all the girls that “came out” were my friends/had it well known around the school. But they’ve all since taken it back. Now there’s only a few who are still actually bisexual.

Starry Ink My advice at the time would’ve been just accept it. Girls are great as well tbh

Update: I’m just gay now :/ Guess I was just indecisive.

Katsuki’s Mom ok but how do you know some of the other girls arent?

PurpleNebula // R.I.P Rick May<br> bro in middle school i kept on making myself think that im straight by having a fake crush on this guy, i just said that i liked him and that was it.

PurpleNebula // R.I.P Rick May
 bro in middle school i kept on making myself think that im straight by having a fake crush on this guy, i just said that i liked him and that was it.

Apeman Rogers FRRRRRR at the start of freshmen year literally EVERY girl i knew came out as bisexual and now only me, and two other girls I know are actually still bisexual lmao

Abigail Heh Lucky. You actually had someone like you back. I’ve had crushes on SEVEN people, and not a single one liked me back. I MIGHT’VE liked one of the boys if they weren’t all weird and sexual.

Apeman Rogers okay i get it, but you cant just assume they arent. just respect it. because you never know.

Same with my school. A lot of ppl in my school are bi including me

I fell in love with a girl, but idk, hElP mE

madinah gibrin I actually never dated in my whole life but I was in love with a girl ;)

@Felix McKinney I feel like I'm faking my feelings so I'm just shutting up and pretending they don't exist. Maybe this <i>is</i> just a phase and I'm an attention seeking whore lol.

@Felix McKinney I feel like I'm faking my feelings so I'm just shutting up and pretending they don't exist. Maybe this _is_ just a phase and I'm an attention seeking whore lol.

Ella McKinney I accidentally came out to my friends when a girl told me she liked me (she was my crush) in front of all my friends and I ran away and cried. That gave it away to them. I only purposefully came out to one person.

@Felix McKinney it's not a trend sweetie, just believe in yourself and come out!

Literally this popular dude came out as bi then all these girls were like "i'm bi lol." I haven't came out yet but i'm waiting til being bi isn't a trend anymore

"iM bI buT i'D nEvEr DaTe A gIrL" like bruh-


Btw I just so happened to watch this.... while scrolling about some of your new works... the best!


Me 1 year ago: I like boys and girls!
After many times crushes on boys and falls
After many times of looking for a hot girl
Me now: I'M LESBIAN


Watching this before and after realising your sexuality hits different


Thank you for making the song:)) I'm 13 and i'm the L and A of the lgbtq+ >:) yes,i'm sure


those are some attractive shots of your face dodie


I watched this to much saying I’m an ally…*3 years later* I’m bi 🧍🏿♀


THANK YOU I MIGHT COME OUT TO MY MOM WITH THIS TONIGHT

@sleeppyy it didn't go well. I shouldn't have even thought about it lol.


I love singing this to myself knowing that my parents will never accept  me for being lesbian


since every christmas my family + my aunts, uncles, and cousins have some little christmas talent show im gonna come out to them like this

YAASS OMG PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO OR SOMETHING

<del>livlmao</del> Damn, dude! That's awesome! Best of luck! 💕

-livlmao- Damn, dude! That's awesome! Best of luck! 💕

UGGGGHHH NOW I CAN'T WAIT TILL CHRISTMAS ;^;

That_Trashy_ Fangirl same! I accidentally came out because I was wearing LGBT pins on my shirt and then my mom just looked at me with a kinda serious expression and said "are you like that?" And I just said yes and then we kinda just talked but she necessarily doesnt approve of it but she's trying to manage

<del>livlmao</del> good luck fellow army 😊

aw that's so cute, my family does something really similar to that.  good luck!

Y'all are asking for updates and it's not even December yet

That sounds like such a cute tradition though? <br>I hope it goes well.

That sounds like such a cute tradition though?
I hope it goes well.

<del>livlmao</del> aww that's cute! I hope all goes well!

-livlmao- aww that's cute! I hope all goes well!

<del>livlmao</del> omg... I wish I could come out like that ;-;

-livlmao- omg... I wish I could come out like that ;-;

<del>livlmao</del> Yaaay! Uptade on how it went when you do

-livlmao- Yaaay! Uptade on how it went when you do


will be sharing with my sister thank you


Thx for the song! I used it to come out to my sister. I hope you dont mind. I didnt say it was mine so, yeah. Love the song btw!


Have you heard of LGBTQ+

Well I am the P, A, and N

Yes, I am pan, but that’s not all that I am
I am also ace and non-binary
Aaand in case you were wondering
Yes I’m pretty sure it’s not a trend
Aaand though I’m all for questioning
Please make sure to use my they and them


So cool that you are uploading this on the day same gender marriage is legal in Germany now 👍👍👍

Miranda Cole just read the others comments. It wasn't like illegal to have a same sex partner and there was something similar like marriage but just not the same. I just thought it was super cool that this video was uploaded on the day they actually changed the law :D

Zoska Oh, then I seem to be misinformed 🙈 Always thought taxes and stuff were already equal. See, you learn sth new every day 😅

Actually civil partnerships didn't have the same tax benifits as marriage (obvi it should not abt tax benifits it's abt love but there were some differences) but you're right, especially here in berlin, culturally, we weren't far behind at all

German person here 🙋 Also relieved they finally did it. It was about time! However... there is/was something called 'civil partnership' (instead of the term 'marriage') for some years now. People in a civil partnership had all the advantages a marriage brings with it. The "only" thing that was denied to them was the right to adopt (although, as I understood it, you were allowed to adopt the partner's child, should they have one). Great, adoption is not a problem anymore! Also great, the term marriage can now just be used for any couple. Just clarifying that we weren't thaaat far behind.

There was a possibility for some kind of legal partnership before, but it didn't include the right to adopt children for example. so I'm very happy for all the people that can marry the person they love now and for all of us Germans :)

CONGRATS GERMANY!!<br>i heard it was one of the only European countries that wasnt legal a few days ago and now it is good job germany!!

CONGRATS GERMANY!!
i heard it was one of the only European countries that wasnt legal a few days ago and now it is good job germany!!

ARE YOU SERIOUS? I thought it was already legal in Germany!!? I am let down by Germans ,because it wasn't sooner.. but happy that it is now! better late than never!!


Have you heard of LGBTQ+ ?

Well I am the p, in plus

I have a heart that loves all genders

Yes I’m pan and I’m proud to be me!

(I made this because I’m an alli, and I haven’t seen one for pan yet so- if ur pan feel free to use it <3)


*_No matter what you choose to love, the important thing is the love that abounds in you, feel confident about what you are and love. ♡_*


the way I watched this before I knew I was bi and looking back at it, this is insane omg I loved her


this song is so smol and quiet and cute and i love it


"have you heard of the LGBTQ+, I am the b" yes, me too


you are the most amazing creature in the universe. It's true, I checked twice


i used this to come out to my mom and my bestfriend


Have you heard of LGBTQ+
Well I am the Q, that's me.
I dont know if i am bi or not
Or if I should be shy or not
So Im questioning my sexuality!❤

Holly Purse well the good thing is that you don’t need to decide, people don’t need a label on every single person so love yourself <3

Holly Purse the Q means queer which means GenderQueer

@Blue Milk wow ok i mean im not a parent so im not gonna interfere with that... 😂

syoun there is another q besides queer in there’s that means questioning

@Blue Milk Aaaaaand then get arrested. So its all good x

@Alana Reynolds it can mean both queer and questioning, or some people like to say there are 2 q's x 🤷♀☺

@Walter Walter but your name is amazing so we dont care 👌

@Oliver Murrel possibly... but nahhh

I hope it's your kids one day 😊

Holly Purse don,nt be q we want to know who u are stop being in the hole and shine to the whole world

Holly Purse it’s cool but can be annoying hehe

Aww it's okay, we all go through confusing times in our lives, I'm sure you will figure it out soon! :)

NightHawkXing mm, well im questioning other things about myself too but that can help me answer part of it.

@archimedes whaddup im the A and i just figured it out like 2 weeks ago so hi im very new to all this

Well Holly----the only question is whether you can handle the chromosomal card you are born with----male or,  you know the other. Are you ok with that. If not , hopefully the people you encounter as you go thru life will understand your conflict and still treat you with respect. In my opinion, this doesn't extend to being "proud" of you're situation (parades etc.)  but accepting your struggle and helping you along the way.

OH MY GOD I FORGOT ABOUT THE Q WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?<br>ok, im questioning if im asexual or something. THERE.

OH MY GOD I FORGOT ABOUT THE Q WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?
ok, im questioning if im asexual or something. THERE.

Holly Purse she’s my identical twin so it’s annoying but it can be fun

@Taco ooh i would love to have a twin! What's it like!


I will be coming out to my friend with this song, I am so nervous......


honestly i just want to hug everyone in the comments section


Jeeeeeeez I love that girl :-D   :-D !!!!

Jeeeeeeez I love that girl :-D   :-D !!!!


I sent this to my whole family, THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME THE COURAGE TO COME OUT DODIE!!! 💚❤💛💙💛💙💜💛💙💛💙💚🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈💚❤💛💜💚💛❤💚💙💛💙💜💙💛💙💛

Goodbye Lullaby i would like to do it too but im just too coward :(...im glad for you 💙❤💛💚💜🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

Goodbye Lullaby I DONT KNOW YOU BUT IM SO PROUD OF YOU YESSS coming out is a crazy scary thing to do and its so amazing that you were able to!!!


Bi-five. This made me love you more somehow...


THANK U SO MUCH I JUST CAME OUT TO MY MOM!!!! <br>💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

THANK U SO MUCH I JUST CAME OUT TO MY MOM!!!!
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I just came out five minutes ago,,,<br>My dad just told me that the song is really good, should I be worried?

I just came out five minutes ago,,,
My dad just told me that the song is really good, should I be worried?

@haileyssotired Yeah! It really went great! He told me that it’s ok and that he is very happy for me :,)


have you heard of lgbtq+ well i am the +

i have a heart that can love all genders

yes i’m pan and i’m proud to be me :)


just came out to my friend using this song !!! dodie ur the cutest i love u !!!

Yay! you're amazing! I'm glad your happy!❤💛💚💙💜

UPDATE: she loves the song and said it's the cutest way anyone has ever come out to her!! she's super supportive of dodie, me, and she said she wishes luck to anyone who's struggling with coming out or figuring out their identity!! everyone has been so supportive, thank you !! :) and yes, i did watch the video, listen to the song, and send the link to a very musically inclined friend who i thought would appreciate it.

bubblegumyoongi awe! give us an update soon :))

FasterThanPasta they might've sent it immediately after watching, and I like to believe that somebody wouldn't lie about that lol

Hannah Rockwell They didn't really- it was uploaded 2 minutes before they commented.

doddleoddle hey dodie, you probably won't see this but thank you for showing everyone that despite all of the bad things going on in life you can make something good out of them

bubblegumyoongi congrats aahhhh!!! How did it go?

THAT WAS QUICK lol go u! Speedy coming out!


Have you heard of lgbtq+?
Well I am the P
In plus

I have a heart that can love all genders!
Yes I’m pan!
And I’m proud to be!!


Me sending this to a friend even know she's knows I'm bi 👉👈


Straight,
Then bi,
Then pan,
Then back to bi,
Then straight,
Then bicurious,
Then lesbian,
Then asexual,
Then bi,
Then questioning,
And now we’re back to bi..

For me it was:
Straight,
Then lesbian,
Then bi,
Then pan,
Then demi,
Then questioning,
Then demipan.

Sameee, I just don’t use labels anymore loo

Everyone takes some time to find themself. You'll find yourself one day, and the right person as well! :)

Oh hey are we the same person ? Cause this is my life

I’ve always felt sexuality is quite fluid, things could always change. I used to be bisexual (I mean I still am), but lately I like using the label Queer. Guys? Gals? Non binary pals? I like them. All of them. So yeah, it’s totally cool to be questioning your sexuality 24/7, you’ll figure it out one day 👌

Mood! I had a bisexual awakening while eating a lunchable an hour ago

Me:
I’m straight
I’m gay
I’m straight
Idk
I’m bi
I’m straight
I’m gay
I DONT KNOWWWW

Omg thats me! Its completely normal to have fluid sexualities

here in Brazil bicurious is called bi ballad lol

That's me except at the end I'm pan again lol

Me:  I'm lesbian  2018

Me: well... er I dunno
ME:BI!


a year ago tommorow i used this to come out to my mom and though i now identify as a lesbian this song still means a lot to because as i already said this song is the reason i came out. thank you dodie 🖤


I love how everyone is telling they storys and stuff but like I would die if I sent this so my dad


my fave part is "i am part of something really beautiful because LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE."<br>wow.

my fave part is "i am part of something really beautiful because LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE."
wow.

Hildegard Irgendwas i read it when she sang this part


Dodie, you are one of those people who (by existing and being extra cute) showed me that I'm bi.:)) Thanks!


i came here in 2017 but i need to relive some memories 💗


Why have I seen you on every channel in existence

Mackenzie Frecloud Love is Love! Even so, there is one "thing" that both Straight Men and Lesbian Women have in common: We both enjoy the same thing!

Audrey Gagne haha no. You can’t say an insult without explaining what you mean by it. Why do I need to get a life

Audrey Gagne Why do I need to get a life

arie mccoy gay pride is somewhere people can celebrate and be themselves because it’s hard to be them-self anywhere else due to hate etc. If you don’t like LGBTQ+ related things then have some common sense and don’t watch/click on the videos

Allyson Ganiban then what if someone is called Alex that is a boys and girls name

Allyson Ganiban a name is a name and names have no given genders

Allyson Ganiban they are but some opinions should be kept to themself, also you called them a he, did you just assume their gender

arie mccoy you do that your grounded for 10 more years, also I told you to get off the internet already so make that 25 years no internet, with love- mom

arie mccoy if I'm your mom then you shouldn't be giving me orders, no internet for 20 years, wuv you- mom

arie mccoy oh I am? Then get off the damn electronic and go sweep outside

arie mccoy also for the comment "gay pride sucks" like what?! We're all human beings

That is really sasy why are u being mean to me

arie mccoy excuse me but if you have that opinion why are you on this video

Mackenzie Frecloud you are every where-_-


Have you heard of lgtbq?

Well I am the G (and T)
I am a guy that loves other guys
Yes I'm gay and I am proud to be me

@Charliesdreaming I'm not able to tell you if you are or aren't but if you experience dysphoria or really really really want to be the opposite gender then there's a probability of being trans (I'm going off what I've experienced)

Moon I think I’m the t? Been on and off questioning for 2years 😔😔


I come here every year just to check on some coming out stories in the comments 🥰😃


voy a decirles a mis padres que soy bi con esta canción, tengo miedo :)


Me on 2016: I'm 100% straight<br>Me on 2021: yeah so....not so much...hehe don't kill me mom..

Me on 2016: I'm 100% straight
Me on 2021: yeah so....not so much...hehe don't kill me mom..


This is the first dodie video I ever saw looking at random gay stuff lol and three years later I'm a major fan of her and I'm going to her Build a Problem concert tonight with my uncle. Can't wait


omg, the dorky faces make it way better :D


Have you heard of lgbtq+

Well I am the q

I
Am
A

q u i c h e

@Mina Bish A) This is the funniest thing I've seen all day.<br>B) I love miraculous!

@Mina Bish A) This is the funniest thing I've seen all day.
B) I love miraculous!

The q in it means Search Results
Featured snippet from the web
Queer is an umbrella term for sexual and gender minorities who are not heterosexual or are not cisgender. Originally meaning "strange" or "peculiar", queer came to be used pejoratively against those with same-sex desires or relationships in the late 19th century.

@Cabbage.Patches nonsense, there is defently someone who loves you, even if they don't show it!

@Mina Bish AHAHAAAAAAA OMIGOOODDD R U JOKING IM SCREECHING

Mina Bish  hahaha 😂 I also didnt know what that meant, its ok 👌🏻

ปาริสา ดาราอี

🌸Iam bi too by the way, graybi to be exact, but bi too 😁

LexieLou have you heard of lgbtq+

Well
I
The
P in plus

P i z z a

Im the B.<br>🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓

Im the B.
🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓

@pale kait Peppaaaaa, what are you doing in my laugh?

@pale kait🌸 no it's ok ❤ I know you meant nothing bad🌼, I actually get it😁, I would be laughing a lot too 😂, and it's normal, I mean I don't like srewberry products a lot but I LOVE💖raw fresh strewberry 🤩

🌹I hope you have a nice day 😊

@Mina Bish Ahahah it's fine it was just funny, not in a nasty way 😅😅😋 it's not for me but I don't typically like egg products

@pale kait🌸OK, I REALLY didn't know😂, I thought it was some type of the LGBTQ+ words that I have yet to learn, by the way, is it good? Iam wanna know 😃

@Grunge Wolf🌸 OK, I really didn't know, so that is why I read it in miraculous fanfics, huh 😂

@Mina Bish lmao im dying! it's a type of food

@Grunge Wolf AHAHA OMG THAG MADE IT FUNNIER THAT SHE DIDN'T KNOW 🤣🤣

@Mina Bish  a quiche is a french egg pie thing 😂 she was making a joke

🌸Hi 😊 iam new to all of this so sorry if i seem rude or something, but umm.. What is quish? I really wanna know 💖 Wikipedia doesn't help , confuse me instead


“I have a heart that can love both genders”. Nice.


THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME OUT OF THE CLOSET


Have you heard of lgbtq+
Well I’m not part of it
I have a heart that deeply respects it
But I’m straight and I’m proud to be me <3


Have you heard of the LGBTQ+?
Well, I am the plus!
I am demiromatic,
Crushes do not come that easy
But I'm proud
And I am happy being me!
And just incase you were wondering,
Yes, I'm very sure it's not being normal.
And though I had to get to know them first,
I have a girlfriend now!
And I'm really, really, really, really, rEALLY happy. :)


I used this to come out to my uncle and his boyfriend who live really far away from me. They were very accepting and for all of you closeted ppl just know that it gets so much better! Also one time I blurted out to my friends, "I RUIN EVERYTHING JUST LIKE MOST OF MY HETEROSEXUALITY!" and two of my friends said, "me too!!!" So now we all talk about how bi we are and sing this song to annoy the homophobes where we live 😂. It gets so much better guys!


this was the single most adorable thing I have seen all morning


im sending this to my bestie to come out rn, oh boyyy


Im not appart of the lgbtqia+ but <br>I love this because she sings it pretty cute

Im not appart of the lgbtqia+ but
I love this because she sings it pretty cute


Have you heard of lgbtq + well I am the p and a
I have a heart that can love all genders
Yes I’m pan and I’m ace and I’m me


Is it just me or is this song actually a banger. Like no memes or anything this song goes fucking hard

PhotoBomb h e l l  y e a h  i t  d o e s

💗💗💗
💜💜💜
💙💙💙

PhotoBomb *h e l l  y e a h  i t  d o e s*

💗💗💗
💜💜💜
💙💙💙


I went to do the bi-five before I even realised what I was doing haha<br>I'm so using that next time a meet a fellow bi person

I went to do the bi-five before I even realised what I was doing haha
I'm so using that next time a meet a fellow bi person


M&ms doesn’t have every color of the rainbow therefore it’s not gay
BUUuUuuuuT! Skittles has every colour of the rainbow therefore I shall call the, gay M&Ms
You can’t change my mind

M&ms doesn’t have every color of the rainbow therefore it’s not gay
BUUuUuuuuT! Skittles has every colour of the rainbow therefore I shall call the, gay M&Ms
*You can’t change my mind*


I just bought pride skittles and it made me think of this video 😂


I remember I put this out on Facebook I think it was either that or insta to come out to everyone that I was bi😂


I’m straight and catholic. A lot of people think that Catholics don’t support LGBTQ, but I think that Catholics should support EVERYONE. If God made you that way, then I support you and everyone should too. I think that whatever you feel is how you feel. I’m still not going to be gay or bi or anything, and I’m probably not going to be hanging up rainbows everywhere, but I still support you because God doesn’t make mistakes. Yay!

Justine _Osw im catholic too :v sometimes i wish i wasnt

I love to see amazing accepting people that supports or are part of the LGBT community despite background. Some people feel pressured to drop their religionious  beliefs in order to be fully LGBT but that's simply untrue. Be true to you! I'm not Catholic. I'm  atheist and that's my choice. Don't worry guys, despite being atheist I still respect and accept other religion differences! Yeah! Acceptance and love!!

yes! me too <3 it just makes me so sad to stand next to those anti-same-sex marriage pamphlets during mass. love is love!

Your comment made my day, even if I'm an atheist ( But I TOTALLY support ANY religion ) I understand that people think that just because you have a certain religion then your not as open minded, I'm glad that people like you are disproving this! Have a great day sir/madame/non-gender-specific-person!

I don't believe in god, but that honestly made me smile because my family is Catholic, but they hate LGBTQ+ people it just made think that there are still good people who are Catholic out there. Honestly love is love.

Justine _Osw I don't know what I am yet I'm pretty sure I'm bi but I live in a Christian home. I talked to my parents about it and they said they would support me in my decisions but I don't know about the rest of my family

Justine _Osw as a bi catholic I know lots of catholic people do

Justine _Osw I have a catholic friend who is really accepting of me! I’m Christian and I hear a lot about how God doesn’t make people anything but straight but I like to believe that God doesn’t make mistakes.

Justine _Osw catholic and pan, and couldn't agree more

Justine _Osw  Personally I’m agnostic and bicurious (for now at least) but I come from a Catholic family and I’m glad there’s people like you out there! Take care💕

Justine _Osw I’m catholic but I’m BI SO HHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAIII

Justine _Osw Im pretty sure I’m bisexual. But! I’m catholic and I SUPER DUPER Support LGBTQ+ I think everyone can be whoever they want. Not just how they got made!

i am gay and i appreciate this sooosooo much. i used to be christian (lutheran)

My best friend is Gay and he is Catholic ^°^

Justine _Osw OMG yes I’m catholic and I 110% support them

Justine _Osw THANK YOU! Lordy I have a Catholic girl in my school, don't get me wrong she's so sweet but geez she is homophobic sometimes

GRRRREEETINGS MY FELLOW CATHOLICS

sorry i just really wanted to do that...

amandalikesbands Maggie Mendoza  Good luck you guys! I bet they’ll accept you more once they have had some time to process it. You got it!

I’m catholic and I’m Bi. My parents haven’t accepted me yet but as this song says LOVE IS LOVE

Justine _Osw same! I’m catholic and straight and I’m standing up for them!! Just because they like a girl/guy/other doesn’t mean that’s bad!


Okay this is way cuter than it had any right to be!


I... Want to use this song when I come out to my family on my birthday.<br>If it doesn't go well then dang that will be the worst birthday I have had

I... Want to use this song when I come out to my family on my birthday.
If it doesn't go well then dang that will be the worst birthday I have had


YOU SHOULD DO A "nail polish and face masks" WITH DAN HOWELL

Kyle Peters if this happens I'm can die happy

Kyle Peters OMG YES I REALLY NEED THIS THEY NEED TO DO A COLLAB WITH EACH OTHER

Kyle Peters I aCCIDENTALLY THUMBS DOWNED THIS COMMENT AND I SCREAMED AND TRIED TO LIKE IT MULTIPLE TIMES THIS IS SO GENIUS AHHH

Kyle Peters IM SCREAMING LIKE YES PLEASE DO THIS NOW.

IF THIS HAPPENED I WOULD ACTUALLY SCREAM


<b>sends this to all my family members and friends</b>

*sends this to all my family members and friends*


Have you heard of LGBTQ+ well I am the L. I have a heart that only loves woman, and I’m proud to be me.


I already liked this song some time ago. Should have realised earlier that I'm probably bi. But now I hear it on repeat.
Edit 1: I'm about to send this to my stepsister, she's a lesbian so I'll hope she'll accept me as bi. This kinda is my first coming out.
Edit 2: I sent it to her. I am nervous af.
Edit 3: She was like "Yeah I know that feeling, I'm so happy that you told me something so personal!"
(Edit 1 to 3 where written on the fifth of August 2021, yes this will probably become my little bi diary aka biary.)


GORGEOUS! I'm bi too, so good news and bad news. Bad news is that I've already come out so I can't use this song. Good news is that my family is very accepting!

Thank you guys! If your families are unfortunately intolerant, I hope things get better for you soon. You all deserve love and acceptance. Their opinions won't change who you are

Yeah, I haven't told my parents but they won't be happy.

I’m the opposite of you. Bi but I haven’t come out and my parent won’t be accepting

My parents sorta support me. They still think im gay or its a phase!!!

I feel happy for you. I'm bi, but I don't think my parents will accept it. They hated my gay uncle, so I think that they will disown me. I'm glad that your family/parents are accepting of it!

Jordyn M. Youre lucky that your family accepts you :,)

Aleigha P. Yep that’s enough if u like guys as well

I am gay :) and i told my parents today and it went well I just rearranged this song and sung it to them

I'm sexually confused but congrats That your parents are understanding (I don't think mine are) I like girls but idk if it's enough to identify as bi

Bi-Fi : oh another one of my kind I must venture off though to find more oh I'm bisexual too

Jordyn M. That's awesome for you!!, wish mine would be too, oops


I''m coming out to my best friends on this weekend,  i'm really nervous, please wish me luck!

@sleeppyy Hi! It went great, i baked a cake (cause i love to bake) with the colors of the bi flag, cut it and said ,,i'm bisexual". One of them knew cause after i knew i told her first. The other one said ,,i dont care, lets eat cake", and my straightest friend needed a minute to realize,  but when she did, she stated screaming and jumping around and said that she was really really poud of me. Then the cake eating friend put in sweather weather and we laughed so hard, we were rolling on the floor. Overall it went great, and im happy that they reacted this way.


Have you ever heard of LGBT+?<br>well I am the B I have a heart for men and women❤

Have you ever heard of LGBT+?
well I am the B I have a heart for men and women❤


Have you heard of LGBTQ+
Well I am the L!
I have a heart that is LONELY AS HELL
Yes I'm a lez
And I wish
I had a girlfriend.


Ive been looking for this for sooooo longgg


How you send this video to your family without having to send them?


this song reminds me some of mozart pieces and maybe disney songs, i loved


Noodlerella LOVE YOU CONNIIIIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Dan and Phil & Dodie Fangirl I love your name


I made a funny video to tell my parents using this song, it now reminds me of my nervousness 😀


oooohhhhh she is adorableeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!😍😍😍😍


if only I found rhis three days ago, its so cute :)


i used this to come out to my mom and all she said was
“baby, i couldn’t care less what you like. i will support and love you no matter that”
🥺❤

Awwwwww that is so sweettt omgg my heart just melted

Yeah, what's the point of coming out, i share with people.<br>I couldn't care less who they are sleeping with. Not my business… 🙄

Yeah, what's the point of coming out, i share with people.
I couldn't care less who they are sleeping with. Not my business… 🙄

That’s so sweet! I told my mom I’m bicurious (just to prepare her in case I get a crush on a girl anytime soon) and she said that she doesn’t understand me but will always love me

hayleyyy THATS BASICALLY WHAT MY GMA SAID 🥺🖤

I roast people ;D they actually stopped doing that.

I roast people ;D it’s literally fast food i don’t get why people really care so much.

hayleyyy 😭💓 so cute!!! i wanna do this but not until i experiment w girls to be sure :,) (i’ve never kissed anyone) also my brother isn’t really that supportive of lgbtq+ i guess.. (i told him i didn’t wanna eat at chick-fil-a because it donates to conversion camps and he said “are you like.. gay??” i said no and he was like “um okay i’m still eating there it tastes good” maybe he’ll grow out of it, as he is a 14 year old boy :p


Have you heard of LGBTQ+?

Well, I am the.... B!

I have a heart that likes boys and girls!

Yeah, I am Bi with a preference to girls, and I am proud to be me!
Happy pride month everyone! 🏳🌈 💗💜💙


when I was like eleven, I was all like “ohh loook! Rainbow this! Rainbow that!” And one day my mom was just like “you like boys right??” (This happened twice) and I said yes of course, but what she doesn’t know (yet) is that I also like girls ;)


I'm casually listeningt to this cause I just came out to my mom as nonbinary and it didn't go good but it also didn't go bad


0:29
Have you heard of LGBTQ+?
Well, I am the +.
I have a heart that can love all genders,
Yes I'm pan!
And I'm proud to be me.

Random User bissexual now means more than one gender. do u really think that we don’t date non binary people?

@Kathy Cat  welp, I'm fucking more confused about my sexuality now yahoo

@eykyra PERIODT. pansexuality is biphobic!!!! Pass it on!!!! (I"m pretty sure it is. Some people really need to read the bi manifesto smh)

@eykyra as a pansexual i feel offended :'v

Nah das faine

eykyra they weren’t trying to exclude anybody I feel like your overreacting and pan sexual does live all genders and bisexual means on Male or Female if we are being technical so they weren’t really wrong no need to be upset sorry if I sound stern or whatever but it seemed as if you were accusing them of something

@KateThePanfuckerTM - That's ok, being pan is a great thing thanks for sharign this with me, have a great day :) 💖💖

@Skye With an E I was just about to write the same!
I'm pan too and I'm proud! (still In the closet tho-)
Thanks for taking your time and explaining!❤🏳🌈

@The Nervous Banana Show Hey I am pan. I am just going to explain something, please don't take offense because I'm not trying to be offensive hope this is ok. 😊

 Actually Bi people can like all genders, and so can pan people.

The diffrence between bi and pan is that Bi people still look at gender to determine attraction and sometimes they have a preference for one gender over the other (not in all cases) where as Pan people do not look at gender to determine attatction, and do not have a prefured gender. (Again not all the time as I read that you were pan and had a prefured gender but generally.)

Some people also like to use Pan because bi means 2 and that is not a very inclusive name.

I know you didn't mean to offend anyone so don't worry, it's just some people may get offended that they have been excluded, if you say that. Like for example many trans people get excluded. They still   count as men and woman. Or non binary people may feel excluded. (Not saying you were including anyone, I know 100% that's  not what you were trying to do, but don't want people to get the wrong idea and take offence when you didn't mean to be offensive.)

Hope this helps I understand you didn't mean to cause any offence, but thought it might  help to explain the diffrence, because it is very confusing. I didn't know the diffrence between bi or Pan till recently even, and I am pan!!!

Have a nice day 😊✌

@The Nervous Banana Show  I haven't  even  met any trans people or other gendered people, and since I'm  demiromantic too, I also won't  find out if I like them or not, because  I don't  know.

@eykyra actually  despite that, there is a tiny thin line. That's  why half of the time I'm  bi and the other half pan. There is no way I'm  ever going to know, so I prefer to label myself as bi as a personal choice.

@honey thanks, I was having a lot of trouble figuring out how to explain that

@The Nervous Banana Show  that's  actually  not true. Bi people can like all genders. The term for bi is liking more than your own gender or the opposite  gender, which is really, really,confusing, but bi actually  applies to all genders. The bi part in the beginning  of bi makes it really confusing.

You mean the p in plus<br>Because  a lot more sexualities are included in the plus

You mean the p in plus
Because  a lot more sexualities are included in the plus

@eykyra Jesus they only wanted to change the lyrics to relate to themself. You don't need to go off at them. Honestly. I'm sure hey didn't mean it.

The Nervous Banana Show Actually! This may have already been cleared up,  but even though ‘bi’ does literally mean two, being Bisexual means you can like two OR more genders, and it’s not always liking them all evenly, for example, I am romantically attracted to girls, and feminine gender fluid or non-binary people more than I am romantically attracted to men or masculine gender fluid or non-binary people, and I am sexually attracted to ALL genders equally! Different people are different (Some people like non-binary and girls only, some people like boys and girls only, and how much they are attracted to the different genders vary), but being Bisexual doesn’t mean “I like girls and boys.” Only, it means “I am attracted to two or more gender identities.” I’m not trying to start a fight, I’m just clarifying!

@eykyra but she said she was the b not the p (I am the b) but this person is not excluding anyone

@Luv No, that's totally wrong. Everyone, regardless of sexual orientation have different ways of experiencing attraction, some might be more triggered by the physical and some by the personality or both, or depending on the particular person. You can be straight and feel attracted to one person only for their appeareance and to other for their personality, some people need to get to know the person to feel attraction and some don't but that totally does not depend on the sexual orientation. I find pretty biphobic to say that because it implies that bisexual people only focus on external appeareance and that's simply not true. That's what I meant when I say it's ok to choose the word you prefer but don't attribute some features that are common to all sexual orientations to just your own.

eykyra you do know pan means someone who doesn’t care about genders but personality that’s a bit different from bi

eykyra I’m not trying to invalidate others either. I’m speaking from my experience and of my friend’s. I do think that you can identify as whatever you feel fits you. I just don’t like when people say that they are the same bc some bi people are only attracted to two genders. Some bi people are attracted to all genders but like bi instead of a different label. That’s just my point. Also I kinda liked this debate bc it’s not a full on argument. I see your point and thank you for being mature about the topic. 🙂

@The Nervous Banana Show But Bi doesn't mean that you like only two genders, that's where I see the problem. People who identify as bi have been saying to be attracted to all genders for decades. I'm not saying that this is your case but I have experienced that many people that identify as pan say that bisexuals are attracted to only two genders just to justify their identifying as a different thing and that's what I see wrong. You can identify as whatever you feel appropiate for you and it's valid, but you don't need to say that other people are something they're not. That's what I meant. In no way I wanted to make you feel invalid but I just feel that saying that you can't be bi and be attracted to people of all gender identities is wrong. If you prefer the term pan because of the ethymology or because you relate more to the community that's valid. I do think that both terms can be interchangeable for many people and that the definitions do collide at some points and that's ok, by saying that by no means I tried to make your sexuality less valid.

eykyra I understand your point and some people use bi and pan interchangeably. But bi people (if they are only attracted to two genders) cannot help but not to feel attraction to other genders that don’t fall into the category of genders they like. But if you like more than two genders and you say you are bi, then you might be pan. I’m not saying that you are invalid. I’m just saying that pan is all gender attraction and bi is not. (unless you only believe in two genders which is a whole different topic) But i identify as Pansexual because I am not only attracted to two genders. Some of my friends identify as Bi because they ARE only attracted to two genders. But you can identify however you feel is right but the way you described bi and pan meaning the same, made me feel invalid because they aren’t the exact same.

@Helen User I'm not offended I just think that she meant all genders already. When pansexual people say that the difference is that they feel attracted to all genders as opposed to us bi people it's when I feel offended. I don't feel less attracted to a person just because of the fact they identify as agender, genderqueer or whatever. I don't exclude everyone that it's not male or female, and never met a bi person who says that. So I think the song is applicable to a person that identifies as pan just as it is, because the definition, actually, it's kind of the same.

@The Nervous Banana Show Bi people do not only like two genders, despite the ethymology of the word. Even the bisexual manifesto says so.

The Nervous Banana Show ; the “bi” in bisexual, means the gender of the person, and all other genders. bisexuals like boys, girls and non-binary people💞 it's something not that known, but yeah!

THE WEEB VERSION OF MARQUIS DE LAFAYETTE

I was looking for this comment! I’m pan and proud (but still in the closet 😂)

Lois that’s ok. I’m pan but I prefer girls. So I relate

@The Nervous Banana Show I do get both definitions but I identify as bi usually and prefer girls but would date other genders so it's not really just two for me. I just have a preference.

eykyra the prefix “Bi” means two. Bi people like two genders. Pan people like ALL genders. Nobody’s invalidating anyone. ☺

@eykyra I never intended on making anyone feel less included, I just wanted to try and change the song as much as I could as to make it special to me. Sorry if I offended anyone.

What was wrong with the word "plural" in the original song? Look if you wanna use another name for that fine but stop trying to make bi people seem less inclusive. She purposedly said "plural" genders not "two genders", you didn't need to change that.


naww <br>i’m the +, i’m pansexual and i is proud too :))

naww
i’m the +, i’m pansexual and i is proud too :))


Just came out to bestie with this song lol


im sending this to a friend pray for me kagdjshsjsh


THIS NEEDS TO BE A COMMERCIAL OMG IS SO ADORABLE


I send this to my older sister.<br>Thanks that’s all.

I send this to my older sister.
Thanks that’s all.


Ahhh I’m shaking. I just came out to my friends with this. Ahhh I’m soo scared.


Okay but ooft this song used to be so pure & a safe place for lgbt people to share their coming out stories and now it’s become a tik tok meme.... oh nO I love dodie she doesn’t deserve this

Wait, did it really become a tik-tok meme? Oh god why...

@Ashleigh they are not, it's illegal<br>Voluntarily incarcerate yourself immediately or risk facing constant prosecution from society

@Ashleigh they are not, it's illegal
Voluntarily incarcerate yourself immediately or risk facing constant prosecution from society


Have you heard of LGBTQ+?🏳🌈
Well I am the B.

I'm proud but scared
Bc I can't come out of the closet to my dad and my mom says it's just a phase. 😭🏳🌈


I’m definitely using this song when I come out. 👌🏻😂👏🏻

Love this song so I put it on my WhatsApp status and all my frenz and fam are super down with it YAAAAAAAAAAAAASS this is boss

•Erica XD• I WISH THIS SONG EXISTED WHEN I CAME OUT ALMOST 2 YEARS AGO OML

Abbie Moran aw, that’s sad :( hopefully your parents will accept you soon! i’m sure they will <3

•Erica XD• i came out with this song you really should

•Erica XD• u just did but in front of strangers

•Erica XD• - I am going to send this video to my best friend soon.

Totally using this song when I come out!


When I was listening to this song, my family was near so I turned the sound down but I accidentally turned the down song right when she said “I have a heart that can love both genders”


I cannot believe now I have 0,000001% chance with dodie

Well maybe later in life I will but for now I chill in 6th grade lol

Dino is suffering from cripling depression


How I found out I was bi :<br>My bff tells me she likes me and I say I don't like her back then for the next few months start thinking about it. Then tell her I like her we get together then I break up with her cause my heart loved her but my brain was saying this was wrong and not ok. Then yesterday after more and more thinking I realize I am bi and can't deny it. Then I made a picture that basically screamed I'm bi and came out to my other friend and sister. Then yesterday I told my bff that I love her and she said she likes me but does not want to be my gf. And that was that. But today and every night I like saying I like girls and boys is just feels. But the heart wants what the heart wants ✨✨😘🏳🌈

How I found out I was bi :
My bff tells me she likes me and I say I don't like her back then for the next few months start thinking about it. Then tell her I like her we get together then I break up with her cause my heart loved her but my brain was saying this was wrong and not ok. Then yesterday after more and more thinking I realize I am bi and can't deny it. Then I made a picture that basically screamed I'm bi and came out to my other friend and sister. Then yesterday I told my bff that I love her and she said she likes me but does not want to be my gf. And that was that. But today and every night I like saying I like girls and boys is just feels. But the heart wants what the heart wants ✨✨😘🏳🌈


Why do bisexuals and lesbians make the best friend groups ever?

This is from experience.

Same! All my friends are Bi, lesbian or questioning.

I prefer straight girls much more. I have found no bisexual or lesbian girl that treats me fine. All the ones I've met are always rude.


Hm. I might send this to my parents at the start of pride month. Hope I still have my birthday after that.


I am the B As Well!!
Let us exchange Bi-fives Amazing person!!
💖💜💙🤚


I’ve told my mum I’m bi multiple times but she takes it as a joke

cracks knuckles
Time to show her I mean Bi-sness

I’ve told my mum I’m bi multiple times but she takes it as a joke

*cracks knuckles*
Time to show her I mean Bi-sness


im not surprised but congratulations :D :D


Here is my version :

There is something I would like to tell you,
I figured it out some time ago.
I feel great, it makes me really happy, and I love you so I'd love for you to know.

Have you heard of LGBTQ+? Well I am the G, in +. I have a heart that changes between genders.
Yes I'm genderfluid and I'm proud to be me :)

And just in case you were wondering, yes I'm pretty sure it's not a trend.
And though I am all for experiments, I have experimented,
And I really like he/him and they/them pronouns
So..

Thanks for listening, now you know more about me, something I'm proud of
I am a part of something really beautiful because, love is love, is love

Why do all trans people are saying like, im "and i am the N" for non-binary and "and i am the G" for genderfluid when all of those are included in Trans? Bcs the G on LGBTQ+ goes for Gay, not trying to start an argument, just don't understand why would u say a different letter


Anybody know if there's sheet music for this? I'm not bi but I'd like to use it to tell my family what I am.


how I realized I was bi~   Sometime ago, I was around 7. My best friend and were talking about boys when she said that she wanted to learn how to kiss. “Silly there isn’t any boys here!” I chuckled. She said, “youre here! whats the difference!” So she grabbed me and kissed me. it felt so wrong but right. I got butterflies and I loved it. but if my mom found out, she would kill me. so, it felt good, but bad. after that we kept “learning” how to kiss. I guess she liked it too, until she started physically and mentally abusing me but thats besides the point. Anywho- I always liked dudes but I always looked at a girl and said “she could kiss me right now and I wouldn’t mind” I never knew what bi was until I met this girl in 6th grade. She was bi and beautiful, funny , and kind. She taught me about LGBTQ+ and then one day, I caught myself day dreaming about me dating her. thats where it all started to come into place. I was bi. I dated a boy, then a girl, boy, then girl. until each girl relationship ended because I was scared my mom was gonna find out and not love me anymore.


Well,<br>Everybody has their own choice...but nothing can change the fact that i like her and love her songs🙂

Well,
Everybody has their own choice...but nothing can change the fact that i like her and love her songs🙂


I want to just save this and have someone find it


10 LIKES AND ILL TELL MY PARENTS OVER TEXT SAYING " mom dad im straight... STRAIGHT UP BISEXUAL

Edit: IT'S BEEN A LONG TIME FROM THIS COMMENT AND 1.3K LIKES?! WOW. I did tell them but i basically reversed back into the closet

Edit #2: I came out again and they were both very supportive!

@Winter Snow i love you thank you so much

I think you got a few more than ten likes.

SwaggySeaGirl52   Omg that's so horrible!

SwaggySeaGirl52   Omg that's so horrible!

i'm sorry that's part of the reason i'm scared to come out as pansexual

Animation Nation! Please do this😂🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈 I just realized I’m bi a few moments ago I feel so much more happy

Animation Nation!  I came out to my parents as multisexual and all they said was "you're too young to understand those things you're just confused one day you'll wake up and realize that you can only be attracted to guys"

Animation Nation! <br>I feel like that's something my parents would say. Something like "oh you're too young to understand, I think you're just confused" :/

Animation Nation!
I feel like that's something my parents would say. Something like "oh you're too young to understand, I think you're just confused" :/

Nadeen's Art yes. Ok they just think im not that until im like 15 which makes no sense

Animation Nation! Did you do it and if you did how did it go?


There is something I would like to tell you. I figured it out sometime ago.

I feel great! It makes me really happy and I love you so I'd love for you to know...

...Have you heard of LGBTQ+? Well I am the G.

I have a mind that loves the same gender. Yes I'm gay and I'm proud to be me!

And just in case you were wondering, yes I'm pretty sure it's not a trend!

And though I'm all for experiments, I have experimented and I really really really, really really really really like it.

Thanks for listening. Now you know more about me. Something I'm proud of.

I am part of something really beautiful!

Because love,

Is love,

Is love!


See how people change? the scammer was scammed. before I was homophobic and what happened? I AM HOMOSEXUAL people change! Yesterday I came out of the closet with my mother, I am really proud of what I am.

WHY LOVE IS LOVE ... IT IS LOVE!✊🏿🌈

_See how people change? the scammer was scammed. before I was homophobic and what happened? I AM HOMOSEXUAL people change! Yesterday I came out of the closet with my mother, I am really proud of what I am._

WHY LOVE IS LOVE ... IT IS LOVE!✊🏿🌈


Dodie: makes a beautiful song about coming out
Tik tok: its free real estate

Dodie: makes a beautiful song about coming out
Tik tok: *its free real estate*

Piper McCarty dodie: literally makes any song, makes it beautiful
tiktok: its free real estate

Piper McCarty dodie: literally makes any song, makes it beautiful
tiktok: *its free real estate*


Have you heard of LGBTQ+ well I am the B... I have a heart that can love plural genders yes I’m bi 🏳🌈 💖 💜 💙 and I’m proud to be me!


Btw guys, if you are struggling with your sexuality, there is no pressure to figure it out right now! I always felt pressured to come out, so I did and then I felt like I had it all wrong. Also, if you are trying to find good lgbtq+ content on YouTube, I recommend miles chronicles and Noah finnce because their videos can be so inspiring. Don't feel pressured to do something if your mind is telling you to! I know it can be hard, but you got this!


im sending this to my mum bc she posted this on my birthday lol !!