Despite what has happened and all the worrying, I am still glad I am a part of this community, Kitti, I absolutely love how strong of a person you are. I hope in the next years of this community, we are standing strong and proud along side Kitti herself

I consider you as a friend and to those to are with you as well, and to those who are called friends of this ol' fossil, I'll be by friends sides all the time.

You are amazing and never keep believing in yourself, STAYYYYYYYYYYY AWESOME!!!!!!

Despite what has happened and all the worrying, I am still glad I am a part of this community, Kitti, I absolutely love how strong of a person you are. I hope in the next years of this community, we are standing strong and proud along side Kitti herself

I consider you as a friend and to those to are with you as well, and to those who are called friends of this ol' fossil, I'll be by friends sides all the time.

You are amazing and never keep believing in yourself, STAYYYYYYYYYYY *AWESOME!!!!!!*


Sorry to hear that and I hope you feel better soon and are able to move on from this terrible experience and situation.


Oof.... The amount of hate at the end of the vlog portion.... I cannot begin to imagine how you must feel about this whole situation. I am glad you finally gained the confidence to let us in the loop of what really happened and why things have been as messy as they have been the last couple of months. It still pains me to hear that you had attempted suicide. To me, it would have felt like losing a second distant family member to suicide had you actually succeeded and no one helped. I sincerely hope the future is brighter for you guys.<br>Love ya bunches!

Oof.... The amount of hate at the end of the vlog portion.... I cannot begin to imagine how you must feel about this whole situation. I am glad you finally gained the confidence to let us in the loop of what really happened and why things have been as messy as they have been the last couple of months. It still pains me to hear that you had attempted suicide. To me, it would have felt like losing a second distant family member to suicide had you actually succeeded and no one helped. I sincerely hope the future is brighter for you guys.
Love ya bunches!


I'm sorry all of that had to happen to you, and I'm surprised you've given him so many chances. After a little bit into the story i could feel a vain in my head was just pulsating for how pissed off I was. I wish the best for you and keep an close eye on him since he is not to be trusted.


I am so sorry for what you went through, I could hear the pain and anger, I hope you feel better soon and wish you the best


Why.
Why. Do. People. DO THIS?!
Kitti, even though I haven't been around for most of your updates/streams, you have my support. -Proto


I can only wish I could offer the comfort you’ve given so many of us, sadly I’m just a random online person, but you’re so strong Kitti, you’re a perfect partner, I could not even imagine myself giving my partner so many chances, or have the strength to endure that, and I don’t have any right to say anything wrong about your husband, the person you still love, it only frustrates me, that you have to suffer through this for so long, because I’ve had a first hand experience with deceitful partners, in my own parents, and it’s frustrating that there is no winning, or even a stalemate move, you can’t leave, without hurting your children, you can’t stay without enduring the pain, to deal with knowing the person who you love may break your trust again, none of the moves can be peaceful, the only way to somewhat end with a mildly peaceful is a move your partner can do, and it makes me mad because of that, I truly truly truly wish things change for the better, I hope that he does the right thing, the best move, and I especially hope you don’t have to suffer this much again, but for now I can only send a virtual hug. . . I do wish you can at least be happy in the future.

Also the change to the preview had me dying so much


I can hear you seething, I'm so sorry that happened to you. the fact that he continued seeing these women even when you tried to end yourself is insane.<br>If I complained about being alone before I got with someone no way I would ever cheat, be greatful that someone out there wants to be with you.

I can hear you seething, I'm so sorry that happened to you. the fact that he continued seeing these women even when you tried to end yourself is insane.
If I complained about being alone before I got with someone no way I would ever cheat, be greatful that someone out there wants to be with you.


I’m sorry this happened to you nobody should ever have to go through this


When you have never heard, seen or really anything of someone other than through someone they are close to and trust them completely, only for... Well, this to happen. It's really sad. I appreciate the fact that you feel open to telling us about this, trusting us strangers with this kind of information. I do hope he sees what he's doing wrong, and pray it happens before the point of no return. There's nothing more I should say. I wish you only the best, Kitti.<br>Daily good vibes point and 19 premium good vibes points spent!

When you have never heard, seen or really anything of someone other than through someone they are close to and trust them completely, only for... Well, this to happen. It's really sad. I appreciate the fact that you feel open to telling us about this, trusting us strangers with this kind of information. I do hope he sees what he's doing wrong, and pray it happens before the point of no return. There's nothing more I should say. I wish you only the best, Kitti.
Daily good vibes point and 19 premium good vibes points spent!


I'm so sorry you had to go through that you deserve so much better than that. I wish I could give you a hug and be there for you. I would never have put you through that although I'm loyal to a fault.

Edit: I might hate what he's done and want to do something about it I care more about wanting to make sure you are ok I will ignore him to be here for you unless you otherwise ask. I know you probably won't see this because of the crowd of comments but if you do and you want to reach out to me for one reason or another I'll be here for you so feel free to reach out to me

Also song recommendation

Voltaire - the ones who hurt you


Somethings never changed. I'm sorry to hear what happened, hope you move on from this horrible experience.


My heart goes out immensely to you in this instance. The pain felt from the neglect and disregard is all to familiar to me.

My only hope is that our hearts our strengthened by our hardships. Its all that we can do for the ones around us.


Hey Kitty,

I am so sorry this has happened to you and who did it i am having a hard time wrapping  my brain around all this and i am shocked he pulled this stunt. I am hoping and praying you and he get a happy ending for all your sakes as no good family  should go through this.

I can relate  to this mainly because recently  a similar issue in my relationship minus the cheating or multiple partners and ended with a short split between me and my Ashen Angel.

We are back together but the damage was done and we are both learning  to trust again for myself i am more in love with her and am trying to show more love and be there for her.

She is precious to me and is one of the first people i came out to (even though she guessed it)  about my sexualality and helped me come to grips witth being Bi.

Anyway i hope you guys mend what needs mending and as much as i hate say, it if it comes to it leave to a safe place, Think about you and the kids and go.

Hoping and praying for the best
Avalon Nerd


I’ll say this: you are a much better woman then I am as a man.
My temper was BOILING as you staged the situation. I agree he DESERVES to be given back tenfold all of the pain, the uncertainty, the stress and anxiety, and the paranoia. But I’ll respect your call to not harass him if he tries to show his face on stream.

That said; The VA’s do deserve at least some backlash for going behind your back.


I’m sorry you had to experience that Kitty, from what myself and a few other friends, they have been straight up honest with someone who they want a relationship with and if they ain’t happy then you can try and work some things out.


28:52 as someone who has never been in a relationship for all my life, the concept of a heartbreaks and break ups are something I never experienced in my life so I really cannot imagine the kind of pain people who went through that feels.


I am sorry for what happened. And to answer your questions. No I would not, in fact to avoid this very thing from happening I am honest and up front with what I want from a relationship. Because if I am going to commit to someone that is it we are committed no matter what, and no matter who comes along sorry I am taken would be my reply to this other person. Sorry for being long winded


First of all sorry to hear about that situation. To me that relationship would be over. Tell them to pack there stuff and leave. Trust has been broken not just once but twice regarding the same issue. Even worse the situation has snowballed into something bigger. To me once trust has been not just broken shattered. Best advice I can give is let that person go. It will hurt for a while not going to sugar coat it. I myself have just ended a long term relationship with someone I intended on marring.

You probably won’t take me up on this offer. If you want to let off some steam or someone to talk to I am here. You are not alone you have a community that will listen and try and help you.


I want Husbando to know this I’m always here for kitty minx I’ve been there since day 1 and if he ever messes up again I will be there again and. Again until he stops


I have so sorry that happened to you I hope you recover from this situation I am a disabled person I think I have a learning disability so anyways I hope you feel better soon from this terrible situation I hope you can move on with your life!


It's stuff like this that made me celibate. I grew up around toxic relationships,so i decided so say "Screw it. If this is what it's like to have a girlfriend or wife, I'd rather live alone" besides, I'm not even an attractive guy,so fat chance of it happening from the get go.


Thanks for sharing and openness. Even if i cant help, i want to say thank you.


Damn I’m lost for words but I can say for sure that if I was in that situation I would stay with the one I love and cut ties with the other person if necessary nobody should have to go through that. I’m sorry this has happened but hopefully things will get better we wish you the best and only the best kitti minx


Damn. What a scumbag. I always think about cheating as an awful horrible childish thing that I'd never do, hearing it happen to people just make me feel so bad for people.


Sorry you had to go through all that. Trut in a relationship is a must and some people dont seem to understand that. I would say that leaving is what you should do for your own sake, but having children does make things even more difficult. I hope things work out for you.


"Open Relationship" mentioned in regards to status of your relationship in any way, is never a question. It's a statement that the relationship is over and the other person is hoping to keep you around for emotional, sexual or financial convenience. They are either already cheating or giving it a reckless attempt to get a permission to cheat, tho they will do it regardless whether they get it or not, because they've already made that decision.


Pls don’t kill yourself your the only person that understands me I care about you


26:36 I have never been in a relationship but it's sad to know that I don't have to be in one to know the dos and don'ts of a relationship. Love and marriage isn't for everyone, but if complains that he feel alone, well cheating on his partner and hurting his kids wouldn't make that loneliness go away.


I’m sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that it doesn’t happen again, because I’ve seen that happen with my mom. And I had that happen as well but it was very early on so I left before it got to that point.


Really interesting story. I'd like to hear his side. It's fascinating that the audio role play after seems to be based on this situation that caused you a lot of anguish. I wonder if that's a coping mechanism.

Pretty sure you're not allowed to take his kids to another country without his consent. He has legal rights as a US citizen. And I don't think threatening him is going to help your case.


Damn I’m sorry he did that, I don’t actually know how people think it’s ok to do or how they enjoy it.  You deserve to be happy , to trust your partner, and to feel like enough. Your more then enough. Sorry to put this in a Joke way but he absolutely fumbled the bag. How and why would you almost fuck it up.  I hope you and your kids, can go back to a normal family with your husband and live happily.


Oof. This sounds like a really bad situation, even for him. I think both of you require help.


I hate to be the bearer of bad news Kitti, I really do, but I don't think that things with this man in particular will become better. Though I have little experience with relationships, asking your partner for a polygamous relationship, and then deceiving them for YEARS is the biggest red flag if I've ever seen one. And speaking from experience, when someone betrays you (especially on this level) no matter how much you want to. You will never, ever fully trust them again. I would much rather divorce and take the kids, than have such a "rolemodel" around the kids. Heartbreak is bad, but ruining a child's life because they had bad influences is worse.

Please don't end things for yourself. Living a life is only a 1-time chance, don't end it early because of moronic people around you.

I can't give you advice.
But if I was in your position, I wouldn't give out 2nd chances on things so important in life.


I know it's hard, especially since you still love him, but dump his ass. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I've yet to encounter a cheater who never stopped cheating. I know you don't want your children to not have a father, but having him around will damage them mentally far worse than if you left him. Besides, there are good men out there, should you choose to date again.


I... Ive been keeping pretty good track of ur tweets  about this on twitter... but... i never knew... it went...  this far, i am shaking.. Ya know, U are, one of the strongest people ive known, and i i just dont know what to say.  yyee idk,  im at loss of words.  I just hope this dose not repeat itself,..<br>Edit: Preveiw spicy indeeed

I... Ive been keeping pretty good track of ur tweets  about this on twitter... but... i never knew... it went...  this far, i am shaking.. Ya know, U are, one of the strongest people ive known, and i i just dont know what to say.  yyee idk,  im at loss of words.  I just hope this dose not repeat itself,..
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20:09 kids will not get it but it is best to educate them that is not okay to cheat otherwise they might just end up like him and that would be terrible


Honestly.... If I were dumb enough to fool around behind my partner's back, I'd say it's just time to end the releationship, because the simple truth of the matter is, is that if one partner goes behind the other partner's back, there's something wrong with the relationship to begin with... If that makes sense.

Then again, that's probably the reason I've never had an intimate partner.... I don't have the time or energy for that bullshit and drama : /... So forever single I will be. I'm a one partner kind of guy


Oh geez! I never met your husband, but he sounds like a not a nice man! I feel so sorry for you Kittyminx. If i ever see him, if and when i do, I'll give him more than a piece of my mind! But that's doubtful, not because thats a low chance. But im too nice to do any of that. But Otherthanthat, im sorry you had to go through that. No one should have been going through what you are going through.

Plus, I think signing divorce papers is the right thing to do. Not gonna harass or anything else like that, just a suggestion.


21:17 sad for him, some wounds will never heal so he shouldn't assume that just cutting off ties with these ladies and being in therapy alone and it's all good. No. This is not how it works.


Don't read more if you wanna avoid opinions and confusion

I'm Aro, tryna find out if I also feel Ace as well, I don't really get relationships, everything I've seen in person has shown that they really aren't all the cracked up to be. I also don't really get love, it makes no sense to me, I say this to show that you should take my opinion with like a pile of salt
I really don't think it's a good idea to give them a third(?) Chance.
Doing that to the kids will suck, yes, but I'd say it's better to get out of there before... they potentially lose their mother
Moving to your family is probably (probably because idk anything about isreal and what it's like over there) the best play, you could rely on them while you all get your footing (maybe some family therapy for the kids and you? Idk if that's a thing)
Idk, I don't have an emotional stake in this so it's probably wrong of me to say all this. I just hate seeing good kind people suffer because of selfish people.


keep on marching, its all we can do.
march despite your past and for a better future.
o7


Reminds me of my cousin a few years ago she too found out her now ex husband was having another woman on the side. But I hope you have a speedy recovery and come out greater than ever before come what may and to answer your question I would not while I have had no luck in relationships I would 100% commit to it if by some miracle I find one


the person is cheating, it's not good and if they really felt that way then the relationship should have been ended long ago. it's better to end it than do this behind their back and hurt them.


8:45 barely 10 years younger. Not even the supposing Romeo and Juliet law in Texas would protect that person

On that I agree about the Romeo and Juliet law. And I live in Texas for a while.


17:05 so I was right from one of your previous videos, Husbando was the one cheating on you. To be honest, this is one of the times I hoped I was wrong but the fact I guessed it right just makes me disappointed in him


Kitty, please geht Help soon. I mean it that with all my Heart. Geht Help for yourself.


Cheaters will cheat, and keep cheating. If you need an open relationship you should just get a divorce. You never loved them just the idea of them. There is no "On the side" relationship in a Marriage.  The trust is broken if it can be fixed then impressive. If not..(Yikes).


Just leave that lying piece of...! If he's did that and won't stop then end it with him, ignore his pleads and begging like an untrained dog and cut ALL ties with him. If his parents are with you keep n touch but never visit, otherwise get out of every avenue of life that involved him!


I always enjoyed your asmr videos too. I wished i can join your Patreon but i can't. Love to, but can't. Do, but can't. 😅


How are the kids holding up from all that?


I am sorry that this is 11 or 12 hours late but the question is why did you stay with this person for so long knowing what this person did N to answer your question, which you never actually said this question, but from what I got out of the story, no matter how much you think or don’t think it’s true or not true just know that you should be enough


27:17 give him a shoutout. I don't follow or have his social media but I really wish I could give him a piece of my mind


This is so sad. Cheating bums will cheat again. And UR kids will be hurt. I have seen this multiple times. Get a dragon lady lawyer. Not in the fictional way. One that will see U get justice and UR kids get proper support.


The partner infidelity is bad, but clearly he/she never really had the priorities in you. For letting him/her drag the experience for that long, you kinda let yourself to be a doormat. No other person worth your life especially that kind of scumbag.

I symphatize to your plight since i was in similar situation, even the exact same missteps.

Also never compare yourself to others sidepiece. Never rationalize.

Maybe you need a break, also don't push yourself to make content you didn't comfortable with if someday people ask that type of content.

EDIT: Lady actually use that experience as material, she's nuts!😂

If that gave you cathartic release then its okay, but don't force yourself okay... saying this with as much compassion as i could


Sorry to hear about that crap that's terrible


Would you rather have your children have a liar for a dad?


Deleted my earlier comment, as I thought it went against what you said about not going after him. Apologies, that was out of line on my end.


That's a dead relationship. Sorry Minx. That sucks.


3:43 I actually do not support open marriages cause that actually kills the point of a marriage

@Lord_Boneman  it's more ironic when open relationships actually ruins relationships. Will Smith and Jada Packett Smith are a very good example

Any time I hear open relationship it always rubs off as “cheating but everyone knows so it’s <b>totally</b> ok guys.”

Any time I hear open relationship it always rubs off as “cheating but everyone knows so it’s *totally* ok guys.”


23:21 why do you not want to hurt him? He's not hurting from all this, you are. It will be like he got away with it


You should devorce him being with him will only harm you and your children you already tried to kill yourselve once who knows what will happen next time


mm`m, sadly i dont think any of this is new. This shit has been all over you lately, Kitti...


21:50 that person is not Sweet Siren VA is she? Is that why she hasn't been active for months?

@America Chavez Hence why I’m not blaming you. It’s more of trying to respect her wishes and attempt to prevent saying something regrettable about something we can never know the full story of.

@Lord_Boneman to be fair, when Kitti mentioned about someone close to her betraying her, I actually suspected it was Husbando. She talked about it in one of her live streams saying that he is seeing other women and this video  officially confirms my suspicion so you can't blame me for being so speculative

@America Chavez Didn’t say attack, and I should state that I understand the want to speculate. But at the same time Kitti didn’t bring up who did it (even if she dropped hints), so we should respect that as well and not start poking around. Again especially if this VA is innocent and has nothing to do with this, it wouldn’t be right to associate her with what he did.

@Lord_Boneman  I'm not attacking her. But I just speculate since according to Kitti, Sweet Siren VA is a close friend of Husbando so hopefully,  she did nothing wrong and it was someone else. But she did mention that the person is a content creator.

Woah woah woah might wanna pump the brakes there. In spite of how anger inducing it is to hear Kitti had to go through this, gotta respect her wishes too and not go after anyone about this. Especially if the VA you mentioned isn’t even involved, speculation like that ain’t gonna help anyone.


Google translate at it again. Never knew that “I win. TY” means “And wine. YOU”.


women are such terrible judges of character dude lmao


My partner is my partner forever, no temptresses can ever take me away from my loving girlfriend, not now, not then, not E V E R.

The very thought of that idea disgusts and revolts me and in saying that I'm so very very very very sorry that you've had to experience something so devious, ramble rousing cheat!!!

And the very fact he had the AUDACITY to continue to do this even when you were hurting and close to ending it all..... I'm shaking my head right now at how he has been acting, nothing more than a scoundrel, a sleeve, a cheat, the very ESSENCE of a man that should NEVER even call himself a man.

He's a child, I hope those poor kids grow up, stronger, smarter, more loyal to those they commit that end up choosing to be their life long partner and support you, their loving and caring mother all the way, through thick and thin.

He doesn't deserve someone as devoted, lovely, caring and as hard working as you.

This is definitely weird since this is what I believe is my first comment ever but I've been a follower for quite a long time and what you've done throughout the years is nothing more than outstanding and inspirational, you put so much hard work into your videos, you show that you care about what we share to you as feedback and respond very well by the level of improvement that has been displayed. And for this to happen is just.... unthinkable....

Well I'll end it here, please take all the time you need to recover from this situation, please stay strong, kick this in butt cheeks and please be there, not for us, but your family and what you still have, treasure your kids forever, don't let them go through what you have.

We, on the other half, will always be by your side, there to support you whenever you need it.
As the saying goes "you say jump, we'll say how high?"

I hope you recover soon and pray for you and your children to stay safe throughout this.

We love you Kitty, don't ever forget that ❤❤❤❤❤


AND DON'T UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES KILL YOURSELF! YOUR CHILDREN NEED YOU!


THAT BASTARD! He deserves a divorce. Find the girl again and locate the other 2 girls and confront him. DESTROY THE FUCKIN BASTARD!


Only listened to a little bit, but got the gist. Sorry your husband sucks. Hope you dumped his ass!