This video may be from last year, but the internet is forever and this video just helped me realize something about myself that I didnt realize or acknowledge before.

I'm overweight. I don't like it and i'm constantly dieting or thinking of ways I can lose weight and get back to how I looked before. My motivation since High School and the beginning of Uni has evaporated and has left me with very little to work with.

But I realized one of the reasons why I haven't dedicated myself to getting to a healthier weight is because I feel more approachable and less threatening to people (beautiful, average, etc) as a heavier person. I can be nice and helpful without making other people (mostly girls) suspicious of my intentions. But my mind is at war over it because I crave peer approval, which my brain thinks I have less lately of due to my increased weight.

Anyway, now that this has come to the surface and I can face it, I can finally combat these thoughts and feelings and become a healthier and more confident person (eventually).

Thanks Dodie :)

PS: I'm a 2 (the helper) with wings 9 (the peacemaker) and 3 (the achiever, where the desire for validation comes from)


:D and this is why I love you! Thank you so much for apologizing and re-uploading, it's all good now! If people keep dragging it out just ignore em :P


Thanks for doing this dodie! I really liked this video and understood what you were saying but was uncomfortable you called said person out so 👍👍👍


I'm sorry it turned out as a hate message for some people. That part was honestly very relatable, and even if I'm disappointed that you had to take it down, I completely understand that it's for the good of others. :)) Don't feel bad Dodie darling, we love you.


I miss your videos and your voice Dodieee 💖 like I literally begged my bestfriend, who is currently living in the US, to buy me your book. Cause your book isn't available here in the Philippines and she's coming home here in our country this Dec and she actually love it the first time i showed it to her. So yeah! I'll be expecting your book this coming Christmas! Im so fking excited. Love you dodes


I really like this video! I feel I have the same issues as you:/ but I am also working on them so far I have been doing good. I really appreciate you doing this video ✌


It's okay Dodie 💛 I think most people understood you were not making it about -actor-, you were just using them to make your point. But I guess if people were using it as a spring board to attack them, then that could make you feel responsible, so I guess you've done what you had to! Stay strong 💛💛


I like this style of video... I kind of feel like I want to do this...<br>(I'm a 3w4, i believe, and recently changed to an ENFP, as well. I used to be INFP, and was 50/50 introverted and extroverted, but I guess I switched to 60/40! It feels weird)

I like this style of video... I kind of feel like I want to do this...
(I'm a 3w4, i believe, and recently changed to an ENFP, as well. I used to be INFP, and was 50/50 introverted and extroverted, but I guess I switched to 60/40! It feels weird)


personally, i didn't have a problem with what you said yesterday. and i think it's because i relate to that ever so slightly. howEvEr i think it's soo matUrE of you to re edit it and right (what potentially could have been) your wrong. this is why you're one of my idols :))


i'm a 1w9 & i would love to see an enneagram video, maybe even with you, Tessa (and Emma?) talking about your different types


I am a type 2 on the enneagram which is good for others but is really emotionally draining because I constantly get ignored and nobody ever helps me. It’s okay that you made the mistake as well dodie. Everyone makes mistakes.


Wait why did she re-upload this... like I saw the original... and I mean she didn't really talk bad about <b>name of actor</b> I mean I feel that she perfectly described her meaning... but.. it's the internet and people get offended for no reason...

Wait why did she re-upload this... like I saw the original... and I mean she didn't really talk bad about *name of actor* I mean I feel that she perfectly described her meaning... but.. it's the internet and people get offended for no reason...

She called her annoying and grating.. which I don't feel is an appropriate thing to say about a 13 year old girl you don't even know personally.


Dodie, what do you use for the fake freckles? I've always wondered!


It will be fine, but i must admit that when i heard your confession yesterday, i got a bib surprised, but i've thougt about it all day and realised that i must agree with you in some aspects... Although i am a huuuge fan of her and what she's up to i will always be the biggest fan of yours ,more than any other people that i could possibly be a fan of, just to see you being a human. There is no one that have ever inspired me as much as you have. YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON


Your eyebrows look AMAZINGGGG in this videoooo 🙌👏❤


Making mistakes is a talent nobody is proud of... so here is a message to all the people who make mistakes : you should be proud that you've made a mistake and that you realized you made one. You don't have to say sorry to yourself, just say thank you because you know you were wrong. ❤


I didn't notice anything off about the original but i really appreciate the apology, in retrospect it was distasteful and I think you calling yourself out for that helped me learn as well :) there's a lot of comments about how everyone makes mistakes so you don't have to apologize or edit the video, but i politely disagree. I think you're doing a great job of creating a culture of apology without shame and forgiveness without disregard to anyone hurt. And I extra appreciate it because the way that people normalize talking about minors just because they're celebrities is a big problem!! thank u dodie :)


I’m an ENFP and have that whole “wanting it to be clean and being discontent with the mess but not cleaning it” complex


Dodie I don’t feel like you should be sorry for what you said. Your honesty is why I love you. Everyone envy’s and gets jealous.


I think the enneagram test is one of the personality tests that’s interesting to me because I think it’s very swayed by two things, the first being, if you know anything about it and already have an idea of what you think you’ll get, and two being, it seems very easily swayed by current feelings. I’ve taken it many different times, most recently it has said I’m a two, but I have definitely been told by it that I’m a four before and a six! I think most people at times can relate to all of these fears and desires and most will likely change at some point. When I look at where I am know, it makes since why I got a 2, and where I’ve been previously in my life, 4 and 6 make since for those times. I think the enneagram is interesting in the moment, but it doesn’t say much about you forever, just in the now.


I watched the video but dodie noticed that what she said was wrong, she got hate for what she said and I don’t want her getting more hate so I’m not saying who it was.

infired izzy it rhymes with billie hobby clown

I saw it, thought nothing of it at the time tbh. You aren't missing much since this video is basically the same.

Meu, ela falou mal da mina do stranger things, e apagou, mas ela não falou mal, falou mal, ela disse q tem invejinha dela na real, mas bom, é isso

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y’all I’m just walking around tryin to find the bus and I’m getting all these notifs 😂 and also I’m wearing my Billie shirt so djdkdkkekelld it’s a time rn

infired izzy mddkkdkwkwowlsksls I’ll just walk myself out

I’m literally dying rn I need to know who she was talking about I’m so sorry I’m a horrible person 😭

Caitlin Byers “why so sad bunny” is this Billie Eilish on purpose or nah

Why so sad bunny? we need to respect dodies choice to re-edit the video.<br> therefore i think it'd be a little bit unfair to name the actor, i hope you understand xx

Why so sad bunny? we need to respect dodies choice to re-edit the video.
 therefore i think it'd be a little bit unfair to name the actor, i hope you understand xx


it's okay dodie, we're not mad💗we're just human (wink wink get it get it ;D)


I'm also a type 4! I feel that so much!!


What I started doing to break the right-before-bed phone habit was reading before sleeping. That way, you still get entertainment without a screen and constant notifications.

But yay I am a 4 too!


Hey dodie,

Regarding something you said in this video, about judging someone and thinking "Ugh", and then quickly correcting your thinking - "dodie, that's unfair".

I think you should know, that its a psychological fact that when you first see someone you make assumptions based on what you've been taught to think, you correcting that thinking is completely normal and that "correcting" shows how you want to portray yourself, so how you want to act as a human being..

I thought this would be helpful for you to know, because it's actually a very normal thing.

Lots of love,
Mia xoxo


i’ve missed you so much (and 800th comment)


Gosh, I am a 4 as well. And I'm an INFP. That's maybe why I can relate to you so much.


*_YOU ARE SO AESTHETICALLY PLEASING I LOVE IT_*


Its okay your an amazing person we love u!!!!


oh boy. i am also a 4. and goddamnit when i researched further what being a 4 meant, and what the usual roadblocks are for 4's i felt so betrayed. I got READ to FILTH lol but it was so true i couldnt really be mad :-/


who was the person being mentioned? it's gonna drive me insane

the actress that plays eleven in Stranger things

If you look in the comment enough you will figure it out<br>I did

If you look in the comment enough you will figure it out
I did


i dont understand me. i dont. but hearing you talk about your things is like listening to you telling me what i'm like and things i do. its so weird, i relate to you so much and this may help me understand myself better, thank u dodie and i have missed you so much


I thought of something. Dodie is right. When someone is, not alright, sick, sad, depressed, etc. You are there for them and want them to feel alright and people may be like "oh look at them, how kind and selfless they are." but it's not exactly that. You have a fear of losing someone you love and seeing someone not okay makes you scared. Knowing this is impossible to say someone is completely selfless because they want someone to be there for their need.


I think what you said was very easy to understand. I mean we're all human, we have experience that. Misjudging someone because of jealousy is very common and you you did well by recognizing and admiting that it is a wrong thought and that you don't really, reasonable thinking, hate this person or think anyone should. But well it is ok that you choose to leave the name out specially since this is the Internet and everybody can create a war on comments apparently. But I don't think everyone famous should go around constantly apologizing, trying to control the effect of everything they do and explaining themselves. If we cannot understand that artists or famous people are human too and we insist on trying to make them some sort of perfect mold of a person or "role model" it's our problem as audience. We can choose to see it like «hey, that happened to me too» and relate and maybe reflect about that but leave it there and it wouldn't be a problem, and you wouldn't have to explain anything.


I completely understand this video. I want to not, not like someone for no reason but if I get a bad vibe from them it’s just my instinct?? I feel like the person I show to the world isn’t parallel to the person bottled in my brain but I naturally act that way?? I strive to be more confident in what I believe in and that my opinion matters but, I’m afraid of not being heard, and getting talked over, I’m just not confident. I also deeply struggle with being the same person to everyone. Like, I naturally convert my personality to match the person I’m having a conversation with. I think the reason I do that is because I don’t know who I am yet...? I don’t know... it’s just my brain I guess. I think I need to fix that. Yes. I need to fix that.     xxx


What the fuck is this comment section and why do I enjoy it?

失われたボーイ失われたボーイ


Its very true that it takes a lot longer for a broken heart to heal than you might think. For me? It took literal years. I was so ashamed because everyone I knew was fine after months, but nope. I only started feeling fine after about 6 years. And thats okay. Am I embarrassed about it and still carry some shame about it? of course. but I think it is so important to recognize that people are different and different traumas take different people different amounts of time to get over things.


I relate to a lot of this. Not everything but wow... Well said. I will defiantly have to reflect.


Only dodie would take the time to write out a detailed apology without making excuses, good job👌🏻


The way dodie says "I don't know" in this video is perfect


so glad you took down the video, I felt v uncomfortable with what you said, especially because you're a youtuber you probably know what it feels like for people to say stuff like what you said about you, and saying that stuff to a kid was a lil bad,, lov u tho, thank u for apologising <3

Amy Eleven from stranger things and how she seems so arrogant. Basically said she doesn't like a 13 year old lol

Luna Lovegood Was it Grace who she spoke about?

shes a human and she makes mistakes like everyone else does. she is entitled to her own opinion, but oh well, u do u

next time I think you should emphasise that it's how you feel that is the problem, it's not the fault of said actor so there is less confusion. e.g "one thing I don't like about myself and want to change is irrational jealousy for people (I relate tho, we all do I think) like how I found myself put off by an actor due to my jealousy


Hey Dodie! What do you use to edit your videos?


Great video Love! Always making me think. I’m a 6w5!


Dodie its really beneficial to your mental health to have a normal sleeping pattern! you have a bunkbed, so just leave your phone on your desk beneath it, and put a boring book next to your bed, and go to bed by 10PM. Trust me, it helps with your mental health.


"But yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best lol" -words of wisdom from thomas


Hi dodie one thing that helps me get off of my phone before bed is an app called Forest and it friend virtual trees for a set amount of time while locking your phone so if you leave it the virtual tree dies, I find this app really useful but sometimes it just can't stop me from scrolling 😂💛


I truly understand what you are talking about  ....i have been and somewhat still dealing with the same issues........ But life moves on..... THANK YOU for being you.. Also you are very beautiful 💜💜💜


don't apologise dodie you're only human, everyone makes mistakes that they can learn from. don't bring yourself down because of it, in my eyes you're perfect ❤


People make mistakes, you wouldn't be human if you didn't I'm really happy that you did what you thought was the right thing and now your mind is at rest<3 here's my original comment:

Dodie! Your back! Love you so much you are sigh an inspiration! I have a friend who is constantly dealing with depression and I am terrified cause I have no idea what to do but you videos give me hope and advice and She has also started watching them so thank you for that xx also, I understand what you mean when you say you think you are selfish I'm currently having that mental battle as well beacuse I feel like no one really sees me or notices if there is something wrong beacuse I don't let it show beacuse I hate having attention beacuse I feel patronised but then when I don't get attention I feel lonley. So am I selfish or just a confused anxtey mess??
Wow that was long.... live you Dodie so glad your back xxx


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i feel this way alot i think this video is helpful to remind us we are all people. and we all have many sides and some aren't always pretty.


a friend sent me a song of yours and ask what enneagram number I thought you were so I watched this video and typed as a 4 before you had said it (although we really shouldn't type people) I got so friggin pumped. the enneagram is such a great self growth tool!


"Don't say I am a messy person when I don't want to be." I wonder if that isn't the point? The test telling you what you are rather than what you want to be. I think it's on us to try and become the people we want to be :)


i heard once that the first thought you have about someone is what you have been influenced to think, and then when you go back and disagree with yourself, or affirm your first thought, that is what you truly think. i thought it was really comforting, because sometimes i think yucky things and then look back on myself like WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH YOU and that second, kinder and more merciful thought is actually what i feel, and the first, initial jealous thought is not what i actually am inside. <3


Owning up to your mistakes and learning from them and making necessary changes. You beautiful human, you 😙


I think it was cool that she mentioned being jealous of that actor even though it could have been viewed as problematic because a lot of people feel the same way about people who have more attention/achievements. I kind of wish she'd left it in more, maybe just not mentioning names, but describing the actor's position more than she's left in this version.


I love you so much dodie. I saw you in London on the 24th, I have a Vlog of it coming very soon :) I also still have my balloon that fell from the ceiling xD


I know this isn't the point but which actress was she walking about?

SunnyShowers love <br>she was jealous of a thirteen-year-old kid who's incredibly famous and successful, everything she wanted to be when she was younger. if you read the description, it makes sense. it isn't the actress herself, but her achievements- it makes sense imo. i myself found stranger things kind of unbearable in the beginning because i felt kind of worthless compared to these kids that have already achieved so much in their lifetimes, even if i'm around their age, but i do agree that she was in the right for removing that little jab she took at her.

SunnyShowers love
she was jealous of a thirteen-year-old kid who's incredibly famous and successful, everything she wanted to be when she was younger. if you read the description, it makes sense. it isn't the actress herself, but her achievements- it makes sense imo. i myself found stranger things kind of unbearable in the beginning because i felt kind of worthless compared to these kids that have already achieved so much in their lifetimes, even if i'm around their age, but i do agree that she was in the right for removing that little jab she took at her.

pathetic is the wrong word for sure, we all get jealous of people and that's just a normal emotion of life, but it's different here because dodie is a 22 year old woman getting jealous of a 13 year old <b>kid.</b> if anything it's a bit more immature than pathetic, or something like that. it's good that she fixed it and re-edited the video though.

pathetic is the wrong word for sure, we all get jealous of people and that's just a normal emotion of life, but it's different here because dodie is a 22 year old woman getting jealous of a 13 year old *kid.* if anything it's a bit more immature than pathetic, or something like that. it's good that she fixed it and re-edited the video though.

SunnyShowers love It's really not all that pathetic. <b>:/</b>

SunnyShowers love It's really not all that pathetic. *:/*

shuko I think it was that girl from Stranger Things, Eleven. She was jealous of a 13-year old kid lol. I don't want to be mean, but that's honestly really pathetic


I think it's important to remember that as HUMANS, we are all flawed! And sinful. And we try to pretend we are perfect, we can figure this world out by ourselves... but no one will ever be! 💜 💜


5:20 The same thing happened to me a while back and he told me to look at it like this.  You're on a plane and it's crashing. The person next to you has a broken seatbelt but neither do you.  Of course you want to help the its common empathy but what does that mean for you.  You die and you won't know what ever happened to that person the could've died to for all you know.  The only way you can truly take care of someone is if you first take care of yourself. The next think totally shook me. He told me you can't save them all.  It all depends on how broken their seatbelt is or if they truly want to fix it.  Take care of youreself Dodie.


Dodie is your book available on any Brazilian bookstore?


I think the test gave me a 2 but I disagreed with the explanation and looked trough them all. I identified most as a 4 so that’s what I go with


Dodie dearest, love, why do make me watch your video again because its reuploaded and because you uploaded it bc i think i have watched all of your videos about 5 time within then first hour of it being up

Omg, can you message the actress I promise I won't tell anyone.  I just want to know


The thing you said about being confused about whether fulfilling your own needs by making other people happy is selfish or not got me thinking a little. I think that by nature, we're all self-serving; therefore, "selfish". However I also feel that perhaps it's not a bad thing? It would be unhealthy to go out of our way to deny ourselves things we need for the sake of being selfless, right? And obviously there are bad ways to be selfish (i.e. using someone in a less-than-ethical way to achieve a personal goal), but then maybe that means there are good ways that are beneficial to everyone? Or at least doesn't impact anyone involved. I dunno lol but I guess my point is that we shouldn't feel bad for doing things for ourselves when it's not impacting someone else in a bad way.


I relate to dodie so much it's kinda scaring but also comforting...


Dodie I highly recommend checking out 16personalities.com, their descriptions are eerily on point! Also, you're my extroverted counterpart (infp here) so my odd sense of kinship with you is less odd now 🙈🎈


your fan base is too big to for you to post hate abt somebody else,, another celebrity who is literally a child. i rlly appreciate that you took it down but that's really messed up and she's a person too and she worked really hard to get where she is and she gets enough flack for being a young kid, so yeah, it's not okay, but we all make mistakes and it was a very mature way to handle it.


5:21-5:55 OH SHIT
I found another thing we have in  common!!
This is exactly me.
My friend Roxy (who is an absolutely lovely person), has expressed her frustration with this bad habit of mine many, many times. She always says-"*You're too selfless*." And it's 100% true! I'm not just saying that to tickle my ego. I am perfectly aware that I am way, way, WAY too selfless to the point where I hide my negative feelings daily and also won't be truthful even when I feel terribly ill. All because I don't want to ruin the people who matters to me's days with my problems, which I KNOW is such a stupid philosophy but I just won't. give it. up!
I'm too afraid of change to properly address and fix this problem, so I just keep on pretending like I don't. And it gives me such a sick feeling of satisfaction when I hide all that shit from people, because I tell myself "It's okay, you're making them happier this way". I just don't know how to stop myself, and now I've realized I also do this because I need them to be okay for me to be okay. The only difference between me and you, dodie, is that I'm still stuck in the whirlpool of trauma, so I'm still never really okay.
Thank you so much for saying this, I'm a step closer to fixing the problem now!

5:21-5:55 OH SHIT
I found another thing we have in  common!!
This is *exactly* me.
My friend Roxy (who is an absolutely lovely person), has expressed her frustration with this bad habit of mine many, many times. She always says-"*You're too selfless*." And it's 100% true! I'm not just saying that to tickle my ego. I am perfectly aware that I am way, way, WAY too selfless to the point where I hide my negative feelings daily and also won't be truthful even when I feel terribly ill. All because I don't want to ruin the people who matters to me's days with my problems, which I KNOW is such a stupid philosophy but I just won't. give it. up!
I'm too afraid of change to properly address and fix this problem, so I just keep on pretending like I don't. And it gives me such a sick feeling of satisfaction when I hide all that shit from people, because I tell myself "It's okay, you're making them happier this way". I just don't know how to stop myself, and now I've realized I *also* do this because I need them to be okay for me to be okay. The only difference between me and you, dodie, is that I'm still stuck in the whirlpool of trauma, so I'm *still* never really okay.
Thank you so much for saying this, I'm a step closer to fixing the problem now!

Oh and just to add-yes, this does make us selfish. But that's okay! Because all humans are selfish, and <b>helping other humans constantly</b> is not the worst way to do it. As long as you're always consciously trying to fix the problem, it's fine to be like this.

Oh and just to add-yes, this does make us selfish. But that's okay! Because all humans are selfish, and *helping other humans constantly* is not the worst way to do it. As long as you're always consciously trying to fix the problem, it's fine to be like this.


honestly i dont believe Dodie did anything wrong, but her actions in response to peoples reactions just prove how much of a good egg she is 10/10


Dodie, you and I are the same Myers-Briggs type. ENFP-T. And I also hate being messy, but I physically cannot-not-be-messy.


Being so self-aware can drive you nuts and you miss the point in simply living. Live in the now and stop worrying about everything. We live a privileged existence to be able to even waste time taking personality tests.


once again, dodie being bullied into not being allowed to express herself on a platform that's for THAT exactly. doesn't mean it's fact, doesn't mean it means that forever, thoughts are ever changing as are people. people are so quick to judge when they all do the same things as well. YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE EVERYBODY AND THAT'S OKAY! I feel like with as supportive as your fans say they are, making you feel like you've done something wrong, when you've just expressed an opinion and one that you yourself didn't even favor, it just makes you feel a certain way, is emotional abuse.

i personally didn't have any problem with the video, but i do see where others were coming from and i don't think it was said because they want her to be "perfect". i think they were just trying to remind her that she should be careful with what she says as it is a responsibility that comes with having such a large audience - i agree that she deserves to express what she wants to, but it could have been said a little more delicately. there were some people who could've phrased their concern more nicely, but i don't think it was to the point of "emotional abuse". regardless, though i didn't expect her to re-edit the video i think it's commendable that she took the criticism in stride and actually took action.

I don't think anyone bullied her into editing her video. Targetting a child, or using a child as an example of your envy and dislike, is not appropriate, especially on platforms such as this with a big audience like Dodie's. Also, put yourself in the child's shoes, how would you feel?

No one is pick or choosing traits. I think everyone agrees that Dodie's honesty and truth to herself is one of the reasons why people love her, and has nothing to do with the above. And I agree you don't have to like everybody, and that is okay. But the above overstepped the line on a public platform, and Dodie recognised this. She understood her mistake, changed it, and now lets move on :)

it also means you don't have to agree with everything dodie says people, we are all different and unique and have our own thoughts and opinions, stop faulting for someone for not being your fantasy image of perfection. We love dodie because she is so honestly her, you can't pick and choose traits. let her live her truth and work through her stuff. you have enough of your own stuff to work on folks.


I saw the original post and feel very similarly about lots of actors/celebrities. I understood what you were trying to convey and I am so sorry it was taken out of context and used to hurt that person, everybody who knows you (even just online) knows that you were not saying things maliciously, its just part of how brains (especially ones that have poor mental health - speaking from experience) are.


IM STILL WATCHING IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂


i’m a type 4 too and everything you said hit HOME GIRL


Wtf? She literally trashed MBB and then everyone was like “hey that’s wrong? She’s just a kid and just because you wanted to be her when you were that age doesn’t make her an attention seeker.” So she knew she was getting hate and took it down, then made sure to take out the actors name. After the whole mental illness over sharing thing I was already iffy about Dodie but now I’m done with her


It's totally okay Dodie! What you said wasn't even BAD, people just MADE IT bad. It's not your fault, at all!


i'm an ENFP as well! i'm also the same being messy. it's odd because i'm neat with schoolwork and my life in general, but my room is absolutely disgusting. oopsie


I love you sooo much but I can’t help to point out I saw a Jacksfilms video and I started screaming YESS


The way I broke my phone-in-bed habit was really simple! I started a rule where, if my phone is on, it isn't allowed in the bedroom. This leads to me standing on the landing watching YouTube videos there instead, but still, I can't stand there watching <b>all night</b> like I occasionally did lying in bed... The only thing you will need to make this work is a separate alarm clock instead of using your phone. I have one I bought from an airport when I was seven and is still going strong! (I also like that it can only go off once so I can't get trapped in the psychology of the snooze button.)

The way I broke my phone-in-bed habit was really simple! I started a rule where, if my phone is on, it isn't allowed in the bedroom. This leads to me standing on the landing watching YouTube videos there instead, but still, I can't stand there watching *all night* like I occasionally did lying in bed... The only thing you will need to make this work is a separate alarm clock instead of using your phone. I have one I bought from an airport when I was seven and is still going strong! (I also like that it can only go off once so I can't get trapped in the psychology of the snooze button.)


I doubt you will even see this, but you are honestly just beautiful. Not just your looks ( however you are super cute) Everything about you just makes to me want to give you a hug.


I love seeing you grow! You are beautiful!


I’m a 2! I’m the helper that needs to be needed. It’s so true. I’m not happy unless I’m helping other people to be happy.


Is it wrong that I squealed a bit when Dodie got a text from Thomas at like 3 pm (British time) so probably like 2/3 am for him?<br>Friend goals

Is it wrong that I squealed a bit when Dodie got a text from Thomas at like 3 pm (British time) so probably like 2/3 am for him?
Friend goals


“but yeah creative blocks are the absolute best lol”

             ~Thomas Sanders


Everyone makes mistakes and you have handled this one well.  (If you really want to call it a mistake. Mistake seems like such a harsh word to me, idk. a "slip up" seems like a better word to use.)  Calmly addressing that you've done something that you probably shouldn't have, and fixing it.
I LOVE YOU DODIE. You make me smile, calm me down, and have helped me grow as a person SO. MUCH. THANK YOU.

*Everyone makes mistakes and you have handled this one well.*  (If you really want to call it a mistake. Mistake seems like such a harsh word to me, idk. a "slip up" seems like a better word to use.)  *Calmly addressing that you've done something that you probably shouldn't have, and fixing it.*
*I LOVE YOU DODIE. You make me smile, calm me down, and have helped me grow as a person SO. MUCH. THANK YOU.*


I watched the original video and I totally knew what you meant. Nothing malicious. No big deal.


its totally fine dodie ily i hope to see u with a vid real soon!!


Again, I still relate to all of these...


I never related to someone's words as much as I do right now!!!


I’ve never heard anyone so similar to me in my life this is scary lol


Where are your glasses from, dodie? They are so lovely!


It's an interesting point you made at the end - essentially you're asking is there such thing as Altruism


I'm a 4 too 🙃 Envy is our deadly sin so that makes perfect sense


So interesting. I'm the same with the enneagram - number 4- and my myers Briggs is the same except I'm an introvert - INFP


Dodie I’d like to see you direct a documentary.


sameeee tho, i just realized that the reason i have so much trouble because i think that everyone around me is dependent on me to fix them or help them all the time and that’s the main source of my anxiety


You know what that was difficult thing to hold your hands and say you were wrong & go bk re-edit it. We love not because you are perfect but because you aren’t, you are human, relatable and honest. (Not to forget extremely talented) props to you. You learn every single day I’m 34 and when I was 24 I thought I knew everything there Is to know in the world but how wrong was I ?  Now I’m 34 I’m still learning and growing. We love you, if not more now ❤


so i was watching your video and my brother (age 4) comes up and says you, dodie, are beautiful and asked me if you are a princess and i said yes. just thought you would love to know


Girl don't worry about it the internet is where you express your self you can say what you want💛💛


I'm a DIY musician.  I sleep on floors doing what you do for little to no money.  I was super offended when you said on twitter that your tour bus felt like a coffin.  I showed you a picture of our frosty minivan with a broken window, where I slept for many nights.  I'm sorry.  I saw a lot of myself in this video.  I'm very sorry.


if you play any dodie video at 0.75 it sounds like she's sleepy and its so nice to listen to tho


There’s this app I love called freedom where social media at a certain time (it’s definitely helped me get my sleep schedule together)


the P in Myers-Briggs typology isn't necessarily being sporadic versus organized. my dad is an entp and he cant stand having the house in a mess. another good friend is an esfp and she also prefers things to be tidy. the P really just means that your perceiving function (either S or N) is turned to the outside world. so, with you being an enfp, it just means that you turn your intuition to the outside world. it is a stereotype that Ps tend to be more spontaneous and absent minded, but its just stereotype.


We all make mistakes dodie, but the fact that you admitted and cleared things up is very inspiring by you, and it’s wAY BETTER than many others would’ve. You’re incredible, and an amazing person. So please remember that mistakes don’t define you. They make you stronger and smarter in the long end!


I experience the same thing with some young celebs. I don't hate the people but it's more the way they live and stuff. I know there's no reason for you to believe me but I'm actually a nice decent human being. Long story short. THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL


Dodie are you going to tour through America anytime soon? Because I would love to see you


don’t worry, everyone makes mistakes and i’m sure those who ‘witch-hunted’ said actor literally have nothing better to do with their life than attack people whenever is suitable for them. honestly, hating on an actor is bad enough as it is, let alone one who is as young as she is.


This is still the best video I've ever seen from you mis Dorothy Miranda Clark


how can you call m an attention seeker though? she is a kind soul who worked hard to get where she is, and you should respect her because she did nothing wrong. (this is NOT hate to dodie, i love dodie, and she did the right thing by editing it)


I didn't say anything on the last video but I'm kind of glad you edited and re-uploaded. I only say this because I know that the actress watches a lot of YouTube and I had a strange feeling she watches yours and I think it would've been unfortunate for someone her age to come across a comment like that if she were to say admire you or your channel. The comment wasnt necessarily bad because you put it into perspective but just young girls typically don't care about the perspective I would say and if they hear something negative about themselves that's all they Will probably take away. Anyways I got your whole point so it didn't bother me but I am also glad that you Edited and re-uploaded


I know that this video is 2 years old but I'm so keen because my birthday is in two weeks and im getting dodies book and the Human vinyl. and im honestly so damn excited because dodie.


Oh my god we’re so alike. I’m a 4 too and I related to everything you said wow


I'm a 6.  This basically means that i'm very loyal to people but every one of my problems is deeply rooted in you guessed it.... anxiety! (anxiety about everything but a lot of it is thinking that you friends don't truly like you yikesss) The first time i took the test i was shocked at how  real it was. I find that it's generally pretty accurate but there are usually a few things that don't match up. For example sixes aren't creative but i am pretty creative and I loooove art. The enneagram is super informative but there's always little things that don't match up.


i cant describe how much I related to everything you said in this video omaigad


It's ok dodie, it was only to prove a point! No one is overly hurt by it and we all still love you!


Hey, nobody's perfect. If you ever want to cheer up when you're feeling down just remember those simple words 'nobody's perfect' (maybe listen to hannah montana's song nobody's perfect and get a chuckle out of it). Plus you still are a super amazing beautiful human being just like every single one of you reading this!😊


A puzzle piece of who Dodie is, is a young woman who touches thousands of people a day with her loving glow. and a person who's hurt makes them smart and strong.


I’m a type four and I’m always struggling. It’s like I don’t know me and I’m changing all the time in my taste. But I love the creative side of it. Every type has it’s pros and cons i guess


Let's relate over flaws, people. I have a need to feel needed (enneagram type 2) and it has made me manipulate people into showing affection. I often hate saying hi to people and not hearing a hi back. I overthink it and wonder if they don't care about me. However, I control this flaw and I am okay with it being a part of me. I am a much better person than I was when I was 14. I hope everyone has been evolving into better humans, lately.


I know what you mean about the bit you re edited- I’m kinda high key jealous of a young artist in the musical fandoms to the point where I despised them and started to despise the musicals she made fan art of, but then I realised they hadn’t done anything wrong! I was just jealous that this kid a few years younger than me was making art a thousand times better than mine and was getting thousands more notes on her work than I was


I know this is weird but Dodie's voice is mesmerizing. who else thinks she should release an audio book or something.


Regarding the Myers Briggs, I actually have a similar type to you - INFP, introverted instead of extroverted is the only difference! I love the Myers Briggs though and I just want to defend it a little bit. The P is about  being sporadic instead of organised, but it's not about what you strive towards, it's about your natural state. The Myers Briggs tells you less about what you value (like the Enneagram does) and more about what you revert to. I have huge difficulty with being a P because it makes my life super stressful, and obviously I'd prefer to be a J if I could, decisive, organised, doesn't procrastinate as much, but my brain is so far down the P end that it is a huge struggle for me to access those J traits. Everything on the Myers Briggs is a scale, and everyone sits somewhere on that scale, and at the end of the day the healthiest place to be is in the middle. Eg if you're super extroverted, you won't be comfortable alone, if you're super introverted you won't be comfortable around other people, if you make your way to the middle, you can be comfortable in any situation. The other letters all describe different traits but the same principle applies - everyone sits somewhere on the scale and the closer you are to the middle, the healthier you'll be. So the Myers Briggs tells you which way you should be trying to go on the scale. A common misunderstanding is that the Myers Briggs is discrete and just boxes you in to one personality type but it's actually a lot about sliding scales and growth etc. I find it really really helpful in self-growth and self-development, much more helpful than I ever actually found the Enneagram! I found the Enneagram was much more boxy because you get one number, one wing, and that's just what you are. Idk, this is ridiculously long now but don't write off the Myers Briggs, it's actually super cool and helpful and interesting!


No reason to feel ashamed nor embarrassed. You continuously make the sacrifice of unveiling your own flaws to show that no human is perfect. Never have your intentions been to hurt anyone, but when you accidentally did, you did everything in your power to make up for it. You're good. You can have a cup of tea now.


But Dodie, MBTI is about the cognitive functions, not the separate letters. You may very well be an ENFJ (like Elton John), since the function are: Extraverted Feeling (hello!), Introverted Intuition, Extraverted Sensing and Introverted Thinking. You can be messy and still an ENFJ.


I  FEEL SO UNDERSTOOD.  LITERALLY. I love you .


Hello! (Just an advice) Don't judge and critisice yourself while doing, thinking nor feeling. You might think that that is what makes you who you are, but when you do, think and feel, you live. And in those actions, thoughts and feelings is where your essence is hidden. Try to let your essence be, because,that essence is you. Please, just don't critisice and question that much yourself, and let that to the world, because, in that way, you'll start protecting yourself from others, and consecuently, you'll be living. I am not pretending to tell you how to live, it is just an advice given by a healthy empathy. I've been where you are for years too. Muy best wishes to you ♥. Excuse my english, I am from Spain.


we get what you mean dodie <3 everyone has hot flashes and doesnt think before they do


I'm an INTP according to that test and yes, I'm condemned to live in hell.


The editing on 3:49 for the VO was nice. I keep forgetting you DON'T need glasses unlike my astigmatic, near sightedness. I saw the first version before you took it down. The jealousy trait (?) makes a little more visual sense and I'm smart enough that it was an example. Perception is the crux, so I get why you took it down. You like talking about enneagrams a lot lately. Hope ya put something out you like about it soonish.


ive never actually been jealous of someone idk why ive never felt that emotion


"So I try and be the most me that I can be, but who is that?"<br>I know you said this in a jokey tone but honestly fucking same

"So I try and be the most me that I can be, but who is that?"
I know you said this in a jokey tone but honestly fucking same


I'm literally watching this at 3am so I get the staying up late thing.


A confession from me I’m quite vain, I see people around me and they’re so pretty and beautiful and talented. I know I shouldn’t concentrate on things like that and I’m currently working on myself to better myself so I won’t concentrate on things like that but I just feel ugly then when I think jealous thoughts I feel uglier. Recently to help I think of things I like about people I see, like their hair or their fashion and I spend a little time thinking about things I like about my hair or my fashion. And I have set up a schedule to help me feel more complete everyday so I can move on.


i did think it was a bit out of character for you to share a negative view like that in such a permanent form that may not represent your feelings down the line. glad you changed it


I’m a 4 too! And the way you described it S A M E


I can relate to that point of being jealous of people and hating them. Usually I start hating people because they have something I lack, and then I'm like Hold Up, that person has done nothing wrong. It's just that I want what they have, whether it's material, or something within their personality, or even their way of thinking, I find myself lacking and therefore pin my hate on them.


(on that last bit about needing everyone you love to be happy in order for you to be happy) I think it's a selfless action with selfish intentions... is how I'd describe it atleast lol


You're.. so.. huuuuu-uuuman.<br>And it's wonderful 'cause we all are. I love being humans together :)

You're.. so.. huuuuu-uuuman.
And it's wonderful 'cause we all are. I love being humans together :)


I’ve missed you darling, glad you’re back!


dodie, what microphone are you using? sound is neat x


You should do an ASMR video where you read a little bit of you're book as a sneak peek.


i dont think it was a mistake u are allowed to not like someone for no reason and i actually agree im so jealous of her confidence at such a young age that i convinced myself she is over confident and bratty, even though she is just who i wish i was


Mistakes are meant to be made because it shows you're trying :) it's g dodie


That's also me. It really is hard to think more about yourself than about people you care about.


The Jealousy and Attention parts are something I can relate too... as I comment again xD


Your human and your gonna make mistakes, sadly since your a YouTuber everyone will see those mistakes, but I think she’s a beautiful out spoken person and that makes you so great to watch. I don’t think it’s a big deal to be jealous of someone, it’s a human trait. I know dodie wasn’t trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. The video is called confessions for a reason and people are too hard on her for a little mistake


you don't have to be perfect. You don't have to like everyone. And nobody can say that's wrong because opinions have two sides and both are valid. I love you.


its okay dodie. although using the actor as an example was a little rude, i can see why you said it. everyone makes mistakes!


Ironically I feel the same about you a lot of the time dodie. But I don’t dislike you. I love your content and your music and I support you every way I can but I can’t help but be jealous because we are about the same age doing similar things (although I recently privated all of my videos to appear more professional for future employers) and it just makes me sad that I can’t have your life.


I’m learning recently that I am not the only human on this earth. Sounds obvious I know, but I forget that everyone else on this planet has thoughts, worries, guilty consciences etc, and I believe that I’m beneath everyone whenever I have those horrible thoughts and I always feel behind and weaker. It’s helping me to stop being jealous of other people or take what they say too much to heart because I remember that people are human and have their own little universes that need tending to. It makes life feel a little more insignificant. It’s nicer.


I just took the MBTI test in school today and I got ENFP. Weird because I had never heard of it before


I COMPLETELY RELATE TO ALL OF THIS VIDEO (aside from how pretty dodie is ahh)


oh man your rant about wondering if you're selfish is exactly what I was worrying about, including with my therapist, like two weeks ago and STILL.


hey i kinda said this before but i'll kinda say it again bc it makes me very annoyed that you actually think u did and said something wrong. ok. you have the total right to dislike someone, and it doesn't matter (iT DOESN'T MATTER) if you don't know them! also: it doesn't matter why, it doesn't matter if it's immature unlinking(?), or if it's just anything that doesn't seem racionable. ofc you're human and you can make mistakes but saying what you think is not a mistake, and felling what u feel is not a mistake. pls pls pls think about that, ok? u can't control how people are gonna react to what u do and ofc when you're in the internet you have to be very careful with what u say, i agree, but you should understand that what is inside you isn't wrong just cause someone sees it that way. love you, bubble. stay safe xo

She did though, but that's completely okay because she realised, addressed it on twitter and such, then fixed the video. You're completely allowed your own opinion, but whether or not, and how, you share it changes when you're an adult and the person in question is a child.
Imagine how Dodie would feel if an adult who's a complete stranger said something similar about Hedy, which then encouraged other adults to say similar, or more negative, things. That is exactly what happened in the comments of the original video.
If Dodie decided that her actions weren't at all questionable and that everyone who was worried about what she did were completely wrong and didn't reflect on it or anything, then that would be a bad thing and affect her character. Every single human does wrong things and makes mistakes, including Dodie, but the point is that she rectified and grew from it.

I hope that makes a bit of sense :) xx


absolutely relate with the jealousy thing :(


this is so weird every single confession you made is exactly what i have, i am unfortunately an extremely jealous and envious of others. i try not to be but it’s just so agggghhhhh


wait wait wait.

but my favorite singers are dodie and grace 😍

AHHH

Lily Yazdi is grace who she was talking about


i prefer Meyers Briggs over the enneagram for some reason. my type INFP seems to fit perfectly, but none of the enneagram results seem accurate.


I wouldn't buy any youtubers books, just yours I think it'd be more pure and interesting than others.


I think if you're original instinct is to make people happy (even if it is to make you happy too) you can be described as selfless. If you become happy when others are happy, that in no way makes you selfish. Making sure their well being is okay and that they're happy so that you can be happy is not in any way selfish.


omg dodie i am an ENFP too as well as a 4 on the ennegram and i would love to chat with u about why i am like this lol


We all make mistakes, and at least you acknowledge your mistakes and learn from them.


I want to read your book so, so much, so much it hurts to think about because some of it’s inappropriate for someone my age (I’m just a kid lol) but I want to read it SOOOO MUCHHHHH


I would totally love it if someone could upload english sublittles thank you <3


DODIEEEE has anyone requested you to cover Cecily Smith by Will Connolly? Well, I mean, people have, in large numbers, in YouTube comments. But has anyone actually come to you in YOUR channel's comments and asked you? This is me asking if you'd go give it a listen if you haven't 😙


dodie should try doing a video where for a few days, she tries to be healthy in that she sleeps on time & eats rlly well & practices self care mentally and physically, and she can see how much better she feels! (im saying this bc of the point she raised regarding her unhealthy sleeping habits)


Quick lil note on mbti stuff; the P doesn't simply mean messy, essentially it means having an "organised mind" so you can have outwards freedom aka messiness, while people with a J usually keep tidy surroundings so the can have inwards freedom. Because *the more you know*. Cheers!


If anyone knows where dodie got her glasses from in this video please let me know ♥♥♥♥


sweetie you did nothing wrong i feel the exact same way


I feel bad you were kind of forced to remove that part. People who commented who were bothered by it are likely guilty of the same kind of jealousy, and as a result of that jealousy, anger. And that jealousy and anger is okay, we're all human. But they took that out on you because they were fans of -actor-.

Nonetheless, I like the idea of going back and looking at what you said, like you did at several points in this. I remember Evan doing a very similar thing. It's good to look back on what we say. It shows us to think about what we say :)


HELLO! Does anyone know where dodie edits her videos??? I am obsessed with her editing!!<br>Tyy💕💕

HELLO! Does anyone know where dodie edits her videos??? I am obsessed with her editing!!
Tyy💕💕


i honestly don't think dodie made a mistake. i know what she said in the last video and the response she got. i think dodie should have been commemorated for being honest because she chooses to be real with us, and honestly, i bet some people feel the same way she does about the person she called grating. just because she has fame doesn't mean that she doesn't have feelings of jealousy. she felt a way, acknowledged her feelings and told everyone that she is trying to rid of it and fix her problem with jealousy.


I love how you reuploaded this, a lot of fans got the wrong idea about you and her.


THIS VIDEO WAS SO EYE OPENING. YOUR BOILED DOWN SENTENCE AH. I just realized so much.


This is for the people who are debating whether or not to buy the book:
(Here's my trying to re-say what I said yesterday because I want people to see it)
I pre-ordered it and the closer I came to the release date, the more exciting I got. When it finally came in the mail, I read half of it in one evening (so my mum kept saying that I should buy more books, so we'd have more calm evenings ;)). I finished it three (?) days ago and I've been trying to wrap my head around what it made me feel ever since.
And I guess it means hope for me. I don't think I've ever related to a book more, and of course I didn't relate to everything, but it made me feel less alone. My bad brain has the awful habit of luring me into the sense that nothing will ever be okay again, even though my rational brain (if that makes sense), knows that's total horseshit.
So I know (for sure, in fact) that I'll pick up this book again when the world starts feeling like that. Because the things that dodie said reminded me (and my bad brain) that even when things seem horrible and the world too big for my heart and my chest is crushing me, things are never truly lost. I'll feel okay again.
So do with my opinion what I want, but I think the book is truly inspiring, hopeful and beautiful (also beautiful to look at, I cannot stop flipping through it, it's so PRETTY). So thank you for writing it dodie!


To say who it is would be dumb but I want to say when I watched the first video I did go in a hole of just looking at pictures of them since they are so WONDERFULLY beautiful and long story short they're my wallpaper now. Just because they're pretty. Next will be you, Dodie.


I love you and your book.....both are beautiful...I missed you


The P vs J on Myers Briggs has a lot more to do with planning things versus being more spontaneous
I'm about as messy as you but I PLAN EVERYTHING and I'm a J
Organized I guess has a little bit to do with it but its usualling about planning or spontaneous I'm pretty sure


I'm a 9 on the eneagram! took a class on it! it's so interesting


Confession: I’m so jealous of Billie Eillish. Not only is she younger than me but is where I want to be with my own music career. She is has a beautiful voice and has great lyrics and it makes me not like her just cuz of my own jealousy. But I still love her music and stuff, it just makes me sad that I can’t be where she is. The first song I herd by her I think she was 14 when she made it and when I was 14 I was just doing covers. I wish I could write like her more than all and I just understand what you mean dodie. I saw the video before it was re-uploaded and I won’t say who you were talking about for your own privacy, but I do feel like you re-uploading the video just gives what the haters want, like your feeding into it I guess. I just feel like you should always be unapologetically you. I am a big fan of you were talking about, but when I watched the video I totally understand where you’re coming from. I feel like if people didn’t understand what you were trying to say then that’s their fault not yours, because I think you explained it in the best way. But that’s just my thoughts.


Hey dodie i wrote a massive fucking comment on the original that i cannot be bothered to write again but we are all mistake making humans and nobody is perfect not even someone as amazing as yourself! Love you lots and hope you are doing okay xx


Dodie, that's a total misinterpretation of p vs j in mbti? Like, just, I have a j in my mbti type, I'm an intj. I also have a messy room and am totally okay with it! When talking about judging vs perceiving, it much more depends on how systematic you are. You may like organization, but not like a strict life schedule for everything and anything. Being a perceiver is much more about being a go with the flow type of person. Like. Perceivers are known to like more variation in their life, and don't like to have to strictly do *one thing*. Whereas judgers like to plan ahead, and have a very steady idea of what to do in what they do. It's like... the difference between people who plan vacations by the hour, and those who go somewhere, have a general idea of what they want to do, but really just look around and see what's cool!


If you want to stop being on your phone before you sleep for so long then maybe you could try putting your phone on charge that way you can't take it anywhere but charge it on the other side of the room or out of reach from where you usually spend so long on your phone. Maybe that makes sense, maybe it doesn't but yeah just leave it far away from you. I spent a couple years doing that which meant lots more sleep and good sleep. Hopefully it helps 💛✨💛


1:19 you got a message from the sweetest bean you can find. :'D


I also have the not being a happy being !messy person and craving the tidy life but I still know I am messy naturally and sporadicnin thought- its not a bad thing, just not what I desire,however noone said i couldn't change it. So I do try changing it. Funny, I understand the attention thing too. This video is hella interesting x


holy shit this was <b>unbelievably</b> relatable

holy shit this was *unbelievably* relatable


YOU KNOW SLEEPING AT LAAT?!?!?! Ahhh I love them


ABANDONED ACCOUNT WILL NOT RESPOND TO COMMENTS


Oh my, I heard so much of myself in here. So. You aren't alone.


I'm a super messy person who wants to pretend to be a neat-freak lol. x_x BUT I've found a solution that works for me! :D I set a timer for 20 minutes every day and go clean something until the timer goes off. It's "only" 20 minutes (an amount of time that's easy to spend every day), and I can get a lot done when it's the only thing to focus on. After a week, my apartment started to look super clean, and I start spending the 20 minutes organizing drawers and stuff instead of putting things away. It works great for me, and maybe it'll work for you! ^_^

As for the enneagram test, my results had multiple equivalent numbers when I took it. I have no idea what that means. Hopefully it doesn't mean I have a shape-shifter personality or something.T_T


Really.. it’s scary how similar we are. I still can’t believe it


If we're all selfish, that's OK. We just set things up so that it's in people's self-interest to be selfless :)


i got a 10.4 for both 2 and 9 on the enneagram and a 9.4 for 4 which makes sense bc i relate a lot to what you said about the 4 but i wouldn't relate to all of the 4. also i'm an infp! so we're similar in those ways but different bc ur an enfp (if you don't feel like that's exactly what you are you could take the test again (which is what my best friend made me do because he didn't feel like i was an infp and i should be an enfp but i still got infp)) and a 4 and like,,, a different person lmao.


Dodie is such a good human. Didn’t see anything wrong with the original video because I got the point but I did feel bad about all the negative comments.

If you ever read this (and this is to all mistake making humans that feel bad): it’s okay. Maybe you did a bad, maybe you didn’t but all in all you’re trying to be your best honest self and that’s pretty great. You are good. I hope you can recover from the anger thrown at you.

On a cheerful note I just saw my cat stand on a box to look at himself in a mirror. Not relevant just very distracting.
Anyway I hope all is humans stick together and try to practice love and acceptance etc. Good vibes blah blah


Don't censor yourself, your just telling the truth about how you feel.


It's okay we make mistakes and things don't always sound the way you want.


I don't see anything wrong with the original version. You made it completely clear that you don't have anything against her, but that you were just experiencing something that we all do. It was bold to mention her by name, but not wrong. Don't let the more sensitive viewers make you feel guilty about it.<br>However, I admire your bravery in directly addressing the issue and making a formal, public apology.

I don't see anything wrong with the original version. You made it completely clear that you don't have anything against her, but that you were just experiencing something that we all do. It was bold to mention her by name, but not wrong. Don't let the more sensitive viewers make you feel guilty about it.
However, I admire your bravery in directly addressing the issue and making a formal, public apology.


Lmao, ENFJ I let my room go to shit and just sit on my bed like, "Yeah it's a mess but I don't care" until my mom makes me clean it. My parents say I'm a 2 on the thing but I've never checked it out.


I think it's somewhat ironic that this video that mentions having a phone addiction probably gets a lot of views from other addicts (like me) ! Interesting.


With staying up on your phone there are loads of apps which can help stop that, I’m not sure about the names but I’m pretty sure there’s an app which is intended for helping people spend less time on their phone and it basically locks your phone for you for a specific time you ask it to. So you could say you want it to lock between 12-1 and then maybe you’d start going to bed earlier? Idk if this was any help or not, sorry I don’t know the name of it 😂xx


I'm a 2 and a 7 on the chart, actually. I want my wishes to be granted (7) and someone to need and love me. (2)


I felt the way you did about <b>actor</b> about Heddy (she's good at art, can sing, has a youtube channel and has a lovely sister) and i felt SO bad because she seemed so nice and i disliked her for no reason other than that im jealous. Thank you for letting me know im not alone?

I felt the way you did about *actor* about Heddy (she's good at art, can sing, has a youtube channel and has a lovely sister) and i felt SO bad because she seemed so nice and i disliked her for no reason other than that im jealous. Thank you for letting me know im not alone?


you should do a cover for call it what you want :) ( Ts)


I don’t normally get very jealous, but when it comes to people being hella talented and especially when people my age are huge on YouTube I feel kind of inadequate or sometimes it feels unfair. This leads to me having a slight resentment or like just ever present jealousy. Sometimes this is able to manifest itself as inspiration but that it not usually the case.


Dodie I am an INFP and a type 4 too let's be friends!!!


Where did you get your glasses? I love them 😊 and you ❤


some people white out their mistakes, but its always still there. Other people, like dodie, bravely pull out the giant mistake eraser and scream "FUCK!"


It's OK to do that it's what makes us human and although I didn't agree with what u said I still love u the same xx


I always had the same problems as you do now, I have found the cause and therefore some solutions. I’d love to help you but rather not out in the open in the comments. So i’ll e-mail it if you want. Let me know then i’ll drop my e-mailadress.


i really hope people aren’t giving you a bunch of shit for this. people make easy mistakes and that’s all you’ve done. you maturely appreciated the opinions of others and attacked the situation appropriately


ngl I didn't pay much mind  your original video because my head wasn't in the right place when I watched it and I've completely forgotten what happened to make you re-edit and I was utterly confused when reading the comments but that's just who I am nowadays, I forget things. to be perfectly honest though you're the loveliest person I think I've ever had the pleasure of watching on YouTube so I don't think any passing comment you make about anything that I can't remember for the life of me will change that


Please do another ASMR video, i need to sleep


I read the book and omg. Just. Oh. My. GOD


I didn't think you needed to cut out the original part. I understand why you did, but I feel like it makes you human. Everyone feels like that and it's taboo to talk about because it'd destructive but it's true we all do it. I liked that part of the video because I do that and I've never really heard someone say it out loud and it was almost relieving to hear you say "I don't like this person for no other reason besides that I'm jealous."  because i feel that a lot too.


When phoebe tried to find a selfless act on Friends... that's what I thought about when watching this. Lol


I wonder if Dodie realizes that how she feels about people is how younger people like me (I'm 13) feel about her... she can spill her thoughts and not sound so mumble jumble as I do.  She GETS EVERYTHING AS IF SHE CAN EMPATHIZE THE INFINITE IN THE FINITE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU WATCH HER OR READ STUFF LIKE HER INSTAGRAM CAPTIONS. Oh god Dodie you are a double edge sword as in you can kill all of your viewers pain just for a few moments even but you keep stabbing yourself. SO THANK YOU.  SO SO SO MUCH FOR KEEP UPLOADING AND HELPING. I promise you-you are selfless in the most selfish way and I am so thankful. ~Wagiha


You dig enneagrams but not MBTI?  Sounds like you've found great explanations of enneagrams, but not Myers Briggs - studying shadow theory makes the entire difference in understanding the full spectrum of each type.


I don’t feel you are meant to like everyone. I think you should give someone a chance and try to like them but if you don’t like them, you don’t. When it comes to your issue about not liking the actor mentioned, I think your explanation is fine. This is coming from someone who thinks the actor is really cool, she’s going to be very successful and I find her charismatic personality contagious. You don’t need my validation but I think you worded how you felt about said actor in the unedited version well you weren’t flat out like she’s terrible I hate her, you explained why you might find her a bit grating. Anyway thanks for making videos!


i love this video because i have the same confessions except that im a 3 wing 4 on the enneagram


i think its very normal for human being to be jealous of other beings - its what improves us most of the time and it shows that we admire other people other than ourselves!!


I took the test and I'm type 4 and it describes me down to a T 😂


Don't worry, it's okay tho. Yo, I really want a sad version of would you be so kind, I wish you do a video doing that, that's all, love ya


Dodie you couldn't have handled this better than you did!! Everyone makes mistakes, the difference is the people who don't give a shit and don't even say they're sorry and the people who actually try to fix their mishap. I'm so proud of you for dealing with it and in such a short notice! Keep shining and enjoying music, love💛


I struggle with this, I always have since I was younger. I have never felt pretty. So, when I was younger, I'd be shopping in Claire's and I'd see a girl who I would think is prettier than me and I would continue to walk past them and sway my hips until they looked at me and then I would feel better. It's sad I know. I still get jealous, I love to be a nice person but my jealousy can bring out a side of me that I hate. For example, Wiishu (Septic's GF (it pains me to say he's her BF) she has everything and I wish she knew that. She gets to be with him and I always wonder why her out of all the girls in the world that are worthy, why just pick her?


who else watched the first one and is now watching the re-edited one?😂


i know you may not read this but i just wanted to offer some advice (not that you need it) on the phone habit thing. i have the same problem - if my phone is near my bed when i try to sleep, i’ll be on it until the small hours. so what i’ve done is first set an alarm on my phone at whatever time i want to not be on my phone (for me it’s like 10;30) and then i take my phone and put it on charge in the kitchen (just away form my bed), then i go and get ready for bed and do all that stuff and go straight to my bedroom and try and read. i also find reading before bed makes my sleep so so much better than when i’ve been on my phone before bed. don’t get be wrong tho - this isn’t perfect, but i find it helps me so maybe it could help you - it’s just a little way of (hopefully) takin your mind off your phone before bed meaning you’re not on it. again, you probably have already tried something like this but i just thought (maybe) it could help .. :)


Oh god that last one just got way too real O_O


I don't think you're selfish - but you are self absorbed. I'm the same way, although much less so now that I'm nearly 26 than I was a decade ago.


if you act to make other's happy because your happiness derives from theirs, then that could be considered acting with selfish intent. But since their outcome is the same if you wanted to make them happy for their sake, it could be said that nothing is bad about selfishly making others happy. In simpler words, the reason why you act is less important than the value of the consequences from your action.


Mayers-Briggs is pretty mediocre. Try a Big Five personality traits test :)


"And then my therapist was like <b>slow headshake</b> (NOPE)." R E L A T A B L E

"And then my therapist was like *slow headshake* (NOPE)." R E L A T A B L E


still catching up on these vlogs BUT AHH THE ENNEAGRAM


"people misunderstood the message and used it as a forum for opinions" that's deflecting so much. I never saw any comments of people sharing their opinions of her but I saw lots of people calling you out for adding to the problem of people hating on celebs. :/ To blame the re-edit on your fans "misunderstanding" is just rude and blaming your own mistake on them. If you're gonna own up to how embarrassed it made you, don't blame it on your fans. :/


I have the same problem about staying up on my phone and what I do is watch satisfying videos and asmr cooking videos. There is a YouTuber called Peaceful Cuisine and he makes nice asmr cooking videos


Try reading before you sleep ☺ That's what I did to break my habit 💕


Unrelatedly, I really like Sleeping At Last.


I LITERALLY SCREAMED I SAW UR BOOK IN TARGET AND READ IT IN THE SPAN OF AN HOUR


Always force yourself to put things back when you take them out


my confession...  i was in a relationship and due to distance we broke up. afterward i was told i was a horrible person for moving on after a week and that i sucked the life out of her. i had my guesses the whole time. but she always said i was fine, i didnt do anything wrong, that i was perfect... but now its okay for her and her NEW boy friend(of one day after we broke up)  and her cousin to all yell at me?  ...am i a bad person?...


I cannot find your book in any New Zealand stores. It was the one I really wanted, and because I couldn’t find it, I settled with the new John Green book instead. It’s good but I would rather read yours ♥


i don’t think it was a mistake! like it was a real feeling ya know... no one likes everyone and people don’t have to like everyone. you even said she was a good person and you said your reason behind it and that it’s not really her it’s more you!! idk i understand completely why you took it down but ya know maybe one day you’ll be able to share an opinion like that and not get back lash!!


Where have you gone dodie ? Come back to YouTube for us :)))


The only thing I don't like of this video is the tendency to put yourself in categories. It could help to take them as references but they can also be limits if you take them too seriously. Apart from that, I appreciated your honesty.


I have typed out a big comment and deleted it four times now so I am just going to say I love you, your book is great, and welcome back <3


just laughing at the random text from thomas sanders lol i love him


we all make mistakes, it’s okay we’re human.


she didn't made any mistakes , she said what she had to say


WE ALL have a hard time breaking habits Dodie. That doesn't mean they can't be broken. It's just maddeningly hard most of the time.

And looking at your book, the blue post it note... Perhaps based on what you said in this video it should read "Life won't be beautiful all of the time, but stop an appreciate the time that it is and believe it is okay to let yourself enjoy them."  ;)


4:42 she's even holding her phone in this whole video 😂 addiction is right lol


DODIE ON YOUTUBE REWIND, I saw you congrats <3


Shit. Dodie you are NOT perfect no one is you must get this a lot but perfect is a word not something that can happen. I am so so young I have grown my anxiety being a type 6 and I need me to be perfect but I need to learn how to be human. You are strong having derealisation you so strong for sticking in this sick world and staying here.


ENFPs are my favorite thooo haha the world is so much happier with them in it


oh dodie, you didn't have to. also i lov your braid. pls do my hair like that too.


Doubt you’ll see this BUT here’s the thingooo I used to hate Meyer Briggs testing because I felt like I got picked up and put into a box like a little kitten, I felt like the test put me into a position that I wasn’t allowed to be anything more than what the text told me I was which frustrated me and almost infuriated me until I decided to see the test as a very basic outline, it’s not all necessarily true but a lot of it can apply to that type and tends to apply to that type, personally I am an INFP in the Meyer Briggs testing, and in my definition I’m known as the “completely illogical emotional person” which isn’t true at all for me, I’m a powerfully emotional, empathetic and passionate person, but I know when I’m being unreasonable and illogical and I make decisions passed just my feelings which the test told me isn’t the typical attitude of an INFP, so like I said, not everything about it is true, especially if it’s from other people’s mouths who haven’t been thoroughly educated, you SHOULD be able to chose your own path, the Meyer Briggs is just there as an extreme base level of a personality, being messy is just a habit and it doesn’t have to stick around, you have every right to further yourself and be your own individual person outside of what the test tells you, I know I’m doing the same 💝


Dodie, its OK. Your only human. And Dodie. I'm human and guess what....

SAAAAAMMMMMEEEEE


I’m jealous of the stranger things/  it cast. I want to be friends with them but I know they’ll never notice me. It’s weird


Dodieee, I want to buy one of your merchandise shirt (the one with your head on it :) ) but It is sold out, do you know when it's going to be available again?


Something I really hate about myself is that I’m really jealous which is normal but when I’m jealous of someone I pretend that I don’t like them or would never want to be anything like them which is really annoying cuz it’s basically pretending that my personality is superior ugh


Yeah i have a lot of jealousy, which causes anger that can sometimes turn into hate at random innocent people just because im jealous and it makes me so :(((( like i get jealous of physical appearance the most but sometimes it's about popularity, the amount of friends they have, etc. It's honestly really unhealthy and i wish it was a smaller part of me than it is but i hope one day i can just be less jealous and overall less angry


Hey dodie, can u make a video about Alice. I’m curious about how she is and your relationship now. You don’t have to if you don’t want to, but it’s a suggestion :)


Have you ever heard of Alan watts, he was an interesting philosopher who discusses things like people helping others so the would feel less selfish and better about themselves


I totally forgive what you did, because I did not agree with you stating the name at the time. It was a great example of how many of us feel with jealously at times, but it was a bit upsetting that you used her name in a way that could be misconstrued as hate. I really appreciate that you realized the mistake and took to editing the vid. Love you and I love her, so I'm glad this was squared away. 💛


But yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best lol


Tip for your phone addiction: tell yourself it will be there tomorrow. I know that not as easy to do as it sounds, but it's all I have. Those instagram posts will still be there in the morning, but your good night's rest won't. Sleep when you can, when the air is cool, when the world is dark, when the moon glows over your sliver of the world. If that isn't enough, close your phone and try to write stories in your head. Using your brain will make you more tired, then you can (maybe) sleep. Set an alarm on your phone to tell you to get off. I don't know, maybe just plug in your phone at your desk so you can't access it. Social media will always be there. The night won't.


I think you are allowed to not like someone and the explanation  doesn't have to be that there's something wrong with you <b>shrugs</b>

I think you are allowed to not like someone and the explanation  doesn't have to be that there's something wrong with you *shrugs*


I'm also a 4 on the enneagram, but I'm very much the unhealthy version :/


I'm a 9!! Expert at avoiding conflicts lmaoooo


I push away the people I admire because Im jealous of them. If I dont see them, I dont think about them so I dont belittle myself. I have lost a lot of friends because of this and hate myself for it.


Heck dodie either reminds me of my grandmother or my younger self (and im only 14)


I don't know how to feel about the enneagram thing because every time I take a test for it I get a different result


when she says that she's had her heart broken three times does that mean that she has been hurt by 3 people or by 1 person 3 times. sorry i just need this for clarification.


I never thought I was a jealous person until Rachel Zegler got cast in West Side Story and now I feel like a walking blob of green envy and it’s awful :( I’m so proud of herrr but I just... I want it to be me. And I hate that about myself. Just cause she’s got her big break doesn’t mean I can’t have mine. Her being successful doesn’t give me less of a chance of doing well. But she’s getting everything I’ve ever wanted. God I’m such a bitch haha

Hello its a year later and she's been cast in TWO other incredibly huge movies and I'm still jealous as fuck and its a problem lmaoooo


I wish I was relevant enough to upload things like this and actually have people care


you and i are the
exact.
same.
person.
(based on these confessions)


on the last point about if it’s selfishness or selflessness, it could very well be both. there are very few people who are wholeheartedly selfless or selfish.


Yeah, I stopped watching the last video after you mentioned that actor. It bothered me because I thought it was a pretty petty thing for you to do, so I'm glad you've realized it wasn't very nice.


I can relate to you so much! <br>btw do you like pandas 🐼?

I can relate to you so much!
btw do you like pandas 🐼?


I am an INFP - the difference between InFp and enfp isnthat enmfp are supposed to be externally expressive and INFP are internally expressive I find I struggle to complete creative ideas, they stay internal and so I get envious of those with a enfp type personality.


Hey dodie I just wrote a ukulele mash up of 17-ish of your songs took me like 2 hour s I would send you i but I can't sing so yeah xx


Oh My Gosh I'm so sorry you had to repost the video ! You just had an opinion , you didn't even say anything hateful , you just said it to show a flaw in yourself , that really sucks Dodie , sorry


You should try VEDD. Video every day in December.


The exact moment you were on your phone and I saw John Green as you were scrolling... whoa Lordy doodeeee.... I died  there and then. I did not know it was humanly possible to love a stranger this much 🙊👍🏻🎉


okay but did any of y’all catch thomas sending dodie a message in the middle of this video


Wish you will be well soon and i should say us (?maybe) cuz im facing the same situation too


Sleeping At Last has a podcast?!?!?!?! <b>MIND BLOWN</b> 😵😱

Sleeping At Last has a podcast?!?!?!?! *MIND BLOWN* 😵😱


i’m so glad you cut that bit out about *actor A*. this video is so much better for it💛


myers briggs has little to no scientific backing so it's okay!! people are too diverse to be completely encompassed and described by four little letters


I've missed your videos well you have been on tour <3


Aww I watched it yesterday. But imma watch it again


I love you and Sleeping at Last! I'm a 2 on the enneagram


i love ur frames plz send me the link i need new glasses and those r lovely


1:19 I can NOT be the only one that noticed that Thomas Sanders texted her


I'M ALSO AN ENFP I hate being disorganised as well and I get happier when I clean up and organise I have a little bedroom blitz every few months but my natural state I think is being disorganised which is really annoying :/ and I also give a lot of myself to other people because I can't be happy when I'm worried about them but I don't think it's selfish to want everyone to be happy I think that's quite nice :)


dear god please cover people are strange by the doors


I was a but irritated with this but I accept your apology. This edit was put much better.


Just gonna add here the comment I left last time; The last time I took the enneagram test, I got a 6 wing 7! It's been a hot minute so I sould take it again and see if I've changed.

Edit: I'm still a 6! But now a wing 5. Hmmm


dodie, we're both ENFPs and type 4s ~~~~ * high fives *


we all mess up and make mistakes and that's just being human oof


Im an infp, I’m so jealous I wish I was an extravert so much


On the enneagram I think the last time I took it I got a 2 but when I first heard about it and took it (several months ago) I got a 7


i know this has got nothing to do with the video but i would like some advice and i don't know where to ask.. i have been mildly depressed for the last 10 years, nothing major, i function ok, i'm just not happy, nothing excites me, i have low self-esteem etc. 5 months ago i broke up with my bf of 2 years and now i feel a bit worse and i'm not sure if i should go to a psychiatrist or not.. i cry a few times a week, i feel like i have nothing to look forward to, i'm scared of the future and the thought of having to finish school and find a job (i'm 25 and in about 2 years i'll be done with uni), everyday i think about how nice it would be to die. i went to a psychologist and been on antidepressants in the past but it did nothing for me. idk if i should give it another try


I didn't see the original but i get what happened by reading the comments. And I think re editing was the right choice but i still am thankful for the concept you were trying to get across. I am jealous of my best friend because I think her art is better than mine and I'm mostly over it now but there was a time I got aggressive towards her over how well she'd done on a mask we'd made for a language festival presentation.. Thing is, I didn't realize how spiteful I was of her until the rude words came out of my mouth. She's my closest friend and I made her uncomfortable for being talented. I hate this part of me, but I think many people have this. It's ugly but we can't help it. Doesn't mean we shouldn't get over that part of ourselves, or make excuses for those feelings, but it is nice to know that I am not just a spiteful person. I am human.


we still love you <3 i’m glad you took it out though


well you deal with attention pretty well because creating videos and putting them on an entertainment media site is attention craving. putting a video up as if wed care about your faults means you know we will give you attention for it. check out KOI FRESCO and let him guise you to a better life


Concerning personality tests - It just show your tendencies at the present time. Apparently statistics say your personality changes completely over a 10 year period. (can't remember where I heard it, but it sounds legit).

Oh and to break your phone habit (I have done this) When you go to bed, switch your phone off, and store it/put it on charge in another part of your room/house.


I missed you so much 💜💜💜 lysm <br>Btw you look so cute

I missed you so much 💜💜💜 lysm
Btw you look so cute


THIS IS UNRELATED BUT PLEASE COVER ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST


I love you doddle I've missed you so much


Watching again even though I saw it the first time it was uploaded


Did anyone else notice she got a text from Thomas Sanders saying “but yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best lol” poor little son was havin a creativity block :(


Don't worry, we understand that you didn't mean that comment to sound attacking. It just might have sounded that way to *person in question*. It's great that you came out and fixed it.


Ethical egoism is a theory that nobody can do a kind act without and underlying selfish reason.  For instance people giving to charity makes them feel good making the act good but also selfish. Doesn’t make anyone a bad person tho x


Do you talk about your derealisation and depersonalisation in the book?


I charge my phone downstairs and shut my door. I feel like it starts with the habit, as my parents always refuse to let me have mine in my room and I just prefer it that way because I have less anxiety about my friends at night now. I started sending luck to all of my friends at night because I was always kept awake by anxiety about how they were and that since my phone is downstairs I can't help them. And then I started sending them luck, as a way to gently place down my encumberment of responsibility and say, "I cannot control what they do, and it's up to fate now." I used to write, "Good luck and goodnight!", but now I write, "Good luck, goodnight and sleep well! Sending love, luck and happiness to you!" with hearts in their favorite color with mine. Both versions had me sending all of my friends a set of ladybugs and four leaf clovers, each equal to their age, "luck for every year of your life". Some of my friends, including one or two I've lost, have glass ladybugs to have as good luck charms in case I forgot. Really, at first I was superstitious. I thought I <b>had</b> to remember or my friends would be in danger.

I charge my phone downstairs and shut my door. I feel like it starts with the habit, as my parents always refuse to let me have mine in my room and I just prefer it that way because I have less anxiety about my friends at night now. I started sending luck to all of my friends at night because I was always kept awake by anxiety about how they were and that since my phone is downstairs I can't help them. And then I started sending them luck, as a way to gently place down my encumberment of responsibility and say, "I cannot control what they do, and it's up to fate now." I used to write, "Good luck and goodnight!", but now I write, "Good luck, goodnight and sleep well! Sending love, luck and happiness to you!" with hearts in their favorite color with mine. Both versions had me sending all of my friends a set of ladybugs and four leaf clovers, each equal to their age, "luck for every year of your life". Some of my friends, including one or two I've lost, have glass ladybugs to have as good luck charms in case I forgot. Really, at first I was superstitious. I thought I *had* to remember or my friends would be in danger.


Being "sporadic" has nothing to do with wanting to be it or not. You many not want to be it but you clearly are sporadic.  BUT it's something you can work on as you get older.


In general and personally i dont understand the problem with the original video. It seemed very real, and i thought the confession you were making was quite clear. Not really that you disliked that person but you disliked that you irrationally dislike such people. Also even though you want to present as a positive figure for people and although the ideal is to be a better person it doesnt mean you dont have the unpleasant sides that everyone tries to cover up. I got you, theres a v ugly side of me which shows when i envy someone and even when i dont. I just in general dislike people vehemently for no reason  and would never encourage others to do the same and have put it down to me being unpleasant honestly ha. I very <b>very</b> rarely comment on videos but i wanted to voice this opinion.

In general and personally i dont understand the problem with the original video. It seemed very real, and i thought the confession you were making was quite clear. Not really that you disliked that person but you disliked that you irrationally dislike such people. Also even though you want to present as a positive figure for people and although the ideal is to be a better person it doesnt mean you dont have the unpleasant sides that everyone tries to cover up. I got you, theres a v ugly side of me which shows when i envy someone and even when i dont. I just in general dislike people vehemently for no reason  and would never encourage others to do the same and have put it down to me being unpleasant honestly ha. I very *very* rarely comment on videos but i wanted to voice this opinion.


I'm a 4W5! Close to 4, but not quite. <br>We're enneagram sisters.

I'm a 4W5! Close to 4, but not quite.
We're enneagram sisters.


To quote yourself-'i am just a human, a problematic human.'


Everyone writes here how they are proud of Dodie for admitting a mistake. I don't know. No-one is perfect, but what she said was not a thing to post on a yt channel when you are a big youtuber. And it was not an act of courage to remove it. It looks like she simply realized, that people didn't like it and that's basically why she reedited the video. I was watching the first upload and thinking that it's pretty weird to talk about someone who - in your opinion - seeks attention, in the video that is full of self centered stuff. Dodie, it's just a kid. It's normal that you sometimes think mean things about other people, but if you feel bad about this maybe it's better to work on it with your therapist than put in the video. You know you have lots of fans who love everything you say and I'm even surprised there were so many negative comments. I think you didn't expect that. And that is why I am very disappointed. I just thought you had more class.


I said it on yesterday’s video and I’ll say it again puhlease tell me where your glasses are from dodie ive been looking for them for so long and it just a seems like there’s maybe no stores with them in the us????? ahhh


I wanna be the very best, like no one ever was


please cover Jocelyn Flores or oceans by seafret


Can anyone tell me where I can get her glasses? I need themmmmmm


me and dodie are the same personality type I am complete


Is it just me or does Dodie sound like josh from Please Like Me at 5:34 ?


1:19 Thomas Sanders: [...] But yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best for [...]


She protec
She attac
But most importantly

Dodie is bacc


Every time she says uncomfortable, i think of Brian Sella


Of course me and dodie are the same enneagram type


I just did the enneagram test and it said it can't tell whether I'm a 5 or 6 hmm


desperately looking for a bookstore in Hong Kong that sells your book ;-;


Thomas Sanders:
But yeah creative blocks are the best lol 1:19


I'm a type 6 [type 6w5] on the Enneagram Test


I AM A 4 AND YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MESSED UP BRAIN AND THEY CAME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH. IVE BEEN SAYING THAT TO MYSELF FOREVER AND IT FEELS SO WIERD BUT GOOD TO HEAR IT COME OUT OF SOMEONE ELSES MOUTH. PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON IT IT WOULD HELP ME A LOT THANKS LOVE YOU LOADS BYE


Have you been touched by King Midus because your heart is gold. Like damn you are amazing. Even when you feel like you f up your intentions are so pure and sweet and ugh I just love you.


I don't think it was a mistake, you didn't hate the girl you were just jealous and it's your opinion, no one can change that or say it's wrong, maybe people just felt annoyed because <b>they</b> like her xx

I don't think it was a mistake, you didn't hate the girl you were just jealous and it's your opinion, no one can change that or say it's wrong, maybe people just felt annoyed because *they* like her xx


holy shit i'm an enfp too oh my goodness


can you make an ennagram video? i wanna know more about it! :)


Just because you want to be organized doesn’t mean you are


I didn't get around to watching the original. And it worked out. Huh.


I am half and half a 4 and a 6 on the Enneagram test.. hmm


i’m a number 1 and i literally just last week met chris huertz at an enneagram thing and he came to my house !!


fuck I’ve never related to anything this much in my life


I'm jealous of Kiernan Shipka and Elle Fanning... basically any actress my age 😢😭 obviously I like them but I can't help feeling jealous


What are your Meyers Briggs letters and your Enneagram number?<br>I am INFJ and a 2

What are your Meyers Briggs letters and your Enneagram number?
I am INFJ and a 2


hello dodie youtube comment section. this has been suggested a lot, and I hate to do this but I have to contribute to everyone saying this because i really want it: i would really like dodie to collab with dan and phil. phil could tell dodie her future, dodie could do dans makeup or vice versa.


i!!!!!!!!!!! missed!!!! you!!!!!!!!!! so much omg u killed me im ded


I watched the original video this morning lol


I’m a 2 on the enneagram  scale with a strong 4 wing


IL PLAY TO CLEAN YOUR ROOM (hear me out) FOR YOU CUZ OMG YOU HAVE THE CUTEST AND MOST WONDERFUL ROOM AND ALSO ID GET TO MEET YOU. Also I love organizing rooms cuz it’s fun.


Dodie, I really appreciate the videos where you share your flaws and thoughts. It's really lovely that you are able to do that, and it makes me and a lot of other people feel a lot less alone. Thanks dodie ❤


It's insane how much you victimize yourself


Dodie :)those stockings are so sexy like where did you get them?


DODIE IM ALSO A 4 AND I KNEW YOU WERE A 4 AND I GOT SO EXCITED WHEN YOU SAID THAT DODIE CAN WE PLEASE BE FRIENDS


WHERE DO YOU GET YOUR CLOTHES MY CLOSET NEEDS HELLLPPPPP


Honestly I don’t feel jealousy towards >actor’s name<, just like extreme sadness?? Like I’ll never have this and I hate myself?? Lol classic me, using everything to make myself sadder.


not about the video, but can you please sell your merch, the things you post a lot about on snapchat, at you online shop (?)? I live in norway so can't buy it here... :( <3


you are how you wanna be you control your life be yourself     #a viewer a ocean away from you ~2017


Doesn't matter if you dont wanna be a messy person if your messy your messy!!!


Dang u too.. i didnt know someone could break ur heart more then once till it happen. Oh well, i dont feel hurt about it anymore:)


dodie hello i understand you and i love you and i hear you


Russell Brand's new book "Recovery" is good for breaking habits/addictions.


Ahh! I don't remember what I commented last time. all I know is it was something about being a person who (whom?) never has a clean room and never goes to sleep on time. I hate it but I don't do enough to stop it. I currently have stuff stroud about my floor, and a desk that is so messy I can't find a book that I set on it this morning. Also it is currently 2:30 (am) and I am so tired but I stay up... I have no clue why, but here I am. Ugggh what.a.mess


okay for real tho i have such a jealousy problem too


Someone help me with this prob I have :<br>I genuinely cannot with my ‘ best friend ‘ she makes me feel like shit on a daily basis and when I ask her to stop doing something she just keeps doing it. I told her the other day when she was constantly doing something annoying, I know you’re just doing this to piss me off and she replied “ i dont care THAT much about you “ i was having a tough day and she started annoying me as per usual so i cracked it and started crying and she later on told me she thought I was just “ playing the victim “ she makes me hurt so bad

Someone help me with this prob I have :
I genuinely cannot with my ‘ best friend ‘ she makes me feel like shit on a daily basis and when I ask her to stop doing something she just keeps doing it. I told her the other day when she was constantly doing something annoying, I know you’re just doing this to piss me off and she replied “ i dont care THAT much about you “ i was having a tough day and she started annoying me as per usual so i cracked it and started crying and she later on told me she thought I was just “ playing the victim “ she makes me hurt so bad


I don't understand. You're allowed to dislike someone or just not want to be around them. It's called preferences, and everyone has them about EVERYTHING, including people....


I am really sorry, if that comment I posted about her was part of that "forum" as you called it. That wasn´t my intention at all, it was supposed to be an objetive opinion. I feel really bad now.