it's okay! don't worry we all forgive you everyone makes mistakes 💛


and this is another reason why i love you, dodie!
i personally didn't see anything wrong with yesterday's vid, because of how well you phrased it.
but you saw what you did wrong, how it was - and potentially could be - affecting people and recognised your mistake, took it down but didn't erase it completely, didn't pretend it didn't happen, and you actually apologised so genuinely. you dealt with the situation in such a mature and honest way and recognised that you're human and you make mistakes.
you inspire me so much dodie. i'm so proud of you and proud to call myself a fan. thank you. 💛

I LVOE DODIE SHES SUCH A GOOD PERSON. AGH. I didn't see anything wrong with yesterday's video either, however, i can see how it could have been taken the wrong way. But Dodie DID HANDLE THE SITUATION WELL AND IM PROUD


a teacher once told me it wasn’t our first thought about a person that defines us, it’s how we react to that thought. i think your reaction tells you’re actually a kind person ♥


If I'm being honest I'm jealous of dodie. She is everything that I want. I want to look like her, sing like her, write music like her and be open with who you are.


I love this video, as I love ALL of dodie's videos.
It's just always so wonderfully refreshing to have a YouTuber or artist or celebrity being totally open and honest about their feelings and struggles, even when it's hard and terrifying to do so. I can't even begin to tell you how helpful these videos are for people like me (and I'm sure many, many others) who suffer from depression or depersonalization, to see someone stand up for mental health.
It reminds me that I'm not alone.
And while I'm sure she'll never see this comment, I am eternally grateful and send all the love in the world to dodie for her bravery, positivity, and love that she puts out into the world on a daily basis.
The world is a better place because you are in it, Love.

I love this video, as I love ALL of dodie's videos.
It's just always so wonderfully refreshing to have a YouTuber or artist or celebrity being totally open and honest about their feelings and struggles, even when it's hard and terrifying to do so. I can't even begin to tell you how helpful these videos are for people like me (and I'm sure many, many others) who suffer from depression or depersonalization, to see someone stand up for mental health.
*It reminds me that I'm not alone.*
And while I'm sure she'll never see this comment, I am eternally grateful and send all the love in the world to dodie for her bravery, positivity, and love that she puts out into the world on a daily basis.
*The world is a better place because you are in it, Love.*


In just gonna flat out say it, I'm jealous of Grace Vanderwaal. She has an amazing voice, she writes amazing songs, she can get up on stages and sing and dance and not be ashamed, she is not afraid to express herself. I can write ok songs, I have a horrible singing voice, I hate being on stages and don't plan on ever singing or doing music on stage, I'm self conscious and dont really express myself as much as I would like to (out of fear of judgement) I love her music but sometimes when I hear it I just turn into a pit of rage and jealousy and its not ok

I now live on motivation from these amazing people, because I know in my heart if I really want to pursue music...one day I can do great things :) (so cheesy I know lol)

Hopey Copey, I used to also be EXTREMELY jealous of her until one day I realised...I am the same age as her...I can sing, I play ukulele and piano. If grace vanderwaaal did it at such a young age I can do it as well. It's such a cliche phrase but when you really believe you can and you have that model, that is one of the most powerful sources of motivation. Grace and dodie have helped me find that motivation and you should try and find that too!

SAME my favorite 2 humans are grace and dodie

Tbh you shouldn't be, people like grace tend to be an overnight success and don't really last, if you work towards your dreams and get there without going on a (from personal experience, absolutely awful and exploitative) pseudo-reality show, you WILL be happier. Tbh, I don't believe in talent, I think if you are passionate enough about it that's it, you have talent and you are talented. If you are genuinely passionate about your music you will feel more confident on stage and you WILL be happier, even if you won't be a manufactured child star. Besides, I'm sure being a child star isn't even that fun, let's face it, Grace isn't taken seriously in the industry, she's being cut slack for being young, being called a legend for every mediocre song she puts out being told every day about who she will become instead of who she is right now. Do you really want that kind of inauthenticity?

exactly exactly exactly, i always feel so bad about it! because she genuinely has talent and makes good music so why do i feel the urge to dislike her?

Piggy Hopes me me me me me me me Me me me me me me

Piggy Hopes me too, I’m auditioning for americas got talent and I’m terrified everyone is going to compare me to her, but that’s the thing. I don’t want to be her I want to be me, even if I’m never going to be as good as her

Just incase anyone was wondering, this isn't Piggy Hopes comment, it's what Dodie edited out of the video

i am jealous of anyone who is good at anything

SAME. I'm 10 years older than Grace and yet she's pretty much the reason I picked up a ukulele! I've been writing music since I was even younger than she was, always dreamed of being a musician, and she's already got the career of a lifetime that I'll probably never have a fraction of. She deserves all the recognition in the world tho! She's a super talented kid with songwriting skills beyond her years and a killer singing voice, but I totally feel you. I'm always gonna be jealous of her, but not from a hateful place necessarily...We just gotta learn how to take that jealousy and turn it into inspiration to better ourselves as people and as musicians. :)

Thank you everyone for all the nice positive comments :) they truly made me smile.

haha me too! thats why i didn't want to know more of  her music, but today i did and thats the life she has and its ok, i don't want to change mine i know if something is for me it would happen and if a feel jealous i have to use that energy (sometimes is more powerful the anger ) and use it to improve and do things!

Piggy Hopes <br>me too :( along with other successful people at my age

Piggy Hopes
me too :( along with other successful people at my age

Katrina Ngo <br>was dodie talking about mbb?

Katrina Ngo
was dodie talking about mbb?

moon yeah, I feel like trash for saying this but I don’t like her voice and her songs are too repetitive. Probably just jealous I guess.

cece x cecily herondale in the infernal devices, she's an amazing character who shares your cool name

It's okay I'm jealous of cupcakke, it's normal to be jealous of amazing people

Okay, but everyone starts somewhere. Everyone has insecurities and not very good at what they're doing at the start. But you grow and learn. You can be just like Grace if you work hard and follow your dream. I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings, just wanted to give advice<br>I struggle with this too. I am very jealous of people who made it, even though I love them. Makes me feel bad about not being able to do what they do. But I try to use it as an inspiration and make things

Okay, but everyone starts somewhere. Everyone has insecurities and not very good at what they're doing at the start. But you grow and learn. You can be just like Grace if you work hard and follow your dream. I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings, just wanted to give advice
I struggle with this too. I am very jealous of people who made it, even though I love them. Makes me feel bad about not being able to do what they do. But I try to use it as an inspiration and make things

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I'm actually a very big fan of Grace, but I can understand the sort of jealousy that you and a lot of other people can develop.. I mean, she's much younger than me, and looking at her makes me feel that I've lost so much potential in my own life. I used to have the same issue with Jackie Evancho, who was also an America's Got Talent contestant (and won) when I was the same age as her (10 years old). I absolutely hated her, but my parents adored her. Seeing her onscreen made me feel empty and stupid and untalented... and I guess that's jealousy. Jealousy makes you feel like you're not enough, or that you're not as special/talented as the other person. But please don't let that get in the way of you pursuing your own hopes and dreams. If you like Grace, but you're also jealous of her, focus on liking her and using her as a source of inspiration rather than comparison. Same with Dodie or MBB. And I know how difficult it is to realign your thoughts just like that... but it's better than festering your envy so much to a point that it prevents you from accepting life as it is and achieving your own goals.

Piggy Hopes first of all can you be my internet best friend cause you just said what I’m always thinking into words. My dream is to write these perfect songs and get on stage and sing and be in a band. But hen there’s fear and anxiety and negative thinking. I love grace but sometimes I do things like copying little things of her or dodie or whoever I’m obsessed with and think “maybe if I change my self completely, then maybe my dream will come true.” that’s completely wrong but my point is we all do this and get jealous of celebs and it normal because we’re only human. :)

can i just say i'm so happy this conversation is happening, most of us experience this kind of jealousy to some extent and dodie talking about it (even if the original was deleted) really seems to have helped a lot of people who feel guilty and alone with these thoughts

Piggy Hopes  I really love her , but sometimes I feel jealous of her cuz we are the same age and I can't stop thinking that I could be doing this too

Also I just want it say I'm not specifically jealous of Grace but it does certainly hurt that someone younger than me has accomplished so much more than I have and has so much more talent

I always thought I was alone in this. When she comes on my personal radio, I have to change it or if there are people I have to distract myself or I start to cry.

I'm a tad bit jealous of Dodie, but I also like love her

It's the same with me when I look at musicians like Charlie puth,Justin Bieber and Shawn mendes when they were my age

Actually same and I thought I was the only one. I used to be such a huge fan and supporter of her, but over time I became so jealous that she was the same age as me and living out all my dreams

Omg same. I love her but like I wish I could be her lol

I've been having the same thing with her. I think she's amazing and I love her music but I"m the same age and write good songs and have a good singing voice so I feel like if I ever pursued music it would seem like I was copying her. I just feel jealous of all that she has because I can do the same thing if you know what I mean.

Cecily why are yOU literally ME HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE ARE CALLED CECILY


A few thoughts I had while watching this:

The test is made to tell you who you *are*, not who you want to be. Those are two different things. You not liking certain aspects of yourself has nothing to do with the test. (There are many issues with the test, but that's beside the point.)

Secondly, you can't be a kind, caring person and not care. It's a sad fact. If you care a lot about people and causes, you're gonna struggle with some feelings that don't feel good sometimes. The people that truly don't care are psychopaths, sociopaths and, to a some extent, narcissists, and no one wants to be them!

Also, you may want to check out a book called Running On Empty and see if it helps you with the "other people's needs vs my own" issue. It may not have anything to do with what you're going through, but in the off-chance that it helps, I'm recommending it.

Thanks for the podcast rec! Going to check it out later. Keep being your wonderful, flawed, human self :).


Please create a video about  "Enneagram " types! 😊

The 16 personalities test is also similar, but goes into your...personality. It talks about careers and relationships and how to feel more accomplished in your life based on your individuality. (It's free if that sells it to you)

Andrea Hernandez  also you can read the descriptions for all the types in enneagraminstitute.com and see which once you can relate to the most. I find it more useful than a test, I don't think tests are too reliable.

I'm a type 4 !!! Where's the 4 squad at?

Nuki Howelter omg nuki can't wait till you reach 1 mil on simstagram

Y’all need to do the Big Five personality traits

How can I figure out which is my enneagram type?


dodie is still one of the unproblematic youtubers that i know.

Rozannuuu same. Just looking at her Instagram with all of the thoughtful things she says you can tell she's such a genuinely good person.


I have a lot of respect for you for admitting you worded something wrong and actively chose to rectify your mistake. Not many people would do that. <3

Exactly! I definitely think her re-editing the video was a good idea. Although I now understand what she was trying to say in the original it just seemed as though she was just specifically jealous of (actor's name inserted) because of their life being 'perfect' (nobody's life is 'perfect' though). I'm glad Dodie is good at learning from mistakes and opening up more!


i’m just gonna pretend nothing happened and comment the same thing i did last time:

Dodie vs Meyers Briggs 2017

ohh my god i read that as miss briggs at first glance you know the teacher from icarly ohh lord

jamin daniell honwstly, it probably has something to do with her whole "need for a unique identity" thing. It actually almost makes sense in a way?

Melanie Anne Ahern dncnxnvjf i feel like all enneagram fours have a vendetta against meyers briggs

Okay but like. Her description of that part of mbti is so inaccurate it hurts.

Aaaaand I'm just gonna throw in a ditto. Summary of previous comment; MBTI =bad (bad validity, bad science, bad repeatability and bad reliability). Try Hoganx.io or any other well validated, peer reviewed psychometric. 🖒

Hi I promise this isn't meant to be creepy but holy crap you're adorable.

Fuzzy X when you Google Meyers Briggs it comes up with personality test?????????

captainKaP it's like a test that indicates which one of their 16 personality types are you

captainKaP Myers - Briggs Type Indicator  (mbti)

I also still need a diss track for this. ;D

Melanie Anne Ahern saw you comment this yesterday and idk it's made me laugh a lot


I understand why you re-edited it.
Though, when I heard your confession I resonated with majorly.
I never knew how to explain it, but WOW! YOU PUT MY FEELINGS INTO WORDS!
I’m sorry that people didn’t understand the message/hear it the way you intended.
But it’s alright, you did the right thing by taking the video down, explaining, and re editing.
Thank you dodie.


i knew you’d come out with an apology and that’s really admirable that you can recognize your mistakes :,) i truly believe you’re a good role model


I watched the first upload a couple of days ago and I saw what you originally said, and I'm so glad you edited it. I couldn't imagine being <b>actor you mentioned</b> and stumbling across this video talking bad about me to a large audience and not knowing anything about me. And how much it would have hurt if they perhaps even knew who you were and idolised you. Thank you for changing this dodie :)

I watched the first upload a couple of days ago and I saw what you originally said, and I'm so glad you edited it. I couldn't imagine being *actor you mentioned* and stumbling across this video talking bad about me to a large audience and not knowing anything about me. And how much it would have hurt if they perhaps even knew who you were and idolised you. Thank you for changing this dodie :)

Mariana Rocha she re edited it because she didn’t want it being mentioned. Everybody makes mistakes✨


to be transparent (for better or worse lmao) i can get jealous of youtubers (like you, dodie!! hello!!) especially the v creative ones! people who seem to be normal (a person like you or me, just with a camera in a flat) but who are also endlessly talented! singing, writing songs, acting, writing books, directing films, AH. bc many youtubers i watch are my age, i feel v related to the work they put out, but i feel v inadequate in comparison!! a confession!!

If you want to be more jealous, watch kickthepj


Doddie, you should definitely have a podcast!!! Your voice is so beautiful and you have so much insight that so many connect with.


Thank you Dodie, I really appreciate this, it’s good to recognize and learn from mistakes, I can tell you didn’t mean to point the conversation in the direction of that person. Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone learns from them ❤


This made me feel very very proud, thanks for re-uploading Dodie <3


dodie,

not to question the decision that you made, but i don’t think there was anything wrong with what you said in your original video. i notice this happens often that you say or write something and it gets questioned and you defend yourself or correct yourself to fix it and that’s FINE and you SHOULD take criticism but also remember that not all criticism is valid. just because a lot of people say something doesn’t mean it’s true (after all, a lot of people voted for trump and we know all about
him). so when you’re getting criticized for something, feel free to stick to your guns. don’t be afraid to lose support, because maybe those people were never your true supporters in the first place.

peace ✌🏾


Dodie, I’m so proud of you for doing this. Love you💛💛💛


I just love how happy dodie is at the end of the video when she talks about her book, it just makes me soooo happy


When I went through similar emotional/relational learning recently, my psychologist put me onto Brené Brown's writing. (I found her audiobook recording of The Power of Vulnerability really practically helpful!)<br>Brené excellently articulates that empathy, or connection with others, without us practicing healthy emotional boundaries, is submission. The kind of submission that is spoken about in Attachment Theory, where, as a tactic to create connection/attachment one will sacrifice their boundaries or give more than is healthy/comfortable in order to maintain connection. It's been the most rewarding journey learning how to sit in empathy with others, whilst maintaining a good sense of myself - learning how to mutually exchange happiness and support, instead of feeling as though you live in emotional deficit where you're always giving and not knowing how to receive. You're amazing <3

When I went through similar emotional/relational learning recently, my psychologist put me onto Brené Brown's writing. (I found her audiobook recording of The Power of Vulnerability really practically helpful!)
Brené excellently articulates that empathy, or connection with others, without us practicing healthy emotional boundaries, is submission. The kind of submission that is spoken about in Attachment Theory, where, as a tactic to create connection/attachment one will sacrifice their boundaries or give more than is healthy/comfortable in order to maintain connection. It's been the most rewarding journey learning how to sit in empathy with others, whilst maintaining a good sense of myself - learning how to mutually exchange happiness and support, instead of feeling as though you live in emotional deficit where you're always giving and not knowing how to receive. You're amazing <3


Ive always known that the thought that comes first is what youre conditioned to think, the thought after is what you truly feel, ily dodie ❤


I love your book dodie. I have read it like 3 times. It really helps me with my own insecurities to see other people going through similar experiences. Thank you Dodie


We forgive you, Dodie. It's so amazing and courageous for you to own up for your mistakes. Forever an amazing human ,you are!!


I've missed the videos but reading your book has given such insight into the person you are and it's amazing, I'm so proud of you for making such awesome stuff! ❤❤❤


You are such an amazing role model! I will forever look up to you <3


I'm proud of you dodie, I love you so much and you're so inspiring. You're honest and kind, and human. You're beautiful and I'm sure the person would understand.


I love you and your honesty always, dodie. It feels like I have a friend who gets what I'm going through.


this is one of my favorite vlogs that you've ever posted! so honest, so real. love it


I just got the package containing your book and I can't wait to read it! Also, I'm very proud of you for correcting your mistakes! Don't beat yourself up for it dodes;)


Being a jealous person is so hard. You want to be happy for people’s success but still feel so anxious about not doing enough and then in turn the toxicity of yearning for what they have just takes over you.


Thank you so much for this video. It means a lot to see someone else explain and confess  the same things I feel shameful about.💛


Im so proud of you. I didnt watch the first video but Im proud you saw that your words, even if you dont mean it, can be interpreted in so many different ways and sometimes its best to just dont say it, and if you did - apologize. You are an amazing human being, keep doing you, Dodie :)


I always love personality tests and took the enneagram test as soon as I watched this video. I discovered I'm a type 6 and found the description to be shockingly accurate and also really interesting. Thanks so much for sharing Dodie I love your videos and can't wait for more!!


I'm a 9 with heavy 2 and medium 5. Very interesting assessment, thank you so much for sharing it!


it takes guts to admit mistakes, well done you brave woman. all the love, you're a massive inspiration to me :)


I always find myself feeling better after watching your videos. It's  very brave of you to share these thoughts, moments, and truths with us 😊  thank you!


i finished your book today, it’s so amazing it was awesome to see like-you. i feel like you let us as an audience into your life a lot and just thank you de being strong when some of us couldn’t. also thanks for letting me into your brian for the time it took me to read your book which was about 2 hours because i wouldn’t put it down.


Just got your book on Amazon! Can’t wait to read it ☺💖


I just got your book a few days ago and I absolutely LOVE it!


I think it’s amazing to take an overwhelming response she faced yesterday and actually edit the video that she had made rawly.

being a doddler for a while, yesterday had been one of those rare occasions where I didn’t see love everywhere but rather, such differing opinions and I didn’t know what to feel but I see there was no point in being confused.

thanks for always being yourself Dodie. making mistakes in front of us and for listening to the audience, and picking yourself up quite wonderfully like this.


So lovely to see dodie back with a classic video, interesting topic, and great little editing ideas! Welcome back!


I love you so much and I can't wait to read your book! I'm so proud of you!


It's so amazing how lovely Dodie and her whole fan base are, like you people are seriously awesome and supportive and kind and it makes me so happy!! Keep being fantastic <3


I can relate so much... your book was in my mailbox this afternoon and I can’t wait to read it! Lysm <3


Dodie, I read your book and I absolutely loved it! I think I already said that before somewhere but it's really worth saying again. A lot of my friends who are writers always come out of their work and say that they could have done better, it was rushed or they were in a rut and it wasn't as good as they'd planned. Personally, I always love their stories regardless of what detriments they name. Anyways, you were quick to say that you loved your writing and your book, that you worked hard on it and truly and shamelessly approved of the final product. I had to smile at that because you have every right and reason to be proud; your book had a lot of you as a person in it and I found it fascinating to read. Thanks for being the type of person who is quick to love and admire what you've strived for; that says a lot about your character, I think, and only the very bravest and best of people tend to stand up for what they love.


I'm so happy this whole thing happened. We all learned a lil bit from it and Dodie's fixed what happened. I also think it's lovely how her fans respectfully told her their thoughts on the situation without saying anything hateful. I'm very happy with all this.


Im glad you edited this, i definitely wasnt too worked up about the original but this is much better explained and nice to hear. Its also really nice that you recognised a mistake and dealt with it so maturely. Thats a good influence to leave i think <3


I will (very cringely) confess that I’ve felt the same way towards dodie before. For many reasons I won’t list here, I missed out on parts of my childhood and was “delayed” (I feel personally) in life, and didn’t start my YouTube journey until this year at age 24, although I’ve been making videos for like 12 years lol<br>But anyways, all this to say that I understand how it feels to have your younger self craving that dream she so desperately desired and that longing to have your talents recognized. Thanks for admitting your faults and encouraging us, indefinitely dodie 🆒

I will (very cringely) confess that I’ve felt the same way towards dodie before. For many reasons I won’t list here, I missed out on parts of my childhood and was “delayed” (I feel personally) in life, and didn’t start my YouTube journey until this year at age 24, although I’ve been making videos for like 12 years lol
But anyways, all this to say that I understand how it feels to have your younger self craving that dream she so desperately desired and that longing to have your talents recognized. Thanks for admitting your faults and encouraging us, indefinitely dodie 🆒


Thank you for being so considerate and awesome Dodie!


I've already cried twice while reading your book and I just love you so much.


I’m proud of you for owning up to it dodie <3


You've been missed! Love the pan of thoughts and the notes on the wall!


Dodie, I love and support you no matter what you are going through! I love you so so much!


You truly are one of the most genuine people on YouTube - I always leave your channel feeling like i've just had a great chat with a friend! Thank you for always being so honest xox


I'm so impressed and blessed by your maturity to go back and fix something you did wrong. I felt kind of uncomfortable with the thing you said yesterday, but I didn't want to say anything (partly because I feel similarities and feel guilty about feeling that way.) So thank you for being humble and changing things around a bit. I think you speaking about your jealousy is really important and admirable ❤


Thank you for the edit, I found this handling by you to be very appropriate and respectful. I have to admit that I related to your point (actually, I feel that way kind of about you sometimes because you're a year younger than me and doing things I wish I was doing haha) but I can totally see how people could have taken in that information and processed it in a negative way so I think you've done the right thing here. Thank you for owning up to your mistakes and adjusting your content and actions accordingly, so few creators on this site make that effort so it means a lot to me as an audience member. Much love and respect to you, Dodie. You are the goodest egg <3


Oh. My. God. I literally couldn't relate more to everything you said. I felt like crying because these are all the thoughts I ponder on each day. Thinking and thinking, trying to make some kind if sense to it. I love organizing things when I'm in the right mood, but I'm bad at maintaining it. I love having a purpose and I get really wrecked when I feel like I don't. Thank you so, so much for making this video dodie. It made me feel better knowing that I'm not the only one thinking too mug and all that, stuff I try to ignore. 💛


I love your speaking voice. Something about it makes me want to write poetry every time I hear it.


It's okay Dodie, we all make mistakes and we love you anyway ❤❤❤


Honestly it’s super cool that you’re able to acknowledge mistakes so publicly, accept responsibility without excuse, and learn from it. It’s a quality not a lot of people have, so good for you for being courageous. We love our flawed human dodie ❤

Hailey2709 Dodie actually wrote a transcript in the description box of the part  that she edited out. Basically she just got a little too specific about someone she’s jealous of in a way that might be hurtful.

I'm really confused and I kind of want to know like, what happened but I also don't want to be extremely rude, so if you think that it would be rude to repeat her mistake please don't answer, but if you don't could someone please explain the mistake? :/

I think in this case tho she definitely made a mistake :) and did the right thing after! As you said, we love our flawed human dodie x


it's very strong of you to re-edit and publish the video again, i'm proud of you dodie!


SLEEPING AT LAST SLEEPING AT LAST SLEEPING AT LAST AHHHHHHHH I LOVE RYAN YOU AND HIM ARE LITERALLY THE ONLY ARTISTS I LISTEN TO YOU AND YOU BOTH LIKE EACH OTHER AHHHHH

also i’m an ENFJ and enneagram 1!! :)) I LOVE YOU TWO 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛


Love you Dodie I’m going to get your book for Christmas!!More Videos please!!❤💗❤


I am type 5. Your book means the world to me, I cannot ever Thank You enough. Love Always ♥ Tauney


i was literally looking for this vid to watch (hadn't watched it yesterday) but I'm really glad you openly acknowledge the times you mess up and apologise!

more people should take a leaf out of your book 🌿


I love you Dodie you're such an inspiration.


2:20 this was actually great editing dodie

i definitely meant 2:30 but i wrote the same comment on the previous video so i must not have checked it properly when i commented it here whoops

ya know the bit where you give yourself flowers lol

doddlevloggle it's the part where there's 2 of you I think

wait what i didn't even cut there i am confused


I think both of these videos were lovely and it’s so important for some people to talk about their confessions 💛


Thank you Dodie , for always being the realist youtube that i have ever known. As i was watching this video, i don't know why, but all of a sudden, my eyes felt wet and i think its because everything that you have said, in this video, is actually true for me and i felt as if your sentence at 5:21 really hit me the most and now i finally understand why I'm always, deep down, unhappy. I also too miss watching your videos and for everyone who's reading this comment, thanks for taking your time to read and i hope you have a nice day :)


We all make mistakes Dodie! It's fine and we love you!


I love this video because I relate so much and it's been a reality check for me that I'm not weird I'm just a flawed human like everyone else. thank you so much for making the content you do because I would be lost sometimes and a lot more self hating haha x


Dodie you absolute babe i'm so proud of you for doing this and for explaining it all so well rather than pretending it didn't happen.  You did the right thing love you x


Anyone who's reading this, you must know you're are awsome , beautiful and a good human being . I am going through a really hard time right now and I hope someone else gets to be happy . Dear Dodie , you'll never<br> know how much your book helped me , I respect you soo much . Love to anyone reading this .💜💙💚💛❤

Anyone who's reading this, you must know you're are awsome , beautiful and a good human being . I am going through a really hard time right now and I hope someone else gets to be happy . Dear Dodie , you'll never
 know how much your book helped me , I respect you soo much . Love to anyone reading this .💜💙💚💛❤

I love Alpacas and memes and Harry Potter


Dear dodie, I got your book in the mail today and I love it! Your songs and writing are almost as beautiful as you. You are truly my idol, and I just wanted you to know how much you inspire me and make me happy. Luv you, natalie


You're such a lovely and beautiful being<br>Keep being you, I've seen you grow over the years and blossom into the amazing human your are now, may your journey be one of finding joy and self content :)

You're such a lovely and beautiful being
Keep being you, I've seen you grow over the years and blossom into the amazing human your are now, may your journey be one of finding joy and self content :)


The fact that Dodie took her time to re-edit this video bc it could've hurt someone shows just how much love she has in her heart for us and just in general❤


I so so so admire your ability to admit when you're wrong and properly fix a situation around it as one of my massive flaws is that I can never admit that I'm wrong aha


nah, im skinny and i hate it, you can see all my bones and it looks awful. like actually horrifying

When I'm not looking at skinny people, it's easy for me to be fine with how I am, like okay yes some people are a bit chubbier and that's totally fine and beautiful

And then I see a petite lil person with their tiny waist and delicate limbs and suddenly I just crave to be like that


You make my life feel okay , Dodie Clark . 💛💛💛


Doddie is the person I watch after I’ve taken a fresh shower. This makes me feel so sleepy and clean for some reason lol


Love u Dodie. You are amazing and need to know that. You won a lot of thinkgs in your life because of your music, your talent and your way to be. Just don't let yourself down


You spoke your mind and as an artist you are given your freedom of speech. I watched the original, understood the point you wanted to put across and respected it. Don't feel embarrassed for your opinions... Ly 💛

i won’t say who it is but it’s a young teen actress who is in an extremely popular show.

she’s not embarrassed for her opinions she’s embarrassed for how she expressed it

I feel you lol I was scrolling though down the comments hoping to find her.

mari peralta same! Just wondering because I get the same thing... where I'll really dislike someone famous just because they're too much like I want to be. I think it's more common than dodie realises.

i'm really curious to know too! i know that it doesn't matter but i was watching the old video and then it cut off since she deleted it. i don't wanna know cause i want to go hate on the actress, i'm just genuinely curious. and i know that dodie didn't say it with bad intentions and she even said that she doesn't want to see comment with people saying "oh i hate that actress too".

I don't mean to be <b>that</b> person, but who was the actress?

I don't mean to be *that* person, but who was the actress?

Joëlle Weetjewel I can definitely see that too. I'd be upset too if I was an actress in that situation. I also love that Dodie retracted the video. However, my original comment was just to reassure Dodie that every opinion is allowed, especially with the audience that she has. Dodie said this, audience agrees can be a dangerous mix but i think we still have to realise that Dodie is a human like the rest of us and she is allowed to have a one-person opinion which I think a lot of people missed. I totally understand your comment though! I myself don't want to be a part of a negative vibe. Positive vibes only whoop whoop. Thanks for replying! ^_^

I didn't think her comment was mean-spirited either, but you know, imagine you were that actress and a big singer-songwriter said in a video that she finds you a bit grating and that you seem like someone who wants attention (just highlighting the most negative things she said, I know she said some positive things about her as well) and then you see people in the comments also talking about why they dislike you. I'd personally feel a bit hurt to see strangers and a widely respected content-creator pointing out my flaws. And I respect Dodie very much for not wanting to be a part of that negativity.

I agree, but she probably just didn't want anyone to think she hated that person. I did understand that it was just an example though, I still feel like she made it fairly obvious, especially when she spoke about how she didn't want any "Oh, I hate that person too" comments. She should keep it this way if she feels like this is better.


Thank you for re-uploading! This took a lot of guts, we're all humans plodding along, being humans. Things happen, well done for holding your hands up :)


You're honestly my favourite youtuber. You're the biggest role model in my life and I love you so much. I'm finally buying your book soon and i'm soooooo very excited :)


This is such a good video. Thank you for thinking critically about your impact on the world! Also being an ENFP doesn't mean you have to be messy/disorganized! My favorite nutshell for the difference between a P and a J is that J's organize their external world so they have freedom in their internal world, while P's organize their internal world so they have freedom in their external world.


You made a mistake, learned, forgave, and let it go. I'm proud of you. No one is perfect, and that's okay. <3 Love you, dodie, and thank you for showing people that it's okay to make mistakes as long as you learn from it.


We’ve missed you, everyone makes mistakes ❤


Love the transparency 👏👏 and a great representation of how self reflection can be a great thing 👍


Ahhhh I love your glasses!! Also, I've been watching you for some time now. You are a gem, keep shining. <3


I bought your book and I'm so excited to read it!!


you should totally make a video called “obsessions” and one called “life lessons” in this similar style!!! Also I’m so, so happy that you realized and admitted your mistake and genuinely apologized and actually DID something to fix it!! You are such a great role model and I adore your vulnerability. 💗


Dodie your videos make me want to scream because you say everything that I feel and need to hear too! ~~~ thank you (I am also saving up for your book, love you for being brave enough to bear your heart on your sleeve with us xo)


I love you so much Dodie!! You're so witty and self aware <b>keep being you're magical, beautiful creative self 💛💛💛!!</b>

I love you so much Dodie!! You're so witty and self aware *keep being you're magical, beautiful creative self 💛💛💛!!*


I love you dodie, I can relate to you so much ❤


This is random but would you like to do another favourites video? They're really interesting and inspiring


OMG thank you for telling me about the enneagram, it was fun to do and quite eye opening, finding out about the negative sides of 9s hit pretty close to home but it also really gives me hope that I could become a "healthy nine".


I love secrets for the mad and it's nice to know that someone as beautiful and inspirational as dodie has flaws and features like us all💖💛


I love that everytime Dodie realizes she made a mistake she is so quick to apologize and fix it. It shows that she's imperfect and human but that she's a good enough person to realize that.


I’m going to say the same thing I commented before I’ve read your book and it is amazing thank you for making me feel like I’m not alone, I love it and I love you


you've inspired me dodie to change how i am to be a better person for myself.
i spent late last night (ironic ik) writing lists and ways to stop my bad habits

1) go to bed earlier - wrote a time to try to go to sleep each night for the next 20 days, each night going to bed 10 minutes earlier, little steps at a time

2) cut down on sugar - spent an hour researching methods, the ones i'm trying include meditating daily, chewing gum when i want to binge, brush my teeth, stop and think of the benefits and downsides, distract yourself or treat yourself to other things, go for a walk or eat foods like eggs, cheese, olives and salmon

i'm unhappy with these habits and i'm trying to break them, i'll let you know how it goes :)


Thank you for apologizing and editing your video. I see a lot of people saying you shouldn't have to apologize but as one of the people who was a little unsettled by the initial video I appreciate you stepping up and correcting yourself. There is no shame in taking responsibility for something and I respect you even more now (didn't know that was possible).


Thank you for being honest and amazing and fixing your mistakes ❤


thank you for the apology dodie! we forgive you and we're over it now. in life, we're always going to keep making mistakes. but the joy in that is we're going to keep learning from those. we're a better version of ourselves everyday compared to the day before. i love you!


Dodie, you are so genuine and real and honest and beautiful and truly someone to be admired, so thank you for that <3  You are a gem!


You are the loveliest human and I hope I am blessed enough to meet you one day and give you a hug and then when we part ways I will one day tell my children "I met my musical and human inspiration once". That'll be hella cute. But seriously, thank you Dodie


I love love love the enneagram! I'm a type 8 and I have very mixed feelings about that piece of knowledge, because on one hand I see and recognize traits of my personality and I think that's great and important, but I also notice that I am starting to react to thinks like a 'typical 8' would, instead of truly listening to what <b>I</b> think is right

I love love love the enneagram! I'm a type 8 and I have very mixed feelings about that piece of knowledge, because on one hand I see and recognize traits of my personality and I think that's great and important, but I also notice that I am starting to react to thinks like a 'typical 8' would, instead of truly listening to what *I* think is right


thank you for doing this dodie. i thought that in the first version it was a bit unnecessary to name and shame especially considering youre such a big influence over people. this is much less harsh. good job x


hey dodie i just wanted to say i saw u couple of weeks ago on tour, and i couldn't come up to meet u in person because i wasn't in a good mental space, but thank you for that performance/show. it made me feel oddly safe, even in a room of strangers. i love you, take care.


Dodie is the sweetest human, what did we do to deserve her ?


ah ive been reading ur book all day! im on obsessions rn and i love highlighting ur book and making notes. i missed ur videos lovely


dodie, we all make mistakes! you acknowledged yours and that's what matters :)


1. I relate to quite a few of these 2. This video was comforting & interesting so thank you 3. I absolutely adore you 4. I shall go and purchase your beautiful book - looking forward to reading it! Much love - Trinity (I met you at VidCon Aus and I'm sorry I was so awkward- I was trying to comprehend everything happening and was a tad overwhelmed. Thank you for signing the Polaroid my mum took of us)


Thank you for seeing your mistake, apologising and changing it instead of ignoring it! I love that you did that!


It’s okay dodie!!! I understand! I relate❤


Like I commented yesterday, I'm a type 4 too and I can't wait to read your book!


Although I agree that the comment definitely wasn't needed and it did seem a little weird coming from a 22-year-old woman, it's clear that you didn't mean it maliciously and those are just your personal feelings, which are totally valid to you! I think it's important to remember that no-one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. I think a large amount of people don't seem to understand this and think YouTubers should be totally aware 24/7 but you're only human. It's not about the mistakes you make, it's how you rectify them and you always listen, apologise and act in a good way. I never see you brush anything under the carpet and ignore your viewers, even when it's something you'd rather not keep talking about and that really has to be admired. You're probably feeling pretty rubbish right now but please don't be so hard on yourself, we all get it wrong sometimes! xx


Proud of you Dodie :) we all make mistakes but you handle them in a very mature way. Happy to watch your videos!


No one is really mad at you. It's learning from your mistakes that's really important, and clearly you have. We still love you! <3


I'm so glad someone else feels the same about being messy but wanting to be tidy. What you said about the Myers Briggs test is so true, I really understand how you feel because I feel the same!


Hello dodie! Hope you’re having fun on tour! This is probably one of my favourite videos from you because I can relate to most of what you say. I am also a Four on the ennegram(and slightly a two, and an INFP)! I do desire greatly to be a kind, non-jealous, helpful, and amazing person. By desiring this so much, I have no idea who I am, and I create someone who i want to be and someone who I like. I want to leave a mark in the world.


I love how open and honest you are in all of your videos. 💕 <br>(Ps. I'm also an ENFP and a 4!)

I love how open and honest you are in all of your videos. 💕
(Ps. I'm also an ENFP and a 4!)


I’m glad you re uploaded it like this because the feeling/trait is something I can relate to but I really like the person it was about. Now people can still enjoy the vid without all the arguments. It’s great love


in regard to what you said about having to have the happiness of your loved ones to achieve happiness yourself, and not knowing whether that is selfish or selfless, that really spoke to me. that's something i've been trying to figure out about myself. it's like my brain was a locked box and ive been trying hopelessly to find the key. then you came along and opened it first try. thank you dodie, i really do hope you know how much you're appreciated for everything you do! i hope you see this because you deserve to know that you're amazing!


I'm glad you re-edited this video. I thought that was very thoughtful and considerate of you. Once again, I think you've made another deep and thought provoking video :) thanks for sharing


Can I just say... I love Dodie’s glasses. She has great style


Dodie I'm so happy you're back, thank you for redping the video!


The dodie fans is the nicest fans there are


Dodie, love. It's okay, we all make mistakes and the way you handled it is wonderful. You are always my role model because you are responsible even during situations like this. ❤


thank you so much for re-uploading. i don't think i would've done that. you're such a role model. i love you.


Can you do a video on who records, mixes, and masters the songs in your album? I'm an audio engineer in a college in NYC. ALSO, DON'T WORRY! WE ARE ALL FLAWED BEINGS THAT ALWAYS MAKE MISTAKES :) But it is those mistakes learned from that make great people


I'm also a type four on the enneagram (okay, its like a 4w3 but WHATEVER) and its nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels like I'm viewing the world through a fish bowl that's heavily centered around ME. You are an absolute treasure and I'm so happy that you use your voice to share your thoughts and feelings and kind words. Love ya ❤


Thank you for opening up this was the highlight of my day!❤💖💖


I watched your video the first time. Watched your re edited part, and read the description. Everything you said each time is so beautiful and self aware and kind and i really appreciate you for that!


Dodie I can’t get over how relatable you are (or else like our personalities are extremely alike )


I'm happy that dodie is back, missed watching her videos so much


You're so cool Dodie Clark ^_^ nice re-edit btw, you're such a great role model & I love that you do good things with your music and videos.


I love your thoughtfulness and willingness to correct what you later come to believe are mistakes.  I think it's a wonderful thing that you are role model for so many younger women.


I struggle so much with jealousy and comparing myself to others, i hate it as im the kind of person who wants to be friends with everyone but i struggle to like people who have what i want, these people can be perfectly lovely but my jealousy causes me to push them away, as i will find them irritating then i hate myself for it, i love your videos as i feel so similar to you in so many ways its nice to see videos like this, from a big youtuber especially. Keep being you dodie youre amazing, and make me realise that im not the only one who has these thoughts or this kind of personality  sounds weird i know but sometimes you think you're the only person like that, even though theres so many people in this world. I hope to inspire people with my videos like you do one day :)


You're literally one of my favorite human in my life.


Im reading this book right now, dodie, this book. I really love how you exposed so much vunrlablity in it. And the section where Manager Josh spoke about you. It is beautiful !!!!!!! Anyone thinking about dont think just buy!!!!


Honestly thought everyone blew the first video waaaay out of proportion like don't think you did anything wrong but good for you Dodie for doing this and apologising to keep everyone happyyyy  🌼


I'm also an ENFP and an Enneagram Type 4, which I find so interesting that you are as well. I'm always struggling with identity but a counsellor recently introduced me to the idea of HSP, which is a highly sensitive person. I'd be curious if you looked into and identified with it as well. It's given me some clarity on some of my struggles.


Dodie you're the best Youtuber I love you and I find your advice very helpful.


For anyone reading: you are amazing! You are beautiful, inside and out. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Somewhere out there, there is someone who will appreciate you for you. I hope this helped someone today. I know that things can be difficult and sometimes we just need someone to tell as that we are special.

Saff Granger Sometimes, I need to hear things like that and I know that it does help <3

Eve Davies so sweet of you to take the time

Thank you that made me cry that's so wonderful to know that someone out there can take the time to write that comment and be so lovely to another! i hope you have the best day! 🙂🙂


I'm a 6 on the enneagram scale thing and I have a "wing" of 5, but the second on my list of ones that would fit was 4. I personally think 6w5 fits me because I don't trust at all or I trust too much and both give me anxiety.


yeah! i’d love to hear your thoughts on the enneagram. it’s crazy to be able to learn about yourself like that. i’m a 6 :)


Dodie, I am so happy you chose to re-upload the video with the appropriate edits! I cannot stress enough how much I NEVER comment on videos (this is the second video I've ever commented on). Us women need to be empowering, supporting, and encouraging each other as vocally as possible nowadays. And I mean women of ALL ages, races, cultural backgrounds, varying statuses, etc. With your platform, I encourage you to be as genuine as possible, which you obviously have through this lovely video, but also as loving as possible. No, I don't mean happy or positive. We can't be happy or positive ALL THE TIME. But we can at least try to spread a little love and care here and there. Keep it up my love ❤


I’m actually so proud of dodie for this, she doesn’t try and make out she’s perfect, and i respect her for that, keep doing what your doing <3


I've seen on social media that you've had writers block. I'm not sure how your song writing works, but it seems you have a topic in your life you're passionate about. Maybe just meditate on your thoughts and feelings, without judgement, and jot down whatever comes to mind. Look at your ideas and see if it makes something. I don't know, I really don't write. However, I think being able to acknowledge and confess a part of yourself that you don't entirely like  but also being aware of the fact that you're still killing it and have things of your own that your proud of is really beautiful. It shows a type of contradiction in your life, the two ways you feel about things. Like hating the attention in the store but still being really proud of everything in there. Also, you kick ass! Thank you for everything you've done for me. You're music is beautiful <3


I have never heard someone who’s mentality is so similar to mine than dodie’s. She makes videos of subjects that she goes through that I also experience such as the desocialisation (I am too uneducated to know if that I spelt correctly) and her anxiety she sometimes experiences. It’s comforting to know that I am not alone I guess. 🧡


dodie, you are amazing and it's okay! you're not the only one making mistakes here. :)


I relate so much to your struggle with identity. That is literally me and everything I’m going through. I’ve never related more


I can totally support the re-edit. It's good to acknowledge that a thing that you said has unforeseen consequences when it involves another person. That being said, the first time I watched this vid (with the part in it), I TOTALLY understood what you meant. And I think I interpreted the thing the way you meant it. Probs cuz I feel it too concerning certain people. aNyWaY, nice vid <3


ahhh dodie you're so lovely. i loved this video so much - it's so chill

sidenote: your eyebrows are looking grEAt in this
side sidenote: i've ordered your book for my birthday and im sO excITed it looks beautiful


i'm very proud of you for recognizing that what you said could be problematic and i admire that you chose to change it. thank you


<b>it’s okay love, we all make mistakes</b>


We love you Dodie and we all make mistakes xx


You know what, it takes guts to own up to a mistake and apologise for it, so I applaud you for that 👏 💕


I'm glad you did this, it felt wrong and uncomfortable before, but you're a good egg Dodie, never too late to try and fix a mistake ❤


I've missed you so much 💛💛💛 I was afraid you were going to stop making videos for your vlog channel. I'm so happy that you're back.


<b>we all respect u just the same love. just like u said, ur human we all make  mistakes. im proud of u dodie and i have missed u so much. ur a strong little bean.</b>

*we all respect u just the same love. just like u said, ur human we all make  mistakes. im proud of u dodie and i have missed u so much. ur a strong little bean.*


I did see the other video, and all I have to say is that I felt it to be very brave of you to express that certain feeling you had. As you know and have described yourself, you feel like this because of yourself, and not because of her. I understand that you are trying to take it back, but what you say and what people make of it are two different things... Some might have not understood what you were trying to express in the first place and that backfired eventually.
Personally, I remember how one time in drama class we were asked to talk about three things we liked about ourselves, and three things we didn't like about ourselves. Like on stage - and we had to be 100% honest. The shit that came out was incredible. It was basically all confessions like this, and some were much worse, but we just sat there and were kind of like "yeah i guess we are all terrible sometimes and feel terrible things sometimes and maybe that's okay"
So in conclusion, I don't necessarily think you've made a mistake. Also, I missed you! Love you dodie


The more I watch dodie videos the more I realize we are quite similar personality wise, however she's alot more talented then I am. I hope I get to be on her level one day


I love you ❤ You are so amazing and talented ❤


Everyone does it love you dodie I'm glad that you are so caring to re edit the video


im so happy that you reuploaded this, because i could see it going bad right when i read the comments on the earlier version of the video, some of them made me really worried that the actor would watch the video and get offended. u did good dodie :) <3


You're so lovely and honest. I'm very glad that you can be open about mistakes online. Especially to your fans. Thank you so much.


Hi. I am a female, teenage viewer from America and I’ve come to the comment section of one of Dodie’s videos for advice because I know that the Dodie fandom is the nicest fandom around. So here it goes. I’ve been extremely anxious everyday since about the beginning of last year. I want to get help from a professional of some sort, but my mom won’t take me because I haven’t been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. Therefore, she doesn’t believe in my anxiety. My anxiety levels are getting worse because of the pressure at school and the horrible conditions of our orange president. I’m really not sure what to do. <br>With much love, me 💛💛💛

Hi. I am a female, teenage viewer from America and I’ve come to the comment section of one of Dodie’s videos for advice because I know that the Dodie fandom is the nicest fandom around. So here it goes. I’ve been extremely anxious everyday since about the beginning of last year. I want to get help from a professional of some sort, but my mom won’t take me because I haven’t been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. Therefore, she doesn’t believe in my anxiety. My anxiety levels are getting worse because of the pressure at school and the horrible conditions of our orange president. I’m really not sure what to do.
With much love, me 💛💛💛

if your mum isn’t letting you go to get a diagnosis, maybe say you feel ill and go to a doctor and speak to them about your anxiety and then if you do get a diagnosis of an anxiety disorder then speak to your mum and ask her about therapy again. if you have already been to a doctor and didn’t get a diagnosis then you may nit have a disorder but could still really need the help (if you really think you do have a disorder then go to a different doctor as ive had doctors in the past who didnt believe in mental illness usually this isn’t the case but you could consider it just to be sure ) in either case, if your mum still wont let you get therapy, if you are school age then you could speak to your school therapist or get the school to refer you to one and if you are out of school then go and find someone yourself dont let your mum stop you from getting help. and to respond to your anxiety about trump, yes there are many horrible people who support him but there are many more who are against all of his ignorant beliefs and that there is always good in the world :)

anyway i know thus is a super love and probably almost not understandable reply and its like a year late but i hope that things have got better for you and if they haven’t then i hope you are working towards recovery and remember that one day you will feel so much better :)

you can also go to childline.org.uk, it's helped me

Try talking to a teacher you're close to?

Lydia Hoffman I’m in a private Islamic school that really sucks so we don’t have a counselor or even a nurse

If you're in high school, I'd recommend going to your school counselor. The more adults involved, the easier it will be for you to get help.


I wish you had kept what you said Dodie, I understood you perfectly and related to it immensely. Sending lots of love your way💙


Nice job setting a good example for how to deal with mistakes for your audience =)

I agree with the difficulty with personal identity stuff, I'm really glad you bring up these topics for others to think about! I made a video about that recently too, the more people talk about it the more we learn=) ♡


love secrets of the mad such a good book so far #dodie


Stacey is literally keeping the seasons across the world stable. I'll delete book 2 so you can get it


Yay Doddddiiiieeee! i am also a number four and i really connect with everything you shared. i have missed your videos and cannot wait to read your book. much love..


I love you Dodie...I've recently come to the same conclusion...it's great 😊😊😊


Your talented! You seem sweet and your videos make me smile:) keep up the great videos. Thank you xx


So, the Perceiving as opposed to Judging function, I recently learned, by itself does NOT mean sporadic and unorganized. What it actually means is your second letter function (so for you intuition) is more dominant than your third letter function (so for you feeling). I'm also an xNxP (INFP).  Because your perception function which in both of our cases deals with more abstract concepts,  is more dominant than our judging function, which is how we judge and organize and prioritize our information, it just means it's more difficult for us to follow through on projects and keep things organized. It doesn't mean that we thrive in a chaotic environment or that we like not being able to organize or stick to a schedule. It just means doing so is more difficult for us and that we're more likely to fall into those patterns of disorganization. Doesn't mean we can't it just requires a little more effort. Sorry for the novel. I'm studying for my "psyc testing" exam and remembered you'd said this lol


i cannot imagine my life without dodie here with me every step of the way.


I admit that I felt a little awkward when you said that, partly because I'm so defensive of my younger sister who is around her age. Like you said, it isn't fair when somebody else judges or defines you based on their limited/biased perception. Thank you for the clarification :)


I was so confused when I got the notifications that you'd uploaded the same thing again. I thought YouTube was bugging.

I guess when I watched the original I never considered the implications of what you said. I thought "ok that's her opinion" and moved on. I am glad that you posted this re-edit. Most people wouldn't actually take the time to re-edit something they've uploaded and I appreciate the messages you put out into the world. It's ok to make mistakes if you show that you've learnt from them and try to make amends


Dodie, you're so ridiculously beautiful! You, your qwerky personality and cute looks makes you unique from many many humans <3


I relate to all of these things, also i was just watching a bunch of your videos but i need to clean ahhhhh, also i watched it yesterday but i'm rewatching luv u dodie <3


Just wanna say, I watched the original, and although I super respect that you wanted to edit this and create a better version of what you actually meant to say, I found absolutely nothing wrong with your original statement having to do with jealousy. It was a graspable example that I appreciated, and you had a point to make with it, it made me feel like we all have petty jealousy sometimes, but admitting reasons why those feelings exist can help us move on from them. But just restating, I get it, but I didn't think there was anything wrong with what you said. ✨💙


The last little bit i totally relate! <br>After my parents divorce i constantly felt (and still feel) like i had to make sure both of them were happy as well as everyone else I know, I’ve always been empathetic towards people but it’s started to take over my life that i’ve forgotten about myself, which is a scary thought because with being so wrapped up in other people’s lives I’m going to end up putting mine at a halt.

The last little bit i totally relate!
After my parents divorce i constantly felt (and still feel) like i had to make sure both of them were happy as well as everyone else I know, I’ve always been empathetic towards people but it’s started to take over my life that i’ve forgotten about myself, which is a scary thought because with being so wrapped up in other people’s lives I’m going to end up putting mine at a halt.


Dodie I love you so much stay strong my dearest


What really bugs me about people is their inability to admit the flaws in things they love. IT'S OKAY TO ACCEPT THAT DODIE DID WRONG AND STILL BE A FAN. You don't need to blindly follow. That's why she apologised and edited the video - because it was WRONG and she knew that. To then say 'oh i don't think it was that bad' 'oh people are overreacting' or 'you didn't do anything wrong dodie!' that's not a good thing. People don't need 'yes' folks around them, they need people to tell them the truth, to be willing to say 'hey, i love you, but I think this wasn't that great' because that's how we grow! It's okay to know that, and still love and be a fan of Dodie, or anything else that falls under that category. I disliked what was said yesterday, because the actress is very young, starting out, and deserves to be loved and protected in such a harsh industry. She's finding herself, she's learning, that's okay. She's a child. Anyway, my main point is that I love Dodie and I'm glad she deleted it because it wasn't great but that's okay. Everyone makes mistakes. You can still be a fan of something and note and accept the flaws in it. <3


For the late night phone thing, I recommend an app called Offtime. It blocks out any apps you tell it to for however long you want it to. You can also schedule it to turn on at a certain time (like, say, 11 pm) and not let you turn it off without watching it count down for a full minute or 15 minutes or whatever. It helps me a lot as I have the same problem if I don't have it.


I've bought the book! Love it so far! I love you!


Thank you our beautiful Dodi! You have made me smile yet again i can relateso well 💖👏😘🌼


oh my god. I don't think I have ever resonated with a video so much in my life. This is exactly how I feel 24/7, which kinda sucks, kinda doesn't, I don't even know. I'm trying to figure out who I am and in the meantime I am also trying to find happiness, which, like you said, I feel like I have to wait until everyone else around me is happy before I am. I'm happy to know that I'm not alone at least. :)


I feel you dodie. I’m in the same boat. I lack a lot of confidence and feel a lot of empathy (sometimes too much), and when you add jealousy on top of it, it turns into a mess of emotions, both hatred and love. Arghh


I love you dodie so much, <b>please keep being you</b>

I love you dodie so much, *please keep being you*


dodie is actually the realist person on the Internet. I love her sm<3


Dodie it’s okay, I totally got what you wanted to say and I think it’s awesome how you accepted your mistake and apologized and took action. You’re great love you


hi dodie, this is really unrelated to the video; it was great by the way. just remember you are human and everyone makes mistakes.... everyone has those days.. ANYWAYS. I am a self taught ukulele player and i've been playing for 2 weeks and know the chords but i have no clue how to strum? my fingers keep getting stuck in between the strings! if you could make a video on it or even tell me some tips that would be great. thank you! x


I’ve missed you, love. 🖤<br>Oh my god thanks for so many likes lol

I’ve missed you, love. 🖤
Oh my god thanks for so many likes lol

Me too I want it to be august again so she the Veda (:


YOUR BOOK CAME IN THE MAIL YESTERDAY AND I HAVE READ ALMOST HALF OF IT AND ITS SO GOOD


Ahhhhh my copy of Dodie's book arrives tomorrow and I've been obsessively checking the tracking all day i'msoexciiiiiiteddd sorry, just had to share this with ppl who would also feel excited at this. Carry on!


I definitely thought after going through the comments of the first version that maybe it would’ve been better to edit out the actor’s name! Better late then never, very glad you acknowledged the mistake and corrected it!! Great modeling of how to deal with mistakes - everyone makes them but it’s how we react after (and learn from them!!) that counts 💛


Yes, the way you said it (in the last vid) was not thought out, and yes she gets so much hate from people who are jealous (which is so not fair) but you weren't hating, you used it as an example to show one of your flaws, and that's ok. You have handled it great though, try to fix your mistake (without hiding it) apologise, and move on. Beside she seems to have thick skin and you weren't being like the absolute worst person in the world, just a bit rude. Also you weren't going after her, your were going after yourself, you explained why you said what you said and you apologised. I'm not say calling a 13 y/o grating is fine but don't beat yourself up too much

maishi could you please delete your comment. Dodie changed the video so the actress wouldn't get hate. Please just be nice and try to understand

Lot tie it doesn't matter. That wasn't the point. She blew up in summer 2016 and is still super popular


dodie, I've missed your videos and the sense of raw realness (if that makes sense) they have. And, while I have no idea what the eniogram (I know I spelled that wrong) is, with the way you explained it, I think I'm a 4, too. Please make a video explaining it some more, because I really want to know the ins and outs of 1-9 :)


l am the one who wrote the tweet that triggered all of this and l really appreciate this so much. l do hate how strongly l worded it but the fact that you immediately apologized and corrected your mistake makes me respect you so much more than l already did. thank you so much.


You should really cover O Come Emmanuel for Christmas coming up very soon! 💜💜💜

Tyler Joseph, Melanie Martinez and Christina Grimmie did and they were all so incredible!


I love Dodie but i'm glad she re-edited the video :)


I hope you are okay dodie. I watched yesterday’s vlog and read the comments and was a little sad. What i got from the video was that you want to show your fans who you truly are even the ugly things not just the happy ones. Even your shameful insecurities and i admire you for having the courage to do that. You work real hard in making content and getting it through an audience took a lot of work  and the jealousy in this actor who just blown the internet at such a young age, in which case a dream you had but took a long time to get.

It is what it is, everyone  has their own pace.


aww<br>we all make mistakes dodie, we're human, and we aren't perfect. we are imperfect people, but we are beautiful anyways.

aww
we all make mistakes dodie, we're human, and we aren't perfect. we are imperfect people, but we are beautiful anyways.


So dodie I know you’ll never read this but hi. I just wanted to say that I relate to this video a lot. Also I just wanted to say thank you,
Thank you for making videos,
Thank you for creating such beautiful music,
Thank you for being you,
You can always make me smile and distract me from real life. If I need something to make me laugh or smile, someone to relate to, something that just describes how I’m feeling, all I need to do is play one of your videos. So thank you.
I know this is super long and cringey but I love your videos and music and I can’t wait to see what you create in the future.


Your my biggest inspiration Dodie
We were aloud to decorate our music books with our biggest inspiration and I chose you
Now my book is covered with your face and songs 😂
We were also asked to do a presentation on our biggest inspiration and again I chose you 😂
When I grow up I hope to do more singing than I do now and be like you
You are such an amazing human and I love you ❤


I was one of the people that criticised the way you said it in your previous upload. I'm very glad you did an re-edited upload! With this you have not only deleted a  thing that could potentially hurt someone or give a wrong impression, you also showed its important to think about what you say, and if somethings get interpreted wrong, to just give things a second try!


I love the fact that you fixed this very, very quickly. No one is blaming you, it was just a phrasing problem that a lot of people misunderstood to mean that you actually didn't like the celebrity and got offended or started to "agree with you" and started hating on said celebrity. Good job!


You the way you are is what made me fall in love with you and this channel.


I am finally seeing this, and a four myself I feel so alive and less alone knowing that dodie is a four (but I also want to be a special snowflake so...)


thank you for being mature about the situation. 💗


I think you did a good thing, I'm proud that you can admit mistakes


Thanks for apologizing. I respect you for growing and learning from your mistakes.


Love you Dodie!
I also spend a lot of time trying to make other people happy. Although I feel like I do so because I want them to have a better childhood or life than I have had. Because I hate my life and I don't want anyone else to feel like that and I just want to protect them by wrapping them in 1000 layers of bubble wrap and putting them in a box labelled fragile and hug the box and make sure I never let it out of my sight or wave a magic wand and then they are happy and nothing bad will happen.
Also I'm going to buy your book at some point because it looks so interesting although I have loads of books half read at the moment and my parents won't let me get anymore ;-;


I feel everything you said. I always wondered if I'm really that selfless and helping, too. Because I just can't stand people being unhappy, it makes me unhappy, too, so I just try everything to make that feeling go away. And I'd rather give in, do something they want to do, eat somewhere where they want to eat, because I'd rather not be super content instead of feeling like I put myself first, ignored their wishes, made them unhappy. Yeah. That's it


ayy hey dodie thanks a lot for re-editing your vid! the comment on your last video made me really uncomfortable and I'm so glad that you acknowledged that it was not the right thing to say/the right way to put it. I think the point you were trying to make was really important (because it's a thing that many people do unconsciously) and it's cool that you took time to correct your mistake and word it differently. love you! :)


There was this one time when dodie was in Lewisburg and I wasn't into her yet and my friends were freaking out and I didn't understand the hype but I get it now! She's so loving and great at being herself and she's such an ICON. That is all 😊


How graceful and gentle of you. I wasn't offended by the original, but I think the fact you edited it says a lot about you. Beautiful soul.


does anyone know what glasses dodie is wearing in this? i’ve been searching for ages! thanks! xx

heidi d sorry for the late reply! Look on her “tell me a story” video, she’s sponsored by Glasses USA. I’m pretty sure they’re Ray Ban!


These kind of videos is why I love Dodie.


I'm an ENFP too!!! How cool! :D I also agree though that I'm not a J and it is hard for me keep my space clean, although I do prefer it. I love Myers Briggs and I think it really does hold a lot of merit in understanding ourselves and others. I really relate with you and maybe this is part of it. Love you! xoxo


i got type 4 too and it is weirdly accurate, especially the concept of feeling kinda attacked when someone misunderstands me which i've never really thought about much before


Personally I feel you didn’t need to re-edit this. I thought you explained your point well. But I understand why you deleted it and respect that.

For the people who didn’t see the original, I won’t be sharing the name for the same reason. She gets enough hate already and don’t want people attacking her for silly reasons.

Anywho, love ya dodie <3


everyone makes mistakes. just know that we all love you so much. 💛💛


I'm a 7! But when I took the test, I got a 4 as my second, so I relate to what you mean about finding out who you are and being self aware. But I feel as when (if) I find the freedom/adventure that 7s go after, I will find my identity and purpose? Idk, my brains is so confusing. Love you btw!!!


It's alright Dodie you're a person just like everyone else. We all make mistakes


I got my heart broken 2 times, I’ve got my world ripped apart 2 times as well. I don’t think it will heal but I do hope we learn to live along the scars. It might turn up to be the tube map of London


dodie you should try quitting social media,
Thats what I'm doing for December and 6 days in I can literally tell you it is changing my life. I feel more alive than I have in months, I'm more productive during the day, go to bed earlier and wake up feeling refreshed and spend my evenings learning new things or playing piano and I'm just so much happier without.
I always reasoned with it because I thought it was paramount to becoming a youtuber but if I'm making more things without it then that's just not the case.

Also just to point out it's miracles: last night, after not having ran for 5 months, I somehow ran a half marathon.
Before then the longest I'd ever ran was 10km, but without the stress of social media I was able to do 22km.

You'd be so surprised with how easy and liberating it truly is


I relate to a lot of the things that were said at least partially, worth the two month break for this video


For those of you who feel the need to call Dodie "pathetic" and "immature", I wonder what it is really like to be so perfect like you, really? Because from what you're saying it makes it seem like you're absolutely perfect with no flaws. Except you do have flaws, we all do! And it is so rude that you don't know how to respect people the right way! If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it! Why are you even here if you're going to just bash Dodie like that? Because actually YOU'RE the one who is just spreading hate!


i belive you did the right thing, but i see some comments like "she didn't need to edit it" and you forget that the actor she talked about is an actual kid right? they don't deserve having people don't like them or call them annoying just because the person reminds youof something i mean, and dodie realised she did a wrong thing so she fixed it so


I was thinking after seeing your tweets that you could edit it out but also acknowledge it for those confused/upset. I see what you meant and I don’t think it’s right to ignore your mistake as we all make mistakes. You’re one of my favorite youtubers but I never want you to feel like a terrible person or build you up to feel bigger than yourself, if that makes sense. That being said I appreciate your re editing and owning up.


it's nice to know someone overthinks their life and thoughts to the same crazy extent that i do, thank you


Come on! Its your opinion dodie, its your channel , i love you , and I truly believe you can say whatever you want if you are not insulting anyone


i've been sitting in bed for ages coz i'm too depressed to move and finally i have something to do thanks :)

Ellie Confetti ilu things will get better ❤


We love you. We love your voice. Your smile. Your videos. Your flaws. 💓


You’re one of the only things that can calm my mind atm


I’m also a four. My mom taught a lesson at my church about it and I was like...did I write this? Why is this so much like me?... anyway I feel better knowing that it’s not just me who is lost in trying to find themselves... that sounds rude... you know what I mean. Love you Dodie.


i was like woah a video two days in a row but then i realized its a reupload. i knew what you meant when you were talking about the actor because i get the same way about jealousy


i feel like you're my soulmate. keep being you, i love you so much


I relate to this video so much this sounds almost exactly the way i feel


Dodie, I too am a 4 (wing 5) and I completely understand how you feel


I’m jealous of Dodie she’s a living aesthetic and I love her


Can you please cover Anchor by Mindy Gledhill??


i never related to anyone like you Dodie, you should know that you are an inspiration for snowflakes like me (positively of course) , it makes me happy to see that there are people who question themselves and seek improvements towards others and themselves too ...💛


we are all human so it's okay to make a little mistake. we all feel jealous of people who have what we want (that's just human nature). we all love you and we (of course) all forgive you! thanks for being such a great model in showing us to recognize our mistakes when we make them :)


WOW. You overthink things the same way I do! (I suppose a lot of people do--I always forget.) I've gone in so many circles on the same topic of, "Are my actions towards others selfless or selfish because am I helping others to help them or to help me?" and on and on! Anyway, I'm so glad I'm not the only one questioning myself in this way--thanks, dodie! :)


Amazing way to handle this dodie! Everyone makes mistakes!


I ORDERED YOUR BOOK YESTERDAY AND IT'LL BE HERE TOMORROW AND I CAN'T WAIT


oh fuck, I'm in the same situation as you, Dodie. I cant be happy if my friends aren't. I feel like i don't deserve to be happy when my friends aren't ok. so am I selfless or selfish?


I am not proud of it, but I could relate to almost every single thought you spoke out. I am a four too and I am trying to figure it out too. I know this may not even interest you, but I personally always feel better when I know I am not the only one struggling with whatever issue I have.


I'd also love to read your book but Australia doesn't seem to have it yet :(

However, I am a 6 on the Enneagram test. The Loyalist.
In a nutshell it means I'm responsible and trustworthy, and I value loyalty to friends, family, groups and causes.And I need constant reassurance that friendships haven't fallen apart and that everything is okay hahah. Being direct and clear is the main way I thrive.


1:20 Thomas Sanders
“But yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best lol”


I think it's interesting that you said "I don't think your heart will ever truly heal 100%". <br>In some ways, this is true. If you think your heart - that is, your soul, essence and innocence - is something that you are born with, something whole and pure and untouched, then having your heart 'broken' does mean you will never 'heal'. But that supports the idea that we were meant to go through life without hardships. To put it into a more realistic, and frankly more calming light, I'd suggest thinking about in terms of changing rather than destroying and mending. If you break a bone, it will usually fix itself. It may fix itself slightly differently, but it will still function. You learn new things about yourself and the world around you after hard times, and some of these things can only be learned through experience. What's nice is you can use that experience to connect to others, as you seem to do so well with your art and music. Turning your pain into poetry - more than that, turning your pain into passion and continual development.

I think it's interesting that you said "I don't think your heart will ever truly heal 100%".
In some ways, this is true. If you think your heart - that is, your soul, essence and innocence - is something that you are born with, something whole and pure and untouched, then having your heart 'broken' does mean you will never 'heal'. But that supports the idea that we were meant to go through life without hardships. To put it into a more realistic, and frankly more calming light, I'd suggest thinking about in terms of changing rather than destroying and mending. If you break a bone, it will usually fix itself. It may fix itself slightly differently, but it will still function. You learn new things about yourself and the world around you after hard times, and some of these things can only be learned through experience. What's nice is you can use that experience to connect to others, as you seem to do so well with your art and music. Turning your pain into poetry - more than that, turning your pain into passion and continual development.


literally

everything

that is a problem for me rn

you're not alone dodie, I know I'm not you, and we obviously aren't exactly the same, but I hope we both get better


It’s totally okay dodie, everyone experiences jealously and it’s completely understandable.


You look and feel so egoless and gimmick less. That's what I appreciate about you. There's a certain charm involved with being a normal flawed person


<b>evERYBOdy maKes MisTAkes EveRyboDy HaD ThoSe DaYs</b>

*evERYBOdy maKes MisTAkes EveRyboDy HaD ThoSe DaYs*

1. Dodie should do a cover of this song.<br>2. Why the heck did I read this singing?. I am 20 for gods sake!

1. Dodie should do a cover of this song.
2. Why the heck did I read this singing?. I am 20 for gods sake!

Everybody knows what, what' I'm talkin' 'bOUT<br>Everybody gets thAT WAYY

Everybody knows what, what' I'm talkin' 'bOUT
Everybody gets thAT WAYY

TransitioningGhoul 1 2 3 4<br>EVERYBODY MAKES MISTAKES

TransitioningGhoul 1 2 3 4
EVERYBODY MAKES MISTAKES


I wish people hadn't been so aggressive towards Dodie's mistake but it's so sweet that she acknowledged and re-edited the video. Also just in general this was a great, self-reflective video.


I am an ENFP and a type 4, makes sence why I love your videos so much!


Everyone makes mistakes but not everyone admits and fixes them; you are a genuine inspiration 😊


No one is perfect, Your allowed to have negative emotions and feeling towards others. To deny yourself those is to cause yourself a great amount of pain. Negative emotion, feelings and thoughts are essential and just as valuable as positive ones. People love you because of what they see at the core of your being. Those same people will love you even in your down/negative times . If they can’t see who you really are in those times then they are not worth the energy. It took me years to realise this x


I’m not going to lie but when I saw the title of this video  I automatically thought of the song confessions by Usher


*_it’s ok dodie we all make mistakes xx_*


Heyy Dodie! Soms thoughts about the dilemma self-less and selfish: does it have to be one of the two? I think you should see it from a broader angle. Maybe you identify as a person that cheers up others, so when you cheer someone up, you feel like you are in your comfort zone. You know that that is a think you do well, and so it makes you feel worthy, competent, and it reminds you of who you are. This may be very nice for someone with dissociation and some identities crisis (this is just an assumption). This doesn't have to be a selfish act, because it comes from your character of kindness. It does however put you in a role you feel comfortable in. You love yourself more than you think and even tho you have so many doubts, in the end (luckily!) you still look our for yourself. So, I don't think you are selfless: you are trying to make yourself happy too. Both of the words seem extremes and maybe you are one of the two sometimes. But try to give yourself some credit and find the grey area :) <3 I'm just trying to give you some thinking perspective and sharing some of my own experience because I find it quite relatable, so don't worry,  I admire you very much ^-^

Have a lovely day!


dodie, seeing the negative comments on the old video absolutely broke my heart and i'm sorry that you had to see them, but i'm glad that you learned from it.


i could actually so identify with the ~young actor~ thing


i’m an enneagram four too anD the bit you said after about how you said in therapy of you feel you can’t be happy until all the people around you are happy- that can have a lot to do with being a four, seeing as fours move along over to two (the helper) in disintegration. basically when you feel like you are falling apart and your formed identity (what us fours cherish so deeply) is under scrutiny of yourself or others, you, like me and all our fellow type fours, can tend to turn to caring for others so your identity feels secured by their need of you. because fours feel so uniquely afflicted, it becomes our priority when we feel like our ~self~ is not all we want or need it to be, to ensure that others overlook our unique depravity (as we perceive it in ourselves) by depending on us. i dunno if that’s helpful or even applicable to you directly in this situation but those are things i’ve learned the hard way through my journey of self awareness! and the awareness of the tendency and correlation was the first step to starting to change that pattern. anyways you are one of my absolute favorite fours to listen to, you inspire me so deeply ❤ i hope this doesnt come off abrasively oof i just think ab things in terms of the enneagram quite a lot


i was thinking to myself today that i was going to scream if you didnt uploaded soon. because i missed you. thank you dodie


me too dodie. I hope you are able to make all the people around you happy, that way you can be happy!


Typology is also a wonderful podcast on the enneagram :D


HELLO I LOVE U ALL AND STAY HYDRATED !!!!


i took the enneagram test and I also go a 4, this made a lot of sense, it almost hit TOO close to home it made me sad:(


Don't worry Dodie you're okay! Missed ya!


you’re not human if you don’t make mistakes. It’s okay, dodie :)


Making mistakes proves you’re human, ly dodes💘


well done dodie! reuploading the video was a good idea <3


Of all my many subscriptions on YouTube, Dodie is #1 on my lost of 'would love to go for a pint with'...

.. By which I mean 'would love to write a song, play Mario Kart, and philosophise into the night' with.


And this is just another reason you're my fav 💕


I only just saw this video and I feel very very similar in the fact that I don't know whether I'm selfish or not for those reasons and I think like I can really relate to some/most of your confessions but please try your best to think less about this whole thing and give yourself a break because the thoughts can cause so much melancholy and self destruction and that can really send you backwards on recovery and learning to love yourself. In the end remember you are only human and try your best to survive and stay safe, not for us but for yourself


it's okay.I understood the point of that first unedited verson and I'm sure lots of others did too! We don't think you are horrible. Just by reading the discription it is easy to see how kind hearted you are and how it was so much more about you than the actress mentioned. It's an issue you are trying to overcome and most likely applys to more people than just that specific actress. youre a good egg.


I feel ya so much on this issue
I just finished watching her series yesterday and I've been very bitter and jealous ever since and it's pulling me down so much but I honestly don't know what to do about it. Like, she is so young and already lives this amazing life and gets dressed up like a model and all that stuff
And I'm over here like, how unfair is that, I never got that chance, I'm just a normal kid, and I won't be anything else EVER. And I feel like my life is so unworthy of attention and I can't do anything about it.
Sorry that I'm such a crybaby but I'm feeling kinda shit.


Same my room is always messy and I hate it


Thank you for explaining some of the things I didn't know how how to put into words


In defense of the MBTI (bc I love it)...I don't think that by identifying you as an P rather than a J they're trying to make a judgement about your motivations or intentions, but rather your natural inclinations as described by how you responded to the test. That's it. It has its places but of course it's not going to be a perfect "ENFPs always respond like xyz while INTJs respond like abc" or whatever. There's a lot of ENFPS that I'm very different from and a lot of ISTJs (complete opposite) that I share common traits with, but there's really interesting patterns that can be picked up from your MBTI type. So I guess don't take it personally. hehe. Also, it's not set in stone, there's nothing that says your type can't change over time. (mine's fluctuated a couple letters over the years but ENFP has always been the most common.) Anyways there's that impromptu manifesto you're great


That last confession was way too relatable.... My therapist keeps telling me that sometimes I need to put my feelings over others, or at least take some "me time" for my mental health, but I can't help but constantly stress about all of my friends and family. It keeps me from my schoolwork and sleep. It's frustrating having people ask what they can do to make me feel better. I can't say that they should just be happy, because too many people have said it to me. I know how much it hurts for someone to try to compress all of your thoughts and feelings into just one simple solution. It's difficult when people care... I never know "what's wrong" with me. They ask about how I'm doing, but I can hardly even think about how I'm doing until I calm my worries about them. All I want is for everyone to be happy... I do everything I can not to inconvenience anyone, and I apologize constantly, even if I technically did nothing wrong... Everyone tells me to care about myself, but I just can't... I'm the type of person who cries while reading books and watching movies. I cry when my friends tell me stories. I cry when I think about the pain others have gone through. I cry at the thought that I couldn't have protected them from it. Some people may say empathy is a strength, and I guess in a way it is... But to me it feels so much more like a weakness. I love to care about others, and I appreciate when they care, but it hurts. I dread other people thinking the same way as I do, that we'll care so much for each other that neither of us can care for ourselves.... I don't know what to do about it.... I've been going to therapy for two years now, and I take medicine twice daily. I try so hard to care for myself, but it all feels so wasteful. I feel like I can never give myself anything, when I think everyone around me deserves more. My life just feels like an endless spiral of self-hatred and love for everyone else.


i am a 2 on the enneagram! my test results were 2, with 6 being a close second lol. i really like the enneagram bc it helps me feel seen and understood
i rlly identify with giving of oneself a lot and putting loved ones' happiness first.. ive had the same selfless/selfish crisis lol
however i dont think people are confined to - or restricted by - their number and i do sometimes identify with traits typically characteristic of a 6, or a 4, or whatever bc PEOPLE ARE COMPLEX AND THE ENNEAGRAM IS A TOOL TO HELP U UNDERSTAND URSELF AND THE PPL AROUND U dont base ur identity off of a number OK BYE <333


can we just shun all the people that obviously got petty because dodie mentioned a name to compate her own self to? its so silly but props to dodie for being the bigger person💛

Lucy Davey I wish that I could give this comment more than one like, you took the words out of my mouth


I feel so close and connected to you. I can't imagine how that makes you feel. I look forward to meeting you one day.


I actually agreed so much with what you cut out from yesterday's video. I don't know what that says about me but I was kinda happy that someone said something about it at the time. More then anything this is helping me point out the fact that I do the same thing and that its not healthy. Thanks I guess 😂


lol I already was like "OMG MANDELA EFFECT"... and then I saw the vídeo 😂💔


I bought the book. I’m so excited to get it


how can one person be so self aware and accepting and beautiful and smart and talented ugh ily. and i also love everyone in this community. lowercase for aesthetic purposes :)


"But yeah creative blocks are just the absolute best lol"

~Thomas Sanders


Dodie I love you to death honestly, but about the personality test thing....if you don't wanna be labeled as something you're not, don't take the test, because personality tests are obviously gonna have a lot of inaccurate information always. 😆 just wanted to throw that out there, but anyways once again love you so much and you're great❤❤❤


NOTIFICATION SQUAD (I’m glad dodie reuploaded this though!!)


Im glad you re-uploaded 💓 great to see you're so mindful


also i've just finished this was beautiful thank you


Hun, we have the same glasses except mine have a flower pattern!! ♡
Also, we all think you are perfectly lovely and although I know you may never understand why or believe us, it is true. Just trust me on this from personal experience.
We are all thrilled to see your beautiful face again! I hope you doing fine, love ~
Remember to try to get enough rest, water, food, and whatnot
Have a lovely day/night/whenever ~
(I bet you'll never see this but it's worth the words ^^)
♡♡♡


I read a great self development book called The Power of Habit (author Charles Duhigg), and I think it'd be a perfect starting point if you really wanted to try to change some not-so-positive habits in your life! : )


Good thing to see the video back edited. You did the right thing. Case closed


I had a dream that I met Dodie, that was wonderful.


I can relate to the jealousy part!! So you're absolutely not alone feeling that way lol


I am probably close on to three times as old as you are Dodie and from what I can tell just about everybody has the same selfishness/selflessness issues. I can only suggest that find a spot where you are comfortable and let yourself gyrate around that spot. Living is painful in someways but you will learn how to cope. I wish you more days of comfort than of turmoil my friend.


Guys, don’t mention the actor dodie mentioned- I don’t think dodie would want this to get bigger you know? It’s best to just leave the actors name out of the comments

I figured it out but I won't say the name🙂🙃

Just Peachy I’m just gonna put a description here: very young, very talented, stars in an excellent and very popular tv show, in interviews they kinda come across like they think they are The Shit ™. But honestly I’d act the same if I were their age and got this much attention and they’ll probably grow out of it (hopefully). Even if u figure it out from here, don’t post the name pls!!

I know but I'd really like to know who it was

Thank you for saying what I was thinking in a non-offensive way!


aw dodie reuploading was a good choice! I know some people say they didnt find anything wrong with it. But for me due to the age of the actor it was a little uncomfortable. #Respect

But I'm also glad I saw the original video because it's just nice to see that everyone gets these unexplainable negative feelings


I just finished Secrets For The Mad. Dodie, I fucking loved it.


I have too many things to confess these days x Dodie makes me feel grounded x also I’m probs lesbian for dodie but who isn’t these days x 💞💞